Aqua man Help!!

Hi everyone, I am new to this and have been reading the aquarian male details - wish I had found this out sooner.
I was dating a Aqua man for 2 years until 6 weeks ago he was given the opportunity to work in Singapore for 3 weeks - he asked me to go with him for a week. I did. He was out there for another 3 weeks alone.
When he came back it took him 4 days to text me saying that we are two different people, we have lost our way and that I have stopped trying in the relationship.
No phone call - just texts basically telling me that he has the chance to go back to Singapore to work long term and that he wants to go.
How can he after 2 years together just all of a sudden turn off like that.
I have texted and emailed him a few times but no reply. Only time he contacted me was to ask if my children had had any tea as he had got his daughter with him!! Charming.
I am deeply hurt and upset by this but he won't even talk to me face to face.
What have I done wrong? and why had this happened?
Any advice please.
Thanks

Fist of all you have put yourself in "victim" mode by asking, "what have I done wrong?" You didn't do anything wrong cappygirl - he just simply changed his mind and from what I hear, Aqua's are known for changing their minds.

Get yourself out of that mode and step back from the situation - see his character. He did this once - he will do it again. Does this behaviour in a man work for you?

If you answer, yes - stay with him. If your answer is no, - move on and be glad that you saw him for what he is and recognized what you do need and what is important to you.

*love will not cause pain.

Fist - First

"why did this happen?"

because it needed to.

Cappygirl, all i can say about Aquarians is that in general they need to feel (to a certain degree) free and relationships can sometimes be difficult for Aquarians - especially Male Aquarians. As they get older, they will settle down, but getting there for most, is a bit of an emotional ride. When they really want to do something, if they are "tied" to someone who maybe they feel won't go along with their plans, then they feel trapped and just want to bolt.

If their Natal chart contains mainly Air signs and very little earth qualities, they can be a little unpredicable and also some can be a little moody.

Patience, warmth and understanding will win the heart of an Aquarian if you are willing. However, never allow yourself to be walked on - only you know what is acceptable for you.

Thanks for your help.
I must admit - it is now 2 weeks since we texted each other. I am trying to move on without him. I really don't think I could go out with someone so 'cold' - even if he did want me back.
His daughter came to stay the other weekend as she is really close to my daughter - I just arranged it with his ex wife. If he goes to Singapore - good luck to him.
I think I deserve better.

I usually move on when I don't feel that the relationship is helping me to grow in some way, your Aqua might be in the let me find myself phase which pretty much turns us into insensitive a $ $ holes or he could have met someone else and tends to spend most of his time with that person and doesn't want the emotional attachment that comes with maintaining your relationship.

I know when I was younger (soul searching) when I wanted out of a situation I didn't want to discuss it nor fix it, I wanted out period and 99% of the time I never looked back to figure out why it never worked because I had already decided in advance on my own why it hadn't or wasn't working, it wasn't the mature way to be but at that time thats the only way I knew how to be.

Cappy, you did nothing wrong. You and him are in two different places right now. He has the opportunity to take on a new role, albeit halfway around the world. The way he handled it was shit, but consider that a blessing because now you know how he handles conflicts.

Yes, you deserve better. Good luck to him in Singapore.

Can't believe it. My Aqua popped round last night as he had some stuff to give me etc. He says he isnt going to Singapore and that he still loves me etc.
Told him I want to be alone at the minute and that I also could not deal with his coldness. He told me he will give me space but keep in touch etc.
Aqua's are so unpredictable!!!! I feel I have been used and come second place to Singapore!!
I will just have to see if we are able to remain friends.
Thanks for all your comments.