Aqua man in love

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by aquapiscescusp on Friday, November 22, 2013 and has 41 replies.
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Describe your experiences...
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Haha no love for Aquas?
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You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)
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*crickets chirping*
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Posted by truecap
You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)


I was wondering where you were Winking
Tell me... They don't fall head over heels at first, it takes time right?
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Posted by Bsmurray
*crickets chirping*



Hey BS, how do you know she's the one? Also, when you feel she is the one do you give it your all?
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by truecap
You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)


I was wondering where you were Winking
Tell me... They don't fall head over heels at first, it takes time right?
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Yep, lots of time. From what I understand they like to observe and make sure you're worthy, then they like to build a friendship within the relationship.
Mine moves slow, but I know his reasons and I understand. We are developing along slowly and surely.
You with an aqua now?
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Posted by truecap
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by truecap
You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)


I was wondering where you were Winking
Tell me... They don't fall head over heels at first, it takes time right?


Yep, lots of time. From what I understand they like to observe and make sure you're worthy, then they like to build a friendship within the relationship.
Mine moves slow, but I know his reasons and I understand. We are developing along slowly and surely.
You with an aqua now?

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I think some of that happens before they even ask you out, though.
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Posted by truecap
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by truecap
You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)


I was wondering where you were Winking
Tell me... They don't fall head over heels at first, it takes time right?


Yep, lots of time. From what I understand they like to observe and make sure you're worthy, then they like to build a friendship within the relationship.
Mine moves slow, but I know his reasons and I understand. We are developing along slowly and surely.
You with an aqua now?

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No, I am not with an aqua. Someone I know is and I am curious about the fellow! What are friends for?
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Posted by truecap
Posted by truecap
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by truecap
You know I love aquas!!! smile
Of course, I have my impressions on this subject, but I'd like to wait for the aquas to jump in before I go off running at the mouth.
(like that'as ever stopped me before, lol!)


I was wondering where you were Winking
Tell me... They don't fall head over heels at first, it takes time right?


Yep, lots of time. From what I understand they like to observe and make sure you're worthy, then they like to build a friendship within the relationship.
Mine moves slow, but I know his reasons and I understand. We are developing along slowly and surely.
You with an aqua now?



I think some of that happens before they even ask you out, though.

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I have observed they fall more and more in love as they go....
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I think so too. Almost like they take it in stages. Like, okay we're here and I'm good and I'm okay with it. Ride that for a while. Then, okay, we can move it up a notch until they're comfortable with that level. Then again, sometimes I think they don't realize this is happening and they accidentally end up falling in love. Like they don't know until it hits them out of the blue.
I could be so way off base, though.
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What I do first with someone I might be interested is learn about her from a far (sounds creepy, but I keep it as non-creepy as possible). Observe her style , mannerisms, snack preference, etc.
That way (say she really like cheeto's) I can show up one day with a small bag of cheetos as a gift and I know that she will like them because I see her eating them all the time.
(My french teacher really likes cheetos by the way)
Trying to answer your question:
I start slow, get to know them, talk with them, then if its working well between us Ill do more things for them because Im not really good with speaking my emotions because Id much rather express them through actions and sometimes even writing poems. (Not all the time though with the poetry because I dont want her to think im a big cream-puff)
Also if Im going to love someone, it will probably mean that I am with them a lot. So a good sign that I am in love would be if I am always around you and stuff.
I dunno.
And this expression of action is different with every aqua guy im sure, so Im only speaking for myself.


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1. Observe you like crazy
2. evaluate your "intellectual skills"..i.e. see if you can "hang"...the "Mental stimulation" test comes out 1st b/c if you fail it, we will immediately ends things even if everything else about you is great
3. Let you open up to us. We let you tell us everything. (Openness/self-esteem test) lol
4. We randomly do something with extreme passion (extreme and random affection, for example) to see how you react...we need to know that you can handle it b/c little do you know, there's a lot more where that came from!)
5. We disappear briefly. (Even if it's not on purpose or for "testing purposes" we still will observe & notice your reaction anyway
6. We come back & if you're still "as advertised," we start opening up to you & letting you in
7. Crazy sweaty sex. (We love people's reactions when they see what they "thought" was just a robot turns into an unstoppable sex machine! Haha your face is priceless!)
8. Uh oh...we officially like you. Here comes the epic battle of MIND vs. HEART
9. If the mind wins, & if your Aqua is too insecure, you'll lose the battle.
10. If the heart wins, & if you're still standing by our side despite being put on hold during that battle lol, then you'll see a complete 180 degree change in us!
11. From there, The passion, affection, loyalty, fidelity, etc. never stop coming!
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Ok, you've just been given the answers to the test! If you fail it with your Aqua after been given the answers, you're an idiot! =P j/k (not really)
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Aqua man in love?
I thought we don't love ^.^?
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by Bsmurray
What I do first with someone I might be interested is learn about her from a far (sounds creepy, but I keep it as non-creepy as possible). Observe her style , mannerisms, snack preference, etc.
That way (say she really like cheeto's) I can show up one day with a small bag of cheetos as a gift and I know that she will like them because I see her eating them all the time.
(My french teacher really likes cheetos by the way)
Trying to answer your question:
I start slow, get to know them, talk with them, then if its working well between us Ill do more things for them because Im not really good with speaking my emotions because Id much rather express them through actions and sometimes even writing poems. (Not all the time though with the poetry because I dont want her to think im a big cream-puff)
Also if Im going to love someone, it will probably mean that I am with them a lot. So a good sign that I am in love would be if I am always around you and stuff.
I dunno.
And this expression of action is different with every aqua guy im sure, so Im only speaking for myself.





French teacher huh? How's that going?
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It is a work in progress. I can't do anything now because she is still my professor and probably won't mess around with one of her current students so basically I'm waiting till after the semester is over to make a move.
I posted a thread about this topic, it's in the capricorn forum.
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First I notice her then I observe for awhile. Try to get to know her for awhile. Then I move step by step into things. A big thing is when I tell them my goals and dreams then I judge to see if they will agree with them, support them, or help me achieve them.
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What happens when life gets in the way? Of you and your one from being together? Like there both so much you have to do before you end up together in the sense of the word 'together'.
Say there you met the one that is for you and you both know that this is the one for you and everything is good to go but something is holding you back you wonder why this is happening? Why that if this person is the one for you then you arent together? Doubt creeps in and has you thinking wtf? Then you realise sadly but happily that in order for you both to be together that you both have to get on with your lives like complete certain tasks that only you yourselves know of and when this certain tasks are completed it is only then you can both live and to be together.
This means that even though you both know who each other are and noone else does, that it is difficult because it means you both may have to be with other people which help you both to complete said certain tasks and be with each other sooner than later so until both realise and understand that this is going on the sooner the tasks get over and done with and finished the sooner both can be with each other in the way that it ought to be.
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Posted by mfwb55
What happens when life gets in the way? Of you and your one from being together? Like there both so much you have to do before you end up together in the sense of the word 'together'.
Say there you met the one that is for you and you both know that this is the one for you and everything is good to go but something is holding you back you wonder why this is happening? Why that if this person is the one for you then you arent together? Doubt creeps in and has you thinking wtf? Then you realise sadly but happily that in order for you both to be together that you both have to get on with your lives like complete certain tasks that only you yourselves know of and when this certain tasks are completed it is only then you can both live and to be together.
This means that even though you both know who each other are and noone else does, that it is difficult because it means you both may have to be with other people which help you both to complete said certain tasks and be with each other sooner than later so until both realise and understand that this is going on the sooner the tasks get over and done with and finished the sooner both can be with each other in the way that it ought to be.



I need a shorter (and more to the point) explanation of what you're trying to say because I am not understanding you.
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I do have a Virgo moon, perhaps thats what you're picking up on.
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Aqua & Virgo have a lot of similar views/thought processes from what I have noticed, at least I personally can relate very much to what I have read about Virgos & my interactions have always been very comfortable with those in my life. Same wavelength type stuff...

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Posted by krysrenee7
1. Observe you like crazy
2. evaluate your "intellectual skills"..i.e. see if you can "hang"...the "Mental stimulation" test comes out 1st b/c if you fail it, we will immediately ends things even if everything else about you is great
3. Let you open up to us. We let you tell us everything. (Openness/self-esteem test) lol
4. We randomly do something with extreme passion (extreme and random affection, for example) to see how you react...we need to know that you can handle it b/c little do you know, there's a lot more where that came from!)
5. We disappear briefly. (Even if it's not on purpose or for "testing purposes" we still will observe & notice your reaction anyway
6. We come back & if you're still "as advertised," we start opening up to you & letting you in
7. Crazy sweaty sex. (We love people's reactions when they see what they "thought" was just a robot turns into an unstoppable sex machine! Haha your face is priceless!)
8. Uh oh...we officially like you. Here comes the epic battle of MIND vs. HEART
9. If the mind wins, & if your Aqua is too insecure, you'll lose the battle.
10. If the heart wins, & if you're still standing by our side despite being put on hold during that battle lol, then you'll see a complete 180 degree change in us!
11. From there, The passion, affection, loyalty, fidelity, etc. never stop coming!



Shockingly I've gone through this test haha.. I just dont know fully if I've passed or not..
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Posted by krysrenee7
1. Observe you like crazy
2. evaluate your "intellectual skills"..i.e. see if you can "hang"...the "Mental stimulation" test comes out 1st b/c if you fail it, we will immediately ends things even if everything else about you is great
3. Let you open up to us. We let you tell us everything. (Openness/self-esteem test) lol
4. We randomly do something with extreme passion (extreme and random affection, for example) to see how you react...we need to know that you can handle it b/c little do you know, there's a lot more where that came from!)
5. We disappear briefly. (Even if it's not on purpose or for "testing purposes" we still will observe & notice your reaction anyway
6. We come back & if you're still "as advertised," we start opening up to you & letting you in
7. Crazy sweaty sex. (We love people's reactions when they see what they "thought" was just a robot turns into an unstoppable sex machine! Haha your face is priceless!)
8. Uh oh...we officially like you. Here comes the epic battle of MIND vs. HEART
9. If the mind wins, & if your Aqua is too insecure, you'll lose the battle.
10. If the heart wins, & if you're still standing by our side despite being put on hold during that battle lol, then you'll see a complete 180 degree change in us!
11. From there, The passion, affection, loyalty, fidelity, etc. never stop coming!



Could not agree more! Especially with that point: 10. If the heart wins, & if you're still standing by our side despite being put on hold during that battle lol, then you'll see a complete 180 degree change in us!
It took 1 year before my "just good friend" told me that there is no other like me and he wants only me. During that year we werent even official couple or smth. We were more like friends with benefits... After 8 months he ended it... Then after 4 months he came back. And it was like 180 degree change. I've never seen that side of him. Big Grin He takes care of me when I'm sick, he kisses and cuddles all the time (even in public!), he deeply cares for me... I can feel and see it. He really was worth to wait... and worth all my heartache... AND just when I was 100% sure that we will never ever eveeer going to be a couple... He came back and played with open cards. smile
I'm falling head over heels again for him.... And it feels awesome! Big Grin
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MaryJane666,
Aww I'm soo glad its worked out for you. Keep smiling x
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Bsmurray: a question.
Do you also think she should always try to better her self in anything she does? That means if the female holds your expectations to start with. So what I talking about is, if she has a 4 year BS, she should try to get her PHd?


Definitely.
Anyone who's trying to better or improve themselves is going to turn my head and have my attention.
It doesn't matter what your 4 year degree is in, if you're just sitting around all day and not growing or challenging yourself with anything new I'll pick up on it and I won't like it.
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Bsmurray: a question.
Do you also think she should always try to better her self in anything she does? That means if the female holds your expectations to start with. So what I talking about is, if she has a 4 year BS, she should try to get her PHd?


Also, it doesn't have to be a PHd, it could be improving her position at work or improving her body at the gym etc.
It's mostly when you sit around and are content with where you are and what you have in life that I won't find desirable.
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Posted by Bsmurray
Posted by VirgoFlirt
Bsmurray: a question.
Do you also think she should always try to better her self in anything she does? That means if the female holds your expectations to start with. So what I talking about is, if she has a 4 year BS, she should try to get her PHd?


Also, it doesn't have to be a PHd, it could be improving her position at work or improving her body at the gym etc.
It's mostly when you sit around and are content with where you are and what you have in life that I won't find desirable.
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Does it imply you don't find successful, confident and content women desirable?
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All in all, I'd have to say this is a rather pathetic thread about love!
I'd rather hear about Aqua women in love now.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Aqua man in love?
I thought we don't love ^.^?



Is that what they say about you guys?
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Posted by Undine
Posted by Bsmurray
Posted by VirgoFlirt
Bsmurray: a question.
Do you also think she should always try to better her self in anything she does? That means if the female holds your expectations to start with. So what I talking about is, if she has a 4 year BS, she should try to get her PHd?


Also, it doesn't have to be a PHd, it could be improving her position at work or improving her body at the gym etc.
It's mostly when you sit around and are content with where you are and what you have in life that I won't find desirable.


Does it imply you don't find successful, confident and content women desirable?
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No it doesn't. If she has a phD, great, Im all for that. I'm just saying it's not a prerequisite. Neither is making x amount of $ $ per year, etc.
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Let me make this smile to understand:
Doesn't not matter how hot/attractive you are, if you are lazy, stupid, and not motivated to better yourself in some way, I'm not going to fall in love with you.
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Posted by Bsmurray
Let me make this smile to understand:
Doesn't not matter how hot/attractive you are, if you are lazy, stupid, and not motivated to better yourself in some way, I'm not going to fall in love with you.


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Well, here are my theories and if I'm wrong yall better correct me, cuz I kinda need to know. Ya know?
An aquaman in love:
1. He will spend TIME with you, lots and lots of time. Time is our most valuable ocmmodity and if he chooses to share his with you then, yeah, he loves ya.
2. He will do what he says he's going to do. Like he'll call when he says he will, or he will help you do some things you need help with, he'll fix stuff for you that needs fixin'.
3. You won't see the side holding court telling all kinds of entertaining stories. You'll see the real him -- the serious side, the worried side, the one dealing with life's challenges, the fearful side, the insecure side, the concerned parent, etc. This is the side not everyone gets to see and you've got to be pretty dang special to see it.
4. He will NOT disappear and he will contact you often (daily or more than daily). No more several days without contact.
5. He will take you to family dinners and events and be proud you're with him. He will also go to your family dinner and events and he will make a point to get in good with your family and friends.
6. Although he will be more romantic in the beginning, once he's decided he loves you, he will be more relaxed around you and dote on you more and his romance will be noticed in the little considerate things he does for you.
7. He will spoil you!!!
8. He will give you little gifts for no reason. I could be something he bought he thought you might like or need or a freebie he got from a vendor at work.
9. He asks about your day and knows your favorite color, food, scents, etc.
10. He will make friends with your friends and become a solid member of the group.
11. Mostly he will TELL you he loves you, though his actions will speak a lot louder than words. And it won't bother him who knows how much he cares.
Yeah, a lot of those things happen in a normal, casual relationship with another sign, but for an aqua these are some pretty significant signals.
Just my theory from an outsider looking in who spends a lot of time with an aquaman. smile
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Posted by truecap
Well, here are my theories and if I'm wrong yall better correct me, cuz I kinda need to know. Ya know?
An aquaman in love:
1. He will spend TIME with you, lots and lots of time. Time is our most valuable ocmmodity and if he chooses to share his with you then, yeah, he loves ya.
2. He will do what he says he's going to do. Like he'll call when he says he will, or he will help you do some things you need help with, he'll fix stuff for you that needs fixin'.
3. You won't see the side holding court telling all kinds of entertaining stories. You'll see the real him -- the serious side, the worried side, the one dealing with life's challenges, the fearful side, the insecure side, the concerned parent, etc. This is the side not everyone gets to see and you've got to be pretty dang special to see it.
4. He will NOT disappear and he will contact you often (daily or more than daily). No more several days without contact.
5. He will take you to family dinners and events and be proud you're with him. He will also go to your family dinner and events and he will make a point to get in good with your family and friends.
6. Although he will be more romantic in the beginning, once he's decided he loves you, he will be more relaxed around you and dote on you more and his romance will be noticed in the little considerate things he does for you.
7. He will spoil you!!!
8. He will give you little gifts for no reason. I could be something he bought he thought you might like or need or a freebie he got from a vendor at work.
9. He asks about your day and knows your favorite color, food, scents, etc.
10. He will make friends with your friends and become a solid member of the group.
11. Mostly he will TELL you he loves you, though his actions will speak a lot louder than words. And it won't bother him who knows how much he cares.
Yeah, a lot of those things happen in a normal, casual relationship with another sign, but for an aqua these are some pretty significant signals.
Just my theory from an outsider looking in who spends a lot of time with an aquaman. smile



This is pretty spot on for me.
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I love Aquarius as a sign period. But as of recently, I've dated one, a lunar aquarian who I feel is too aloof and detached for relationships... I hate to buy into the stereotypes of the zodiac and have tried to give it a fair chance but it rings true. I know they express their love differently, but with the distance it's hard not to become disconnected after awhile.
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The aloofness and detachment is tough, and they will make you feel insecure. BUT, as time goes by it's not as much. Sometimes it's just a defense mechanism and sometimes they're just deep in thought. You either get used to it or start to understand it and eventually you realize it has nothing to do with how they feel about you. Once you get past this stage, they're pretty sweet and affectionate.
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Then again, mine is a very earthy aquarius. smile
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Posted by krysrenee7
1. Observe you like crazy
2. evaluate your "intellectual skills"..i.e. see if you can "hang"...the "Mental stimulation" test comes out 1st b/c if you fail it, we will immediately ends things even if everything else about you is great
3. Let you open up to us. We let you tell us everything. (Openness/self-esteem test) lol
4. We randomly do something with extreme passion (extreme and random affection, for example) to see how you react...we need to know that you can handle it b/c little do you know, there's a lot more where that came from!)
5. We disappear briefly. (Even if it's not on purpose or for "testing purposes" we still will observe & notice your reaction anyway
6. We come back & if you're still "as advertised," we start opening up to you & letting you in
7. Crazy sweaty sex. (We love people's reactions when they see what they "thought" was just a robot turns into an unstoppable sex machine! Haha your face is priceless!)
8. Uh oh...we officially like you. Here comes the epic battle of MIND vs. HEART
9. If the mind wins, & if your Aqua is too insecure, you'll lose the battle.
10. If the heart wins, & if you're still standing by our side despite being put on hold during that battle lol, then you'll see a complete 180 degree change in us!
11. From there, The passion, affection, loyalty, fidelity, etc. never stop coming!



As usual, I think krysrenee is spot on about my *very* watery aqua. For us, #10 was multiple battles that spanned several years. He can be quite insecure and unsure of himself, and we also started dating when we were both quite young, so perhaps those factors were partially to blame for all the "back and forth."
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I feel shitty because I have been a little pushy with my man. It sucks that my mom doesn't want to get to know him because he is hurt by it. I am worried that this will break us apart. I really fell for him too quickly but I keep it inside because I don't want to push him away... All the opinions I've read on here I'm not sure if I can believe or jot but I'm going to consider this because I never want to lose him. Mawwiage wif childwen one day pwease
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