My Pisces girl made alot of the first moves, I got the number she handled the rest.
She played it cool while we started dating while adding the right amount of charm minus the clingy smothering stuff.
now look at me SUPER AQUA MALE (according to my chart) in a relationship after years of being a bachelor.
The point is:
I wasn't looking for a girlfriend......she found me and made me want her using her charm and not her attention.
ya dont wait for the aqua to do something you make the moves, just dont be too aggressive.
He sounds timid in the love arena. I'm not sure how you should come at him but he's def scared or at least surprised you're responding. Maybe just holla back gradually.
Hi everyone and thank you for all the feedback. Its been several more weeks now and my Aqua guy has been acting pretty lukewarm. Although he will occasionally stop me to ask me a question as I walk by - the thing I notice most now is how awkward everything is between us. I feel all tongue tied when I talk to him and most of the time the vibe that I pick up from him if and when I approach him just to talk is that he does not want me to and he wants to be left alone. I'm not quite ready to give up, but I am definitely not going out of my way to talk to him....
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
If I were you, and just to be safe, I'd play his game. Don't get your feelings all attached to this situation & don't let your Pisces need for immediate answers scare this guy away or make the situation more than what it really is. Don't try to play mind games or hard-to-get with this Aqua guy b/c trust me, he'll pick up on it & depending on why he's being so distant, could actually hurt your chances of ever finding out what his deal is. Do you know if he's involved with anyone or if he recently ended a commitment with someone? Do you know anything about his personal life? Who knows, maybe he was just as emotionally unavailable during the same time that you were, & now that he's finally emotionally free, he might be game for looking for some new prey. And if that's the case, him being so distant the minute you decided to start chasing him is actually very normal. Men love to chase after women for different reasons than we love to chase after them. Aqua men sometimes feel that when they're chasing after a woman, they are learning alot about her & they love this, b/c they can get all the answers to their questions about her, by doing things their OWN way. While we as women are giggling & basking in their affection & attention, they are secretely gathering mental notes on us. Plus, some men chase women they are only interested in 1% b/c as long as there's 1% , they fully investigate to make sure that there is/isn't the possibility of more. BUT when the tables are turned (when we start chasing them), they lose control & their way of getting the answers to their questions & accurately observing women changes. Women often don't chase what they don't want. Women will first let a man chase them, let themselves build up interest in someone & THEN they will in return chase after the man. But men are different. They can see 1 thing in you that they like, STILL NOT be sure that you're even worth it & yet still chase you (in others words, they are masters at leading others on) & what happens is, we women are stuck feeling confused when the guy all of the sudden gets distant, b/c we thought the only time someone shows interest in someone or chases them is when the interest is actually THERE & ready to take off into whatever it allows itself to turn into.
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Oct 08, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 6313 · Topics: 313
get his number, call it and proceed to breath heavily into the reciever.
aquarians are air signs so it only makes sense......just like throwing a bucket of cold water on u would get ur waters gushing
You've waited for 15 years and u just started to notice him?........relationships in the work place get awkward when it doesnt work out.
where u work?