Aqua man-prison-HELP

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by kekenc246 on Monday, June 17, 2013 and has 5 replies.
Ok, this one will be difficult, lol. I'm going to try to make it short as possible. I met an aqua man, i'm a virgo woman through prison ( don't judge me, lol). He was cell mates with my best friend (guy) and him and I just started pen pal. I was being nice but his aqua charm won me over. We dated for two years while he was in prison and he was release three months ago. I thought he may be full of games and after his release, he would disappear but he fooled me. He stayed around and we are still a couple. SEX IS GREAT but he's changed. In prison he use to email me everyday (they can do that) and now that he's home, he's very distant. I hardly ever hear from him. We live 4 hours apart and I go visit him every other weekend. He just changed since prison, I think all of his words were prison talk. When we argued while he was locked up, he would always call to make it right, he would call me 20 times in a row. THEY DONT DO THAT (AQUA'S) BUT I SEE NOW that he only did that b/c he needed me b/c of prison. Now he's home if we have a lil arugument, he don't "chase" after me at all, which is cool but he use too.
Ok, so here' the problem. He's been gone away for 8 years and now that he's home, he stays on facebook, I caught him trying to get with another girl on facebook, I found that he created an account on a dating site and I just found out that he created a 2nd facebook page b/c im his facebook friend on his first page. I let the first two things go but after the facebook 2nd page, I confronted him and I left his home. I was visiting for the weekend. It was 1am in the morning, I was so upset, I just left b/c he lied and said that he didn't do a page but then realized I knew the truth and didn't want to discuss it anymore. So I left. Now its been 5 days and I haven't heard from him. I really want it over and i'm done but I'm just curious, why hasn't he reached out? Is he mad that I left ( they hate you to leave them), is he just guilty or is it that he just really wanted it over? Now note, after the first two incidents, he never admitted to anything he did wrong, he just said, I don't care about that stuff, (those sites) I just be on there (never giving a clear explanation) and I got a lot on my mind ( just getting home from 8 years) and I want to be with you but his ACTIONS DOESNT SHOW ME THAT. His words is saying it but not his actions and even his words are very limited now. So PLEASE HELP ME? I feel like this man just "used" me for
Exactly, what i'm thinking....Just trying to factor in "aqua" into this a little bit, thas all.
Oh, I'm moving on....I was just asking about "how they are when they are in the wrong"? (aqua men).
Yes, its real, lol ( I know what you mean though, I'm smh at myself)
I agree with you. I'm not really discussing the prison issue ( I already know of all of this), I'm not judgemental of someone is prison, it depends on what they are there for. That's not what I'm discussing. I have an uncle that was in prison for beating up someone that raped his child, that was years ago, that doesn't make him a bad person but again, we're not discussing prison. I was just curious about the "aqua" thing, that's all. Thanks for all the great advice!!
Well, in prison he had a lot more lonely time. Now he's out enjoying life.
Why do you want to be with a convict anyway?