Aqua vs Libra. Ladies who would you chose??
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by FemmeScorpion on Tuesday, July 27, 2010 and has 10 replies.
Both air signs,but who from experience or observation as the edge?? Or may i say the XFactor??
Val, i am also swayed towards Aquas,mainly because from personal experience they dont seem to hold a grudge. I find that refreshing.
I've never dated a Libra but I know two Libra girls, I wouldn't date either, but both are good looking... just that they've told me too much!
I've dated an Aqua girl, it was good - my longest relationship in fact. Would I date either in the future? Maybe. You never know.
I've dated an Aqua girl, it was good - my longest relationship in fact. Would I date either in the future? Maybe. You never know.
I'm an Aqua so I've got love for them all DAY & I've had some pretty fulfilling relationships with Libras too BUT please don't get offended when I say this. If I had to choose all over again, I'd say neither. And here's why:
Aquas: Love em too death but I sternly believe that 2 Aquas are better off as friends. Similarities in character/personality are ALWAYS a GOOD thing when it comes to the meshing well of a relationship, BUT sometimes being almost TOO alike in certain areas of the personality (like stubborness, for example) can create the opposite effect & breka a relationship. Once 2 Aquas finally trust & fully understand 1 another, the relationship can be very fulfilling & last a VERY long time (Aquas are very big on loyalty & long-term stability) BUT, the processes BEFORE 2 people get to that point of no return/trust can be very draining. Going through the motions of getting an Aqua to trust you can sometimes be so emotionally draining & an experience filled with so much confusion, it's almost easier to give up early sometimes rather than stick through it with just 'hopes' that it'll all pay off in the end. Others trying to be with an Aqua takes alot of patience, but good Lord!..2 Aquas trying to establish a relationship can be a longgggg process!
Libra: Love em too death too but sheesh, Libras have too big of a problem letting go of the past. And in a world where cheating is the #1 fear in relationships, it's quite hard to fathom/always be content with knowing your Libra can't ever seem to push past the past. Sure, after much understanding of how Libras tick & assuming that they "mean well" and/or that this part about them is just their "personality," things can work out. BUT, let's be honest, it takes a pretty secure & trusting person to be able to accept/be okay with potentially "sharing" their Libra with others. And I don't mean that in a "cheating" way, but moreso that it gets old always having to question a Libra's intentions for why they can't seem to let go. And the indecisiveness drives me insane! It's okay to weigh the scales SOMETIMES, but my partner taking 5 years to make the simplest of decision can get old & QUICK! It just takes a deeper level than usual of understanding to fully trust/understand a Libra & for some, they'd rather be with the person that they don't have to go into over-drive just to understand
Aquas: Love em too death but I sternly believe that 2 Aquas are better off as friends. Similarities in character/personality are ALWAYS a GOOD thing when it comes to the meshing well of a relationship, BUT sometimes being almost TOO alike in certain areas of the personality (like stubborness, for example) can create the opposite effect & breka a relationship. Once 2 Aquas finally trust & fully understand 1 another, the relationship can be very fulfilling & last a VERY long time (Aquas are very big on loyalty & long-term stability) BUT, the processes BEFORE 2 people get to that point of no return/trust can be very draining. Going through the motions of getting an Aqua to trust you can sometimes be so emotionally draining & an experience filled with so much confusion, it's almost easier to give up early sometimes rather than stick through it with just 'hopes' that it'll all pay off in the end. Others trying to be with an Aqua takes alot of patience, but good Lord!..2 Aquas trying to establish a relationship can be a longgggg process!
Libra: Love em too death too but sheesh, Libras have too big of a problem letting go of the past. And in a world where cheating is the #1 fear in relationships, it's quite hard to fathom/always be content with knowing your Libra can't ever seem to push past the past. Sure, after much understanding of how Libras tick & assuming that they "mean well" and/or that this part about them is just their "personality," things can work out. BUT, let's be honest, it takes a pretty secure & trusting person to be able to accept/be okay with potentially "sharing" their Libra with others. And I don't mean that in a "cheating" way, but moreso that it gets old always having to question a Libra's intentions for why they can't seem to let go. And the indecisiveness drives me insane! It's okay to weigh the scales SOMETIMES, but my partner taking 5 years to make the simplest of decision can get old & QUICK! It just takes a deeper level than usual of understanding to fully trust/understand a Libra & for some, they'd rather be with the person that they don't have to go into over-drive just to understand
lol
Heh fiddle dee dee,
It??s an Aqua pick for me
Having recently endured a three month, no speaking, quarrel with a Libra I might be a bit biased. Despite my open and easy going nature it took that long for the matter to be settled. Out of the two of us the only display of balanced diplomacy came from my side. From what I experienced of the Libran diplomacy/peacemaking in matters of disagreement it amounted to a perfect Ostrich impression ??? burying my head in the sand is the best way to face up to problems.
Now I know that Libras hate admitting that they are wrong, even when they are, and Libra apologies are rarer than gold dust. However, considering the effort I made to put things right, three months before receiving a written apology - admitting all wrong on their part - is a sad state of commendation for the balanced and fair Libra diplomat.
..............................Aqua....Libra
Stubbornness..............8......10
Bearing a Grudge..........1.......5
Thinking of Others.......10.......6
Diplomacy...................9.......6
Communication...........10.......5
Admitting Faults...........8.......1
Since a big part of successful relationships is communication and openness I would be hesitant to give my heart to a Libra despite all their obvious charms.
Love me I??m a Libra, fair enough. Trust me I??m a Libra, maybe not.
We Aquas aren??t perfect, but at least we are willing to meet people half way and admit our faults when they surface. Oh, and yes, the Libran inability to make quick decisions can be a little unsettling and inconvenient.
Honest and open, blunt speaking Sag with reserved Libran and their dislike of direct confrontation ??? don??t quite see it myself.
It??s an Aqua pick for me
Having recently endured a three month, no speaking, quarrel with a Libra I might be a bit biased. Despite my open and easy going nature it took that long for the matter to be settled. Out of the two of us the only display of balanced diplomacy came from my side. From what I experienced of the Libran diplomacy/peacemaking in matters of disagreement it amounted to a perfect Ostrich impression ??? burying my head in the sand is the best way to face up to problems.
Now I know that Libras hate admitting that they are wrong, even when they are, and Libra apologies are rarer than gold dust. However, considering the effort I made to put things right, three months before receiving a written apology - admitting all wrong on their part - is a sad state of commendation for the balanced and fair Libra diplomat.
..............................Aqua....Libra
Stubbornness..............8......10
Bearing a Grudge..........1.......5
Thinking of Others.......10.......6
Diplomacy...................9.......6
Communication...........10.......5
Admitting Faults...........8.......1
Since a big part of successful relationships is communication and openness I would be hesitant to give my heart to a Libra despite all their obvious charms.
Love me I??m a Libra, fair enough. Trust me I??m a Libra, maybe not.
We Aquas aren??t perfect, but at least we are willing to meet people half way and admit our faults when they surface. Oh, and yes, the Libran inability to make quick decisions can be a little unsettling and inconvenient.
Honest and open, blunt speaking Sag with reserved Libran and their dislike of direct confrontation ??? don??t quite see it myself.
I think the reason the Libra board is so tame and void of confrontation might not be down to a desire not to ruffle any feathers. It could be down to an inability to make quick decisions. The average Libran will probably read something and be be happy or upset by the comment. However, it takes them so long to decide how to respond that by the time they've finally decided how to respond the matter is no longer current. So it's no longer worth posting a reply.
I honestly think that the loveable Libras out there could increase their attraction even more if they simply invested in a magic 8 ball - in order to assist the speed of their decision making once in awhile.
I honestly think that the loveable Libras out there could increase their attraction even more if they simply invested in a magic 8 ball - in order to assist the speed of their decision making once in awhile.
Yup, well remembered, I do have a Libra Moon. It doesn't always get a look in though. That part of me is usually slightly dormant because it takes so long for it to decide how to exert its influence.
The mighty mouth Aquarian part of me or the blunt have at it Sagittarian of my rising sign usual address the situation before it gets a look in. My Libra moon is a frequent late riser, it normally appears in time to make some last minute adjustments to the outcome, but not always.
The Libra part of me surfaces more during the quiet times or when I have the luxury of prior reflection.
Then again, I think the Libra part of me is to thank for sorting things out this time. As a pure Aqua I would have walked away or simply put the situation to one side and ignored it. Although, if Id let the Sag into the paddock to play it might have been resolved quicker - or made the situation impossible to resolve
Things appear to be getting back to normal between us now, which is a good thing. Your right again, we do have a very similar outlook in many ways and I've missed the laughter that constantly arises between us. Fingers crossed this regained familiarity will last a very long time and the same mistake wont repeat itself in the future.
The mighty mouth Aquarian part of me or the blunt have at it Sagittarian of my rising sign usual address the situation before it gets a look in. My Libra moon is a frequent late riser, it normally appears in time to make some last minute adjustments to the outcome, but not always.
The Libra part of me surfaces more during the quiet times or when I have the luxury of prior reflection.
Then again, I think the Libra part of me is to thank for sorting things out this time. As a pure Aqua I would have walked away or simply put the situation to one side and ignored it. Although, if Id let the Sag into the paddock to play it might have been resolved quicker - or made the situation impossible to resolve
Things appear to be getting back to normal between us now, which is a good thing. Your right again, we do have a very similar outlook in many ways and I've missed the laughter that constantly arises between us. Fingers crossed this regained familiarity will last a very long time and the same mistake wont repeat itself in the future.
Oops, do what Val?
Erm, boggles. I'm an Aquarian so I'm busy doing other stuff. I will try to visit more often though.
Not sure about the rest of the reply, I wasn't being personal about you and me. Just that you remembered my moon and you where right about how well I get on with Libras - when they aren't being difficult. Hence my crossed fingers in relation to a continued happy future with this particular one.
Oops, cant help trying to make peace even when there isn't really a problem - lol.
Not sure about the rest of the reply, I wasn't being personal about you and me. Just that you remembered my moon and you where right about how well I get on with Libras - when they aren't being difficult. Hence my crossed fingers in relation to a continued happy future with this particular one.
Oops, cant help trying to make peace even when there isn't really a problem - lol.
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