Aquarian DO's
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by krysrenee7 on Tuesday, January 20, 2009 and has 8 replies.
I'm sure all of you are familiar with my "disclaimer" from my other posts so just keep in mind that the same "disclaimer" applies to my opinion on this topic too.
Aquarian DO's:
-Become comfortable talking about a wide variety of topics. Aquarians need to know that their partners are versitile & just as knowledgeable & "tuned in" the way they are. Aquarians sometimes let their deep conversations with others be their own personal form of getting to know someone, seeing how they "tick," how they think & what they stand for; and all of these things are very important to an Aquarian when it comes to deciding if the two of you will be a good match spiritually, intellectually & emotionally
-Surprise your Aquarian (they love surprises ?the more original, the better. Sometimes an Aquarian will assume they know every single detail about their partners & the best way to prove them wrong is to surpise them every once in a while in order to bring out the creative side in you that Aquarians are seeking.
-In the beginning, keep yourself at a safe distance emotionally. Too much affection, touching & physical contact in the beginning will make an Aquarian immediately question your instincts. Sometimes your Aquarian just wants to get to know the "inner" you; they figure they have the rest of their lives to get to know the "outer" you. After all, they've got to put up with, spend time with, accept, adapt & love the "outer" you alot more so don't be suprised or disappointed when your Aquarian doesn't seem so eager to go straight to the bedroom. Aquarians want others to work for their love (since they already know how much of their hearts they can give you) & too many emotional or physical demands to early on might sway the urge for an Aquarian to find out what else you're about.
Aquarian DO's:
-Become comfortable talking about a wide variety of topics. Aquarians need to know that their partners are versitile & just as knowledgeable & "tuned in" the way they are. Aquarians sometimes let their deep conversations with others be their own personal form of getting to know someone, seeing how they "tick," how they think & what they stand for; and all of these things are very important to an Aquarian when it comes to deciding if the two of you will be a good match spiritually, intellectually & emotionally
-Surprise your Aquarian (they love surprises ?the more original, the better. Sometimes an Aquarian will assume they know every single detail about their partners & the best way to prove them wrong is to surpise them every once in a while in order to bring out the creative side in you that Aquarians are seeking.
-In the beginning, keep yourself at a safe distance emotionally. Too much affection, touching & physical contact in the beginning will make an Aquarian immediately question your instincts. Sometimes your Aquarian just wants to get to know the "inner" you; they figure they have the rest of their lives to get to know the "outer" you. After all, they've got to put up with, spend time with, accept, adapt & love the "outer" you alot more so don't be suprised or disappointed when your Aquarian doesn't seem so eager to go straight to the bedroom. Aquarians want others to work for their love (since they already know how much of their hearts they can give you) & too many emotional or physical demands to early on might sway the urge for an Aquarian to find out what else you're about.
-Appreciate your Aquarians devotion to special causes & ideals. Aquarians know their different, unique & can be the "oddballs" of the group & are more attached to those who appreciate them even more for this instead of always protesting against it.
-Become intimate with the mind of your Aquarian before the body.
-Turned on by those who dare to be individuals, those who voice their opinions, those who have the courage to be themselves regardless of what the world in general thinks about them. Aquarians want partners who will compliment them, not dominate or reflect them in a bad way. They are attracted to individuals like themselves. Aquarians pay deep attention to their partner's sense of self-awareness
-Give an Aquarian their space when they ask for it. Find a way to make it known that you respect their request & will do as they please but at the same time make it clear that you won't completely leave & let them off the hook. Aquarians are attracted to those who can not only understand, accept & still love them. Aquarians don't need their space b/c they're trying to "punish" you but instead b/c they'd rather do their own self-reflecting in the dark or in private & trying to make an Aquarian feel bad or guilty for this will never work.
-Become intimate with the mind of your Aquarian before the body.
-Turned on by those who dare to be individuals, those who voice their opinions, those who have the courage to be themselves regardless of what the world in general thinks about them. Aquarians want partners who will compliment them, not dominate or reflect them in a bad way. They are attracted to individuals like themselves. Aquarians pay deep attention to their partner's sense of self-awareness
-Give an Aquarian their space when they ask for it. Find a way to make it known that you respect their request & will do as they please but at the same time make it clear that you won't completely leave & let them off the hook. Aquarians are attracted to those who can not only understand, accept & still love them. Aquarians don't need their space b/c they're trying to "punish" you but instead b/c they'd rather do their own self-reflecting in the dark or in private & trying to make an Aquarian feel bad or guilty for this will never work.
Agree x35234576795 on the variety of topics to talk about. I like to listen to people's opinion on different topic. With my cap, we talk about politics, our career plans, our views on religion, the people we admire and would most like to be, all in one conversation.
Aquas are really big on being an individual. There's nothing I hate more than a follower, part of the reason why I choose to be a loner. Very few people appeal to me. Actually, most of the people that I have met bored the crap out of me. Nothing interesting to say, nothing that makes them stand out, sheep people.
Keeps our minds stimulated or you'll get pushed aside.
Aquas are really big on being an individual. There's nothing I hate more than a follower, part of the reason why I choose to be a loner. Very few people appeal to me. Actually, most of the people that I have met bored the crap out of me. Nothing interesting to say, nothing that makes them stand out, sheep people.
Keeps our minds stimulated or you'll get pushed aside.
And I don't know if this applies to other Aquas but I love open-mindedness. I wish people would come out of the bubble their in.
"Agree x35234576795 on the variety of topics to talk about. I like to listen to people's opinion on different topic. With my cap, we talk about politics, our career plans, our views on religion, the people we admire and would most like to be, all in one conversation"
And not just that, but with me, I like to talk to others who actually know how to go in depth with the topics we are talking about, even almost to a debate kind of tone. I hate to feel like I am the only one really "tuned in" to the conversation. I can tell when someone is just bringing up topics b/c they can tell I like to talk & are only answering my question b/c they can't wait for me to stop talking versus someone who is just as conversational as me & actually gets just as in depth as me.
Now don't get me wrong, if someone talks way more than me & ends up getting off topic, that drives me up the wall.
And not just that, but with me, I like to talk to others who actually know how to go in depth with the topics we are talking about, even almost to a debate kind of tone. I hate to feel like I am the only one really "tuned in" to the conversation. I can tell when someone is just bringing up topics b/c they can tell I like to talk & are only answering my question b/c they can't wait for me to stop talking versus someone who is just as conversational as me & actually gets just as in depth as me.
Now don't get me wrong, if someone talks way more than me & ends up getting off topic, that drives me up the wall.
they're in* (yes, grammar nazi)
Anyway, I agree. Debates are awesome. They get me really stirred up, in the good way. I tend to get passionate about something I know well or am interested in.
Anyway, I agree. Debates are awesome. They get me really stirred up, in the good way. I tend to get passionate about something I know well or am interested in.
Says the man dating a Cap.
Oh Evan, only when it comes to discussing things, I like to argue. I'm not so passionate about pretty much everything else.
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