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Aquarian Handbook!
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How to know when we're TRULY into you (not just a little bit or still unsure, but TRULY into you):
1. We put in the extra effort to communicate with you consistently. Trust me, we don't mind being alone so if we invite you into our personal space when we really could've been off entertaining ourselves, you must be special!
2. We tell you & get offended at the slightest hint from you that the feeling isn't mutual. Aquarians don't care much about the opinions of people they don't consider relevant. If your opinion of us matters, it's b/c YOU matter to us.
3. We make it official. Yes, we sometimes drag our feet (it's not about you though. It's about us battling our head vs. heart), but don't get it twisted. If an Aquarian decides they can't afford to lose you, they'll do what they have to do to keep you, even if that means making it official or doing something we absolutely hate: Being vulnerable or opening up about our innermost feelings
How to tell if an Aquarian isn't that into you:
1. We NEVER call you or reach out to you 1st. Even though we can really like you but only call you "sometimes," there is a HUGE lack of interest on our part when we NEVER call you. There's a big difference b/w "sometimes" & "never"
2. We tell you. If you get your head out of the clouds & actually PAY ATTENTION, we'll show you better than we can tell you how we feel about you. And if we don't tell you, we leave 1,000 clues so that in the event, you feel led on, it's probably b/c you didn't use your common sense & not b/c we didn't make it obvious
3. You never seem to phase us. If nothing you do seems to bring any emotion out of us, it's b/c we've decided you're "not it," & have only granted you access to our intellect & nothing more. Once we make that decision, it's usually final.
1. We put in the extra effort to communicate with you consistently. Trust me, we don't mind being alone so if we invite you into our personal space when we really could've been off entertaining ourselves, you must be special!
2. We tell you & get offended at the slightest hint from you that the feeling isn't mutual. Aquarians don't care much about the opinions of people they don't consider relevant. If your opinion of us matters, it's b/c YOU matter to us.
3. We make it official. Yes, we sometimes drag our feet (it's not about you though. It's about us battling our head vs. heart), but don't get it twisted. If an Aquarian decides they can't afford to lose you, they'll do what they have to do to keep you, even if that means making it official or doing something we absolutely hate: Being vulnerable or opening up about our innermost feelings
How to tell if an Aquarian isn't that into you:
1. We NEVER call you or reach out to you 1st. Even though we can really like you but only call you "sometimes," there is a HUGE lack of interest on our part when we NEVER call you. There's a big difference b/w "sometimes" & "never"
2. We tell you. If you get your head out of the clouds & actually PAY ATTENTION, we'll show you better than we can tell you how we feel about you. And if we don't tell you, we leave 1,000 clues so that in the event, you feel led on, it's probably b/c you didn't use your common sense & not b/c we didn't make it obvious
3. You never seem to phase us. If nothing you do seems to bring any emotion out of us, it's b/c we've decided you're "not it," & have only granted you access to our intellect & nothing more. Once we make that decision, it's usually final.
How to handle us when we need space:
1. Just F'ing give it to us! When we made the decision that we needed space from you, that decision was final the second we made it. We stick with our decision so no, you're whining won't change anything. In fact, the more you go against our grain/wishes, the longer the time we need space from you.
2. Don't disappear completely, but don't baby us either. We get that when some people say, "Leave me alone," they really mean "try harder," but know that when an Aquarian tells you to back off, and if there's no "LOL" or "Just kidding" behind it, it's b/c we meant it: Back off!
What to do when YOU messed up:
1. Admit it. Be blunt, genuine & straight-forward with your apology. No sugar-coating or passive-aggressiveness. We don't accept apologies that are really just justifications in disguise
2. Give us time to process what happened. We depend on our intellect a lot & despite what you may think, we actually are forgiving & do weigh the cons/pros that come with you. If we choose to forgive you, it's not b/c you begged or pleaded with us to, so don't waste your time with the dramatics. If we forgive you it's b/c you didn't mess up bad enough to get cut off for good
3. Don't ever do it again. We're pretty easy-going individuals. Not much bothers us. But when we are bothered, we're REALLY bothered, & we show you why pissing us off was a bad move. Welp, if you're just gonna do it again, expect the consequences or cold shoulder to increase each time or to be cut off completely. We're only gonna tell you once not to play with fire. If we cut you off, it's not b/c we're unforgiving or cold-hearted but b/c we have little time or patience for people who are conscious slow learners.
1. Just F'ing give it to us! When we made the decision that we needed space from you, that decision was final the second we made it. We stick with our decision so no, you're whining won't change anything. In fact, the more you go against our grain/wishes, the longer the time we need space from you.
2. Don't disappear completely, but don't baby us either. We get that when some people say, "Leave me alone," they really mean "try harder," but know that when an Aquarian tells you to back off, and if there's no "LOL" or "Just kidding" behind it, it's b/c we meant it: Back off!
What to do when YOU messed up:
1. Admit it. Be blunt, genuine & straight-forward with your apology. No sugar-coating or passive-aggressiveness. We don't accept apologies that are really just justifications in disguise
2. Give us time to process what happened. We depend on our intellect a lot & despite what you may think, we actually are forgiving & do weigh the cons/pros that come with you. If we choose to forgive you, it's not b/c you begged or pleaded with us to, so don't waste your time with the dramatics. If we forgive you it's b/c you didn't mess up bad enough to get cut off for good
3. Don't ever do it again. We're pretty easy-going individuals. Not much bothers us. But when we are bothered, we're REALLY bothered, & we show you why pissing us off was a bad move. Welp, if you're just gonna do it again, expect the consequences or cold shoulder to increase each time or to be cut off completely. We're only gonna tell you once not to play with fire. If we cut you off, it's not b/c we're unforgiving or cold-hearted but b/c we have little time or patience for people who are conscious slow learners.
What to do when WE mess up:
1. Don't give in. Even if we're whining like babies for being wrong, stand your ground! If you were in the right, nothing I do/say should be able to change that fact.
2. Give us time to think about things & apologize to you. If it takes a month or a year for an apology, then we're not sorry. But if it takes us a week, don't be so upset. Just like you, we don't like being guilted, manipulated or shamed into apologizing. Besides an apology isn't genuine if the only reason you're getting one is b/c someone had to make you feel like crap just to get it. Let us do the mental work on our part so that when we DO apologize, you'll know it was OUR idea to, not yours.
3. Tell us exactly what we did wrong & how to fix it. Tell us how it made you feel & if we truly care about you, we'll put in the extra effort to make sure we never give you that feeling again. But we can't fix a problem you sugar-coated so be honest & tell us if we mess up so we can fix it! We're very solution-oriented during conflict so when dealing with us, focus more on the solution as opposed to only venting about the problem for 10 years
1. Don't give in. Even if we're whining like babies for being wrong, stand your ground! If you were in the right, nothing I do/say should be able to change that fact.
2. Give us time to think about things & apologize to you. If it takes a month or a year for an apology, then we're not sorry. But if it takes us a week, don't be so upset. Just like you, we don't like being guilted, manipulated or shamed into apologizing. Besides an apology isn't genuine if the only reason you're getting one is b/c someone had to make you feel like crap just to get it. Let us do the mental work on our part so that when we DO apologize, you'll know it was OUR idea to, not yours.
3. Tell us exactly what we did wrong & how to fix it. Tell us how it made you feel & if we truly care about you, we'll put in the extra effort to make sure we never give you that feeling again. But we can't fix a problem you sugar-coated so be honest & tell us if we mess up so we can fix it! We're very solution-oriented during conflict so when dealing with us, focus more on the solution as opposed to only venting about the problem for 10 years
What Aquarians are best at:
1. Reading other people. We observe others so carefully b/c we understand the value in being able to read/dissect actions as opposed to words. We like to know what makes you tick, not so we can play mind games with you, but b/c it'll help us understand you more in the event there was ever a misunderstanding or a situation that could only work if a deep understanding of the person was essential in it working.
2. Getting "deep" & thinking outside of the box. We can "hang" in almost any kind of setting or conversation. This is a skill we practice the most b/c this is essentially the #1 way others agree that we stand out.
3. Giving advice. We may wear a poker face but we've secretly been through a lot. We are very self-taught & learn a lot from other's mistakes instead of being hard-headed & only learning b/c we ourselves had to hit rock bottom. Even if we've never personally gone through something ourselves, we still give advice if we feel we've known enough people who have been through the specific circumstance you're venting about. We observe & notice everything, & 1 of the 1st things we pay the closest attention to when observing situations is the result. If we see a pattern repeating itself that leads to a bad result 99% of the time, our advice will most likely center around us telling you to (or not to) repeat that pattern.
1. Reading other people. We observe others so carefully b/c we understand the value in being able to read/dissect actions as opposed to words. We like to know what makes you tick, not so we can play mind games with you, but b/c it'll help us understand you more in the event there was ever a misunderstanding or a situation that could only work if a deep understanding of the person was essential in it working.
2. Getting "deep" & thinking outside of the box. We can "hang" in almost any kind of setting or conversation. This is a skill we practice the most b/c this is essentially the #1 way others agree that we stand out.
3. Giving advice. We may wear a poker face but we've secretly been through a lot. We are very self-taught & learn a lot from other's mistakes instead of being hard-headed & only learning b/c we ourselves had to hit rock bottom. Even if we've never personally gone through something ourselves, we still give advice if we feel we've known enough people who have been through the specific circumstance you're venting about. We observe & notice everything, & 1 of the 1st things we pay the closest attention to when observing situations is the result. If we see a pattern repeating itself that leads to a bad result 99% of the time, our advice will most likely center around us telling you to (or not to) repeat that pattern.
Our worst traits:
1. Stubbornness. See, we can admit our faults too =P
2. Not being a Pisces or Cancer. Sometimes a situation calls for us to show our more soft, emotional & vulnerable side, but if our backs are up against the wall or if we're in a very tight nit situation, you can forget about us buckling under pressure! We will remain stiff & aloof poker faces until the coast is clear. Hence, the reason we may be the only dry-eyed ones in a funeral or during a fire!
3. Adapting to things 100% opposite of us. Yes we like a challenge & things that are persay "different," but ultimately we settle down with those we have the MOST in common with, not the least lol
1. Stubbornness. See, we can admit our faults too =P
2. Not being a Pisces or Cancer. Sometimes a situation calls for us to show our more soft, emotional & vulnerable side, but if our backs are up against the wall or if we're in a very tight nit situation, you can forget about us buckling under pressure! We will remain stiff & aloof poker faces until the coast is clear. Hence, the reason we may be the only dry-eyed ones in a funeral or during a fire!
3. Adapting to things 100% opposite of us. Yes we like a challenge & things that are persay "different," but ultimately we settle down with those we have the MOST in common with, not the least lol
LOL, I love the space one, it's so true. Good thread, Krys 🙂
Sex etiquette with an Aquarian:
1. DO talk dirty! The pleasure of Mental/verbal stimulation is magnified by 100 when it's given in the bedroom! And if you didn't get the memo, mental stimulation is our #1 turn on!
2. Be sweet & to the point! None of that "let's make love for 72 hours," stuff. After all, we do have things (like our lives, our jobs, our crosswords) to tend to & would much rather prefer something hot, creative & fast as opposed to something slow & too mushy (just leaves too much time, room & opportunity for us to get bored). A good sexual experience isn't about "endurance" for us
3. Bring out your imagination! Let's try different positions! Let's be spontaneous & experimental! Let's have sex somewhere different than usual this time! Don't be afraid to venture into the forbidden; you're a lot more memorable to us sexually if you brought something to the table that no one else could do or everyone else was afraid to do
1. DO talk dirty! The pleasure of Mental/verbal stimulation is magnified by 100 when it's given in the bedroom! And if you didn't get the memo, mental stimulation is our #1 turn on!
2. Be sweet & to the point! None of that "let's make love for 72 hours," stuff. After all, we do have things (like our lives, our jobs, our crosswords) to tend to & would much rather prefer something hot, creative & fast as opposed to something slow & too mushy (just leaves too much time, room & opportunity for us to get bored). A good sexual experience isn't about "endurance" for us
3. Bring out your imagination! Let's try different positions! Let's be spontaneous & experimental! Let's have sex somewhere different than usual this time! Don't be afraid to venture into the forbidden; you're a lot more memorable to us sexually if you brought something to the table that no one else could do or everyone else was afraid to do
Sex etiquette with an Aquarian:
1. DO talk dirty! The pleasure of Mental/verbal stimulation is magnified by 100 when it's given in the bedroom! And if you didn't get the memo, mental stimulation is our #1 turn on!
2. Be sweet & to the point! None of that "let's make love for 72 hours," stuff. After all, we do have things (like our lives, our jobs, our crosswords) to tend to & would much rather prefer something hot, creative & fast as opposed to something slow & too mushy (just leaves too much time, room & opportunity for us to get bored). A good sexual experience isn't about "endurance" for us
3. Bring out your imagination! Let's try different positions! Let's be spontaneous & experimental! Let's have sex somewhere different than usual this time! Don't be afraid to venture into the forbidden; you're a lot more memorable to us sexually if you brought something to the table that no one else could do or everyone else was afraid to do
1. DO talk dirty! The pleasure of Mental/verbal stimulation is magnified by 100 when it's given in the bedroom! And if you didn't get the memo, mental stimulation is our #1 turn on!
2. Be sweet & to the point! None of that "let's make love for 72 hours," stuff. After all, we do have things (like our lives, our jobs, our crosswords) to tend to & would much rather prefer something hot, creative & fast as opposed to something slow & too mushy (just leaves too much time, room & opportunity for us to get bored). A good sexual experience isn't about "endurance" for us
3. Bring out your imagination! Let's try different positions! Let's be spontaneous & experimental! Let's have sex somewhere different than usual this time! Don't be afraid to venture into the forbidden; you're a lot more memorable to us sexually if you brought something to the table that no one else could do or everyone else was afraid to do
Posted by krysrenee7
Sex etiquette with an Aquarian:
1. DO talk dirty! The pleasure of Mental/verbal stimulation is magnified by 100 when it's given in the bedroom! And if you didn't get the memo, mental stimulation is our #1 turn on!
2. Be sweet & to the point! None of that "let's make love for 72 hours," stuff. After all, we do have things (like our lives, our jobs, our crosswords) to tend to & would much rather prefer something hot, creative & fast as opposed to something slow & too mushy (just leaves too much time, room & opportunity for us to get bored). A good sexual experience isn't about "endurance" for us
3. Bring out your imagination! Let's try different positions! Let's be spontaneous & experimental! Let's have sex somewhere different than usual this time! Don't be afraid to venture into the forbidden; you're a lot more memorable to us sexually if you brought something to the table that no one else could do or everyone else was afraid to do
Yes @ #2. I love sex not sssseeeeeeeeex.
What matters the MOST to Aquarians:
1. Individuality. B/c we're always ourselves regardless of who approves, we have a huge appreciation for anyone else who dares to be their true selves too
2. Communication. Your looks & sexual abilities can only get you so far. We'd most likely settle down or be the closest to those who we can sit up all night & talk about everything with as opposed to the person who is the most attractive (looks) or skilled sexually.
3. Loyalty. If we mess up, fine, stand your ground. But if you cut us off from your loyalty over something small, our loyalty is something you'll lose as well. We like to invest in the things/people who can outlast/stand a little earthquake every now & then.
What matters LEAST to an Aquarian:
1. Looks. Yes, physical appearance matters, but we're probably the least shallow in this area. 99% of the time, you'll hear an Aquarians saying they love you most b/c of some inner quality you have
2. Status. We don't care that you graduated from Harvard, are the most popular at school or have 7 degrees. I'd more than likely be dying to give my friendship to the broke humble but person as opposed to the close-minded & shallow wealthy person.
3. Gifts. You can't buy an Aquarian's respect or love. Sure, we appreciate a gift here & there, but even then, we'd hope the gift would be personalized. Show us you love us through your actions & your loyalty, not through things that only money can buy
1. Individuality. B/c we're always ourselves regardless of who approves, we have a huge appreciation for anyone else who dares to be their true selves too
2. Communication. Your looks & sexual abilities can only get you so far. We'd most likely settle down or be the closest to those who we can sit up all night & talk about everything with as opposed to the person who is the most attractive (looks) or skilled sexually.
3. Loyalty. If we mess up, fine, stand your ground. But if you cut us off from your loyalty over something small, our loyalty is something you'll lose as well. We like to invest in the things/people who can outlast/stand a little earthquake every now & then.
What matters LEAST to an Aquarian:
1. Looks. Yes, physical appearance matters, but we're probably the least shallow in this area. 99% of the time, you'll hear an Aquarians saying they love you most b/c of some inner quality you have
2. Status. We don't care that you graduated from Harvard, are the most popular at school or have 7 degrees. I'd more than likely be dying to give my friendship to the broke humble but person as opposed to the close-minded & shallow wealthy person.
3. Gifts. You can't buy an Aquarian's respect or love. Sure, we appreciate a gift here & there, but even then, we'd hope the gift would be personalized. Show us you love us through your actions & your loyalty, not through things that only money can buy
The "DO NOT" list during sex with an Aquarian:
Do NOT:
1. Sit there with a straight face like you're constipated. Make a face dammit! Say something! Make a noise, a sound, something!
2. Talk a bunch of sh*t but not measure up. Don't tease us beforehand about how wild, crazy & creative you'd be in the bedroom if you're really just like the person who does #1 on this list. Not only will we be annoyed at such bad sex, but we'll be extra pissed off b/c of your false advertisement!
3. Don't tell us when we're gonna do it or how we're gonna do it. Surprise me! Just grab me & push me onto the bed dammit! It's already bad enough when someone is too predicable in the moment. It's even worse when someone is giving us a heads-up that they're about to be predictable lol
4. Don't smother me with affection afterwards. A high-five or a few kisses and hugs afterwards is fine, but if you expect for me to be happy falling asleep with your entire sweaty body wrapped around me to the point of suffocation, you're mistaken!
Do NOT:
1. Sit there with a straight face like you're constipated. Make a face dammit! Say something! Make a noise, a sound, something!
2. Talk a bunch of sh*t but not measure up. Don't tease us beforehand about how wild, crazy & creative you'd be in the bedroom if you're really just like the person who does #1 on this list. Not only will we be annoyed at such bad sex, but we'll be extra pissed off b/c of your false advertisement!
3. Don't tell us when we're gonna do it or how we're gonna do it. Surprise me! Just grab me & push me onto the bed dammit! It's already bad enough when someone is too predicable in the moment. It's even worse when someone is giving us a heads-up that they're about to be predictable lol
4. Don't smother me with affection afterwards. A high-five or a few kisses and hugs afterwards is fine, but if you expect for me to be happy falling asleep with your entire sweaty body wrapped around me to the point of suffocation, you're mistaken!
The things Aquarians pay attention to MOST when dating you:
1. Your logical vs. emotional ratio. We like to observe you in many different situations to know whether or not your logical/emotional ratio is balanced lol. We like to see/know that you can hold your own when it's time to be logical & also venture deep when it's time to put pride to the side & be emotional. We don't only watch for your reactions to things with us, we also watch how you deal with others b/c that tells us a lot
2. How loyal we are. If we see that you're always blowing off your friends/family for us or are always betraying the confidence of those closest to you, we'll be turned off. It's important that an Aquarian sees that you can be loyal to self, others & us at the same time.
3. How open-minded you are. You can do a lot, have a lot of fun with & have a longer-lasting relationship/friendship with someone who is open-minded. We're watching to see if your thinking is only 1-sided. If we feel that it is, we'll run like hell b/c there's no way we'd ever fully click/mess well if you don't know how to mentally compromise
1. Your logical vs. emotional ratio. We like to observe you in many different situations to know whether or not your logical/emotional ratio is balanced lol. We like to see/know that you can hold your own when it's time to be logical & also venture deep when it's time to put pride to the side & be emotional. We don't only watch for your reactions to things with us, we also watch how you deal with others b/c that tells us a lot
2. How loyal we are. If we see that you're always blowing off your friends/family for us or are always betraying the confidence of those closest to you, we'll be turned off. It's important that an Aquarian sees that you can be loyal to self, others & us at the same time.
3. How open-minded you are. You can do a lot, have a lot of fun with & have a longer-lasting relationship/friendship with someone who is open-minded. We're watching to see if your thinking is only 1-sided. If we feel that it is, we'll run like hell b/c there's no way we'd ever fully click/mess well if you don't know how to mentally compromise
Aquarians during breakup:
1. We'll act like you don't exist. We'll ignore you. We'll give you the cold-shoulder. Again, in the same way we don't treat an associate like we would our best friend, don't expect for us to treat you as an ex like an active partner, as we did when we were still in a relationship with you. When you're our lover, we act like it. When you're "just a friend," we act like it. When you're just another "ex," we treat you as such
2. We cry in the dark. If you hurt us deeply, we'll never let you see us sweat. We might cry ourselves to sleep every night, but you'd never know it! Once the relationship is over, we take back our right to stop giving others access to our emotions, good or bad, when they no longer deserve it.
3. We distance ourselves for awhile. Sometimes you never hear from us again & other times we come back like nothing happened. Oh trust me, we didn't forget & very much so know that it "happened," but if we'd decided to forgive & get over it, don't expect for us to approach you in the future as if we haven't actually forgiven you. If we have forgiven you AND still feel it's safe to continue investing in you, we will. However, if we don't feel it's safe or rational to, we either won't come back at all OR if we do, we'll make it clear up front that things will never be the same
1. We'll act like you don't exist. We'll ignore you. We'll give you the cold-shoulder. Again, in the same way we don't treat an associate like we would our best friend, don't expect for us to treat you as an ex like an active partner, as we did when we were still in a relationship with you. When you're our lover, we act like it. When you're "just a friend," we act like it. When you're just another "ex," we treat you as such
2. We cry in the dark. If you hurt us deeply, we'll never let you see us sweat. We might cry ourselves to sleep every night, but you'd never know it! Once the relationship is over, we take back our right to stop giving others access to our emotions, good or bad, when they no longer deserve it.
3. We distance ourselves for awhile. Sometimes you never hear from us again & other times we come back like nothing happened. Oh trust me, we didn't forget & very much so know that it "happened," but if we'd decided to forgive & get over it, don't expect for us to approach you in the future as if we haven't actually forgiven you. If we have forgiven you AND still feel it's safe to continue investing in you, we will. However, if we don't feel it's safe or rational to, we either won't come back at all OR if we do, we'll make it clear up front that things will never be the same
Posted by WaterCup
LOL, I love the space one, it's so true. Good thread, Krys 🙂
LOL thanx honeybunni!
Expect to be cut off IMMEDIATELY if:
1. You disrespect our loved ones/friends as a means of trying to hurt, attack me or get your point across.. Leave them out of it! When we love, we love hard, so if you plan on staying in our lives, respect those that we respect. If you have a good reason to be upset with someone we're close to, fine, but don't over-do it or throw low blows. In the same way we're fiercely protective & quickly will defend you, expect for us to be just as protective & defensive when someone tries attacking someone else who means just as much to us.
2. You cheat. It took a lot of time, effort & war for us to fall in love with you. If you willingly mess that up, understand that we'll "willingly" say GOODBYE!
3. You attempt to control me. We are not animals that you can train to be "good" or "obedient" like you want them us be. What you see is what you get. We're rebels. Asking me to do something is 1 thing, but telling me to do something is not gonna work lol No, we're not gonna tell you our every move. We know that REAL trust is about feeling just as confident in us when we're not in your sights just as much as you would when we're in your sights. We don't buckle under pressure or give in when someone is trying to control us; we'll just rebel & purposely go left when you told us to go right.
1. You disrespect our loved ones/friends as a means of trying to hurt, attack me or get your point across.. Leave them out of it! When we love, we love hard, so if you plan on staying in our lives, respect those that we respect. If you have a good reason to be upset with someone we're close to, fine, but don't over-do it or throw low blows. In the same way we're fiercely protective & quickly will defend you, expect for us to be just as protective & defensive when someone tries attacking someone else who means just as much to us.
2. You cheat. It took a lot of time, effort & war for us to fall in love with you. If you willingly mess that up, understand that we'll "willingly" say GOODBYE!
3. You attempt to control me. We are not animals that you can train to be "good" or "obedient" like you want them us be. What you see is what you get. We're rebels. Asking me to do something is 1 thing, but telling me to do something is not gonna work lol No, we're not gonna tell you our every move. We know that REAL trust is about feeling just as confident in us when we're not in your sights just as much as you would when we're in your sights. We don't buckle under pressure or give in when someone is trying to control us; we'll just rebel & purposely go left when you told us to go right.
Common misconceptions about Aquarians:
1. We're commitment-phobes. No we're not. We love & desire love just like everyone else does! If we don't commit to you, it's for a reason. Just b/c we like or even love you doesn't mean that we think you'd be a good long-term potential for us. Just b/c YOU think we're a good fit doesn't mean we're thinking the same thing. Love is not a race everyone who signs up for it, can win! I love my sister dearly, but we could never live together. I love my best friend Kevin dearly, but I could never be married to him. See my point?
2. We're too unemotional. In the beginning, maybe, yes this is true. But once we've made the decision to fully invest in you, we're all in! Once we truly love you, we're all over you like white on rice! Matter of fact, we can be so affectionate & emotional once we pick you that you may even be shocked at the 180 degree change in us! If you're not getting any emotions out of your Aquarian, it's b/c they're either not that into you, are emotionally unavailable (someone else still has their heart) or we haven't yet made the final decision to invest in you yet.
3. We're intellectual robots who can't loosen up or have some fun. Bull! Yes the person you see in the debating ring for hours with no tiredness in their voice is most likely an Aquarian, but the person dancing on top of the bar, drink in hand & with no shame is probably an Aquarian too! lol We have a wild side, honey!
1. We're commitment-phobes. No we're not. We love & desire love just like everyone else does! If we don't commit to you, it's for a reason. Just b/c we like or even love you doesn't mean that we think you'd be a good long-term potential for us. Just b/c YOU think we're a good fit doesn't mean we're thinking the same thing. Love is not a race everyone who signs up for it, can win! I love my sister dearly, but we could never live together. I love my best friend Kevin dearly, but I could never be married to him. See my point?
2. We're too unemotional. In the beginning, maybe, yes this is true. But once we've made the decision to fully invest in you, we're all in! Once we truly love you, we're all over you like white on rice! Matter of fact, we can be so affectionate & emotional once we pick you that you may even be shocked at the 180 degree change in us! If you're not getting any emotions out of your Aquarian, it's b/c they're either not that into you, are emotionally unavailable (someone else still has their heart) or we haven't yet made the final decision to invest in you yet.
3. We're intellectual robots who can't loosen up or have some fun. Bull! Yes the person you see in the debating ring for hours with no tiredness in their voice is most likely an Aquarian, but the person dancing on top of the bar, drink in hand & with no shame is probably an Aquarian too! lol We have a wild side, honey!
What it means when an Aquarius is.....
1. Being distant. Either you messed up, they're not that into you or they're going through something crazy (remember, we cry in the dark)
2. Suddenly opening up to you & telling you their personal business. It means we're starting to trust you & if we're starting to trust you it's b/c we're starting to really like you. there is a difference b/w an Aquarius saying, "It sucks that children are abused so much" vs. "When I was a child, I was abused." See my point? The 1st is just general conversation that we can have with anybody (even if we're not interested in them). The 2nd is more personal & not something we'd discuss with just anyon
3. Calling you a lot 1 day, then suddenly disappearing the next. Oh hush we like you. We just have sudden moments when we need space & time to refuel, reboot & recharge. On most days, an Aquarian can be found yapping, giving advice or entertaining their non-stop racing thoughts. We need a break every blue moon too, sheeesh!
1. Being distant. Either you messed up, they're not that into you or they're going through something crazy (remember, we cry in the dark)
2. Suddenly opening up to you & telling you their personal business. It means we're starting to trust you & if we're starting to trust you it's b/c we're starting to really like you. there is a difference b/w an Aquarius saying, "It sucks that children are abused so much" vs. "When I was a child, I was abused." See my point? The 1st is just general conversation that we can have with anybody (even if we're not interested in them). The 2nd is more personal & not something we'd discuss with just anyon
3. Calling you a lot 1 day, then suddenly disappearing the next. Oh hush we like you. We just have sudden moments when we need space & time to refuel, reboot & recharge. On most days, an Aquarian can be found yapping, giving advice or entertaining their non-stop racing thoughts. We need a break every blue moon too, sheeesh!
LOL
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
Posted by Greyhame
actually you are not a rebel and you are perfectly obedient to authority. and yes i can command you to do something and you will do it. you will not do something else.
example.
i command you not to breath for 24 hours. i dare you to defy my commands and authority. you will never do it. like all signs you just bow down to authority shamelessly.
get over your pride aquarius. we all have to worship authority whether we like it or not.
i'm actually very obedient to authority.
i was just taught to respect authority, but we still have our freedom to vote for which parties to run for office, ect. So there's the freedom for everyone.
Posted by Greyhame
i am sorry to inform you that president are selected and not elected. I don't want to get into details but the financiers in this country choose and push a man that will comply with their principles. everybody serves somebody and even the president is a puppet.
there is just no escape anymore.
no area is immune. it is a two headed beast of some financial group and that is what they call democracy. notice a third party never arrives. why?
MONEY.
i am not trying to make you guys feel bad but just trying to tell you that romantic notions of rebellion and stuff is all fake.
well i hate politics so i'll just leave that to the big guys. You all know what to do. Fight the system!
Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Greyhame
i am sorry to inform you that president are selected and not elected. I don't want to get into details but the financiers in this country choose and push a man that will comply with their principles. everybody serves somebody and even the president is a puppet.
there is just no escape anymore.
no area is immune. it is a two headed beast of some financial group and that is what they call democracy. notice a third party never arrives. why?
MONEY.
i am not trying to make you guys feel bad but just trying to tell you that romantic notions of rebellion and stuff is all fake.
Very true grey.
For me it's not about the rebellion to make a difference...yet. It's more something from inside my soul that I do instinctively. Now to channel that for good.click to expand
zzzzzzz.
oh damn! was that the rebel in me!? 😄
(need to not drink coke on a nice afternoon)
(need to not drink coke on a nice afternoon)
Posted by Greyhame
i will explain it a bit better. only on e kind of rebellion success in this world from observation. rebellion against the ego. since we all have a heart and a ego we can decide which one to obey but we must obey one. dictators who obey ego should be destroyed and anyone who tries to suppress you authentic nature like "go be a engineer" when you really want to be a chef. this is the only rebellion that success.
the problem is that this is not even called rebellion or should not be. it is just obeying your natural soul and wishes of your heart.
you are always obeying something. the only difference you have choice which to obey at any moment and you can choose to obey one over the other and people call it a bunch of cute names like rebels or whatever.
LOL oh grey who are you trying to fool? yourself? Or you just been brainwashed so much by "aquarius" astrologers? Live the way you want to live your life, and be a good person as much as you can. It's hard, i know it's hard when people don't see your views/or live the same way you do, but that's why we're all different.
Shoot. I need "We are the one" video huh?
that'll even put me to sleep right now. zzzzzz.
^^ listen i already know beforehand you and I don't jive, in philosophy in life and most things. Although you are or can appear really "sweet", just that i already can tell your philosophies are different. Even how you go about life, your life partners, ect and stuff. But hey, it's your life.
yeah i switched.
making /cooking food so if i eat and fill my belly i'm less cray. I'm happier and satisfied.
Posted by Greyhame
lisa you have gone crazy with coke. I suggest another dink.
yeah i switched.
making /cooking food so if i eat and fill my belly i'm less cray. I'm happier and satisfied.
krysrenee7 - you totally rock!!! Way to just put it ALL out there!!!
Posted by Greyhame
what are you guys doing today? It is another sunny day here in NJ. It has been getting slightly colder and that does annoy me a little.
So much for "We are the one, we are the children" vids.
Posted by feby16aqua
Fuck off Lisa. No one likes you. I don't give a fuck what you think about me or my "life philosophies or partners." Everyone makes fun of you and your hubbsters obsession. Just keep posting your bullshit about fluffies and candy apples. Don't talk to me or address me. Thanks in advance.
That has to be the rudest response I've ever seen you make feby damn lol!
it's aquarius moon today....no wonder.
anyway this is really good for women and men/relationships/love:
anyway this is really good for women and men/relationships/love:
this lady is really good, in my opinion, very common sense
Posted by tiziani
Well it's another krysrenee article I have to print off. Aquarius is the last remaining of the mohicans that I have yet to understand or grasp fully. I'll keep all of this in mind, thanks.
Although I didn't personally understand the point about communication. I like verbal communication, but I mostly like to interact with people I consider to be attractive and have grown into their looks. Some people wear themselves beautifully and with character. A few scars or the way someone smiles can tell you a lot more about them than they could ever explain about themselves in words. This is the most beautiful to me personally. Some people will call that shallow and it probably is but you know a little perception never hurt anyone when it lands at their doorstep.
"Believe half of what you see, none of what you hear... even if it's said by me" - Jay-Z
what if they are ugly looking? and big and huge? with a huge pot belly and stuff?
^^ youre so effing transparant.
it's gross.
it's gross.
I agree talk is cheap.
I'm not sure that what was said in this little thread was meant to convey we value verbal communication over communication via ones actions.
I'm not sure that what was said in this little thread was meant to convey we value verbal communication over communication via ones actions.
when my husband and i get into it....we get into DEEP conversations. Some days he wants his alone time, some days we are chatting up a storm.
And some days i just wanna chat about astro with like minds and somedays he likes to chat about his hobbies with his buddies.
And some days i just wanna chat about astro with like minds and somedays he likes to chat about his hobbies with his buddies.
krysrenee7 - yes that's so me. Can't find a point wrong with it. Going to have to find a way to subtly give this to all potential mates.
Posted by krysrenee7
The "DO NOT" list during sex with an Aquarian:
Do NOT:
4. Don't smother me with affection afterwards. A high-five or a few kisses and hugs afterwards is fine, but if you expect for me to be happy falling asleep with your entire sweaty body wrapped around me to the point of suffocation, you're mistaken!
Lol @ high five! The first time finished simultaneously, he wanted to high five! It threw me off at first. I was like "what are you doing? Oh, I get it... heck yeah!!!"
Posted by tizianiMy first Cancer girlfriend was naturally big in every sense. A big mismatch since I was a real beanpole back then, even more so than now. Anyway it was no problem, she was beautiful with some killer eyes. I get the impression she must have been bored since I spoke little, and often just preferred to lay there with her.
click to expand
I wasn't sure about sticking my nose into this conversation. I'm obviously not an aqua, but I'm going to comment on what you said anyway.
Verbal communication is great, however there is a kind of comfortable existence where you can just sit there in silence together and no one feels pressured to talk or feels like they have fill the empty silence with conversation. A relationship where you can be quiet together and don't have to always be talking is the best and most comfortable type of relationship there is.
I like this thread.
Amazing post!!! Being an aqua stellium, I'm like that to a T except for the physical appearance part. I can't get past physical attraction factor.
Posted by lisabethur8
LOL
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
There is NO such thing as one size fits all. Even the most seasoned astrologist's info on Aquarians or any sign won't be 100% correct, nor will everyone reading the "description" be able to relate
And yes, a lot of this came from my thoughts, but also from my experiences with other Aquarians.
Only an Aquarian can speak for Aquarians. I look at all these threads full of people who constantly have us all wrong, & since I am an Aquarian, I felt I'd offer my own insight into some things
I'd much rather read a thread about Aquarians from an actual Aquarian as opposed to someone whose not & is only getting their "info" from numbers/research which isn't 100% accurate either --->Hence the reason astrology can't necessarily be a proven science. No matter what the "description" says, everyone won't be able to relate
Just b/c you can't relate doesn't mean that others won't.
Posted by whiterebbit
krysrenee7 - yes that's so me. Can't find a point wrong with it. Going to have to find a way to subtly give this to all potential mates.
LOL hey I knew going in that every single Aquarian on earth wouldn't necessarily relate BUT I knew that some, even if just a few, would!!
And don't think I haven't thought about printing this out & taping it to my purse =)
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by lisabethur8
LOL
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
There is NO such thing as one size fits all. Even the most seasoned astrologist's info on Aquarians or any sign won't be 100% correct, nor will everyone reading the "description" be able to relate
And yes, a lot of this came from my thoughts, but also from my experiences with other Aquarians.
Only an Aquarian can speak for Aquarians. I look at all these threads full of people who constantly have us all wrong, & since I am an Aquarian, I felt I'd offer my own insight into some things
I'd much rather read a thread about Aquarians from an actual Aquarian as opposed to someone whose not & is only getting their "info" from numbers/research which isn't 100% accurate either --->Hence the reason astrology can't necessarily be a proven science. No matter what the "description" says, everyone won't be able to relate
Just b/c you can't relate doesn't mean that others won't.click to expand
Exactly! Sheesh.
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by lisabethur8
LOL
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
There is NO such thing as one size fits all. Even the most seasoned astrologist's info on Aquarians or any sign won't be 100% correct, nor will everyone reading the "description" be able to relate
And yes, a lot of this came from my thoughts, but also from my experiences with other Aquarians.
Only an Aquarian can speak for Aquarians. I look at all these threads full of people who constantly have us all wrong, & since I am an Aquarian, I felt I'd offer my own insight into some things
I'd much rather read a thread about Aquarians from an actual Aquarian as opposed to someone whose not & is only getting their "info" from numbers/research which isn't 100% accurate either --->Hence the reason astrology can't necessarily be a proven science. No matter what the "description" says, everyone won't be able to relate
Just b/c you can't relate doesn't mean that others won't.click to expand
Because LIKE attracts LIKE, which is why you are similar to those other "Aquarians"
And also,put a disclaimer on it because it should state clearly that it doesn't APPLY to everyone born on these months. It is offensive.
I dont even have that many friends in real life, just those two i mentioned, but my bff is the one i mention alot, and the other one is the aqua girl who is married to the scorpio man (Decan 2) Nov 5/6 i recall. I haven't spoken to her but she's very happy and very busy in her life. Other than that. No effing way...too many of you trying to "Control" other people in how they should live their life. Or presume our lives are similar to yours.
People come in here asking for advise and stuff and then when we tell them a way/advise they think or somehow believe we as a whole community are controlling their lives. Wtf? no one is controlling no one here. Just advise right? Some of our advices are not even similar. Because what...? Because we're different in how we are brought up and how our thought processes or how we are raised are.
People come in here asking for advise and stuff and then when we tell them a way/advise they think or somehow believe we as a whole community are controlling their lives. Wtf? no one is controlling no one here. Just advise right? Some of our advices are not even similar. Because what...? Because we're different in how we are brought up and how our thought processes or how we are raised are.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by krysrenee7Posted by lisabethur8
LOL
glad i inspired you, krys. Your thoughts come out fast and furious. Like alot of fire (your aries mars)
still, this handbook is coming out of your "head" and your "wants" and needs.
It allows no room for others to have their needs. Our partners should (some don't have the ability) FEEL out what we like, or intuit our needs and vice versa. Usually.
There is NO such thing as one size fits all. Even the most seasoned astrologist's info on Aquarians or any sign won't be 100% correct, nor will everyone reading the "description" be able to relate
And yes, a lot of this came from my thoughts, but also from my experiences with other Aquarians.
Only an Aquarian can speak for Aquarians. I look at all these threads full of people who constantly have us all wrong, & since I am an Aquarian, I felt I'd offer my own insight into some things
I'd much rather read a thread about Aquarians from an actual Aquarian as opposed to someone whose not & is only getting their "info" from numbers/research which isn't 100% accurate either --->Hence the reason astrology can't necessarily be a proven science. No matter what the "description" says, everyone won't be able to relate
Just b/c you can't relate doesn't mean that others won't.
Because LIKE attracts LIKE, which is why you are similar to those other "Aquarians"
And also,put a disclaimer on it because it should state clearly that it doesn't APPLY to everyone born on these months. It is offensive.click to expand
So far YOU are the only one that have disagreed. Even a non-aqua, truecap, have agreed with what's on this thread due to spending time with her aquarius boyfriend. So, what's the disclaimer for? For you? Come on, honey bunch, you're NOT that special, nor are you the moderator of this forum. You really are one annoying, controlling cunt.
PS, Krys didn't force anyone to take what's written here as gospel. You must be experiencing withdrawals, run along & go give your 'hubkins' a big kissy-kissy. LOL!
You can't help yourself huh? Thought you were gonna leave me alone....can't help yourself.
You're the one who is "Controlling".
I dont care how you live your life. But respect other people in how they want to live their lives.
From the beginning all you've ever done is spout about your nonsense with your UNSTABLE relationship but then I realize you are very 11th house to the max and LOVE that upheaval. (shrug) maybe maybe not, but we can only decipher that from what you tell us, and how you close all the threads. No big deal right?
This is a forum for us to vent and let out steam.
You're the one who is "Controlling".
I dont care how you live your life. But respect other people in how they want to live their lives.
From the beginning all you've ever done is spout about your nonsense with your UNSTABLE relationship but then I realize you are very 11th house to the max and LOVE that upheaval. (shrug) maybe maybe not, but we can only decipher that from what you tell us, and how you close all the threads. No big deal right?
This is a forum for us to vent and let out steam.
Posted by lisabethur8
You can't help yourself huh? Thought you were gonna leave me alone....can't help yourself.
You're the one who is "Controlling".
I dont care how you live your life. But respect other people in how they want to live their lives.
From the beginning all you've ever done is spout about your nonsense with your UNSTABLE relationship but then I realize you are very 11th house to the max and LOVE that upheaval. (shrug) maybe maybe not, but we can only decipher that from what you tell us, and how you close all the threads. No big deal right?
This is a forum for us to vent and let out steam.
From the beginning? Go to my posting history & check what my very 1st post was about..it was about something about being aquarius. I continued posting ONLY on this forum, the aqua forum for many more mnths before I ventured out to other parts of dxp & I've made a HANDFUL of threads about the relationship you're referring to & it was AFTER I got divorced..meaning, RECENTLY. So you're pulling the 'from the beginning' shit straight from your bowels, out your arse.
And yes, I couldn't help myself, somebody has to align your skewed arse straight. I appoint myself for the role, dummy.
And btw, hiding threads doesn't mean shit because people still remember what was on those closed threads. By closing threads it doesn't mean I'm hiding anything, it just means I got tired of the discussion & didn't want to be arsed about it- I moved on from whatever bothered me at the time I made those threads. You aren't the sharpest tool in the toolbox now are you? No wonder you can't relate to aqua stuff. LMAO. Dumbass!
lady i dont read all your stuff, to be very honest. I just dont. Most especially regarding your relationships. But i'm only going by what i've read from my limited perspective. And the few is very enough for me. Other than that, I dont care how you go about wanting to live your life, whether that's talking about your cray cray relationship with the guy of your dreams.
Posted by WaterCup
And btw, hiding threads doesn't mean shit because people still remember what was on those closed threads. By closing threads it doesn't mean I'm hiding anything, it just means I got tired of the discussion & didn't want to be arsed about it- I moved on from whatever bothered me at the time I made those threads. You aren't the sharpest tool in the toolbox now are you? No wonder you can't relate to aqua stuff. LMAO. Dumbass!
wow i never once called you stupid or dumb, EVER...never ever.
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