Aquarian men TORTURED by Cancer Female

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Cajunspirit on Thursday, February 26, 2009 and has 11 replies.
I am a Virgo who does what Virgos do best, analyse.
Now my girlfriend has an Aquarius friend, who is hung up like a damn fool over a Cancer girl. She was in a relationship and using him for sex, and evidently he fell for her.
Now for one of the smartest signs, I must say he is quite a fool to be the way he is. Suicidal and very much longing for her. He has problems accepting things for what they were and refuses to move on.
Now I don't know the girl, but I do have a Cancer female friend.
She too ended up in a relationship with an Aqua man, which I protested against.
She lamented all the way through the relationship and it eventually ended, to my glee.
She oft complained of how different they are and how they share little in common.
Now, recently, we have all been hanging out. The Aqua man is just like the first one I spoke of.
Hung up, desperate regain the affections of the Cancer woman.
It is only recently, I was around them when they were alone and I think I understand why Aqua guys get hung up.
My Crab girl was teasing the hell out of him.
Dropping pecks on his lips, sitting on his lap and letting him get really close.
Behind all the scenes she would not speak well of him behind his back and made it clear to me she has no intentions of going back to him!
I found this incredibly fascinating, I never knew Cancer girls were capable of this.
Alas, I wish to know if this is a common dilemma for the average Aquarian man?
Any encounters with Cancer girls?
I wouldn't say tortured, but holy shit, this girl at work was flirty as hell. Wouldn't give me church hugs, but the sensual ones. Would kiss me on the cheek with tongue and grab my dick and sh*t. But she had a boyfriend. I could smell the trouble on this girl from a world away, but the things she would do and make sexual jokes and stuff drove me up a wall got me hooked like a sucker. She broke up with her boyfriend one day (after they got in their x-th physical fight, they punch each other hard, I know this b*tch is crazy) and called me crying and such, so I hung out with her and sorta tried to cheer up (couldn't really, emotionally shit like this is so f*cking weird to me), but did nada, since the the slow pace is the pace to go for my Aquarian soul. Anyway a couple days I asked her out a couple time and she wouldn't do it at all, meanwhile admitting her boy was a total zero (fought all the time, got jealous, had no job). That was months ago. Still when I see her work, she'll be way flirty and whatnot and it's super hard not get twisted in her game, but it's been getting easier.
Damn, this turned out to be a real long rant. Anyway long story short, them Cancer bitches are crazy (generalizing of course smile ).
Hahahaha I no clue dxp censored your posts. Makes all the other posts make sense now.
Remove your filter under profile preferences.
They are crazy.

Cancer and aquarius always meet somehow, but its a no go in the long term.
Personally a tease is a tease with any sign...and men are men, who take the bait hook line and sinker.
I was in almost exactly the same situation. The cancer girl i were talking for about months and eventually ended up "gettin down" and i found out about a week later that she had a boyfriend . Every time they would fight she would run to me and talk to me about it and i listened and tried to help because i still wanted to be friends. She would always rub up on me, sit only lap, and talk about sexual stuff and we eventual got down again because i couldn't resist and then i would go to her house and see her boyfriend (all bad lol). I felt pretty guilty but im only a man and its so hard to resist. Looking back on the situation I just made it worse for myself because i got attached (this was over a 3-4 year period) and just recently she said she was done with that relationship and she wanted to get with me but i knew she was tryna play games so i just kind of ignored her and sure enough i was right.
Wow, an overwhelmingly positive response.
Fascinating.
I agree if you have alot of water in your sign then great and if the cancer has alot of air in there sign then who knows maybe.... but hey it didnt last for me.. but then again im still hooked and missing the person. cancerians and aqua's are as funny and crazy as each other funny habits and ways.... but some not all cancer are just way to emotional.. if u find one with loads of air.. then there just might be a chance!! good luck to them i hope it works out... nuthng like abit of romance xxx
^ lol - i think both signs are gluttons for the punishment they dish to each other... I mean, how hard is it to realise your differences and move on instead of both sides attempting to critique each other into something they're not?
'oh, you're cold, you're too emotional, too clingy, too detached, too blah...' no really Confused
but a stereotypical Cancer lady would have turned into absolute mush after their honeymoon and wedding
you're kidding me right? the cancer ladies i know have iron balls! the shrewdness is unbelieveable...
Cancer men and women are dangerous! Lol
I am a Cancer woman married to an Aquarius man. We have been together 7 years. From my experience, Cancers and Aquarians are drawn to each other because they look at the world in totally different ways and both signs find this fascinating. To make it work, both signs have to realize this and enjoy this part of the relationship. I had to let go of my "clingyness" and remember that Aquarians don't like being fenced in in any way. Also, I think that Aquarians love to be around joy and joyful people, and Cancer moodiness can really affect Aquarius at times. I think it is worth it though! I like being less moody and working to be happier at times! Plus, when I need space, my Aquarius is more than happy to let me be independent. I love all my Aquarius friends too! It is my favorite sign!