Aquarians Fall Hard

Posted by aquarius09
It takes a lot for me to surrender to Cupid in a relationship, but once I do, I fall hard!! Hard is an understatement. Prior to falling in love, I have a lot of inner conflicts as I'm always getting scared to get attached to someone and always questioning issues I have with my love interest. I even run, hide and have quite a lot of disappearance acts when I'm on the verge of coming to terms with my deep feelings for someone else. I guess it's the fear of handing the keys to the castle to someone else who would then have power over you since you'd be vulnerable to them. I absolute despise being vulnerable to someone.

Posted by Tornadoday16
But does it ever get to a point where it is not just purely logical. I mean, like when an aquarius is crying in front of me, how can I be sure that they are really as weak as they seem?

Posted by size zero superhero
In my observation/experience, Aquarians are prone to "fall hard" so to speak, though not in an exclusively romantic sense.
For instance, in blossoming friendships I've known Aquas to be observably intrigued with new figures in their social lives. I suspect this happens due to initial curiosity, first and foremost.
The challenge is STAYING on their radar. If one can accomplish this feat as a friend(...or more!)then you've proven to be a rare find.
(Furthermore, I view the above theory as being synonymous with most air signs; the same principle is equally applicable with Libras & Geminis IMO.)

Posted by Tornadoday16
@ Everyone.
And just know I really respect Aquarius as an energy and a lot of friends and family of mine are in this sign. It just is the case that a few of them have been breaking down lately. Their sadness just seems to be rushing out of them in this really pitiful way... Im wondering if the moon in Pisces may be causing it?

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by justagirl

Posted by size zero superhero
In my observation/experience, Aquarians are prone to "fall hard" so to speak, though not in an exclusively romantic sense.
For instance, in blossoming friendships I've known Aquas to be observably intrigued with new figures in their social lives. I suspect this happens due to initial curiosity, first and foremost.
The challenge is STAYING on their radar. If one can accomplish this feat as a friend(...or more!)then you've proven to be a rare find.
(Furthermore, I view the above theory as being synonymous with most air signs; the same principle is equally applicable with Libras & Geminis IMO.)

making sure I understand what you said-
Aqua's meet new people are intrigued and then grow bored? if I am wrong on what you meant disregard my next bit.

Sort of. More to the effect of, there's a temporary sense of excitement upon clicking with somebody you've recently met. Familiarity reveals whether said connection is substantial & stands the test of time or conversely, if the appeal was merely momentary.

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Posted by Tornadoday16
@ Everyone.
And just know I really respect Aquarius as an energy and a lot of friends and family of mine are in this sign. It just is the case that a few of them have been breaking down lately. Their sadness just seems to be rushing out of them in this really pitiful way... Im wondering if the moon in Pisces may be causing it?

Posted by sunnydiamond

I only become rattled when someone does something I wasn't expecting or don't have time to logically analyze.