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Mar 04, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 260 · Topics: 15
So my best friend is a Capricorn, and she thinks that it is ABSURD that I am still friends with any of my ex's, people I used to date, etc. I don't see the issue in it mainly because once I'm really done, I'm done for good.
I can understand her concern on the "what if's" if feelings develop again, or if I get in a new relationship. But for me, I don't see the issue. The ex's seem to take more issue with my cold, detached, but always cordial behavior than I ever do with anything they do or say. Also, I've always been upfront with anyone I date that I do have male friends of this nature, and it's never been an issue. I've actually became really good friends with a couple of ex's.
So am I a typical Aquarius in this way or is she right? Should I cut these people off out cold? I'm an Aqua Sun/Pisces moon. That may make a difference somewhere in there...
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Apr 27, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 152 · Topics: 15
I'm exactly the same!! I like being friends with them... when its over its totally over but I still like having them in my life... guess it is weird lol! People do say they cant believe how well I get on with my daughters dad who is a Leo. I never feel jealous when they start dating again.. always genuinely happy for them. I'm not sure why it happens but I can defo relate to what you have said lol!
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
I'm a cap and I'm friends with some of my exes. From YEARS ago.
*shrugs*
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Mar 04, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 260 · Topics: 15
All very interesting views. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has friends as ex's. But she's also very emotionally detached. Doesn't like to show emotions. At. All.
She also thinks I should cut people off the minute everything isn't perfect while dating too. Which we also don't agree with. Lol.
But I can relate to aquamermaid in holding grudges. I used to be really bad at that and plotting revenge. Not so much anymore. Just let karma take care of those bastards.
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Oct 08, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 6313 · Topics: 313
I have two exes one is like family to me the other is dust.
The one who is like family to me is a cancerian and he always talks nostalgically to me about our past relationships and I feel that he still wants me mainly because he invites me on holidays with him but I'm dead on the inside towards him....TBH I don't really see the point in us knowing each other anymore, sure when I'm around him I laugh and love being in his company but I want him to move on and get himself a BF....I don't think hes capable of being just friends with me.
That's interesting... my aquarius ex holds onto me. We clash and argue but he really wants me in his life. He annoys me so much sometimes, I try/attempt to cut him from my life and he changes from his 'laid-back, I dont care, aloof' attitude to this really caring and sweet guy that try's to reason with me to keep me in his life. Truth be told, I'm a scorpio and I still feel deeply for him.. the fact that he could just want me in his life as a permanent friend sucks, I don't usually keep my ex's around because I see no point in it. I do believe I'm the only ex he still has in his life... But yeah I don't know! :/
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Jan 23, 2014Comments: 124 · Posts: 843 · Topics: 79
I now see how having ex's in my life is just not beneficial for anything except conversation. We don't add anything to each other's lives anymore so they are better in that storybook you just don't open on the shelf anymore but simply just admire.