Aquarius and Manipulation

Hi All,

So many of you know that I had been dating an Aqua guy that I absolutely adored. Well we're no longer together because he left me for his pregnant ex GF. Since the breakup we had still chatted on and off a bit. Well last night when I called him, the ex GF picked up the phone...

WOW... Her and I had talked for about an hour or so. Found out many lies that he told her about me and visa versa. I never once suspected him lying about anything and I'm pretty good at recognizing dishonesty. Unfortunately the romance that he and I had was mostly a lie. He manipulated me and lied to me.

With that said, is deceitfulness, manipulation and dishonesty a common dark trait of Aquas?

Thank you,

Milani

hm I thought I read that readers said he was honest with you at least.

but try not to project so much of your failed relationship onto him, just because it didn't work.

he wasn't meant for you, and I read you are after the Taurus now.



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ohhh and if you're talking to the ex girlfriend....



you should trust him more than this woman.



I mean she could be making up anything. because she sees you as competition.



I wouldn't trust that.



also anyone could manipulate, but if you want to do that, go ahead. it's not going to get you a solid relationship.

It can be, or rather it's called "rule bending". Aquas follow their own rules. I've personally watched an Aqua lie to a group of people at once to save face. This person may have even believed the false realities she created for herself.

However I would blame this less on this sun sign and more on the simple fact that he's a dishonest person. Every sign can lie.

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi All,

So many of you know that I had been dating an Aqua guy that I absolutely adored. Well we're no longer together because he left me for his pregnant ex GF. Since the breakup we had still chatted on and off a bit. Well last night when I called him, the ex GF picked up the phone...

WOW... Her and I had talked for about an hour or so. Found out many lies that he told her about me and visa versa. I never once suspected him lying about anything and I'm pretty good at recognizing dishonesty. Unfortunately the romance that he and I had was mostly a lie. He manipulated me and lied to me.

With that said, is deceitfulness, manipulation and dishonesty a common dark trait of Aquas?

Thank you,

Milani

What are the chances that not only he but the ex GF is lying too?

Posted by Chuckcem
It can be, or rather it's called "rule bending". Aquas follow their own rules. I've personally watched an Aqua lie to a group of people at once to save face. This person may have even believed the false realities she created for herself.

However I would blame this less on this sun sign and more on the simple fact that he's a dishonest person. Every sign can lie.

hey didn't you write a HUGE text wall about her NOT being ready for a relationship here—



😕

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/taurus-men-how-to-ignight-the-flame-that-never-started--8248559/?p=2

Posted by Chuckcem
It can be, or rather it's called "rule bending". Aquas follow their own rules. I've personally watched an Aqua lie to a group of people at once to save face. This person may have even believed the false realities she created for herself.

However I would blame this less on this sun sign and more on the simple fact that he's a dishonest person. Every sign can lie.

You're right about every sign could lie. Someone mentioned in a post that Aquas know how to doing this 'bending' well which makes a relationship seem almost perfect, or that there is a magical connection between you two... I feel that's what he did. But was anything real??

Blah, moving on! I need to repair an issue I'm having with a Taurus guy I was talking to long before the Aqua guy. Taurus guy really wanted to date me, but I basically blew him off for the Aqua guy. And now my Taurus guy lost interest in dating me... Trying to repair the damage with him. The Aqua guy insisted that I basically cut off all other guys... I normally wouldn't have done that, but he was incredibly charming when he indirectly told me to do that.

and then you point fingers to aquarius, so it's kind of weird... it gives off negativity. I don't like it.

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oh never mind, I saw you said it depends on the individual kind of saying. lol

i'm sensitive.

Posted by MilaniKisses

Posted by Chuckcem
It can be, or rather it's called "rule bending". Aquas follow their own rules. I've personally watched an Aqua lie to a group of people at once to save face. This person may have even believed the false realities she created for herself.

However I would blame this less on this sun sign and more on the simple fact that he's a dishonest person. Every sign can lie.

You're right about every sign could lie. Someone mentioned in a post that Aquas know how to doing this 'bending' well which makes a relationship seem almost perfect, or that there is a magical connection between you two... I feel that's what he did. But was anything real??

Blah, moving on! I need to repair an issue I'm having with a Taurus guy I was talking to long before the Aqua guy. Taurus guy really wanted to date me, but I basically blew him off for the Aqua guy. And now my Taurus guy lost interest in dating me... Trying to repair the damage with him. The Aqua guy insisted that I basically cut off all other guys... I normally wouldn't have done that, but he was incredibly charming when he indirectly told me to do that.

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I wouldn't trust you with a deep relationship if I were the Taurus.



he told you INDIRECTLY?



no one has that kind of power. only YOU give him power.

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Posted by lisabethur8
hm I thought I read that readers said he was honest with you at least.

but try not to project so much of your failed relationship onto him, just because it didn't work.

he wasn't meant for you, and I read you are after the Taurus now.



edit



ohhh and if you're talking to the ex girlfriend....



you should trust him more than this woman.



I mean she could be making up anything. because she sees you as competition.



I wouldn't trust that.



also anyone could manipulate, but if you want to do that, go ahead. it's not going to get you a solid relationship.

I agree with lisabethur8. Why would you want to talk to the ex girlfriend? she's trying to get into your head. I dont' know the full context of your relationship, only what you have shared. He told you right off the bat with the text that he was going to spend the day with his ex. He told you before he did it. Remember yesterday? he yelled at you for calling him when he wanted to you call you instead? I think he was in damage control, and was trying to control the fallout. Stop talking to the ex. That is their issue and has nothing to do with you. If you truly love this guy and think that there could have been a future with you if this mess hadn't happened, then I suggest you back off. Go on with your life. Let them deal with their issues and be accountable for the decisions they've made. If in the future, he realizes that he absolutely cannot be with this woman, then let him come to you - allow him to make that realization. Because at this point, I don't see where you fit in this scenario. Good luck and take care.

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never talk to the ex....



it just complicates things.



ex is an ex.



and that guy probably was STILL in LOVE with the ex...and was trying to move on.



he didn't feel emotionally into you, if he's just so casually says, hey i'm going to see my ex and the baby momma.

honestly, he was NOT into you.

it's sad. and it's fucked up...

but you're a virgo...you got this.

and you're an earth sign...

so you know for a fact the Taurus don't got time for you.

Unless of course you want sex.



it will take DECADES for him to want a true commitment

because he will always think...."Im 2nd fiddle and i'm not good enough for her".

you know what? why waste time on the Taurus if its just sex??

and honestly the decades thing...I don't think he will ever GET over it....being 2nd choice is not a good thing.



his pride is hurt and it feels like a LIE if he went with you. only patheticness.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Chuckcem
It can be, or rather it's called "rule bending". Aquas follow their own rules. I've personally watched an Aqua lie to a group of people at once to save face. This person may have even believed the false realities she created for herself.

However I would blame this less on this sun sign and more on the simple fact that he's a dishonest person. Every sign can lie.

hey didn't you write a HUGE text wall about her NOT being ready for a relationship here—



😕

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/taurus-men-how-to-ignight-the-flame-that-never-started--8248559/?p=2

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Yep, just answering her question. I definitely think between The Aqua and the Taurus she should hold off dating for a bit and figure out what she wants.