Aquarius and Sarcasm.When and Why?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Ilovemyaqua on Wednesday, April 15, 2015 and has 4 replies.
When do you people become sarcastic and all? I know this aqua guy and I was confused if I liked him or not,told him earlier that I did,he developed feelings for me and proposed to me after about 2 yrs but soon I realised I didn't feel for him that strongly and told him the same via mail (we fought over feelings,my feelings,I was being over emo and he went on radio silence) that I was only infatuated, still am,but no relationship or love here.He contacted me after his birthday to thank me for the card and wishes and we began talking again.However,once when I told him I wasn't feeling connected recently and it was troubling me,he said he didn't feel connected either,no bonding,I didn't understand him and his non verbal talks,he tried to make things work but no result and that,we should end our friendship(our HUGE communication gap led to such problems) but that,wr may still talk over the phone.A month or so I felt really bad,he did call me up one day to wish me on a festival(he never calls on festivals) we had a normal conversation.However, for the past month I have been ignoring him (unconsciously) although he would stare and stuff.I called him one day,have been 2 weeks since we've been talking now.He talks sometimes normally and sometimes really nicely but taunts me on things(like-you change frequently,I don't-Connections drpends on people,you are solely responsible for how you make connections-you didn't love him much(on me not being over emo on one of my fav star's marriage Tongue) - I'll be able to spend the rest of my college life easily,don't know about you,etc) he'll be sarcastic on random things and taunt me out of the blue.once in a convo I told him he was important and he seemed surprised.also,once,I tried convincing him that things will be okay and he was actually listening carefully and understanding.However,no matter how good our convos are and no matter dor how many hours at a stretch we talk,he'll ignore me on other days.Yes,I have been aloof for quite a few months now but that is how he wants it right? Although occasionally,I do show him how important he is.Why is he being sarcastic? Is it his insecrities? Then why does he talk for so long? What is it?
Im always sarcastic...is that bad?
Also,he said I'm very analytical and he feels I'm not genuinely interested in him,I'm just curious to know how he thinks.
Posted by bkbella86
Im always sarcastic...is that bad?


I'm not saying its good or bad,I don't know WHY he has to be sarcastic? Is something troubling him that he can't put across directly? He was not always like this.It's just recently that he's being such.