I am an Aquarius female, and I’ve fallen hard for a Libra man. We started talking 5 months ago. Both of us had just recently been through breakups and we weren’t really looking for anything. We started talking and texting all the time. The chemistry was undeniable. And eventually we started spending time together. We saw each other regularly. We spent the night at each others houses, went on dates, checked in with each other regularly throughout the day. We had a really close relationship. But he withdrew and became wishy washy. Which made me withdraw as well. So I was either too distant or too available to him. He kept telling me he wasn’t ready for a relationship, and I made sure not to pressure him into one. Eventually we started talking less throughout the day and we would still see eachother, but he didn’t seem as interested in me. I think the only thing that kept it going was the sex. But because of his wishy washy attituded, we abruptly stopped communicating for 3 weeks. Until he broke the silence to tell me about a major life event. And we started talking again. However, he’s made it very clear that he’s only interested in a sexual relationship with me. A sort of “friends with benefits” situation because he’s still not ready for a relationship.. I said I would give it a try. BUT he still doesn’t seem very interested in me. It’s difficult to keep a conversation going, He’s still withdrawn, he doesn’t compliment me very often, and he seems to flirt with everything but me. But he insists that he’s very interested in me sexually. My question is, is this a lost cause? Does my Libra man take me seriously? Am I just a booty call to him now? Can I redeem myself, and make him more drawn to me like he used to be?
