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Nov 10, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 22
To all Aquarius',
i am curious if you have experienced a "healthy" deep love for another. Not just a caring love ... but a deep passionate, respectful love. Or, would you agree that Aquarius people are too cerebral to experience that?
yes im an aquarius and i have experienced deep deep love..mayb becuz my rising is scorpio but i do form attachmets to people...i also know how to cut people off and oftentimes...i wont look back....the future is pleasent if u believe it can be
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Right now, I am experiencing the kind of love that I, myself never thought was fully possible. We all claim to know what "love" is but we don't really know how many levels of love there are until we're at the next level.
Aquas love very hard, but even in their regular relationships, there's always a wall up somewhere (even if we don't know it). There's always a limit. And half of the time, how much love we put out depends on much love our partners are giving. Alot of Aquas aren't necessarily always looking for their partner's to do wrong, but then again, we always have that fear of being "fooled" or being abandoned. And even the most lovey-dovey Aqua will never hide from this fear when it's just them & themselves in the mirror.
But I think that DEEP love means that you are willing to put 100% in & not let that 1% fear in you to stop you from putting in even if the other person isn't. It's the ability to be completely self-less & be able to become your best through love even at it's worst, versus the regular leaving or distancing from love when it's at its worse. It's the ability to step out of your own body, out of your own beliefs for once & actually feel that you are one with the other person & that their believes, morals, opinions & actions (even if different than yours) are just as good as your own. And that's a very hard thing to do with Aquas b/c all of our lives, we have a way of thinking inside the realms of our own heads, our own intutions. We are very self-teaching. And when an Aqua experiences deep love (if that ever happens), it's the type of love that even suprises the Aqua, him/herself
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
"This is exactly true for where I'm at too. I always thought I'd wind up alone because thats how I've been happiest. But I'm in love with someone who is VERY different from anyone I've ever known so his actions are hard for me to understand and I don't get NEARLY as much back as I give...but it doesn't matter. It actually feels better for me to give than it always did to receive. Its not only beyond shocking...it almost seems like its out of this world or dimension or something."
Exactly. Deep love is the ability to love the other person "just because." The ability to love that person even harder when we normally would start to question whether we made the right decision in loving that person. It's the ability to come out of our own minds & personalities just for the sake of not being selfish & stubborn to & for our partners (normal people NEVER get this treatment or have this priveledge).
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Apr 28, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 219 · Topics: 15
Anyone is capable of a 'deep love' it just takes the right person to click and bring it out.
Are u kidding me? My mom's aqua. I doubt she ever loved someone truly. All she does is make connections with people that are beneficial for her and with whom she would look good. As for parents, aquas want their kids to represent them and that means that they will try from the very early childhood shape a kid to their wishes. They see people as other signs see handbags or shoes- to add some spice to their appearance and make people admire them more for that.
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Also, Amal's Asc is Gemini
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Aquas definitely do love deeply. As was said before, it depends very much on the partner. But I think, from what I've observed in myself and other aquas, the partner needs to really break down our walls, push us past that breaking point, to make us realize that we can allow ourselves to feel this deeply.
I am experiencing this kind of love at the moment (and have been for the past 1,5 years) and it completely swept me off my feet.
I have a Cap Venus, so that might be it too. I am not very lovey-dovey but I can truly say that what I look and strive for in life is real, deep, all-consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love.