Helz80
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Aquarius - Disappeared
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being over
Posted by Helz80Here is the problem. You gave him no chance to consider anything and assumed by yourself "it's over" if he didn't reply (presumably, immediately). You gave him an ultimatum. So, you may have killed any remaining intentions of his to move forward.
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being over
Ok but in my defence, 3 weeks come on!! The first 3 messages were very light hearted asking how he was. No essays. The last one was more in depth because I hadn't heard anything for 2 weeks! He could have been dead for all I knew. And it was a nice message. We left on a positive note too with him saying night. How could I have known 3 weeks of silence would follow.
Posted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.
Posted by -Flo-true, aqua women don't disappeared. but the men are doing it occasionally lolPosted by AerialViewNo it's not lol I never disappeared on my dudePosted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.click to expand
Posted by Koniuchaaif hes a aqua with cap influences, they don't disappeared. they just slow.Posted by AerialViewWell he also has Venus in Capricorn, so more serious when it comes to lovePosted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.click to expand
Posted by compyI love ultimatums lol I'd take the latter just to spite you- It leaves me no options other than choosing myself over you.Posted by Helz80Here is the problem. You gave him no chance to consider anything and assumed by yourself "it's over" if he didn't reply (presumably, immediately). You gave him an ultimatum. So, you may have killed any remaining intentions of his to move forward.
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being overclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88You are not an Aquarius.Posted by compyI love ultimatums lol I'd take the latter just to spite you- It leaves me no options other than choosing myself over you.Posted by Helz80Here is the problem. You gave him no chance to consider anything and assumed by yourself "it's over" if he didn't reply (presumably, immediately). You gave him an ultimatum. So, you may have killed any remaining intentions of his to move forward.
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being over
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Posted by compyYou are correct lol- But I still love ultimatums :pPosted by saggurl88You are not an Aquarius.Posted by compyI love ultimatums lol I'd take the latter just to spite you- It leaves me no options other than choosing myself over you.Posted by Helz80Here is the problem. You gave him no chance to consider anything and assumed by yourself "it's over" if he didn't reply (presumably, immediately). You gave him an ultimatum. So, you may have killed any remaining intentions of his to move forward.
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being over
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Posted by Koniuchaais he a stubborn lolPosted by AerialViewYes. Aqua with Leo moon and Scorpio Mars ?Posted by Koniuchaaif hes a aqua with cap influences, they don't disappeared. they just slow.Posted by AerialViewWell he also has Venus in Capricorn, so more serious when it comes to lovePosted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewIMAO. not everyone is like u 😉 jokes. Mine never dissapeared on me eithe. The maximum is 24 hours. if he is gone more than 2 says he's dead lol.Posted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewSounds like hard work!!! Leo moon drive me mad..Posted by Koniuchaais he a stubborn lolPosted by AerialViewYes. Aqua with Leo moon and Scorpio Mars ?Posted by Koniuchaaif hes a aqua with cap influences, they don't disappeared. they just slow.Posted by AerialViewWell he also has Venus in Capricorn, so more serious when it comes to lovePosted by Koniuchaalol that's odd
If they are truly in to you, they will not disappear. My brother is an Aquarius and never disappeared from his girlfriend.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by compyYou are correct lol- But I still love ultimatums :pPosted by saggurl88You are not an Aquarius.Posted by compyI love ultimatums lol I'd take the latter just to spite you- It leaves me no options other than choosing myself over you.Posted by Helz80Here is the problem. You gave him no chance to consider anything and assumed by yourself "it's over" if he didn't reply (presumably, immediately). You gave him an ultimatum. So, you may have killed any remaining intentions of his to move forward.
PS I also said at the end of the last message that if he didnt reply then I'd take that as it being over
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Being an Aqua I used to do this ultimatums thing a little bit in a more nice way. It doesn't work for Aqua hahaha. He actually sat me down n said how it won't work with him . His mother tried it. Sister tried it. Never worked. I did it in a more nicer way though.. so since then I don't do that thing. If there is a problem or I'm mad I go silence or message him directly of my needs n why I'm upset.. so he called me a few time to touch things up. ( if they know they r at faults) if they care they will make it up to u if they know they upset u... if that don't care they just dissapear lol... ><
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2nd house in Aquarius
4th house in Aries
5th house in Taurs
6th house in Gemini
7th house in Gemini
8th house in Leo
9th house in Virgo
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Moon Aquarius
Venus Aries
Mercury Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Saturn Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Uranus Capricorn
Jupiter Aries
Him:
Sun Gemini
Moon Aquarius
Venus Taurus
Mercury Taurus
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