Aquarius ex shows up to my door unannounced

Dated an Aquarius woman for a year. Was her longest relationship. We haven't talked in nearly a month. All of a sudden she shows up to my apartment unannounced at 2am. Called me 20 times and texted me saying she loved me and missed me. Wtf? She obviously still has feelings I just don't know what to make of it, considering Aquarius are typically known to cut their exes off very quickly.

Any input from anyone??

why did you broke up? do you love her?

what is her moon and venus?

and yours?

lol she's an aqua sun, virgo moon, sag venus

im a scorpio sun, taurus moon, scorp venus.

i left her in april saying that i needed some time alone to work on myself. stated that i just needed a little break from us.

im 26 and she is 25 and yes i love her a lot. she tells me she doesn't want to be together and i respect that but i feel as though her actions say otherwise...

i don't know anymore

Aw how sweet. She really cares.

Posted by Tivbsk
Dated an Aquarius woman for a year. Was her longest relationship. We haven't talked in nearly a month. All of a sudden she shows up to my apartment unannounced at 2am. Called me 20 times and texted me saying she loved me and missed me. Wtf? She obviously still has feelings I just don't know what to make of it, considering Aquarius are typically known to cut their exes off very quickly.

Any input from anyone??

Would YOU ever do that to someone?

You did not break up in front of her eyes. You told her you needed some time for yourself, which Aquarius is perfectly fine with giving space. You said you want "a little break". You expected her to treat this like a break-up, as you intended it to be, but she didn't. She took your words literally. So, next time, be more specific. She fell for you. There's no confusion in that.

I bet you would never do that to someone ...ask yourself why....cuz it's weird ..because it could hurt you...then you will understand her....she is a weird bi polar bitch.

My take. She had sex with someone. Extremely dissapointed.. coz she missed u more so she turned around and is going to do whatever it takes to get back together with you. She can't handle the silence anymore... ( trust me I know) though turning up at someone's house unannounced is crazy. I thought Aqua knows better. Though if it's a guy I love I wud want him at my door step lol it's a little sexy but if it's not... he better stay the hell away lol... if u love her why r u hurting her. You r mean and you don't even know what love truly is. It's just sad

Sag venus always run back to ex's thats the i need space but come back when im ready.



Aquarius Sun really never means Sh#% in women only true in men. Each one women aqua I've delt with i go by moon and venus only.

With guys is Sun and Mars.

My wife is a aqua but she acts like a Cap when we converse but Pisces the way she unconditionally love's. And trust me I've been a jurk big times some times.

She may just want some Dick. Women now are more in touch with their wants. Pussy stock is down, dick stock is up take full advantage.

Why is it ok on dxpnet to say

DICK but Not PUSSY

Pussy

Fuck pussy

Pussy

?

P.u.s.s.y

this is why I'm confused. about three weeks after we broke up i told her i still wanted to be with her and she turned me away. then she pulls this shit and tells me she loves me and misses me but wont be with me lol. so now I'm kind of thinking i should run the other way.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Why do people say they love someone yet turn the person they love away

Ppl are so weird

Don't you know how rare love is

yet crabs do this when they do "shell time" perhaps they don't realise it gives the same message to others...

shell time, me time, take a break. it's all the same if you ask me.

Posted by compy
You did not break up in front of her eyes. You told her you needed some time for yourself, which Aquarius is perfectly fine with giving space. You said you want "a little break". You expected her to treat this like a break-up, as you intended it to be, but she didn't. She took your words literally. So, next time, be more specific. She fell for you. There's no confusion in that.

yup

Posted by Tivbsk
this is why I'm confused. about three weeks after we broke up i told her i still wanted to be with her and she turned me away. then she pulls this shit and tells me she loves me and misses me but wont be with me lol. so now I'm kind of thinking i should run the other way.

let me see if i understand what happened... you guys where together for a year? then you tell her you need a break, from her, the relationship, come back 3 weeks later and say you want to be with her? Did you blindside her with the ending things?

She was most likely hurt and couldn't handle it when you came back 3 weeks later, she put her walls up and pushed away. Us aquas can be a pain in the ass, especially when it comes to matters of the heart, we protect it at all costs, or think we do, yet it's all bs, as it will still get hurt even when we try to surround it with those walls. The push away was a way for her to protect herself from the other shoe dropping....

she showed up at your door because she is overwhelemd with her feelings imo. You guys sound like you need to communicate and get on the same page. don't do the tit for tat shit, it will get both of you nothing but pain.

Everything @Flo @Compy @Justagirl says. If you run the other way make sure that's what you want for sure. You hurt her the first time you said you needed a break.... she didn't accept you back right away rightfully so imo because the pain was still there. But she's still very much in love so she showed up st your door and boy she must be in some kind of love because it would take an act of God himself to have me at your door unannounced. If you want her back... go after her. But if you don't... leave her be for good. But if you decide to "run the other direction" just know she won't give you any more chances to hurt her. It's hard enough for us to show our feeling anyway nevertheless to continue hurting us.

Posted by Wineaux15
Everything @Flo @Compy @Justagirl says. If you run the other way make sure that's what you want for sure. You hurt her the first time you said you needed a break.... she didn't accept you back right away rightfully so imo because the pain was still there. But she's still very much in love so she showed up st your door and boy she must be in some kind of love because it would take an act of God himself to have me at your door unannounced. If you want her back... go after her. But if you don't... leave her be for good. But if you decide to "run the other direction" just know she won't give you any more chances to hurt her. It's hard enough for us to show our feeling anyway nevertheless to continue hurting us.

Well I guess I'm unsure as to how I should go after her again. All she does is push me away when I try to even talk to her. Doesn't respond for days at a time and all of that. I want to be with her but I feel like I'd be better off waiting for her to get back to me instead of pursuing her?

Posted by Tivbsk

Posted by Wineaux15
Everything @Flo @Compy @Justagirl says. If you run the other way make sure that's what you want for sure. You hurt her the first time you said you needed a break.... she didn't accept you back right away rightfully so imo because the pain was still there. But she's still very much in love so she showed up st your door and boy she must be in some kind of love because it would take an act of God himself to have me at your door unannounced. If you want her back... go after her. But if you don't... leave her be for good. But if you decide to "run the other direction" just know she won't give you any more chances to hurt her. It's hard enough for us to show our feeling anyway nevertheless to continue hurting us.

Well I guess I'm unsure as to how I should go after her again. All she does is push me away when I try to even talk to her. Doesn't respond for days at a time and all of that. I want to be with her but I feel like I'd be better off waiting for her to get back to me instead of pursuing her?

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Welp that won't work! You guys will continue playing tit for tat. This is such an Aqua/ Scorp issue. Go back to her as a friend. Build a genuine and sincere friendship with her. Don't say you just want to be friends, but I'm talking about your actions. Aquas go more on your action than what you say. She may feel just as you do that one minute you act as if you want her and the next you act as if you don't want her. Maybe she's mirroring you. But if you take the implication of just wanting a sexual or committed relationship and just get to know her again then feelings and consistency may resurface. One thing I've noticed is we will do the push/ pull thing with mates sometimes but never with our friends as friendships are important to us. Once you build that friendship muscle and you're consistent in being around each other she will make it sincerely clear on what direction she wants to take the relationship.

^^^

This is literally how it's been going. I'll try to do this. Hopefully it isn't too late

Posted by Tivbsk
^^^

This is literally how it's been going. I'll try to do this. Hopefully it isn't too late

I hope it all works out for you.