I've been in a long distance relationship with a scorp man for nearly a year. We talk/ text all day and we've seen each other quite a bit also. The problem is I love him and believes he feels the same. I won't be the first to confess such love. My best friend advises me I'm in for the ride of my life with this man. Is the aquarius/scorp combination always bad? So far he's not jealous or possessive. He's definitely hot/cold occasionally.
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Jan 08, 2013Comments: 2 · Posts: 689 · Topics: 53
I've heard sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt work.. if you both make each other happy and understand eachother, then its heading the right way. All the best x
Thanks Angel. I'm normally pretty cautious but ready for what fate has dealt me.
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
You 2 are only on cloud 9 to begin with b/c you both were unwilling to hold back at some point.The momentum will slow down tremendously if you hold back & make it obvious that you're holding back. There's so many ways a person's imagination can perceive your holding back to be a bad thing or a reflection of how you feel (or don't feel) about them. It just leads to unnecessary confusion & questioning of things that could've been nipped right in the bud had you both just spit it out & said how you felt. Don't make your pride issues or insecurities their problem.
Vulnerability & the courage to not hold back makes for a beautiful pairing, regardless of sun signs.
If you love him, tell him. Don't hold back. Don't allow your insecurities, fears of rejection or pride/ego control your moves with him. Trust me, the minute he starts doing that to you, you'll notice. And the connection won't feel as natural or as authentic.
Many people spend their entire lives looking for the kind of connection with someone that you have found with your Scorpio. So be grateful & give it all you've got. He deserves that. No need to sign up for mind games, holding back or an unwillingness to be vulnerable & take risks. That kind of fear of vulnerability, if not acknowledged or dealt with, shows up later in the relationship in some way, hence the reason they say pride can kill you & anything that it touches
Relax. Let go & give him what he's earning. Communication is important. And the true meaning of communication isn't in the quantity of how often you talk. It's about the quality of your interactions. Sometimes 2 people are both stubborn or too prideful & it's cute and all at 1st, until situations like this arise & end up messing up the natural flow of how love is supposed to play out.
You both can't be prideful lol One of you will have to go 1st. If he's as great as you say he is, then what is there to lose?! If your gut is telling you that he feels the same way & that he's genuine, why would you pick this rare experience as the time you hold back?! Don't hold back. Don't do that.
That's pretty profound Krys and you're right. Maybe I'm old school in that he'll have to tell me first. If the moment is right, I'll let me guard down and do exactly as you said.