Posted by justagirlYou just described exactly how i feel..
Because once we let them in, they see the real us, so we don't do it that often and/or if ever. So if it falls apart, it takes a piece of us away, so we protect that part and hang onto the memories so we still have those pieces ( in a wierd way). Not healthy by any means at all.
my 2 cents
Just don't glamorize the ex or the relationship, that is when you start really clinging to those feelings and make it even worse.
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