Aquarius girlfriend staying mad at me, says she won't call anymore.

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Praisee on Saturday, January 19, 2019 and has 32 replies.
I'm in a long distance relationship with my Aquarian girlfriend for one year now. We last saw each other 2weeks ago.


Yesterday at night, she called me and I didn't pick up the phone. I later called back, we talked normally, then she raised the issue of her needing a new phone, I should add up some money for her. I told her I Will, let me get paid by the end of the month, she later asked why is it that every time she asks for significant money, I won't give it to her, like the last she asked me to pay up for part of her school fees, I already told her I didn't have at that point.


So for her to ask me again last night, I didn't have answers for her again, I told her let's chat on WhatsApp. That Was when the problem started.


She said she won't ever call me again, that we should be chatting only. She dropped the call. I called back, she kept dropping the calls till I sent her a text if she could come online.


She came online, I told her I didn't have enough airtime to call, that I didn't want the little I had to finish on her. She got angrier, saying it's because she is not important to me, that is why I didn't want my airtime to finish on her. She stopped chatting again.


Today, I've tried apologizing a lot, she hardly chats again with me, she only picks up my calls after it rings for a the fifth time again, and still insists she won't ever call me again.


How do I manage this situation. I'm afraid of losing her. I really love her.


I'm an Aquarian too.
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How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.
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Posted by Mariposa_

Golddigger.


Why is it your obligation to pay for her things? That would make me suspicious.

she's a student, so I thought maybe since I'm her boyfriend, I may be inclined to help if I have.


I don't know how to manage her decision of saying she won't call me anymore.
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Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
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Posted by Gemitati

How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.

pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
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Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by Gemitati

How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.

pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
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You should find your balls and dump the bitch! Gawd! You are not a man and she doesn’t respect you nor care for you. Bitch and a wussy! Classic combo. She is disqusting! And you are in love with her? Whatever...
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Why the fuck are you apologizing?


You're not a fucking atm. You aren't her dad. She's acting like a spoiled entitled brat, and you're over here enabling her tantrums of silent treatment and temporary blocking.
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Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.


But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by VenusAquarius

Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.


But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.
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It's a game. Her game... specially tailored for him. Childish cause he wanna be daddy.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.
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I should give her space?
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by VenusAquarius

Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.


But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.
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sorry for asking, you think the tantrum for her saying she won't ever call me again is my inability to pay up for her phone?


Or just because I felt we should chat rather than talk on phone at that moment?
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.

I should give her space?
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Not really... just act like it never happened. Send a gift you can afford if it makes you feel better.

But, she the type to maybe have others. So watch her. Don't say nothing but, see how she gets money. Prepare your heart.


You'll get there one day.
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Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?


It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?

yes I wish I could pay. I told her when I'm paid my wages, I'll send her cash. Then I wanted us to continue the discussion on WhatsApp chatting, that was when she got annoyed that she won't ever call me again.


So I don't know if I should keep calling her to apologize, or just leave her to her decision. I love her very much
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?


It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.

yes I feel this way too, because she said maybe I don't think she is important enough for my airtime to finish on her. Maybe I said the wrong thing at that time.


I don't know how to resolve it. I really want to
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.

I should give her space?
Not really... just act like it never happened. Send a gift you can afford if it makes you feel better.

But, she the type to maybe have others. So watch her. Don't say nothing but, see how she gets money. Prepare your heart.


You'll get there one day.
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I feel she has another. Because sometimes, if she asks for a little cash, and I delay in giving her, she will say I shouldn't be bothered much that she got it somehow.
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by pisceswoman123

Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?


It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.

yes I feel this way too, because she said maybe I don't think she is important enough for my airtime to finish on her. Maybe I said the wrong thing at that time.


I don't know how to resolve it. I really want to
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Yes maybe started because you didn’t pick up when she called first so it all escalated.


I would give her a tiny bit of time to calm down and then chat with her if that is what she prefer right now. Then you can make her feel appreciated from there and hopefully soon everything goes back to normal.
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by VenusAquarius

Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.


I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)


Everybody ain't the same.


He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.


@Praisee,


You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.


But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.

sorry for asking, you think the tantrum for her saying she won't ever call me again is my inability to pay up for her phone?


Or just because I felt we should chat rather than talk on phone at that moment?
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I think she is "punishing" you for not paying for the phone now.
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Posted by Antiochus

Just do your own thing for a while while she does for hersel whatever she has to do.

Aqua women during their younger years have a tendeny to act plain crazy at times.

she is 22. Im 28
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by Gemitati

How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.

pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
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Let her go love she doesn’t see any value in you except for in your pockets because why would she do that and why was she tried to emotionally manipulate you by stonewalling you. I don’t care if she was upset about her phone or whatever else you don’t threaten to stop talking to someone you’re long-distance with. I’ve been in two long-distance relationships one was 3 year and the other was going on 6 off and on and it’s very important to keep communication. Very important to check in with each other not all the time but there can’t be this stonewalling it creates a bigger issue later and puts a crack in the trust factor.
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?


It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.
Whaaat? She is obnoxiously extracting money from him!

If gifts mean that you are important...sorry! She is OUT!
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Praisee

Posted by VenusAquarius

Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.


She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.


what do you think I should do here? 


Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.


Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.

I should give her space?
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You should give her good bye!
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Posted by Impulsv

Red flags she is using you

Who the fuck asks for money

Guys I can’t believe your so easily used
I can see in a few she is asking him to make a video using that phone when she is fucking another man! Or a few...and he is apologizing after for not making her look prettier than she is and giving him ultimatum. Another gift or time out for a month!

And he will apologize for making her unhappy! Shiiiiiit!
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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by Mariposa_

This is why I don’t give advice, I feel I’m too harsh sometimes.
I agree with you!
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Be harsh and than apologize and send him money for the phone so he can be happily waiting for another demand!
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Posted by Praisee

Posted by Antiochus

Just do your own thing for a while while she does for hersel whatever she has to do.

Aqua women during their younger years have a tendeny to act plain crazy at times.

she is 22. Im 28
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28? What? Months old?
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@Praisee hope it's not too late for this piece of advice. I see that in your relationship she's all over you and you're a little overwhelmed now. A man should be independent and carefree, let his woman follows him not the other way around. Anyhow, I know that it's tempting to help the one you love at their low stage in life, but what happens in the near future? It's like a habit, and giving money to help...will it end sometimes? The fact that many saw this as a tantrum is because of the problem is so small, and unworthy to have a fight at all. So what you should do now probably give her space, and do not blame herself, or being too eager around her. Just because you're in a long distance rship it doesn't mean you become dependent to her and supply every one of her demands. I like to see a woman supplying her own demands because it proves her independence, and emotionally prepared for the worst to come because this thing you have here is not that big of a deal comparing to all real fights couples have out there. One day, if the problem isn't you, and she's incapable to be strong as she should be, you would be the one to take the fall. She's been your soulmate and helping you getting better, but you need to know that time changes, people change, and sometimes maybe there is something wrong in her time overseas and she finds every other excuse to vent it somehow. Give her time, slowly talk to her asking about her well-being.
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Hate to say this, but it’s seems like she’s trying to find a way to break up with you. It could be silly af like you spilling milk. Let her go, she’ll come back because you’re nice and there’s not a lot of nice men out there. But I wouldn’t give her another chance if I were you.
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@Praisee


what is the backstory? its hard to say just from what you said, what is the deal. How you two met? why it is long distance? how the giving money came up initially? was it from the beginning? how often you two meet in person?

is this some cultural thing with you paying for things?


I think a little history of you two would clear the things

I wanted to see if there is a backstory (given you are both Aquas, I was interested), but no backstory, just a story about a Libra girlfriend from 2 years ago, when you was advised to get your balls back.... where the Libra girlfriend demanded you buy food for her and her sisters...... so, is this a pattern?


how it comes girls are demanding you to pay for things? it is a part of an initial agreement? it is cultural where it is expected of you?
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Stop sending her money.. and If she doesnt stay with you... you know why she was with you....


Im going to edit this : Most of the aquarian women I know (including myself here ) we are very independent, Im very proud to say I have never ask a man for $ . If I dont have $ I always figure something out to get it by myself. And I will never push someone to go crazy to cover my expenses. Especially my Significant Other.


It seems, even if you guys agreed, that she is more interested on her financial situation than her love or your love for her. And on top of everything she is lying to you and acting shady. by only wanting to chat and not to talk over the phone.


She is using you as her ATM. I will just stop sending her money all together, I tell her im in a bad financial situation right now and you wont be able to help her for a couple of months, if she really loves you she will understand.! if not... again, you know why she keeps you around. Good Luck!

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