Aquarius Guy Driving me NUTS!

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by sakesumo on Monday, November 19, 2007 and has 10 replies.
Hello,
So I've read all about Aquarius men and understand they need their space...but I have been seeing someone, wait I take that back, in his Aquarius mind we're seeing eachother, but personally, I am a libra and I would not consider this guy to be "seeing" me, considering, we don't EVER talk on the phone unless it is to make plans, he never texts me...and over the last 3 weeks, we have seen eachother 3 times, and hooked up twice...but I have still not heard back from this guy. I just don't get it, he totally pursued me, and now, for no apparent reason has stopped calling me altogether!! Is he just scared? I am not one of those girls who wants all of his time, I already did all my research on this sign, and thought I knew what I was getting into...but apparently, these aqua's are a whole different ball game! Does anyone have any input, we work together and will definitely run into to eachother every Sunday, am I supposed to act cold to him? I know they don't like games, but he hooked up with me and hasn't called in over a week...don't these aqua's need to learn their lesson? Ugh! I was the last to call, I feel it is his turn, if I have a conversation with him about this, would I lose all chances with him? It just doesn't seem fair to let someone walk all over you, without giving them a chance to change or address it. Or is this just one of those aqua tests I keep hearing about? To see how angry I become, or how I react to his not calling? Please Help!
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Also, About the Aquarius man, I saw him at work last week adn gave him a movie that I thought he would find to be hilarious, it was called "just friends"...I didn't mean anything by it, could it be possible that he thinks I was suggesting I only wanted to be his friend and not his "gf"?
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dont waste your time, as for me im not into libra girls..
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I appreciate your comments...yes maybe I do need to take a chill pill...but I really don't think the hooking up has anything to do with this aqua. male distancing himself from me, he is the sweetest guy, everybody we work with loves him and has not one thing bad to say about him, accept that he has a hard time keeping relationships...he's really into his own thing...but we were talking for 3 weeks, and then all of a sudden, no communication, and believe me, he is not talking to other girls, he's kind of nerdy in a sweet way. I just hoped to get an oppinion on whether or not I should be calling him, knowing that he is an aquarian, should I call to let him know I'm interested in speaking with him more often, or should I just let him make the move...
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UC, I haven't heard from him in ten days...and in my world, that is a considerable amount of time not to hear from someone, especially when we saw eachother once a week for about a month before then. The last meeting, I was at work with him...and I guess I did change up the normal routine..I had spent the evening with him having fun and going out two nights before, and normally, on a Sunday evening, after work I stick around for a drink (he's a bartender, I work at his family's restaurant)....but the last time I saw him, I didn't really go out of my way to stay...i told him I was tired, it's not like he asked me to stay for a drink..but I may have come off a little cold to him, not intentionally, I just didn't want to sit around and chat that day...was very tired. I did give him a movie that we had talked about to borrow, called "Just Friends" and said it was really funny and he shoudl watch it...I wished him good luck on his paper that was due the following day...and took off a little abruptly, but I don't think I was mean or trying to be distant...it is possible he felt I was slightly distant...I want to call him, I haven't contacted him at all since I saw him last...I just keep thinking maybe I did something to offend him, things seemed to be going in the right direction...Now I don't know whether to address any of this or how I'm feeling to him when he calls, or when I see him next at work..ugh
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im an aqua and if im not calling the girl is because i dont miss her, and dont worry, he will call if he misses you. keep calling until you get the sign that he's not interested. You were the last person to call? he knows is his turn, he is not playin hard to get. The only reason he is not is because he is not really into you. If you really like him, tell him straight up, but dont ask him how he feels. he probably wont tell you the truth not to hurt you.

ps. we get attached really easy. if he liked your company he will make the first move to hang out.
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Say goodbye to him.. he;ll come to u whenever he feels horny.. just WAIT lol
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JustanAquaguy, interesting that say he'll call when he's horny...because my guy did finally call the other night, after I ran into him at work. We acted totally normal and didn't bring up anything serious, until the END of the night...he kissed me, but didn't ask me to stay over (this was a first)...but right before I left his house, we had a discussion as to how I was slightly disappointed I hadn't heard from him in almost two weeks, he was very honest and told me he didn't call becuase I he didn't know what he wanted..he said he was totally confused between work and school that he didn't know where to fit anything in! I thought this was curious, because he was the one who initated our first couple of dates...but whatever, he's a guy, and an aquarian guy...so I basically told him I wasn't trying to pressure him, that he was thinking too hard about everything..and that I was cool being casual friends (hook up buddies) but as long as he was respectful of me and called me to make concrete plans. I do want to get to know this guy, but I realize he gets completely freaked out with the thought of Dating...so we had some realllllly good s...x that night...well, technically he knows its his turn to call, and according to our Deal, he would call...but, I was hoping you could give your opinion on this, I want to send him some kinky lingerie, and a funny card just as a joke...well, not only a joke...but I have this feeling he is definitely into kinky stuff, but that he just hasn't been exposed to it much...I am planning on mailing it out tomorrow to his home, I saw him at work on Sunday, and Friday night (the day after thanksgiving) is when we hooked up last...do you think this is too forward of me? THe truth of the matter is, I'm hoping we can get to know eachother, without the pressure of a "relationship" because I know that thought scares him, and if things go good from there...that's cool..but are aquarian men turned off to these kind of relationships...the hook up kind that is? SHould I wait until I hear from him next before I send out the lingerie...
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Hotlovinggirl, that is great advice...thank you. You're right...We started off having great conversations...and I miss that. It gets very complicated when incorporating the sex stuff...and as much as I do like that aspect of this relationship...it will not win him over...no chance. We need to have meaningful talks again, I just hope he does follow through with calling, so that we get that chance. I hope he doesn't think I'm ALL about sex after our last conversation...I think I made it clear that I wanted to be friends, but didn't want to stress about all the other stuff....More than anything, I want to get into this guys head, he seems so interesting and I think we both have a lot to offer eaachother besides physical attractiveness. I just hope he still wants to get to know me, and isn't too freaked out. Too bad I have a bag full of Victoria's Secret just waiting to be played with!!! ugh!
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Good Point UC...you're absolutely right...! By the way, you ladies seem to really know what you're talking about...are you professionals or something!?
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