Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
Posted by pinkbird03It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.click to expand
Posted by GemgyalDo you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.Posted by pinkbird03It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?click to expand
Posted by GemgyalIt’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by GemgyalHe breached a contract!Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I don't feel bad I got upset, i Just think I could've reacted a little bettter, I just feel bad because we have a great connection and it's sad to see this happen. This is our first fight and the first time also that he has ignored me like this.. that's why I'm contemplating on talking to him..Posted by GemgyalDo you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.Posted by pinkbird03It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?click to expand
Posted by AntiphatesThanks. But its so hard
Waiting is the only thing you really can do.
Posted by pinkbird03I know. It's not about the commitment. It's about honesty. We agreed to be honest about everything and he lied that really dissapointed me. He is also very possessive over me he doesn't like me talking or dating other guys. I still do lol... but still I really don't like fights and just want everything to be great. But I guess I will just have to wait..Posted by GemgyalIt’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI really get what u are saying.. This is how I always am. But with him I just dont know we have such great connection and it hurts me to see it end.Posted by GemgyalHe breached a contract!Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
He has to go. If you are a Gemini in full force you wouldn’t take this shit from anybody.
If he didn’t mean it he shouldn’t had said he is ok being exclusive. POS! 👿click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by GemgyalDo you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.Posted by pinkbird03It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?click to expand
Posted by ladylibra21I get what you're saying.. I just feel I could've reacted a bit different. I really was mean and that's the only thing I really want to apologize for. It doesnt sit well with me.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by GemgyalDo you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.Posted by pinkbird03It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
Co-signing this especially because you don’t want him to get into the habit of you apologizing for fights he started because once he gets used to that he’ll never ever be sorry for anything.click to expand
Posted by LethalFantasia......followed by "btw I'm pregnant, the baby is yours and is due in November, so could be a devil child" 😈
Lmfao if you want to troll him, put a baby bottle full of milk on his door step with a bow on it and a note with his name on it
"Call me when you stop sulking baby"
Posted by aquatar1
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Posted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Posted by GemgyalDoes it matter? Hes only a penis at this point?
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
Posted by GemgyalYou lied to yourself. From the very beginning.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moonclick to expand
Posted by GemgyalJust be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.Posted by aquatar1
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?click to expand
Posted by aquatar1Thank you!! I will do this and I agree with that. If he still acts like that after I apologize that’s his own problemPosted by GemgyalJust be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.Posted by aquatar1
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you canclick to expand
Posted by GemgyalWhat was the fight about?
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that.
Posted by GemgyalHere’s an update.Posted by aquatar1Thank you!! I will do this and I agree with that. If he still acts like that after I apologize that’s his own problemPosted by GemgyalJust be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.Posted by aquatar1
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123kquote>
He is not happy about you ignoring him and he is probably disappointed about the whole thing, but just contact him and be open and he will forget everything.
Posted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsCan you pls send me a message? Because it seems like it’s not workingPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yesclick to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try nowclick to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsYes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages SettingsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏
Are your pm open for everyone?click to expand
Posted by GemgyalPosted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
Posted by GemgyalHmmm...Posted by pinkbird03I know. It's not about the commitment. It's about honesty. We agreed to be honest about everything and he lied that really dissapointed me. He is also very possessive over me he doesn't like me talking or dating other guys. I still do lol... but still I really don't like fights and just want everything to be great. But I guess I will just have to wait..Posted by GemgyalIt’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03In agreement. Additionally, you ignored him first. Why is it different now that he's doing it. An arrangement like this w all this emotional drama 🙄 SMH Don't call him. Relax and let the chips fall where they may 🤷Posted by GemgyalIt’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsYes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsOh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages SettingsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏
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Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.click to expand
Posted by sweetpea2977Yeah, I really think its too much drama too. I will not call him, just focused on myself. If he decides to come back, we will need to have a serious talk if this is something we want to continue or call it quits.Posted by pinkbird03In agreement. Additionally, you ignored him first. Why is it different now that he's doing it. An arrangement like this w all this emotional drama 🙄 SMH Don't call him. Relax and let the chips fall where they may 🤷Posted by GemgyalIt’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.Posted by GemitatiYes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...Posted by GemgyalWe Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsGuess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okayPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsOh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages SettingsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏
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Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
You are welcome 😘click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsI agree. Eventho i’m kinda getting fed up. So we’ll see if we will see eachother physically. I’m still going to focus on myself in the meanwhile. I apologized he said he wasnt ignoring me he was just busy then so be it, I will act like nothing happened. We’re still not on speaking terms either. But it is what it is!Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsGuess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okayPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsOh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages SettingsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏
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Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
You are welcome 😘
Just forget about the fight, the apology and everything and pretend that never happened. Next time you are physically together and in a good place there is the time to talk about it.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsHaha, honestly I’m not. When he said he was busy and he didnt ignore me on purpose I just said okay. Because i know he is lying. But I really dont feel like letting this fight go on any longer so like you said will wait till we meet in person.Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI agree. Eventho i’m kinda getting fed up. So we’ll see if we will see eachother physically. I’m still going to focus on myself in the meanwhile. I apologized he said he wasnt ignoring me he was just busy then so be it, I will act like nothing happened. We’re still not on speaking terms either. But it is what it is!Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsGuess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okayPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsOh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsYes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages SettingsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI don’t know what is going on then 🤯Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsI did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sentPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Gemgyal@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsHaha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsWhat’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?Posted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsThanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
Aqua sun and moon
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Yes . Try now
I am having the same problem 😏
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Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
You are welcome 😘
Just forget about the fight, the apology and everything and pretend that never happened. Next time you are physically together and in a good place there is the time to talk about it.
You sound angry to me. He will notice that tooclick to expand
Posted by bkbella86We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
Posted by GemgyalWho cares if he lied and what y’all agreed on? I hate to be harsh but cmon girl. Put yourself first not him. Agreements get broken all the time.Posted by bkbella86We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
But maybe I may be expecting too much. For now i’m just letting it beclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.Posted by GemgyalPosted by bkbella86We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
But maybe I may be expecting too much. For now i’m just letting it be
What did he lied about?click to expand