aquarius guy is acting distant!!
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by diana75147514 on Monday, January 5, 2009 and has 19 replies.
ok so im dating this aquarius guy and lately hes been acting really distant and aloof...ive read somewhere that aquarians are known to be aloof and distant because they want their space..is it true the more the aquarius guy is into you, the more distant he is?? i dont get it because he told me things like "hes starting to really like me" and that "he misses me when he doesnt see me" yet hasnt been calling me...so i am very confused right now...i feel like hes giving me the cold shoulder now...also what can i do to make this aquairus guy come back to me bc i really like him?? also how much space should you give him?? and will he eventually come back to you?? thanks all!
Chill out. Just don't think about it too much, he'll call when he's ready.
I refer to my last comment in one of your other threads....take a breath because honestly you're going to wear yourself out.
Actually don't bother taking a breath just get a life. He's clearly not interested. A month of not contacting you after a month of dating you????? What are you hoping for and which part of la la land do you live in?
Sorry that may appear somewhat bitchy but honestly????
Sorry that may appear somewhat bitchy but honestly????
gosh some of u are pretty harsh on this forum!
yes im talking about u LeoAqua! sweetheart i do have a life. i work, i go out with my friends, go clubbing, i go to the GYM and stay fit, im into yoga, i read...so trust me i have PLENTY of hobbies and interests and i dont need a guy in my life! i dont sit home and cry...lol TRUST me... but lately ive been soooooooooooo confused because he told me things such as "im starting to really like you" "i miss u when i dont see u" and calling me pet names such as baby, sweetheart, babe. and then all of a sudden he disappered on me?? its like wat the hell! ohhhhh and i forgot to add...i did NOT sleep with him. i only dated him for 2 months so i have respect for myself
yes im talking about u LeoAqua! sweetheart i do have a life. i work, i go out with my friends, go clubbing, i go to the GYM and stay fit, im into yoga, i read...so trust me i have PLENTY of hobbies and interests and i dont need a guy in my life! i dont sit home and cry...lol TRUST me... but lately ive been soooooooooooo confused because he told me things such as "im starting to really like you" "i miss u when i dont see u" and calling me pet names such as baby, sweetheart, babe. and then all of a sudden he disappered on me?? its like wat the hell! ohhhhh and i forgot to add...i did NOT sleep with him. i only dated him for 2 months so i have respect for myself
ur odd!
ZING
yup, i do!
"is it true the more the aquarius guy is into you, the more distant he is?? "
False....I'm an Aqua, if I'm distant it means I don't really like you enough to be consistent with keeping in touch, if I like you love you it will take a pair of pliers to pry me from you...if he's distant then he's not that into you YET, doesn't mean he doesn't like you but he clearly doesn't like you enough to be consistent.
As long as your around, as long as your an available option, as long as you accept him back with open arms....he will come back...of course when he's ready
False....I'm an Aqua, if I'm distant it means I don't really like you enough to be consistent with keeping in touch, if I like you love you it will take a pair of pliers to pry me from you...if he's distant then he's not that into you YET, doesn't mean he doesn't like you but he clearly doesn't like you enough to be consistent.
As long as your around, as long as your an available option, as long as you accept him back with open arms....he will come back...of course when he's ready
ok thanks tiki
aww.. you guys are being harsh. I can honestly say that I do this quite a bit. Especially when I am confused. I back off so fast it will make your head spin.. Right now my scorp has been txt'n me and I have been avoiding him cuz I don't know what to say. Im sooo into him and things are sooo weird that I just want to keep my distance until I can figure things out.
I know we don't normally lead people on if we don't like them. I have dated an aqua before and I know it can be murder..well dating any guy can be that way actually. I am starting to believe they are all crazy! But aqua men are usually very honest and upfront. Aquarius by nature are aloof and HAVE to have space to figure things out especially if he is introverted. It may be more of the introversion than the fact he is an aqua..
But still if he is distant for too long, it means you did something wrong. Just ask, he will tell you.
I know we don't normally lead people on if we don't like them. I have dated an aqua before and I know it can be murder..well dating any guy can be that way actually. I am starting to believe they are all crazy! But aqua men are usually very honest and upfront. Aquarius by nature are aloof and HAVE to have space to figure things out especially if he is introverted. It may be more of the introversion than the fact he is an aqua..
But still if he is distant for too long, it means you did something wrong. Just ask, he will tell you.
THANK U aquarianbrat!!!! aquarianbrat for how long do u want to keep your distance with your scorpio guy??
cappygolighty ive had guys come back me in the past...in fact ive had a guy that i was seeing for 3 months contact me a year later saying that he regretted losing me and that i was such a great girl...next time be POSITIVE and have some hope for people because it could happen!!
everyone by the way, i am a libra. libra and aquarius are supposed to be a perfect match, correct???
LK you make my day every day!
As for Diana, it is harsh and I apologise for insulting you but what is the point in mollycoddling you when clearly you're hung up on a guy who isn't that into you. He's a jerk, shouldn't got your hopes up if he didn't intend to persue you. That's all I can say.
Aqua and Libra are both air so they're compatible supposedly but you cannot possibly base your relationship only on your astrological signs and even an astrologer will tell you that!
It's just plain right absurd.
I've been dating an Aqua for a year and a half and trust me girl he doesn't avoid me, he can't get enough time together and I'm the one who has to put the brakes on every so often. We've just moved in together so it's really hard to take time apart now but I insist...I go to dinner with just the girls and insist he go visit his mates without me...but a month of him not contacting me??? It's never been more than a day at the most and that was only in the first three months or so of dating (the casual phase).
Not even friends go a month without some sort of communication so in my mind you're chasing a lost cause and the sooner you realise this the sooner you can stop obsessing. So he called you babe......hell I dated a Pieces who told me he loved me and then dumped me a week later...life sucks but we can't keep obsessing.
That's all I'm trying to say.
As for Diana, it is harsh and I apologise for insulting you but what is the point in mollycoddling you when clearly you're hung up on a guy who isn't that into you. He's a jerk, shouldn't got your hopes up if he didn't intend to persue you. That's all I can say.
Aqua and Libra are both air so they're compatible supposedly but you cannot possibly base your relationship only on your astrological signs and even an astrologer will tell you that!
It's just plain right absurd.
I've been dating an Aqua for a year and a half and trust me girl he doesn't avoid me, he can't get enough time together and I'm the one who has to put the brakes on every so often. We've just moved in together so it's really hard to take time apart now but I insist...I go to dinner with just the girls and insist he go visit his mates without me...but a month of him not contacting me??? It's never been more than a day at the most and that was only in the first three months or so of dating (the casual phase).
Not even friends go a month without some sort of communication so in my mind you're chasing a lost cause and the sooner you realise this the sooner you can stop obsessing. So he called you babe......hell I dated a Pieces who told me he loved me and then dumped me a week later...life sucks but we can't keep obsessing.
That's all I'm trying to say.
"Astrologically speaking I'd say that although aquas are known for disappearing acts, I do believe that if an aqua thinks you are the one he will not disappear. I think a couple of people have posted confirmation of that here. Aquas who are into you pester you just as much as other guys who are into you and a man who wants you will generally not leave you alone and will not disappear. "
ditto that. I've been dating my aqua for 10 months and he's never pulled a dissapearing act.
Regardless of what sign the guy is, it's just disrespectful. If he needs time, or likes his space, I can totally understand that as I also need my space. But there's a lot of different ways of asking for it. Aqua or not.
ditto that. I've been dating my aqua for 10 months and he's never pulled a dissapearing act.
Regardless of what sign the guy is, it's just disrespectful. If he needs time, or likes his space, I can totally understand that as I also need my space. But there's a lot of different ways of asking for it. Aqua or not.
^^^ THANK YOU ! No matter how often this is repeated, it's like some need any excuse to hold on - he's Aqua so he needs space and will disappear and I'll be waiting - I mean SERIOUSLY?!
He is probably puzzled as to why he likes you an d so he is distancing himself. Maybe aquarius gets puzzled when they feel they like someone.
I have never bolted while IN a relationship.
When truly settled to the idea of a relationship theres no bolting.
When truly settled to the idea of a relationship theres no bolting.
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