Aquarius Jerk
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Ariana23 on Wednesday, February 25, 2009 and has 21 replies.
So there's this aquarius guy who's a neighbor of mine. He's friendly in general, but a womanizer. My roommate really likes him and never stops talking about him. Whenever my roommate and I hang out with this aquarius guy, he's nice to her but a complete jerk to me. I've TRIED to be friends with him, but he's aloof when it comes to me and doesn't treat me the same I guess. I just don't get it. Any opinions would help! If it matters I'm a gemini.
He likes you, not your friend.
You and your friend should steer clear of known womanizers.
You and your friend should steer clear of known womanizers.
WHAT?! How or in what ways does he like me?! He texts and talks to my roommate WAAAYY more than he does with me.
Lady_M is right he likes you.
your friend he wants too. lol
but I'm guessing you two banter and debate back and forth.
am I correct?
and being Aloof is what we do especially if we are trying to figure out another person before they can figure out what is going on with us.
Its true we get tagged as Womanizers because we get bored easily with current love interests
not when we have destroyed them physically but when we have conquered them mentally.
wow that does sound jerkish oh well I can only be me.....anything less would be a crime against nature. lol
your friend he wants too. lol
but I'm guessing you two banter and debate back and forth.
am I correct?
and being Aloof is what we do especially if we are trying to figure out another person before they can figure out what is going on with us.
Its true we get tagged as Womanizers because we get bored easily with current love interests
not when we have destroyed them physically but when we have conquered them mentally.
wow that does sound jerkish oh well I can only be me.....anything less would be a crime against nature. lol
I agree with M and airbender
" being Aloof is what we do especially if we are trying to figure out another person before they can figure out what is going on with us."
yup
" being Aloof is what we do especially if we are trying to figure out another person before they can figure out what is going on with us."
yup
I don't argue or banter with my rooommate. There's no point in doing so with a guy like this. I just don't get why he's acting this way is all.
Fine. So if he likes me then why is he paying more attention to my roommate than me? It doesn't make sense.
"I don't argue or banter with my roommate."
Not with your roommate, with him.
Not with your roommate, with him.
He pays more attention to you her, as to deflect his actually feelings for you. Speaking, texting, more to your room mate is a cover.
AS a Gem-girl, they can be flirtatious and sometimes unaware or refuse to accept the truth since the other side only see's it as something else. This is obvious, and pretty much old school, put gum in your hair, talk to you friends and but really likes you. it could be that you actually find him attractive and its sexual tension that's building. however, the matter is, he likes you and if he is a jerk and a womanizer than don't both with a guy like that. they give the good ones bad names, but apparently some girls like that kind of stuff, or at least the sex part. lol!
She soooooooooooooooo knows he likes her..isn??t that that what you learned at a young age?? Little boys are meanest to the ones they like best..
Yeah I think she knew too, just needed some confirmation.
It is a cover, him paying more attention to you friend. He's watching you with the side eye.
It is a cover, him paying more attention to you friend. He's watching you with the side eye.
Yes, when I'm around him we banter or debate. But thats who I am, idk about him.
And no. I'm not being oblivious about him possibly liking me. I usually know when a guy likes me, and this Aquarius dude isn't showing any sign of interest. If he liked me, wouldn't he at least ask me how I'm doing if he doesn't speak/see me for a few days? And it doesn't help that whenever I am around him, he sometimes talks about how many girls he slept with and where. If a guy likes a girl, why would he gloat about his sex life?!
And no. I'm not being oblivious about him possibly liking me. I usually know when a guy likes me, and this Aquarius dude isn't showing any sign of interest. If he liked me, wouldn't he at least ask me how I'm doing if he doesn't speak/see me for a few days? And it doesn't help that whenever I am around him, he sometimes talks about how many girls he slept with and where. If a guy likes a girl, why would he gloat about his sex life?!
See everything he is doing is working.
you are confused.
you are asking about him.
now you are wondering if he likes you.
now all the boasting he does and all the negative personality traits he puts out there are tests.
we like challenges and we like being a challenge, it is fun for us to chase and be chased.
if someone can keep up with us then they are most likely a keeper if not we can still be friends right?
you are confused.
you are asking about him.
now you are wondering if he likes you.
now all the boasting he does and all the negative personality traits he puts out there are tests.
we like challenges and we like being a challenge, it is fun for us to chase and be chased.
if someone can keep up with us then they are most likely a keeper if not we can still be friends right?
Totally agree. Your falling for it.
I have a venus in it. And I'm super mean to boys I like LOL
I thought Aquarius's didn't like being chased? I'm only curious if he likes me or not because I'm tired of his "games" or attitude. I think it's immature. Should I bluntly ask him if he does?
Sure, if he says yes it may be as a friend but it could move into something else. Friends first that's how it starts with an aqua.
If you think he's a jerk why do you want to know. You're attracted to him 
This is gonna cause a shit storm if your friend is interested too. He's going to put a wedge between you and frankly if a guy uses a girl (and a friend of yours) to get to you he is really a JERK.
Just saying
This is gonna cause a shit storm if your friend is interested too. He's going to put a wedge between you and frankly if a guy uses a girl (and a friend of yours) to get to you he is really a JERK.
Just saying
"Why does he boast about his sex life"
Having known a lot of men, i would interpret that as a definite LACK OF sex life..he??s probably talking about someone from way in the past or something he saw on TV!!!!
Of he likes you he??ll do something about it..of he doesn??t, you??re boring.
Having known a lot of men, i would interpret that as a definite LACK OF sex life..he??s probably talking about someone from way in the past or something he saw on TV!!!!
Of he likes you he??ll do something about it..of he doesn??t, you??re boring.
Well being a jerk & being shy/standoffish (playing the Hard-to-get-role) are 2 completely different things. If this guy is just a known jerk to you & not to your friend, it has nothing to do with his Zodiac. It's just simply b/c SHE'S (your friend) the one he's trying to impress, thus he's putting on his "sweet" face for her & not you. He's probably being mean to you b/c that's how he REALLY is & if your friend can't see that, then hey, she's just as bad.
But on the other hand, if this guy's trying to test you to see how you respond, how you tick & how you carry yourself, then just be yourself. Don't ever beg or seem desperate for someone's friendship b/c at the end of the day, he's an Aqua & if he really saw that YOU were the prize, he'd make it known very quickly. Some Aqua men play the "chase after me" game b/c they are testing a woman's loyalty & true colors when she's in an unpleasant environment or around people who are unpleasant. And regardless of WHY he's being a jerk to you, a jerk is a jerk. If he's such a jerk then there's no reason why you should even care why he's being mean to you b/c after all, he's after HER and not you. You should be more focused on trying to get her away from him & making sure that she doesn't fall for his sneeky smile & not instead focusing on trying to get his friendship or his attention towards you.
I don't think this situation has anything to do with him being an Aqua. If he's a jerk, then take it how you see it. What you see is what you get.
But on the other hand, if this guy's trying to test you to see how you respond, how you tick & how you carry yourself, then just be yourself. Don't ever beg or seem desperate for someone's friendship b/c at the end of the day, he's an Aqua & if he really saw that YOU were the prize, he'd make it known very quickly. Some Aqua men play the "chase after me" game b/c they are testing a woman's loyalty & true colors when she's in an unpleasant environment or around people who are unpleasant. And regardless of WHY he's being a jerk to you, a jerk is a jerk. If he's such a jerk then there's no reason why you should even care why he's being mean to you b/c after all, he's after HER and not you. You should be more focused on trying to get her away from him & making sure that she doesn't fall for his sneeky smile & not instead focusing on trying to get his friendship or his attention towards you.
I don't think this situation has anything to do with him being an Aqua. If he's a jerk, then take it how you see it. What you see is what you get.
Related Topics
I have work at this company for 4 years and the more people I get close to here the more friends I have lost. Things alw
@SageTree
Joined: Jul 09, 2008 · Topics: 16 · Posts: 114
My divorce is final; I am a single man. You girls better watch out now :P Well, the reason I had to delete my acco
@jru2
Joined: Feb 25, 2009 · Topics: 91 · Posts: 706
Just wondering what all your typica; aqua bad habits are??? Mine is jumping from one thing to another, always wantin
@waterbaby
Joined: Feb 25, 2009 · Topics: 9 · Posts: 54
Ever get a bad feelings about a house/room/location? I know if I do, you can believe I aint takin my ass in there, I thi
@Dreamweaver23
Joined: Jan 08, 2009 · Topics: 14 · Posts: 104
@red_aries
Joined: Mar 04, 2007 · Topics: 125 · Posts: 1775
Haven't you met and would like to meet.
@Sagittarius89
Joined: Sep 18, 2008 · Topics: 99 · Posts: 4899
Post your favorite LOLcats. I'm bored. Lol. :)
@brianafay
Joined: Oct 11, 2006 · Topics: 372 · Posts: 30581
I'm back again....with trying to figure out my Taurus man..I am a scorpio and I have many suitors local..and have dated
@trobin939
Joined: Mar 11, 2008 · Topics: 18 · Posts: 160
I need someone to please read our birth charts and tell our compatibility. Thank you!!! His chart: Birthday March 6
@saggirlius
Joined: Mar 02, 2008 · Topics: 15 · Posts: 69
I only ask this because I think that almost all of you are mesmerizing. Its hard to believe that guys are too cheap to
@broken_shell
Joined: Sep 25, 2008 · Topics: 16 · Posts: 500