Posted by ScorpioChica
We shall see this Friday lol I have a cappy moon & scorpio in venus complete reverse to him & I'm gonna let him come to me first..as a scorpio I'm cursed with the deep analytical thinking processes but after reading some posts in here I'm not gonna let my emotions control my brain, I have too much scorpio in my chart ugh
Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
We shall see this Friday lol I have a cappy moon & scorpio in venus complete reverse to him & I'm gonna let him come to me first..as a scorpio I'm cursed with the deep analytical thinking processes but after reading some posts in here I'm not gonna let my emotions control my brain, I have too much scorpio in my chart ugh
What is the situation between the two of you at the moment? Are you friends?click to expand
Posted by apex
and if you don't want him you can holla over here, damn those are good scorpio placements you got!
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm an aquarian sun and scorp moon and what you said about him saying he won't love again??_..because he is an aquarius he has a stubborn outlook and his scorpio is vengeful but his capricorn in venus should make him willing to commit??_..there is nothing that us aquarians can't learn and they say scorpios make great teachers so??_.
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
We shall see this Friday lol I have a cappy moon & scorpio in venus complete reverse to him & I'm gonna let him come to me first..as a scorpio I'm cursed with the deep analytical thinking processes but after reading some posts in here I'm not gonna let my emotions control my brain, I have too much scorpio in my chart ugh
What is the situation between the two of you at the moment? Are you friends?
Yes, friends at the moment, no need to rushhe suggested the movies Friday since I told him I wanted to see the wolf of wall street
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Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
We shall see this Friday lol I have a cappy moon & scorpio in venus complete reverse to him & I'm gonna let him come to me first..as a scorpio I'm cursed with the deep analytical thinking processes but after reading some posts in here I'm not gonna let my emotions control my brain, I have too much scorpio in my chart ugh
What is the situation between the two of you at the moment? Are you friends?
Yes, friends at the moment, no need to rushhe suggested the movies Friday since I told him I wanted to see the wolf of wall street
Have a great time at the movies & I hope it blossoms into something moreI love love lol. Please keep us posted on this story.
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Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm an aquarian sun and scorp moon and what you said about him saying he won't love again??_..because he is an aquarius he has a stubborn outlook and his scorpio is vengeful but his capricorn in venus should make him willing to commit??_..there is nothing that us aquarians can't learn and they say scorpios make great teachers so??_.
That wasn't me, I never said anything about him personally regarding love I just said we're going to the movies Friday hopefully he's a good date, thanks for ur outlookclick to expand
Posted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Good. But did he say anything else, like why?click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Good. But did he say anything else, like why?
He lost electricity today didn't specify where & said he wouldn't be done til 9pm I responded that's fine because the movies run late on the wkends (this last text was @ 4pm to him) he never responded until 9:44pm by text saying blah blah bs, I didn't respond & I deleted the texts & returned to what I was doing..I'm done with his ass smhclick to expand
Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Good. But did he say anything else, like why?
He lost electricity today didn't specify where & said he wouldn't be done til 9pm I responded that's fine because the movies run late on the wkends (this last text was @ 4pm to him) he never responded until 9:44pm by text saying blah blah bs, I didn't respond & I deleted the texts & returned to what I was doing..I'm done with his ass smh
It sounds like it's not the 1st time he has done this to you going by what you just said. However, if it is the 1st time & there is no history whatsoever, don't you think he at least deserves one final chance to prove himself?click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Good. But did he say anything else, like why?
He lost electricity today didn't specify where & said he wouldn't be done til 9pm I responded that's fine because the movies run late on the wkends (this last text was @ 4pm to him) he never responded until 9:44pm by text saying blah blah bs, I didn't respond & I deleted the texts & returned to what I was doing..I'm done with his ass smh
It sounds like it's not the 1st time he has done this to you going by what you just said. However, if it is the 1st time & there is no history whatsoever, don't you think he at least deserves one final chance to prove himself?
Oh no this is the first time, that's the problem, first impressions make lasting impressions..
He flaked out on me & left me hanging with no response for over 5hrs, no excuse is acceptable from him especially since we've had great conversations up until this today. His text tonight was unapologetic just stating it's late & he still has errands to do, yea whatever, sounds like he has a girlfriend, that's his errand ...click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChica
So ur saying to allow this behavior? Well I'm not looking for him, if he's interested he's gonna have to show & prove from here on. I cleared my plans tonight for him & he rudely couldn't even call to apologize?? I don't think losing electricity this morning justifies blowing me off last minute on plans we had since last week
Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
So ur saying to allow this behavior? Well I'm not looking for him, if he's interested he's gonna have to show & prove from here on. I cleared my plans tonight for him & he rudely couldn't even call to apologize?? I don't think losing electricity this morning justifies blowing me off last minute on plans we had since last week
I'm not telling you to "allow" anything, all I'm saying is, this has happened one time only so far. Seems to me like you're punishing him for the mistakes of others, in the past maybe *shrugs* Because the way you're speaking it's like you've been through this a numerous times & I thought it was with him but you said no it wasn't. My point is, you don't know if he indeed ran into problems last minute & the only way to know if he is the full of shit type is by seeing if he does it again..by giving him a last try. If he does it again then you can end your friendship. This is a suggestion, take it or leave it..you're grown.click to expand
Posted by justagirl
I'm confused with this. Didn't he text you to tell you he had issues going on? How is that blowing you off? Perhaps he was working that's why you didn't hear from him for 5 hrs...5 whole hours.
You jumped right to he must have a girlfriend... such a Scorpio thing!
Posted by apex
SCORPIOCHICA!!!! Had the same thing this week with another air sign! lol
I'm a Cancer Sun, she a Libra Sun.... same freaking thing man. lol
Did you also feel everything was perfectly fine UNTIL push came to shove? Coz that's what happened to me exactly one week ago!
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by justagirl
I'm confused with this. Didn't he text you to tell you he had issues going on? How is that blowing you off? Perhaps he was working that's why you didn't hear from him for 5 hrs...5 whole hours.
You jumped right to he must have a girlfriend... such a Scorpio thing!
Ok since u think ur correct & I'm wrong, why haven't I heard from him since he blew me off for absolutely no reason whatsoever Friday?? It's Sunday & I haven't even received a text from this ill mannered Aquarius...guess my instincts were right!click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Well I'm done with this Aquarius guy, he blew off our plans last minute thru text...I don't condone rude or inconsiderate behavior smdh
All week our conversations were great either thru text/phone
Good. But did he say anything else, like why?
He lost electricity today didn't specify where & said he wouldn't be done til 9pm I responded that's fine because the movies run late on the wkends (this last text was @ 4pm to him) he never responded until 9:44pm by text saying blah blah bs, I didn't respond & I deleted the texts & returned to what I was doing ..I'm done with his ass smhclick to expand
Posted by justagirlPosted by ScorpioChicaPosted by justagirl
I'm confused with this. Didn't he text you to tell you he had issues going on? How is that blowing you off? Perhaps he was working that's why you didn't hear from him for 5 hrs...5 whole hours.
You jumped right to he must have a girlfriend... such a Scorpio thing!
Ok since u think ur correct & I'm wrong, why haven't I heard from him since he blew me off for absolutely no reason whatsoever Friday?? It's Sunday & I haven't even received a text from this ill mannered Aquarius...guess my instincts were right!
Lol wasn't even about being right or wrong, again such a Scorpio thing. I was just asking you questions, because to be honest, you jumped right to him having a girlfriend. however from what YOU posted, he DID text you at 9:45pm which you didn't respond to and deleted all his texts. perhaps he thinks YOU blew him off. But go ahead and convince yourself that he blew you off, sure it will make you feel better
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Posted by justagirl
No, your reaction is a Scorpio thing. I give people the benefit of the doubt about why things happened, not making up some stuff in my head about some girlfriend. You are pissed because he took 5 hours to respond. HE responded, just not on your timetable. I don't have people that treat me like what you have posted about, because I respect them and they respect me. I also don't ignore peoples texts messages. I respond to them like an adult. You don't see any of your reactions as a bit childish? You where angry he took so long to respond, when he finally did, you didn't respond, but deleted all his texts messages. All I am saying is look at your part and you might see how much it's blown out of proportion. But IMO, you already made up your mind that he was a loser, when he sent you the text that morning about having issues.
Again you decide what you want to do like others have stated, no one is telling you what to do or not to do. we are giving you advise because you posted a dam thread about it on an internet forum.
Have a nice day/life as I am personally done with this thread. Hope you find someone that will put up with your quick to react temper.
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by justagirl
No, your reaction is a Scorpio thing. I give people the benefit of the doubt about why things happened, not making up some stuff in my head about some girlfriend. You are pissed because he took 5 hours to respond. HE responded, just not on your timetable. I don't have people that treat me like what you have posted about, because I respect them and they respect me. I also don't ignore peoples texts messages. I respond to them like an adult. You don't see any of your reactions as a bit childish? You where angry he took so long to respond, when he finally did, you didn't respond, but deleted all his texts messages. All I am saying is look at your part and you might see how much it's blown out of proportion. But IMO, you already made up your mind that he was a loser, when he sent you the text that morning about having issues.
Again you decide what you want to do like others have stated, no one is telling you what to do or not to do. we are giving you advise because you posted a dam thread about it on an internet forum.
Have a nice day/life as I am personally done with this thread. Hope you find someone that will put up with your quick to react temper.
Just to give him the benefit of the doubt from ur opinion, I just texted him hi & guess what?? He responded asap saying oh I've been very busy yesterday soo if he responded so quickly just now meaning he's not too busy, why did I have to text him first? He's not mad cause he wouldn't have responded so quickly or at all, explain this scenario pls if I'm jumping to conclusions? In ur opinion?? How should I respond?click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChica
Ur right I have been burned in the past, we chatted a lil tonight but I cut it short, a close friend of mine died yesterday morning so I'm a lil emotional now, which isn't good for me as a scorpio, his text response to me after telling him my friend passed away was " holy shit!!! What happened? ....I just can't deal with immaturity right now smh
Posted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Ur right I have been burned in the past, we chatted a lil tonight but I cut it short, a close friend of mine died yesterday morning so I'm a lil emotional now, which isn't good for me as a scorpio, his text response to me after telling him my friend passed away was " holy shit!!! What happened? ....I just can't deal with immaturity right now smh
LMAO, you're too much! What was he to say? He has no emotional ties to the person, you do, so please be understanding of his reaction. At least he asked what happened instead of quickly changing the subject since your friend's death is not his concern or something he should mope about.
I don't think this is going to end well, you're already expecting WAY too much out of him imho. Just leave him alone before you drive each other nuts.click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by WaterCupPosted by ScorpioChica
Ur right I have been burned in the past, we chatted a lil tonight but I cut it short, a close friend of mine died yesterday morning so I'm a lil emotional now, which isn't good for me as a scorpio, his text response to me after telling him my friend passed away was " holy shit!!! What happened? ....I just can't deal with immaturity right now smh
LMAO, you're too much! What was he to say? He has no emotional ties to the person, you do, so please be understanding of his reaction. At least he asked what happened instead of quickly changing the subject since your friend's death is not his concern or something he should mope about.
I don't think this is going to end well, you're already expecting WAY too much out of him imho. Just leave him alone before you drive each other nuts.
Lol I wasn't expecting him to feel my pain, I just didn't expect that response. It was a lil weird instead of saying I'm sorry to hear that..
I'm definitely understanding Aquarius much better thanks to u!click to expand
Posted by ScorpioChica
Ur right I have been burned in the past, we chatted a lil tonight but I cut it short, a close friend of mine died yesterday morning so I'm a lil emotional now, which isn't good for me as a scorpio, his text response to me after telling him my friend passed away was " holy shit!!! What happened? ....I just can't deal with immaturity right now smh
Posted by truecap
Sorry about your friend. Please accept my sympathies.![]()
But seems to me, if he sent you a text that MORNING telling you he was having problems, he wasn't blowing you off at the last minute. That was actually a pretty considerate thing to do.
Then, he was busy all day and probably didn't keep his phone on him. Then when he did respond, you ignored him. Yeah, he was probably waiting on a text from you.
Try to be more understanding and more flexible - it's NOT a recurring problem. Yet, anyway.
You seem high maintenance and you have a chip on your shoulder. You're not cut out for an aqaurius. Perhaps this it's for the better that you move on to the next guy.
Posted by aquansidenout
@Scorpiochica don't be so quick to blow him off it may not have been something intentional. Give it some time and see if he follows through with anything else first.
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