I was wondering if any aquarius males have dealt with a leo woman and how did you show her you were into her...did you phase in and out of the relationship...when your feelings are too intense do you back away...what do leo women do to turn you off...and how do I know if you're being indifferent or you're actually into me...
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May 08, 2016Comments: 11 · Posts: 1063 · Topics: 51
I will weigh in on how aquas show interest.
Basically, he will stare at you. A lot. Besides that, aquas tend to start behaving awkwardly when around people who they like or are interested in.
Lol I guess I need a lot...no jk I just like clarity to know where it's going so I know how to handle my feelings
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
Since you've gotten a few answers from the guys, I'll just offer you a little insight into Aqua guys' behavior from a female Leo's perspective (having gone through this and made it past this phase).
For us, our man is EVERYTHING. Especially in the beginning when feelings are new and intense. We think that's the way it SHOULD be all the time and if we get that feeling with someone, it's a sign that this guy could be The One. And we'll do anything to keep that going. It works pretty well with other signs but not so much with Aqua.
They see those intense feelings as deceptions; distractions. It makes things complicated, and they don't like that. So when our enthusiasm for the relationship starts to seep into their psyche, it kind of freaks them out. They HATE losing control.
So you have to follow his lead, even if that means some level of detachment. For Aqua, love and passion are only two aspects of a fulfilled life, and they'll approach a person of interest with the same logic as they do making a decision about what career to choose or what financial investments to make.
It's a much more sober approach vs how we go about love.
I would say that as long as he is making contact, taking time to spend with you, and as long as you're feeling a connection--he is feeling it too. You have to learn to intellectualize his feelings for you. I.e., *know* how he feels for you vwhen you're apart by remembering how you feel when you're together. That obviously takes time to build that confidence, but if he wasn't interested or he loses interest, he will tell you.
I'm going to chill...it's good to hear a leo woman's pov with an aqua...I have a good aquarius female friend who's been helping me out as far as Aquarian ways but I need that males perspective....
Thank you for your advice...truthfully I think our connection scared him...he would often say that he didn't expect our energy and our connection to be so much more than what it was but he never elaborated on what he meant by that...but the way he stares at me and the things he has said are like whoa...he was very open and forthcoming at first and our last time together he kept reiterating how our energy was more than he expected or bargained for and how I make him feel....then a few days later he hit me with this...when he said he needed to realign himself and figure out what to do with his energy...said he still has interest in me but is unsure what it will become...he's only went one day without talking to me in some way shape form or fashion but he's not as emotional as he was previously which made me think he lost interest in me...he asked.to see me and im seeing him Monday and I plan to lay my feelings out in a not too emotional way but let him know how I feel and let him sort out how he feels about it...with me moving I need to see what we could have and he has stated the same that he wants to see what could be between us before I'm gone...also he still has contact with my ex...I'm mutual fb friends with her and I don't think he knew until new years day when she tagged him in a video of them together...there wasn't anything going on but the fact they were together bothered me...and I liked the video and he IMMEDIATELY took it off his page and called me...we haven't discussed it yet and I want to but I don't want to overwhelm him...it's not so much that it bothers me cause it does but it's more so because I want clarity so I know how to handle my emotions as a leo you should understand what I mean by that lol
Also why do they feel those feelings are deceptions?
And you are right about how we feel and how intense we feel in the beginning...and I'll take your advice definitely on remembering the feelings are the same apart as together....I have to get used to his detachment when we're apart...he even told me he knows he can seem aloof and distant and doesn't want it to effect where we are with eachother
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
Actually, Leo/Aqua (especially Leo woman/ Aqua man) is the one opposite combination that has the highest % of long term success. It just takes some adjustment and understanding, which both are more willing to do because the attraction is deep. We see something in the other that we need (that only they can teach us), as well as similarities to make us feel connected enough to want to try.