Aquarius man and leo woman...confused..

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Paradoxical_leo on Saturday, January 7, 2017 and has 15 replies.
I was wondering if any aquarius males have dealt with a leo woman and how did you show her you were into her...did you phase in and out of the relationship...when your feelings are too intense do you back away...what do leo women do to turn you off...and how do I know if you're being indifferent or you're actually into me...
I will weigh in on how aquas show interest.

Basically, he will stare at you. A lot. Besides that, aquas tend to start behaving awkwardly when around people who they like or are interested in.
He does stare....A LOT....whenever we are together...sheesh...his gaze is powerful...I'll look up and he will be just looking at me...really no facial expression but more like he's in deep thought or deciding...the first night we spent together we were together for hours in silence most of the time but he would be staring ...I'll wake up roll over and look while he's in the bathroom and he will stare at me...he recently got distant after we made this amazing connection...he told me one day he needed to realign himself and figure out what to do with this energy and needEd to go off the grid...he never went to far...would keep in touch...we talk and get wanta to see me but he seems so distant now not as intense but tells me he thinks about me often and I'm on his mind and reaches out to me pretty much everyday but it's like he's fighting his emotions or pulling away...how awkward do you act and when you're staring what are you thinking

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I will weigh in on how aquas show interest.

Basically, he will stare at you. A lot. Besides that, aquas tend to start behaving awkwardly when around people who they like or are interested in.
@bumboklatt
This sucks I'm used to being in control of my emotions but it's not working also he's so hard to figure out...what is up with the distant and aloof thing why if you like someone you back off and don't show a lot of attention...in the beginning he was forth coming and talkative and now he's still that way but it's limited...but he still flirts and hits me everytime he thinks of me and wants to see me he just doesn't seem as interested

When you ate interested what do you do...

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Posted by sultrykitty
@bumboklatt
If an aqua puts up with Leo's want for attention and illogical fieryness, then he likes you.

Also if feelings are too strong, which they usually are, then he will take things extra slow, he will also poke fun at you a lot and find ANY excuse for conversation

Conversation with fire signs is basically mental sex


This sucks I'm used to being in control of my emotions but it's not working also he's so hard to figure out...what is up with the distant and aloof thing why if you like someone you back off and don't show a lot of attention...in the beginning he was forth coming and talkative and now he's still that way but it's limited...but he still flirts and hits me everytime he thinks of me and wants to see me he just doesn't seem as interested

When you ate interested what do you do...

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Posted by sultrykitty
@bumboklatt
If an aqua puts up with Leo's want for attention and illogical fieryness, then he likes you.

Also if feelings are too strong, which they usually are, then he will take things extra slow, he will also poke fun at you a lot and find ANY excuse for conversation

Conversation with fire signs is basically mental sex


Lol I guess I need a lot...no jk I just like clarity to know where it's going so I know how to handle my feelings
Since you've gotten a few answers from the guys, I'll just offer you a little insight into Aqua guys' behavior from a female Leo's perspective (having gone through this and made it past this phase).

For us, our man is EVERYTHING. Especially in the beginning when feelings are new and intense. We think that's the way it SHOULD be all the time and if we get that feeling with someone, it's a sign that this guy could be The One. And we'll do anything to keep that going. It works pretty well with other signs but not so much with Aqua.

They see those intense feelings as deceptions; distractions. It makes things complicated, and they don't like that. So when our enthusiasm for the relationship starts to seep into their psyche, it kind of freaks them out. They HATE losing control.

So you have to follow his lead, even if that means some level of detachment. For Aqua, love and passion are only two aspects of a fulfilled life, and they'll approach a person of interest with the same logic as they do making a decision about what career to choose or what financial investments to make.

It's a much more sober approach vs how we go about love.

I would say that as long as he is making contact, taking time to spend with you, and as long as you're feeling a connection--he is feeling it too. You have to learn to intellectualize his feelings for you. I.e., *know* how he feels for you vwhen you're apart by remembering how you feel when you're together. That obviously takes time to build that confidence, but if he wasn't interested or he loses interest, he will tell you.
I'm going to chill...it's good to hear a leo woman's pov with an aqua...I have a good aquarius female friend who's been helping me out as far as Aquarian ways but I need that males perspective....

Thank you for your advice...truthfully I think our connection scared him...he would often say that he didn't expect our energy and our connection to be so much more than what it was but he never elaborated on what he meant by that...but the way he stares at me and the things he has said are like whoa...he was very open and forthcoming at first and our last time together he kept reiterating how our energy was more than he expected or bargained for and how I make him feel....then a few days later he hit me with this...when he said he needed to realign himself and figure out what to do with his energy...said he still has interest in me but is unsure what it will become...he's only went one day without talking to me in some way shape form or fashion but he's not as emotional as he was previously which made me think he lost interest in me...he asked.to see me and im seeing him Monday and I plan to lay my feelings out in a not too emotional way but let him know how I feel and let him sort out how he feels about it...with me moving I need to see what we could have and he has stated the same that he wants to see what could be between us before I'm gone...also he still has contact with my ex...I'm mutual fb friends with her and I don't think he knew until new years day when she tagged him in a video of them together...there wasn't anything going on but the fact they were together bothered me...and I liked the video and he IMMEDIATELY took it off his page and called me...we haven't discussed it yet and I want to but I don't want to overwhelm him...it's not so much that it bothers me cause it does but it's more so because I want clarity so I know how to handle my emotions as a leo you should understand what I mean by that lol
Also why do they feel those feelings are deceptions?

And you are right about how we feel and how intense we feel in the beginning...and I'll take your advice definitely on remembering the feelings are the same apart as together....I have to get used to his detachment when we're apart...he even told me he knows he can seem aloof and distant and doesn't want it to effect where we are with eachother
Seems such an odd match
Actually, Leo/Aqua (especially Leo woman/ Aqua man) is the one opposite combination that has the highest % of long term success. It just takes some adjustment and understanding, which both are more willing to do because the attraction is deep. We see something in the other that we need (that only they can teach us), as well as similarities to make us feel connected enough to want to try.
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Posted by sultrykitty
Since you've gotten a few answers from the guys, I'll just offer you a little insight into Aqua guys' behavior from a female Leo's perspective (having gone through this and made it past this phase).

For us, our man is EVERYTHING. Especially in the beginning when feelings are new and intense. We think that's the way it SHOULD be all the time and if we get that feeling with someone, it's a sign that this guy could be The One. And we'll do anything to keep that going. It works pretty well with other signs but not so much with Aqua.

They see those intense feelings as deceptions; distractions. It makes things complicated, and they don't like that. So when our enthusiasm for the relationship starts to seep into their psyche, it kind of freaks them out. They HATE losing control.

So you have to follow his lead, even if that means some level of detachment. For Aqua, love and passion are only two aspects of a fulfilled life, and they'll approach a person of interest with the same logic as they do making a decision about what career to choose or what financial investments to make.

It's a much more sober approach vs how we go about love.

I would say that as long as he is making contact, taking time to spend with you, and as long as you're feeling a connection--he is feeling it too. You have to learn to intellectualize his feelings for you. I.e., *know* how he feels for you vwhen you're apart by remembering how you feel when you're together. That obviously takes time to build that confidence, but if he wasn't interested or he loses interest, he will tell you.
Would this apply to an Aqua female/Leo male?

I'm standing over a cliff ready to jump off.... I don't know what to do anymore. @sultrykitty
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I think Leo males and Aqua females are very different from their opposite sex counterparts. I have seen a lot more Leo f / Aqua m work out more often. In both cases, it seems to work forever or not at all.

My first real love was an Aqua (didn't work out and ended very badly), and Mr Aqua's first real love was a Leo (same ending).

I'm not sure what your Leo man is doing that is making it difficult for you. I think the Aqua detachment is more pronounced in men than in women, and that's probably the main issue for us Leo women, who also like freedom (which Aqua is great for) but want to be ADORED. Aqua guys just can't outwardly give us that.

I don't know if that dynamic exists in your guys' relationship.

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Posted by sultrykitty
Since you've gotten a few answers from the guys, I'll just offer you a little insight into Aqua guys' behavior from a female Leo's perspective (having gone through this and made it past this phase).

For us, our man is EVERYTHING. Especially in the beginning when feelings are new and intense. We think that's the way it SHOULD be all the time and if we get that feeling with someone, it's a sign that this guy could be The One. And we'll do anything to keep that going. It works pretty well with other signs but not so much with Aqua.

They see those intense feelings as deceptions; distractions. It makes things complicated, and they don't like that. So when our enthusiasm for the relationship starts to seep into their psyche, it kind of freaks them out. They HATE losing control.

So you have to follow his lead, even if that means some level of detachment. For Aqua, love and passion are only two aspects of a fulfilled life, and they'll approach a person of interest with the same logic as they do making a decision about what career to choose or what financial investments to make.

It's a much more sober approach vs how we go about love.

I would say that as long as he is making contact, taking time to spend with you, and as long as you're feeling a connection--he is feeling it too. You have to learn to intellectualize his feelings for you. I.e., *know* how he feels for you vwhen you're apart by remembering how you feel when you're together. That obviously takes time to build that confidence, but if he wasn't interested or he loses interest, he will tell you.
Would this apply to an Aqua female/Leo male?

I'm standing over a cliff ready to jump off.... I don't know what to do anymore. @sultrykitty
I think Leo males and Aqua females are very different from their opposite sex counterparts. I have seen a lot more Leo f / Aqua m work out more often. In both cases, it seems to work forever or not at all.

My first real love was an Aqua (didn't work out and ended very badly), and Mr Aqua's first real love was a Leo (same ending).

I'm not sure what your Leo man is doing that is making it difficult for you. I think the Aqua detachment is more pronounced in men than in women, and that's probably the main issue for us Leo women, who also like freedom (which Aqua is great for) but want to be ADORED. Aqua guys just can't outwardly give us that.

I don't know if that dynamic exists in your guys' relationship.

Sucks. Because it is true. I am detached and closed off emotionally. It's hard for me to open up and I always doubt his intentions. I'm always second guessing what he meant and I feel like he pulls back when he doesn't get the response he seeks. I do care. But I'm not one to kiss anyone's ass. I think there lies in the problem. Since he uses his usual tactics on other women that work but with me, he gets the opposite result.
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Yep, that's how it was with us at the beginning too. But I think Leo women are more "malleable" (for lack of a better word) than Leo men. Still stubborn yes, but willing to give in more for our men. I think Leo men are much more dominant and won't bother with a woman who doesn't respond to his tactics. We women tend to stick it out longer and compromise more. Not doormats, but we can accomodate more easily. If we do that with the wrong one, it spells trouble and we can be taken advantage of.

Sorry for rambling, lol.


This is Tiz's blog, and I find the Leo woman, Aqua man description pretty spot on:

https://www.blackbook.one/leo-woman-aquarius-man/

See if you identify with the opposite:

https://www.blackbook.one/aquarius-woman-leo-man/

ng me or aquarius_beauty

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Posted by sultrykitty
Since you've gotten a few answers from the guys, I'll just offer you a little insight into Aqua guys' behavior from a female Leo's perspective (having gone through this and made it past this phase).

For us, our man is EVERYTHING. Especially in the beginning when feelings are new and intense. We think that's the way it SHOULD be all the time and if we get that feeling with someone, it's a sign that this guy could be The One. And we'll do anything to keep that going. It works pretty well with other signs but not so much with Aqua.

They see those intense feelings as deceptions; distractions. It makes things complicated, and they don't like that. So when our enthusiasm for the relationship starts to seep into their psyche, it kind of freaks them out. They HATE losing control.

So you have to follow his lead, even if that means some level of detachment. For Aqua, love and passion are only two aspects of a fulfilled life, and they'll approach a person of interest with the same logic as they do making a decision about what career to choose or what financial investments to make.

It's a much more sober approach vs how we go about love.

I would say that as long as he is making contact, taking time to spend with you, and as long as you're feeling a connection--he is feeling it too. You have to learn to intellectualize his feelings for you. I.e., *know* how he feels for you vwhen you're apart by remembering how you feel when you're together. That obviously takes time to build that confidence, but if he wasn't interested or he loses interest, he will tell you.
Would this apply to an Aqua female/Leo male?

I'm standing over a cliff ready to jump off.... I don't know what to do anymore. @sultrykitty
He reached out?
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