Aquarius man confusing Pisces woman

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by P3n3lop3 on Monday, April 11, 2016 and has 35 replies.
Hello everyone I'm a Pisces woman with Aquarius rising getting to know Aquarius male with libra rising and he say's he likes me but his actions say otherwise. Doesn't want to be friends but likes me??? I feel he may be stringing me along but has also pleaded that I just be patient with him? One minute it seems he's playing games then when you least expect it here he comes acting as if nothing happened & all into me?
What exactly does he do? An example please.
Lately since I've been opening up to him it seems like he may not be able to handle it? I tried to open up to him a few days ago but he never replied and a couple of days went by and I asked was he ok and he just said having some trouble and ask how was I and I just expressed how I felt from him not responding to me and he just protested and said I jump to conclusions but has also let me know I'm impatient which is true.
Posted by P3n3lop3
Lately since I've been opening up to him it seems like he may not be able to handle it? I tried to open up to him a few days ago but he never replied and a couple of days went by and I asked was he ok and he just said having some trouble and ask how was I and I just expressed how I felt from him not responding to me and he just protested and said I jump to conclusions but has also let me know I'm impatient which is true.

I have seen this with myself that I take time to open up. I can't handle the intensity of emotions the other person forces on me. I may like the other person, but I need my time to take it all in and be normal.

My advice, leave him alone for 2 more days. But, still talk if you guys meet and be normal. He will answer your questions very soon, if he trusts and respects you.
@febaqua ok will do & thank u... I don't want to smother him but man....I could give him my all. I just want to love someone and be loved.
@vixen2 what's ur experience with them?
Posted by P3n3lop3
@febaqua ok will do & thank u... I don't want to smother him but man....I could give him my all. I just want to love someone and be loved.

I agree being with an Aqua man is a REAL test of patience. Ask yourself, is this guy worth my time and if your answer is a resounding "YES", go ahead and you will certainly get a friend for life at the very least if not anything beyond. Someone who you can trust.
Posted by P3n3lop3
Hello everyone I'm a Pisces woman with Aquarius rising getting to know Aquarius male with libra rising and he say's he likes me but his actions say otherwise. Doesn't want to be friends but likes me??? I feel he may be stringing me along but has also pleaded that I just be patient with him? One minute it seems he's playing games then when you least expect it here he comes acting as if nothing happened & all into me?

are you aquarius venus?

what are you and his placements?


if you're getting mixed signals, it's not a good sign. that means incompatibility.

you'll end up with the rest of the folks on dxp asking for relationship advice.
That's true and also @febaqua he's been in a very long relationship and that gives me an uncertainty about him as well because I'm not rebound material and feel if uve been with someone for so long is it easy for u aquas to pack up and just leave or would u just fight it out and keep the new person at bay?
Posted by P3n3lop3
That's true and also @febaqua he's been in a very long relationship and that gives me an uncertainty about him as well because I'm not rebound material and feel if uve been with someone for so long is it easy for u aquas to pack up and just leave or would u just fight it out and keep the new person at bay?

If I have to put myself in his place, unless my ex did something really bad to hurt me, I won't move away very easily. How long has it been since he broke up with his ex?
@lisabethur8 im not sure on his but it may be venus in pisces and mine is in Aries
Not long at all I get the feeling that he may be on and off with her or he's using the same tactic with her and possibly other females as well given that he's very social which is no problem I'm just not into his Atari approach.
Posted by P3n3lop3
@lisabethur8 im not sure on his but it may be venus in pisces and mine is in Aries

I have Venus in Pisces too and I can kinda relate to what he may well be going through.
Posted by P3n3lop3
Not long at all I get the feeling that he may be on and off with her or he's using the same tactic with her and possibly other females as well given that he's very social which is no problem I'm just not into his Atari approach.

If this is how you feel, sorry to say that it is simply not going to work. Too many doubts at an early stage of a relationship aren't good signs.
Posted by febaqua
Posted by P3n3lop3
@lisabethur8 im not sure on his but it may be venus in pisces and mine is in Aries

I have Venus in Pisces too and I can kinda relate to what he may well be going through.
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venus for a Man is what he is ATTRACTED to....


venus for a woman is how she FLIRTS. it's like you women want to be a man or something.

look to your mars for women.

cafeastrology:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman's Mars is in Pisces, she is often impressed with a man who is sensitive, compassionate, and intriguingly complicated. Lacking in confidence is just fine, and so is a touch of helplessness. A "starving artist" type may be appealing, or a man who is downtrodden in some way, as these women enjoy men who have a distinct soft side. The strong, independent types are not turn-ons for these women.


basically psices mars ladies, like men who don't have money, but as long as he is a GOOD MAN. money is the least thing on their mind. just someone with kindness and caring attitude. someone they can nurture and love.

for a man, if he's got pisces then he's attracted to the psychic chicks, or the type that is ethereal and mysterious and gives off that deep nurturing love.

of course don't forget the houses and aspects.

get his chart, OP and find out if you want.

and see if he acts that way.
@febaqua sorry I have so many questions but can you expound on or give an example of what a luv life for u or what u expect & are u with someone now?
As Lisa said before, I like women who are by nature independent, somewhat intriguing to understand (as that is the puzzle to solve), has a fun side to her and most importantly I don't want to be with one who is all the time needy and keeps a leash on me.

She should stand on her own and I don't mind giving her a free hand to live life to the fullest. This is what I see in my current relationship. smile
@lisabethur8 thank u and what's OP? & if venus is in pisces is there a better chance it could work out with us?
Posted by febaqua
As Lisa said before, I like women who are by nature independent, somewhat intriguing to understand (as that is the puzzle to solve), has a fun side to her and most importantly I don't want to be with one who is all the time needy and keeps a leash on me.

She should stand on her own and I don't mind giving her a free hand to live life to the fullest. This is what I see in my current relationship. smile

you're a man??? O__O


you feel very feminine. woops. Tongue

Posted by P3n3lop3
@lisabethur8 thank u and what's OP? & if venus is in pisces is there a better chance it could work out with us?

uhhhhh I don't know.

that all depends on both of you.

just take it one day at a time.

with the singing voice of Glenn Frey?

just take it easy!! Big Grin

Thank u @febaqua but isn't the puzzle with women really not all figured out if u never digged deep enough to bring out the best in her and u both realize things in urself that u never knew existed from within? So even when aquas may think they have gotten to a point where they feel they have a woman all figured out they actually don't? And even if she is those things what if her needs go unheard? Shouldn't it go both ways? But now I see where the source of problems will lead to
Ok :-) @lisabethur8 thank you.
Posted by P3n3lop3
Lately since I've been opening up to him it seems like he may not be able to handle it? I tried to open up to him a few days ago but he never replied and a couple of days went by and I asked was he ok and he just said having some trouble and ask how was I and I just expressed how I felt from him not responding to me and he just protested and said I jump to conclusions but has also let me know I'm impatient which is true.

Get off your phone and see each other in person. Don't go all heavy with the feels over text. Do that face to face.
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Posted by febaqua
As Lisa said before, I like women who are by nature independent, somewhat intriguing to understand (as that is the puzzle to solve), has a fun side to her and most importantly I don't want to be with one who is all the time needy and keeps a leash on me.

She should stand on her own and I don't mind giving her a free hand to live life to the fullest. This is what I see in my current relationship. smile

you're a man??? O__O


you feel very feminine. woops. Tongue


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I know not a lot of men hang around DXP. But, I do, because I love being who I am and helping people.

I do understand issues concerning women, because I care to listen to all. A good peace mediator. haha.
@ladyneptune that's hard I want to but I don't feel he has the time or he's just feeling me out and I wanna give him his space because I too need it but not as much as he does so I respect it
Posted by P3n3lop3
Thank u @febaqua but isn't the puzzle with women really not all figured out if u never digged deep enough to bring out the best in her and u both realize things in urself that u never knew existed from within? So even when aquas may think they have gotten to a point where they feel they have a woman all figured out they actually don't? And even if she is those things what if her needs go unheard? Shouldn't it go both ways? But now I see where the source of problems will lead to

By being intriguing, I didn't mean that everyday you need to act differently. Just be yourself, revealing it all slowly. And give him a good conversation about something that you guys have in common.

Its not just about mysterious that an Aqua guy will find interesting. If you are honest and you speak to him what you feel, he should listen to you. Now, this is all assuming he doesn't have something else going on the other end.
Yeah and I have a lot to offer and I feel off balance bcuz I have no one and that usually helps boost me to accomplish great things but if he has something else on the other end sad to say he's worth it but so am I so this I will surely give some thought. @febaqua
Posted by P3n3lop3
@ladyneptune that's hard I want to but I don't feel he has the time or he's just feeling me out and I wanna give him his space because I too need it but not as much as he does so I respect it

That's somewhat contradictory.

Make time to see each other in person. Your looking at him as a romantic interest, no? Which means at some point you'll be physically intimate (if your not already). So don't feel like your intruding on his "space" by asking for face to face time.

Honestly, blowing up a dudes phone with feely texts reads a bit clingy to me and pretty invasive too. You need to keep the texting flirty and light.

Save the serious moments for when you can lock eyes.
Posted by blessyou
Fuck pisces

Move along. We ain't trying to fuck with you.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by blessyou
Fuck pisces

Move along. We ain't trying to fuck with you.

I really despise pisces people. Word to. Super sensitive super pussy too..
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you're just as sensitive if not worse.

don't you have a pisces venus? also you have way too much air, an air stellium with Gemini rising and Gemini venus.

that pisces venus squares your planets and you have a hard time with sensitivity in others but yet you want people to acknowledge your sensitivity.

you're projecting what you don't like in yourself.


Posted by aquanib
I just kicked a pisces dude out of my life. He is fucking inferior as fuck...like brain leaking away when you talk to him weak.

..come to think of it, the occasional visits in his mancave to smoke one or two joints in company with others was really all he had to offer (he never had anything to smoke just a place). I avoided it when he was alone.

don't you have pisces in your chart. I know you all are super AIRY (dominant air)

but your airiness is disdaining emotionality in people.

everyone is weak in their own way.

I don't like it when people hate on other signs for being emotionally weak.
both you men are not good men if you put down women who are emotional.


EDIT - personally I think you're not serious and just want to be cruel to others.

if I see a man who is UNKIND to women, it really boils my blood.

@ladyneptune will do thank you 😊
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Posted by lisabethur8
you're projecting what you don't like in yourself. I don't like it when people hate on other signs for being emotionally weak.

Nah, am not projecting. As for the second sentence, i wasn't refering to his emotions when i said "weak"..........but it was more of an intellectual divide, namely a narrowminded person with an attitude "i hate learning".
A small example, so one night a few of us gather at his place, last autumn, we start talking politics, after all we were 30yo men......and the guy literally vetoed the conversation after about ten minutes with an argument "i don't like to hear about such things, you are at my place, talk something else". Dafuq....


Posted by lisabethur8
both you men are not good men if you put down women who are emotional.


EDIT - personally I think you're not serious and just want to be cruel to others.

if I see a man who is UNKIND to women, it really boils my blood.



Stop jumping to conclusions....there was no talk of emotions and even less of women......at least not from my part.
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ok fine. but you ARE at his place. if you were at a PUBLIC place, like a restaurant, café, ect. open public place then you can say the hell you want. within the respect of the estabilishment's rules -- like NO fighting and throwing chairs or the police is gonna come after and haul you all away.

but if you are at a man's place you RESPECT what he wants to talk about.

it's his domain. If you don't like that, then never associate with him again, or associate with him in a public place.