Aquarius man ignoring me suddenly
This topic was created in the Aquarius Men forum by Peppers on Tuesday, August 8, 2017 and has 7 replies.
I started spending time with an Aquarius man about 3-4 months ago. I am moving abroad to Europe soon and he has known this the whole time. At first I couldn't tell if he even liked me, then one day he started to express what strong feelings he has for me. He became very sweet and texted me constantly and wanted to be around me. Then suddenly, for no apparent reason, he has about dropped off the face of the earth. He doesn't respond to me, won't make plans/cancels them, and says he is very busy and stressed (which is true, but still).
i know I'm the one who's leaving, but he started to really let down his walls and be vulnerable, and this sudden change really hurts my feelings. I'm Pisces btw.
I'm leaving in a matter of weeks, and the thought of not talking to him about this is almost unbearable. But I've heard that with Aquarius men I shouldn't try to get him to talk because he will feel pressured. So am I just supposed to ignore my feelings and my hurt, move to Europe and never see him again? Will he ever contact me? He was very very into me, and I know I've done nothing wrong. I just want to understand. Should I let it go, or can I call him?
i know I'm the one who's leaving, but he started to really let down his walls and be vulnerable, and this sudden change really hurts my feelings. I'm Pisces btw.
I'm leaving in a matter of weeks, and the thought of not talking to him about this is almost unbearable. But I've heard that with Aquarius men I shouldn't try to get him to talk because he will feel pressured. So am I just supposed to ignore my feelings and my hurt, move to Europe and never see him again? Will he ever contact me? He was very very into me, and I know I've done nothing wrong. I just want to understand. Should I let it go, or can I call him?
You should show your concern but in other ways than you already did, otherwise it can get annoying if you say, ask or do the same things again.
Maybe you can go see him (try not to leave him a choice, make clear that it's important for you to see him now) and ask him again about his behavior, try to talk to him about the situation and also tell him how you feel about moving abroad...
A call would be an option if he doesn't reply by text.
Don't give up, if an aquarius is into you it's usually for long. Maybe he's trying to protect himself because you're leaving but if you want him don't let him.
Good luck!
Maybe you can go see him (try not to leave him a choice, make clear that it's important for you to see him now) and ask him again about his behavior, try to talk to him about the situation and also tell him how you feel about moving abroad...
A call would be an option if he doesn't reply by text.
Don't give up, if an aquarius is into you it's usually for long. Maybe he's trying to protect himself because you're leaving but if you want him don't let him.
Good luck!
You're leaving the country, why does it matter? Quit being delusional and look at the facts. He's cutting you off because it's unrealistic to be in a relationship with someone who's hundreds if not thousands of miles away. You said so yourself, so what is it that you want? To fight for a dead end relationship? Men are much more realistic than women give them credit for.
Posted by StarSkyThis.
You're leaving the country, why does it matter? Quit being delusional and look at the facts. He's cutting you off because it's unrealistic to be in a relationship with someone who's hundreds if not thousands of miles away. You said so yourself, so what is it that you want? To fight for a dead end relationship? Men are much more realistic than women give them credit for.
I once asked my Aqua man what would he do if I left the country. He said we go together/keep contacting me. The idea is that Aquas don't deal well with distance, if they get anchored. So, it depends on the status of your relationship. If they feel anchored but you go against their will, they rebel. So, if it is temporary, talk to him.
Posted by hbbrnaquaTry to connect to his heart with his moon too. I do agree with this that he's detaching himself because he doesn't wanna get hurt and afraid of how he will feel when u leave so he's getting prepared. I do that too having mars in Aqua and moon in Aqua... my Aqua is similar he has Pisces moon.... trg giving him a voice record to his email or whatever method allows you. Express ur feelings in a vulnerable way .. how you feel when he doesn't reply. How you will miss him and how you would like to continue connecting with him...
You should show your concern but in other ways than you already did, otherwise it can get annoying if you say, ask or do the same things again.
Maybe you can go see him (try not to leave him a choice, make clear that it's important for you to see him now) and ask him again about his behavior, try to talk to him about the situation and also tell him how you feel about moving abroad...
A call would be an option if he doesn't reply by text.
Don't give up, if an aquarius is into you it's usually for long. Maybe he's trying to protect himself because you're leaving but if you want him don't let him.
Good luck!
good luck. Posted by sultrykittyPosted by StarSkyThis.
You're leaving the country, why does it matter? Quit being delusional and look at the facts. He's cutting you off because it's unrealistic to be in a relationship with someone who's hundreds if not thousands of miles away. You said so yourself, so what is it that you want? To fight for a dead end relationship? Men are much more realistic than women give them credit for.click to expand
Ouch.... lol... if they r truly into each other surely there's a way to make it work lol...
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