AQUARIUS MEN—

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I'm not a man yet alone an aqua man. So I can talk about men in general which may not help you much sorry...but I'll try

I would say it depends on the guy. Some guys like to chase and when they got what they want they are done. Kind of like the cat that catches the mouse, pads it around a bit then lets it go about it's business. Some guys chase get what they want then are done because they don't like what they see after all then they are done.

Some like the chase get it and keep it, they know how precious this little mouse is and not letting any other tom cat get what they claim as their own.

Some get bored of the chase (or doesn't want to chase or used to have the mouse come up and say eat me... wait that sounded bad, oh well) and lets the mouse run around just looking then just walks away and find the food bowl or goes take a nap. They really don't give a piece.

So I'll say it's more about the guy. I'm sure aquas and aqua males will have some more concrete info for you luv. I hope you get the answers you are looking for. 🙂
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Posted by tbird
I'm not a man yet alone an aqua man. So I can talk about men in general which may not help you much sorry...but I'll try

I would say it depends on the guy. Some guys like to chase and when they got what they want they are done. Kind of like the cat that catches the mouse, pads it around a bit then lets it go about it's business. Some guys chase get what they want then are done because they don't like what they see after all then they are done.

Some like the chase get it and keep it, they know how precious this little mouse is and not letting any other tom cat get what they claim as their own.

Some get bored of the chase (or doesn't want to chase or used to have the mouse come up and say eat me... wait that sounded bad, oh well) and lets the mouse run around just looking then just walks away and find the food bowl or goes take a nap. They really don't give a piece.

So I'll say it's more about the guy. I'm sure aquas and aqua males will have some more concrete info for you luv. I hope you get the answers you are looking for. 🙂



LOL thank you!
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Do they like a challenge when getting a girl, most men do i'm just curious what Aquarius men feel about it? and when they conquer the quest of getting her are they done, time to move on?



I should add he is a very cocky eh hum confident Aquarius (he has his life together good job,money)who i believe think's all girls want him and he usually get's them anddd he's only soon to be 25yo.....lol just sound's dangerous to me for anyone to want to try to be with someone like that—
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I agree with everything here and from what I have seen we enjoy the chase or being chased I guess it's part of that mental stimulation we love.



Is there a way for a woman to know if the lad prefers to be chased or not? Just wondering 🙂
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Well I got couple of aqua friends and it seems the quieter like to be chased and the more outgoing like the chase. However I am more outgoing sometimes and I'm quieter sometimes so I would say there is really no way of knowing.
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Do they like a challenge when getting a girl, most men do i'm just curious what Aquarius men feel about it? and when they conquer the quest of getting her are they done, time to move on?



I should add he is a very cocky eh hum confident Aquarius (he has his life together good job,money)who i believe think's all girls want him and he usually get's them anddd he's only soon to be 25yo.....lol just sound's dangerous to me for anyone to want to try to be with someone like that—
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You probably like the chase yourself 😉

As for running down a 25yo Aqua... I'd look the other way, lest you be seen as a cougar and only desired for superficial, sexual purposes. Unless that's what you're after 🙂
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Aqua men like situations where they can sit back, observe you & decide whether or not you're worthy of them investing in you

So yes, most men in general are 'hunters'

But with Aqua men, in order for them to do what I said above, they kind of have to allow the other person to do the chasing

When the other person does the chasing, it allows them to sit back & see you for who you really are.

When an Aqua is doing all the chasing, yes they can still see who you are BUT it slows down the process b/c they're trying to wow you instead of it being the other way around, which is what they prefer

If an Aqua is chasing you, and hard, it's b/c they really like you

But 9 times out of 10, any woman dating an Aqua will notice that he won't be willing to do all the chasing. She'll have to prove herself & do some chasing too.

And if a woman is not used to that, she may interpret her Aqua not chasing her to mean that he's not interested. And that's not true. If anything, the fact that he's sitting back & watching you means that he cares enough to do so.

If an Aqua had their minds made up about you (in a bad way), they wouldn't put you through 'testing' to begin with lol
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I'll say this though...

If you're the one chasing the Aqua, don't do it aggressively.

1. It'll turn them off simply b/c men prefer to be the more aggressive ones
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2. Aquas will be suspicious of anyone who seems to be TOO interested in them too soon

Aquas don't mind a challenge b/c they respect people who won't put all their cards on the table for them.

Aquas themselves hold their trump cards & won't reveal everything until they're for sure, so we naturally respect when others are like us in that way b/c it makes us want to know more.

Most women who do all the chasing with Aquas normally lose an Aqua's interest very quickly.

Plus, people have to understand that an Aqua's definition of 'chasing you' may be completely different than yours.

An Aqua may think to themselves that the mere fact they always initiate contact means they're chasing you whereas another sign may not even see it that way or allow that to count
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Posted by krysrenee7
I'll say this though...

If you're the one chasing the Aqua, don't do it aggressively.

1. It'll turn them off simply b/c men prefer to be the more aggressive ones
AND
2. Aquas will be suspicious of anyone who seems to be TOO interested in them too soon

Aquas don't mind a challenge b/c they respect people who won't put all their cards on the table for them.

Aquas themselves hold their trump cards & won't reveal everything until they're for sure, so we naturally respect when others are like us in that way b/c it makes us want to know more.

Most women who do all the chasing with Aquas normally lose an Aqua's interest very quickly.

Plus, people have to understand that an Aqua's definition of 'chasing you' may be completely different than yours.

An Aqua may think to themselves that the mere fact they always initiate contact means they're chasing you whereas another sign may not even see it that way or allow that to count



Wow so true I love those descriptions especially about the definition of chasing. 🙂
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Posted by AliCar15
I think it goes without saying, that an the other planets (Venus & Moon) in the Aqua's chart are very important in the "courting" process.

I do agree with knas- an Aqua likes a strong woman who knows who she is and what she wants. And if that strong woman likes the Aqua, she will typically be the one who does a lot of the chasing- especially in the beginning.

I think for an Aqua, most women are mysteries that need to be figured out- whether they are chasing the Aqua, or not.



Oya to that I think the only exception though about a mysterious women is if they are from our childhood. This is did not believe until recently with this Pisces I have been seeing. 🙂