Aquarius Men...

January 20February 18

Know ur Boy Friend Aquarius man is an unconventional and eccentric freedom lover, and yet wants to be everyone's friend and stick to his own quite rigid life style .

Aquarian men set out to find as many friends as they possibly can, rather than worry about love and sex. Love and sex are valid, and part of life, but they aren't the be-all of existence for this fixed Air sign. As long as the Water-Bearer sees change and progress in others, or in the world around him, then he is blissfully happy. He does not particularly pursue or encourage it in himself. He's an oddball, a weirdo, often the man you meet at the office disco who doesn't drink and doesn't dance but smokes a pipe and looks like an anarchist.

He might also be that man on the commuter train you see every morning who gazes at you with alien eyes and has an aloof and rather cold appearance. He's actually silently working you out, because Aquarians enjoy scientific investigation of the human psyche!

His feelings about women can be as cranky as his habits, but there is one thing he will always do first before he makes any move to attempt a relationship: convince himself that you are strong enough to cope with his inquisitive and probing mind. He feels it's his right to know everything about the woman of his choice, and the deeper the mystery you stir, the longer you remain an enigma, the more likely he'll want to nose-dive into your secrets. The secret of the universe, your sexual appetite, you name it, the Aquarian will unravel the truth to expose the answers. Sex is no less, no more, important than any other facet of his active life, and if you're happy to consider sex and love as part of your life too, then you'll stand a better chance of a long-term relationship with this man and all his friends. Love is impersonal to an Aquarian. He takes it and hands it round with the same degree of feeling to everyone. Don't ever think that you are special. You can be part of his life, but never to the exclusion of others. Being friends is more important than being lovers. This is how he will choose a soul-mate; sex comes second to this Air sign who lives in his head and rarely in his heart. He enjoy sex but as for other Air signs it's fun, a mental experience, not emotional, and definitely not soppy. Aquarius is an abstract lover who will blow cold rather than hot

Even if he is not scholastically an achiever, he has a high IQ. It's rare to find an Aquarius that is not street wise, and even rarer to find one that is not a book worm. He often has the appearance of being a lost child in a grocery store, but don't let that fool you. He is not lost, he is just so preoccupied with his quest for knowledge that he sometimes gets overwhelmed. Often times he even looks eccentric, but the less extroverted types keep their eccentric side under conservative wraps.

Whatever the case, it never takes very long to discover that this guy cares little about dancing to the same beat as everyone else. This does not mean he does not care about his fellow man, because part of his charm is that he cares deeply about other people. If romantic expression and softly spoken words of love are music to you ears, you better not attempt this union. He needs a person who is confident enough to know that he cares without a lot of melodramatic lip service. Once in love, he is dedicated, loyal and always sincere in his affection. One thing you can count on, he will always be there for you -even if you do have to make a loud screeching sound once in awhile. The best way to get his attention is to think as much about others as yourself. He has very little interest in people who are self- absorbed or obsessively emotional.

What he does like is someone who is passionate and idealistic about life. If you have a pet "cause", he is the first person to listen and respond. A reformer at heart, he is always ready to give a helping hand to anyone in need. Don't expect this man to be too imaginative when it comes to traditional courtship, but this doesn't mean you can't be. In fact, it would be a plus. This man loves the element of surprise, even if it means diving into unknown territory.

If you can be the one to show him something new, he is going to be intrigued right away. Although he can have opinions as solid as rock candy, he is seldom judgmental when it comes to your personal belief system. He may not agree, but he will usually listen. Social gatherings are a worthy bet for the first date, but if you really want to get to know this man, then opt for a more personal date. Have a deep purpose or goal in life and he will be attracted to your dreams. His first romantic advances could border on being awkward. Once he relaxes though, his fertile mind has no limits. Do remember that friendship is high on his list of priorities, so becoming his friend before immediate intimacy is recommended.

Aquarians, due to their innate sense of curiosity and their experimental attitudes, have a tendency to explore all avenues of sexual enjoyment. The brain is the most potent sexual organ to Aquarians. They use their imaginations to extract hidden urges and fantasies. Sex with Aquarius lover can be wild and totally unpredictable. A keyword to describe Aquarian sexuality is liberation. The freedom to innovate, explore and experiment sexually is intoxicating to Aquarians.

Their unpredictability is also part and parcel of their sexuality. They not only want to possess your body but also want to know what is going on in your mind. Sex is pure lust and better if no emotional involvement is there. Explosive instant physical gratification works best for them. Being an airy sign they are imaginative and experimental in lovemaking. There is no thumb rule to judge sexuality of an Aquarius because they can be passionate and can also be aloof. Sexual intimacy can be a problem for Aquarians and they do not ask for much affection, love or intimacy in return - they are usually quite aloof, cool, detached and unemotional.

Wherever there's music, there's an Aquarian. If it's an exceptionally tidy house, it's the house of an Aquarian. And, they'll always be the first to consult their stars in the morning newspaper. The way to an Aquarians' heart is through their brain. If you want to seduce an Aquarian make sure you have plenty of interesting things to talk about, remember this sign is devoted to causes of all kinds so make sure you have a few of your own, work on ways to seduce this dream lover's mind first, make sure your dream lover feels you will always be a good friend and remember they like surprises (interesting and new ideas). Becoming friends first gives you better than 50-50 odds that an Aquarian will ultimately be yours. It's working when your Aquarius thinks your transition from friends to lovers was all their idea. Their love of lively music is definitely the best starting point. Book tickets for a musical, pop concert or festival. Aquarians are also very interested in Mystic Arts so why not suggest going to a psychic meeting.

Devil in You Aquarius may be too much of a dreamer. He makes plans but seldom carries them out. He is rather unrealistic. His imagination has a tendency to run away with him. Because many of his plans are impractical, he is always in some sort of a dither. Others may not approve of him at all times because of his unconventional behavior. He may be a bit eccentric. Sometimes he is so busy with his own thoughts that he loses touch with the realities of existence. Some Aquarius feel they are more clever and intelligent than others. They seldom admit to their own faults, even when they are quite apparent. Some become rather fanatic in their views. Their criticism of others is sometimes destructive and negative.

I think everyones broken up with their aqua men now...

LOL!

I guess so (:

faster! faster! faster! weeeeeeeeeee!!!!

LOL, awww DK...you seem 'balanced'...well in the love area that is...

*mutters under breath*
HATERS!!!
or HA8ERS as some say

*smug face*
you people don't realize our worth

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quiiick question. theres this aqui man who's very friendly towards me (ie always holding my hands or touching my face) and has even tried to kiss me. i've refused... and played the "sweet girl" role.. because i am. he's always the one looking for me and going up to me.. i never go to him first. and he just recently gave me his number so we can "hang out"... does he like me? and when should i call him?

i am still with my aqua...

in order to be with an aqua man, one must have a LOT of patience...

Who has the time? I am back and forth with my Aqua also...but we are just friends.

Nope keeping mine, married now.
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I agree with Scartooth. So many times we are taught that Aquarian (especially men) are just these hard creatures to figure out & to understand, but that's mainly b/c we as outsiders sometimes over analyze what we hear about them, to the point that when we meet Aquarian men or take interest in them, we can become robotic & almost go by "the book" as a way to attract them. And then what happens? We end up confused b/c doing what "the book" tells us to do often just confuses the situation even more, since Aquarians can often pick up on when someone feels they know them to the tee, thus they'll be unpredictable & change paces before others can even blink. I think the key to an Aquarian man's (or ANY man's heart) is quite simple..One we have to take into account that man's moon & venus. And two, Aquarian men like women who naturally know how to please, intrigue & attract them. And not the kind of women that read books on "How to attract an Aquarian." Women who always go by the book don't realize that Aquarian men can tell the difference b/w a woman who is attracting him b/c she is being herself VS. the woman who is purposely doing things (like the book says) to keep him around. Aquarian men can pick up on this & this makes them very skeptical & supsicious. I agree that Aquarian men like all the same things other men like. They like a woman who is focused & who can hold deep conversations with them. Even though Aquarian men are easily turned off, that doesn't mean they'll respect the woman who purposely agrees with everything they say & purposely does everything an Aquarian's way just for gain. Aquarians like people that are alike themselves: people who dare to be difference regardless of whether other people will accept them. Problem is, so many women have heard that Aquarian men are so picky (which is secretly true for most men), so they assume that they have to go above & beyond to attract such a man & that's not true. Aquarians seek natural connections. Problem is, most connections they feel with others aren't natural (for millions of reasons) & not so much b/c they are just so complicated beings

I love my Aqua....he is The most uncomplicated man I have ever known. He keeps it real and very simple...I like it that way. Although I'm a pisces. I am not overly emotional or needy. I love my space and this meshes well with my Aqua. I also have my secret, and have an array of life experiences. I'll throw him an intriguing tidbit about me once in a while. Seeing his eyes light up excites me 😉