Aquarius men: how will a woman know if you are into her

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Paradoxical_leo on Friday, January 27, 2017 and has 6 replies.
I've been seeing this aqua male, Feb 13 birthday, for about 2 months now and I'm frustrated and slightly happy at the same time...in the beginning we would be on the phone for hours he was so attentive he told me his feelings for me and how he thinks of me heavy all day...then out the blue he hits me with the i need some space to realign myself cause of this new energy about a month ago ever since then although we have seen each other and spent time with eachother and text or talk almost every other day I feel like he's not into me anymore...when I asked him about his actions a couple of days ago because I said I was going to pull back from him he said don't pull back that his interest is still there he just has a lot going on and said he feels I'm looking for a relationship and although for him if a relationship happens it happens but he's not focused on it...we kind of had a convo about it that didn't seem to end well because I told him I felt I was putting all the effort in...but the day after that convo he asked to see me while he is did and I spent the night...then the day after he asked to see me again and once again I spent the night and pretty much the whole day there I texted him that night and just said he was on my mind and I hoped he had a good day and his reply was kind of off putting he said he appreciates me thinking of him and laughed and said his day was good and I was here for half a day...kind of like why are you contacting me I just saw you smh...when we are together it's amazing and his responses to me are nice and loving and emotional but when we are not together he seems so off and uninterested...it's throwing me off because I'm a consistent person and if you're into me in the beginning don't just slack off because you caught feelings...I don't know what to do everytime he does something to make me feel he's into me he does something else to throw me off


How do I know if an aqua male is into me or losing interest or just using me for companionship...if he's losing interest will he just let it die...everytime I've mentioned falling back away from him he says no but doesn't put forth the effort I think he should...

On the other hand when we are together...how he stares at me and looks in my eyes...or gets close to me and touches me or when I touch him and hug him he closes his eyes and breathes deep...says my touch does something...hugs me extra long...talks with me all night...but as soon as I'm not in his presence...Dr. jekyll and Mr. Hyde


Help!!!!
Girl, I saw my Aqua only once a week for 10 years. We didn't (and still don't) text and/or call in between.

I would have been thrilled to see him every other day.

He's into you, and he has a life outside of you. Learn from him. Winking
"although we have seen each other and spent time with eachother and text or talk almost every other day I feel like he's not into me anymore..."

Omg women over analzye everything. The proof is in the damn pudding. Aquarius do not entertain just to enertain. HE LIKES YOU.
LOL it's funny because I'm kind of in the same boat with my Aqua, we're also two months in and long distance. I'm notorious for overthinking/over analyzing (Virgo woman here)..and I wasn't sure how to handle things...



Honestly what I ended up doing was being straight up with my Aqua, but I approached it as sort of observation and as non-aggressively as I could that we don't text/talk as much in-between visits. My Aqua basically confirmed what I've read about Aquas, they are most definitely about their space, this is no joke! And they are more about action than talk and don't feel the need to constantly reassure that they are into you. My guy states he's busy not only with work but he likes to fill up his time doing productive things, meeting with his friends, family and when he actually has time to himself is when he is able to text/communicate back. Sometimes he is kind of dry and cold through text, other times he's not and i'm sure it depends on the day he's having. In any case mine's not attached to his phone and I don't get texts very often but he's told me in no way does that mean he's any less interested. He just rather show his affection etc. etc. in person and he is amazing to me in person.

It very much sounds like your Aqua is into you, and that's just based on what you've written, so focus on that and just remind yourself how great it is when you guys are together! I'd hope if he loses interest he would convey that to you (but idk I guess Aquas are also known for ghosting). Also KEEP BUSY, I think it's best when you have other things to focus on and just try and make the best of when he does hit you up.

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Not an Aquarius but oh my. You are totally

Over thinking and becoming needy... Aqua really need his space. You need to learn to give that to him or one day he might really fling..... he's obviously into you though need time to recharge. He's being totally honest and sincere though you are looking everything as half empty not half full...what are your other placements! ?
Yea, i'm sorry but WHY are you worrying? I see nothing wrong with what he's doing.what more do you want? You truly need to have a full life of your own. Aquas like independent women! And who wouldnt? Clingy ppl are annoying.