I've been seeing this aqua male, Feb 13 birthday, for about 2 months now and I'm frustrated and slightly happy at the same time...in the beginning we would be on the phone for hours he was so attentive he told me his feelings for me and how he thinks of me heavy all day...then out the blue he hits me with the i need some space to realign myself cause of this new energy about a month ago ever since then although we have seen each other and spent time with eachother and text or talk almost every other day I feel like he's not into me anymore...when I asked him about his actions a couple of days ago because I said I was going to pull back from him he said don't pull back that his interest is still there he just has a lot going on and said he feels I'm looking for a relationship and although for him if a relationship happens it happens but he's not focused on it...we kind of had a convo about it that didn't seem to end well because I told him I felt I was putting all the effort in...but the day after that convo he asked to see me while he is did and I spent the night...then the day after he asked to see me again and once again I spent the night and pretty much the whole day there I texted him that night and just said he was on my mind and I hoped he had a good day and his reply was kind of off putting he said he appreciates me thinking of him and laughed and said his day was good and I was here for half a day...kind of like why are you contacting me I just saw you smh...when we are together it's amazing and his responses to me are nice and loving and emotional but when we are not together he seems so off and uninterested...it's throwing me off because I'm a consistent person and if you're into me in the beginning don't just slack off because you caught feelings...I don't know what to do everytime he does something to make me feel he's into me he does something else to throw me off
How do I know if an aqua male is into me or losing interest or just using me for companionship...if he's losing interest will he just let it die...everytime I've mentioned falling back away from him he says no but doesn't put forth the effort I think he should...
On the other hand when we are together...how he stares at me and looks in my eyes...or gets close to me and touches me or when I touch him and hug him he closes his eyes and breathes deep...says my touch does something...hugs me extra long...talks with me all night...but as soon as I'm not in his presence...Dr. jekyll and Mr. Hyde
Help!!!!
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Jan 05, 2017Comments: 1 · Posts: 503 · Topics: 10
"although we have seen each other and spent time with eachother and text or talk almost every other day I feel like he's not into me anymore..."
Omg women over analzye everything. The proof is in the damn pudding. Aquarius do not entertain just to enertain. HE LIKES YOU.
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Apr 18, 2013Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Not an Aquarius but oh my. You are totally
Over thinking and becoming needy... Aqua really need his space. You need to learn to give that to him or one day he might really fling..... he's obviously into you though need time to recharge. He's being totally honest and sincere though you are looking everything as half empty not half full...what are your other placements! ?
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Oct 24, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 2706 · Topics: 56
Yea, i'm sorry but WHY are you worrying? I see nothing wrong with what he's doing.what more do you want? You truly need to have a full life of your own. Aquas like independent women! And who wouldnt? Clingy ppl are annoying.