Aquarius Men In Love?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by CapLovinAquaz on Sunday, February 5, 2017 and has 9 replies.
He finally said the words that I've been wanting to hear! But he says it at the most unexpected time. The first time he said it was when we were on the phone and I was in deep conversation with him and out the blue he said, "I love you". I was not finished talking but he blurted it out. I was so shocked that I didn't finish what I was saying. I was smiling so hard. I didn't even say I love you back b/c I was shocked. That was like 4 weeks ago. Then he said it again a few days ago when I met him to bring him something he needed... I was in my car and I handed him what he needed. Then somehow we made a very 'loving' eye contact and he started touching my arm and my hand in a very loving/caressing way. Then he stuck his head in to kiss me so passionately. It was just one, long, hot kiss! Then when I said bye, he walked away and said, "Love You".

Does he really love me ?? The way he said it was "Love You" but not "I Love You". Does that make a difference with Aqua men? Prior to all of this, he would tell me that he loves me in times that would be considered the prefect times but then he would laugh it off after he would say it.

I'm asking all Aquarians is this considered good behavior of Aquarius men in love?
Awwwww.....I think he does smile. When you said at the most "unexpected time", I thought you were going to say something like he shouted it out in the middle of a crowded restaurant or at the cinema when there was a quiet bit lol

My last lover told me on the phone and it sounded so quiet, I thought I had imagined it Tongue

Enjoy

x
Posted by youngali
stop overthinking it boo, he really loves you damn it.

i'm not an aquarius, but i'm an aqua venus so that makes me qualified to say: stop overthinking damn it. lol

capricorns are great in my opinion and even with my aqua venus they still love me.

sounds like a good guy.
I guess you're right! I do over think at times. It's just that I don't want him to play with me. There are other things that he do like certain things that make me Think that he doesn't. At times he will cancel plans with me or he doesn't take me out much. He doesn't go out much. He just works. I guess I'm looking for the 'wine and dine' experience with him. SIGH!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Awwwww.....I think he does smile. When you said at the most "unexpected time", I thought you were going to say something like he shouted it out in the middle of a crowded restaurant or at the cinema when there was a quiet bit lol

My last lover told me on the phone and it sounded so quiet, I thought I had imagined it Tongue

Enjoy

x
Hey lady! This same thing happened on the phone with me with my Aqua. But when he said that he loved me sooo quietly, it was only 2 months into us just talking. He said it so quietly that I thought that I imagined it! Then I asked him again do he love me. And he said NO but the way he said it, he said it like he was in love with me. Like he wanted to tell me YES but since I didn't say it back to him the first time he said it, it was like he wanted to cover it up.
Posted by SweetLily89
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.

Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!Laughing
Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.
You're going to lose your mind analyzing this man and this relationship to death. Just enjoy it for what it is.
Your post is so sweet. He even said it twice even though you didn't say it back the first time.

Those words coming from an Aqua, who's not a sign commonly associated with romantic displays, makes this even sweeter.

Good luck with your guy. I think he's feeling you just right.
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Posted by SweetLily89
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.

Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!Laughing
Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.





Welcome to Aqualand!! Lmao!. Unfortunately, this seems to be rather normal amongst Aquas. They love their freedom. On the upside, Once they've made up their mind about how the feel about you, it takes a whole lot to change their mind.

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Try expressing to him, how you feel, without making an emotional scene about it of course. My ex Aqua, was very reasonable in meeting me halfway. Like you, investing time was important to me and somehow he managed to make me feel secure and loved, while maintaining his freedom. I just laid it out plainly, told him what I needed and he delivered.



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I think that I am going to have to talk to him seriously. I just don't want to scare him. I mean, you know how Aqua men are when you want more from them. And time is very important to me. But to him, he may feel like his freedom is being taken away. He also take his business very seriously. When I call, and he is busy it takes him a couple of hours to call or text back. I at least want him to let me know right then a 'courtesy text' to let me know he busy.

I will take your advice and just talk to him.
Posted by SweetLily89
Posted by CapLovinAquaz
Posted by SweetLily89
Posted by CapLovinAquaz
Posted by SweetLily89
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.

Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!Laughing
Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.





Welcome to Aqualand!! Lmao!. Unfortunately, this seems to be rather normal amongst Aquas. They love their freedom. On the upside, Once they've made up their mind about how the feel about you, it takes a whole lot to change their mind.

#Fixed

Try expressing to him, how you feel, without making an emotional scene about it of course. My ex Aqua, was very reasonable in meeting me halfway. Like you, investing time was important to me and somehow he managed to make me feel secure and loved, while maintaining his freedom. I just laid it out plainly, told him what I needed and he delivered.



I think that I am going to have to talk to him seriously. I just don't want to scare him. I mean, you know how Aqua men are when you want more from them. And time is very important to me. But to him, he may feel like his freedom is being taken away. He also take his business very seriously. When I call, and he is busy it takes him a couple of hours to call or text back. I at least want him to let me know right then a 'courtesy text' to let me know he busy.

I will take your advice and just talk to him.


Good luck! Just remember to keep in mind that compromise is a 2 way street. smile

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Thanks SweeyLily89