Posted by youngaliI guess you're right! I do over think at times. It's just that I don't want him to play with me. There are other things that he do like certain things that make me Think that he doesn't. At times he will cancel plans with me or he doesn't take me out much. He doesn't go out much. He just works. I guess I'm looking for the 'wine and dine' experience with him. SIGH!
stop overthinking it boo, he really loves you damn it.
i'm not an aquarius, but i'm an aqua venus so that makes me qualified to say: stop overthinking damn it. lol
capricorns are great in my opinion and even with my aqua venus they still love me.
sounds like a good guy.
Posted by MyStarsShineHey lady! This same thing happened on the phone with me with my Aqua. But when he said that he loved me sooo quietly, it was only 2 months into us just talking. He said it so quietly that I thought that I imagined it! Then I asked him again do he love me. And he said NO but the way he said it, he said it like he was in love with me. Like he wanted to tell me YES but since I didn't say it back to him the first time he said it, it was like he wanted to cover it up.
Awwwww.....I think he does . When you said at the most "unexpected time", I thought you were going to say something like he shouted it out in the middle of a crowded restaurant or at the cinema when there was a quiet bit lol
My last lover told me on the phone and it sounded so quiet, I thought I had imagined it
Enjoy
x
Posted by SweetLily89Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.
Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!
Posted by SweetLily89I think that I am going to have to talk to him seriously. I just don't want to scare him. I mean, you know how Aqua men are when you want more from them. And time is very important to me. But to him, he may feel like his freedom is being taken away. He also take his business very seriously. When I call, and he is busy it takes him a couple of hours to call or text back. I at least want him to let me know right then a 'courtesy text' to let me know he busy.Posted by CapLovinAquazPosted by SweetLily89Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.
Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!
Welcome to Aqualand!! Lmao!. Unfortunately, this seems to be rather normal amongst Aquas. They love their freedom. On the upside, Once they've made up their mind about how the feel about you, it takes a whole lot to change their mind.
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Try expressing to him, how you feel, without making an emotional scene about it of course. My ex Aqua, was very reasonable in meeting me halfway. Like you, investing time was important to me and somehow he managed to make me feel secure and loved, while maintaining his freedom. I just laid it out plainly, told him what I needed and he delivered.click to expand
Posted by SweetLily89Thanks SweeyLily89Posted by CapLovinAquazGood luck! Just remember to keep in mind that compromise is a 2 way street.Posted by SweetLily89I think that I am going to have to talk to him seriously. I just don't want to scare him. I mean, you know how Aqua men are when you want more from them. And time is very important to me. But to him, he may feel like his freedom is being taken away. He also take his business very seriously. When I call, and he is busy it takes him a couple of hours to call or text back. I at least want him to let me know right then a 'courtesy text' to let me know he busy.Posted by CapLovinAquazPosted by SweetLily89Lol! I'm asking b/c this is an Aqua man. He flips back and forth at times with me. Lately I would plan so we could be together more. He would tell me why he can't make it. Like I want him to also plan and make time for me. My love language is time. So when he does not make time it makes me feel like love is not all the way there.
Lol I can't get over the cuteness of this thread.
Re-read your post darlin', are you seriously asking us if this is for real???!!
Welcome to Aqualand!! Lmao!. Unfortunately, this seems to be rather normal amongst Aquas. They love their freedom. On the upside, Once they've made up their mind about how the feel about you, it takes a whole lot to change their mind.
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Try expressing to him, how you feel, without making an emotional scene about it of course. My ex Aqua, was very reasonable in meeting me halfway. Like you, investing time was important to me and somehow he managed to make me feel secure and loved, while maintaining his freedom. I just laid it out plainly, told him what I needed and he delivered.
I will take your advice and just talk to him.click to expand