Aquarius Men That BLOCK You

Posted by MrR78
I broke up with Aquarius ex in September and wasn't blocked until December when I think she got back with her ex.


There could be 2 reasons why he has blocked you.


1.) He needs space.

2.) He is letting you know he is done and is doing the passive aggressive technique. Apparently this is quite common in Aquas as they don't like confrontation.


Ive posted a few links below which may help you decipher some behaviour. It is based on Aqua women and not men though. See if you can pick out some similarities.


I have been a victim of the passive aggressive silence Aquas have to offer and its not very nice. Just make sure you stay centered and head strong and not let the situation make you second guess who you are.


Why is an Aquarius ignoring me?

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155471489303/why-is-my-aquarian-ignoring-me


How an Aquarius re-acts to heartbreak?

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155693303413/how-an-aquarius-re-acts-to-heartbreak


Aquarius after break-ups

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155745537373/aquarius-after-breakups

Posted by CapLovinAquaz
Why??


is this their way of saying they are done with you?


My Aqua man just blocked me from his phone. I think he is mad at me for not 'being there' for him. He is so self-centered. While he was going through something, I was too. It was such a coincidence that he and I were experiencing the SAME ENCOUNTER yesterday in two separate different places. But I guess he is mad at me. I spoke with him this morning in detail what happened to me and he told me about him but he was a little mad. Then I later find out that he blocked me from his phone. Does this mean we are done? Over something so little a petty???

Posted by Leoqueen21
Yes, when I broke it off with my Aquarius ex in November 2016 he blocked me on Instagram, blocked me on snapchat, unfriended me on Facebook, I didn't notice until after about a couple of days and when I questioned him about it he was like I don't want you to know what I'm doing. (I have no hard feelings for him), but I was taken aback because I wasn't even worrying about his ass, I broke up with him lmao, so why would I be worried about what you're doing.

In January he asked me if I was talking to anyone, and I'm a very truthful person regardless of your feelings so I told him the truth and here he goes with the blocking again lmao, he blocked my phone number. (I found out because the text message turned to green (I have a iPhone) and then I tried to call and it went straight to voicemail) but I was like whatever. He recently just unblocked me on Instagram and sent me a friend request, and I also guess he unblocked my phone number because he called last week.

I guess its just something do when they are feeling some type of way, but I was so unbothered. I guess they want attention in a way but I gave into none of it, lmao

Posted by MrR78
@chuckem - just out of curiousity mate, why do you think Aquas need this sense of control? Is it that all Aquas have a masculine energy which drives this?

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by MrR78
@chuckem - just out of curiousity mate, why do you think Aquas need this sense of control? Is it that all Aquas have a masculine energy which drives this?

You'd probably need to ask an Aquarius. I've heard that not all Aquas do this, but it's not uncommon either. Aquarius is also a masculine sign, so that could be part of it. They are very proactive.

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Posted by youngali
Aquarius venus here...


...and i block like a muthafucker. lmao.

if you've ever done me wrong... i block.

i block for inconsistency.

i block when being ignored.

i block when i don't like someone.

i block when i feel someone is rude af.

i unblock later on in life... maybe 2-3 years down the line. depending.

if we break up, i simply just unfollow. i don't want to see any shit that you're doing and i leave it at that.

might block and unblock on IG, to cut all ties.


it's never any hard feelings, just a way of dealing with emotions. lord knows i hate dealing with emotions.

i find it works for me. outta sight, outta mind.

helps me to move on faster and get over shit in general.


usually 2-3 years later, they end up following me again and i'd follow back depending on the level of fucks i give.

Posted by sultrykitty
It's their way of detaching without commitment.


This way, he's in control. He can contact you when he's feeling better, and if you aren't mad, you can go back to "normal". No harm, no foul.


If you're mad, they go back to step one and wait some more.


If after this detachment period they aren't feeling like you're right for them, then they can bounce without guilt.


It's ALL about freedom (theirs). As long as they feel like they are holding the reins, they're happy.


This isn't to bash Aqua, it's really just how it goes with them. You either roll with it or don't.

Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by sultrykitty
It's their way of detaching without commitment.


This way, he's in control. He can contact you when he's feeling better, and if you aren't mad, you can go back to "normal". No harm, no foul.


If you're mad, they go back to step one and wait some more.


If after this detachment period they aren't feeling like you're right for them, then they can bounce without guilt.


It's ALL about freedom (theirs). As long as they feel like they are holding the reins, they're happy.


This isn't to bash Aqua, it's really just how it goes with them. You either roll with it or don't.

He says this a lot to me when I start complaining about certain things. It's like Aqua men do not want to change but want you to adjust to their ways of doing things. Do you assume that they act this way to see how long you are going to stick around??

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Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by sultrykitty
It's their way of detaching without commitment.


This way, he's in control. He can contact you when he's feeling better, and if you aren't mad, you can go back to "normal". No harm, no foul.


If you're mad, they go back to step one and wait some more.


If after this detachment period they aren't feeling like you're right for them, then they can bounce without guilt.


It's ALL about freedom (theirs). As long as they feel like they are holding the reins, they're happy.


This isn't to bash Aqua, it's really just how it goes with them. You either roll with it or don't.

He says this a lot to me when I start complaining about certain things. It's like Aqua men do not want to change but want you to adjust to their ways of doing things. Do you assume that they act this way to see how long you are going to stick around??

I'm not sure if that's the core of it, but it might play a part.


I think they "know" that they won't change for anyone, so they do what they do, and if a girl can handle it well, it reinforces for them that she's going to be a good match for him.


That doesn't mean that they don't change, but you have to assume that they won't. That's when they start becoming more introspective and some of the more ass-hatish immature things start to drop off.


Mine admitted after many years that he had changed, that he realized how dickish he had been with me in the past, and that because of me he realized he needed to change. That was a huge thing for me that he admitted it.

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Posted by saweetz1988
I think blocking got to do with detachments , I'm a master of this with my Aqua moon. I learnt in life that it's a very immature thing to do..when I get hurt. I detach , I block, which in turns didn't help in the long run. I have learnt to be more vulnerable... blocking js about me trying to deal with my emotion and my way of needing to move on .... recently I just deleted watsapp coz I was trying to move on from the Aqua man, not that he did anything wrong really lol I just sensed that he's sleeping with someone else n mentally I told myself to move on so I deleted it... only to reinstore it back 10 mins later lol.. it drives me nuts... lol

Posted by CapLovinAquaz
Why??


is this their way of saying they are done with you?


My Aqua man just blocked me from his phone. I think he is mad at me for not 'being there' for him. He is so self-centered. While he was going through something, I was too. It was such a coincidence that he and I were experiencing the SAME ENCOUNTER yesterday in two separate different places. But I guess he is mad at me. I spoke with him this morning in detail what happened to me and he told me about him but he was a little mad. Then I later find out that he blocked me from his phone. Does this mean we are done? Over something so little a petty???

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by saweetz1988
I think blocking got to do with detachments , I'm a master of this with my Aqua moon. I learnt in life that it's a very immature thing to do..when I get hurt. I detach , I block, which in turns didn't help in the long run. I have learnt to be more vulnerable... blocking js about me trying to deal with my emotion and my way of needing to move on .... recently I just deleted watsapp coz I was trying to move on from the Aqua man, not that he did anything wrong really lol I just sensed that he's sleeping with someone else n mentally I told myself to move on so I deleted it... only to reinstore it back 10 mins later lol.. it drives me nuts... lol

And he blocked me b/c he was hurt by not being their for me when he needed me. But it's like I'm there for him alllllllllll the other times but it's like this one time I wasn't there for him, he's hurt! And so he blocks me. Then he unblocked me and today we hang out with each other and he still mad. So he says hurting things towards me today like simple things. Things like,"So, I don't care what you're talking about". Or "I really don't like u like that anymore so it really doesn't matter to me". But I know he cares about me a lot. That's why he hurt.


Do you think by him saying hurtful things like this is also another way of keeping me distant?? Or is he really over me?

I've done stuff like this to my ex because I wanted to be cuddled

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Posted by MrR78
I never really understood the blockinggame and why people do it. It almost like a passive aggressive statement.


It is true though, Aquas have very personal sense of emotions which to be fair I find very hard to understand, especially because they speak more with actions, rather than words.

Posted by Orchidee

Posted by MrR78
I never really understood the blockinggame and why people do it. It almost like a passive aggressive statement.


It is true though, Aquas have very personal sense of emotions which to be fair I find very hard to understand, especially because they speak more with actions, rather than words.

Yes, Aquas speak with actions than words. Isn't that how it should be anyway?


As for blocking being passive aggressive, I disagree. Not always. I block people once on a while and it's because I don't ever want to hear from them. I'm done with these people. I don't want to give them an outlet to reach me. As for deletion, it's done to deprive myself of an outlet to reach that person. If I don't have the contact info of someone, how will

I reach them?

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Posted by Scorpio123
I dated two aquas and both of them blocked me when things ended, even if they were in the wrong. No other ex did that! They're so cold...

Posted by MrR78
So how long are the people you are involved with, broken up with, have feelings with etc expected to wait?


My ex I work with has only just started to talking to me again after 10 months of ghosting and she is only chatting via email at the moment.


I understand that Aquas do what the need to for self protection and preservation, but amongst 2 people who care for or cared for each other deeply, isn't communicating your feelings or actions a more appropriate method rather than just vanishing.


I am ok now, as I dealt with my emotions and have no issues or negativity towards my ex and have communicated this to her, but some people may really be affected by an aquas actions of ghosting or cutting communication.

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Posted by aqua0215

Posted by Scorpio123
I dated two aquas and both of them blocked me when things ended, even if they were in the wrong. No other ex did that! They're so cold...

When I broke up with my ex, I blocked him on all platforms as well. I promise you, its not to be petty. For me, it helped me to evaluate my emotions, then eventually move on and detach sooner. I guess its an Aqua thing, but if I didnt block him I kept going back and checking, having to stop myself from texting, etc. Once I was over it and detached I was able to unblock him. I explained it to him that I wasn't trying to be petty, even as spiteful as he was...but his spitefulness helped me to make the decision to block him as well. In short, it is a coping mechanism for us, it stops us from bugging you. We love our independence and to feel like we need someone is bothersome for us.....but if we know we need space to see the bigger picture of the situation without emotion, we will remove ourselves from it.

Thank you for explaining this, it was a while back when it happened but it has really effected my confidence I think, just to feel that someone could not just forget me, but completely erase me like that.

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Posted by haylz124
And as Aqua0215 says to re-evaluate emotions. basically her answer is exactly how I feel when I block.

Posted by MrR78

Posted by haylz124
And as Aqua0215 says to re-evaluate emotions. basically her answer is exactly how I feel when I block.

Sol what emotions do you exactly re-evaluate when you block someone? Is it on an emotional level, practical level of both?


For example you want to be with someone and you cant, so you convince yourself practically things wont work out, or is it you want to be with someone but you cant for whatever reason, so you look for ways to make it possible?

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Posted by MrR78

Posted by haylz124
And as Aqua0215 says to re-evaluate emotions. basically her answer is exactly how I feel when I block.

Sol what emotions do you exactly re-evaluate when you block someone? Is it on an emotional level, practical level of both?


For example you want to be with someone and you cant, so you convince yourself practically things wont work out, or is it you want to be with someone but you cant for whatever reason, so you look for ways to make it possible?

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Posted by Aries_Luminary

Posted by MrR78

Posted by haylz124
And as Aqua0215 says to re-evaluate emotions. basically her answer is exactly how I feel when I block.

Sol what emotions do you exactly re-evaluate when you block someone? Is it on an emotional level, practical level of both?


For example you want to be with someone and you cant, so you convince yourself practically things wont work out, or is it you want to be with someone but you cant for whatever reason, so you look for ways to make it possible?

*I'm not an Aquarius so u can take my opinion with a grain a salt. But I explained above why I commented here. Plus I've dated ALOT of Aquarius and Aquarius energy people and my Dads an Aquarius and one of my close male friends is an Aquarius. I pick his Brian often*


When blocking, I think it's both emotional and practical. But when it comes to taking action from their weighing up I think they go with what's practical. Because logic out weighs emotion.


You're second question I can't answer because my Aries starts to kick in and I go after what I want.


If feeling beat down and hopeless about not being able to be with someone I will become logical and practical about it. And that's where I find comfort in the situation and that's how I force myself to heal. I will convince myself that it is impossible for us to be together.


But if I find a glimmer of hope. Aa glimmer of possibility I find myself starting to fight again *I think this is the Aries part tho

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