Aquarius STOOD me up!
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by sirsmoke on Monday, September 13, 2010 and has 13 replies.
So this aquarius girl that Ive been conversing with makes plans with me,calls me and initiates everything.This girl even called me and told me she was on the way to my house....im trying to figure out what the hell is goin on because i get effin stood up!This happened las friday and i havent talked to her since,she didnt apologize or anything...what could be going through her head????
P.S Im a Leo
P.S Im a Leo
HA! i got stood up by an aquarian GIRL also. And nooo explanation, nooo apology NOTHING.
@Nat yu still speak to her at all?
yea i do i didnt bother to blow her phone up with calls or texts as to what the fk happened so i just let it go. Didnt speak to her for about a week or so then we started talking again and she was all like i miss u etc etc and then i never mentioned it and like a month later i brought it up and i was like so what happened to you that friday night etc etc and she was like which one?? "acting" confused etc and i refreshed her memory and then came up with some story which im still to this day not sure if its belieavable anyway she got heaps shy and stuff and started giggling and she was like dont look at me like that i was like.. look at you like what? and she just did a shy smile and hid her face in her arms... and i just shook my head. lol.
anyway yea i still talk to her now.
anyway yea i still talk to her now.
@Nats lol how tha hell yall start talking again,did you initiate contact or did she??i dunno how yu did it man cuz i dont see myself talkin to her ever again unless she does somethin to really make up 4 it
@Days22 yea i noticed that too,whatever is in the moment is what their gonna do
sirsmoke wats your sun sign??
i still talk to her because i dont know theres something about this girl i just cant let go of. she fascinates me because i cant understand her or the way she is.
I think she made the first contact after that happened
but anyway im over her sh*t and i think today will be the last day i see her and even if it isnt im going to act like it is and just get over her quick fast.
Maybe aquas really arent for me and hey were supposed to be astrologically the BEST together but guess it didnt work out this time! shes just TOOO detached for my liking.
im a gemini sun
i still talk to her because i dont know theres something about this girl i just cant let go of. she fascinates me because i cant understand her or the way she is.
I think she made the first contact after that happened
but anyway im over her sh*t and i think today will be the last day i see her and even if it isnt im going to act like it is and just get over her quick fast.
Maybe aquas really arent for me and hey were supposed to be astrologically the BEST together but guess it didnt work out this time! shes just TOOO detached for my liking.
im a gemini sun
Posted by ScorpioDreamer
I had something kinda similar happen to me....not exactly but kinda. Except this was with an Aqua guy. Aquas really do tend to do things on a whim!
The Aqua guy I'm talking about would initiate and make plans with me all the time, practically begging to see me. Time after time he'd tell me something came up at the last minute and he could not go. (I guess I should at least be thankful he told me instead of standing me up)....still it did not feel great! I let it go the first couple of times. I mean things happen you know? Besides, he'd always have a reasonable excuse as to why he could not keep his plans with me. The third time it happened I got a bit suspicious though. I'm like okay, this guy either must not be that into me at all or perhaps he's seeing someone else or maybe even both. But I did not get into it with him. Afterall, we were only dating casually so what right did I have all up in his business. Still I found it very rude!
Anyway, the fourth time (Yeah, can't believe I let it get to a fourth time!) he did this to me, I was all dressed and in my car on the way to his place when he sends me a text saying nevermind, I don't really feel like doing anything, I'll talk to you later on messenger. Well, no siree bob! That's not gonna fly with me this time. I finally let him have it. I told him NO! You are not cancelling on me this time. It's okay if you don't want to see me, but don't make plans and then back out the last minute. I told him that was very rude and how does he think it makes me feel? I told him I was no longer going to stand for it and if he never wants to do anything with me again that's fine.
After that it never happened again. Everytime he made plans he kept them. Yeah, I probably shouldn't have given him so many chances, but there is just some kind of attraction I can't fight. I know sad right? But he can be very lazy...just like me at times. I've also turned him down a few times on his plans after all this has happened. Just because I don't want it to seem like I'm forcing him to do things with me and to show him how it feels. NOt to be mean, but I was very hurt by it and he knows that now.
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Same with my Aqua except I wouldnt get the "excuse" till the next day! It was always him who initiated and rearranged. In the end I refused to make plans and just told him to pop rou
*cUT OFF*
round when he was in the area. Now he's always popping round unannounced which i dont mind. I like spontaneity more then cancelled plans lol
round when he was in the area. Now he's always popping round unannounced which i dont mind. I like spontaneity more then cancelled plans lol
well its been lik 4 days now,i unfollowed her on twitter but shes still following me and i think she sent me a subliminal tweet saying shes sorry....what would happen if i continue to ignore her???
God, that DOESN'T sound very Aqua, to be honest. Cancelling, sure, but not outright standing someone up. Aloofness is a trait, but not rudeness to that dismissive extent.
Posted by sirsmoke
well its been lik 4 days now,i unfollowed her on twitter but shes still following me and i think she sent me a subliminal tweet saying shes sorry....what would happen if i continue to ignore her???
She'll get uptight and try and put it all back on you.
Call her on her shit, tell her she's a rude so-and-so, wait for the fireworks to die down....and she'll either be hot on your heels or you'll never hear from her again. Either way, she's not in your life right now so what is there to lose?
Oh geez, I'm SO guilty of making plans and breaking them before hand. I swear, I think I do that more than I follow through. I'd RARELY not say something about it though. There was one time that I just blew off plans without letting the person know (there were others involved too though). I think I did it because I was tired of my own excuses! I didn't want to hear another one.
Its a terrible trait...the making plans and then backing out. Everything seems like a good idea until I have to get up and go.
Its a terrible trait...the making plans and then backing out. Everything seems like a good idea until I have to get up and go.
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