Aquarius Sun/Capricorn Venus

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by natural25 on Monday, July 1, 2013 and has 23 replies.
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I would love you opinions about my ex, who I am currently good friends with. His Venus is in Cap. Is this good or bad as far as friendships and relationships?
Does that Cap in Venus help ground some of the crazy Aqua detachment or does it really not matter?
Thoughts please....
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I don't have any aquarius in my chart but I am a cap sun. I come off cold sometimes, but from what I've heard cap venus can be very romantic.
A guy I was talking to was sag sun, aqua moon, cap venus. I was very undecided about him because he seemed to have a lot of issues, like an internal conflict. He showed that he cared by helping me whenever he could. But then all of a sudden he would be really detached. One day he'd be clamoring for my attention and trying to have a conversation, the next he'd quickly say hi and give me a hug, then go off. He'd be so excited to ask me on a date, then during dates he would barely talk. I just couldn't take him seriously. And the biggest problem is that I seem to attract guys with aquarius or capricorn placements, but they're way too cold for me. Sad
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What was your experience with him in the past? Are you trying to rekindle the relationship or just stay friends?
The guy I was sorta/almost dating, whatever you want to call it, was a great friend. We would still be friends if I'd never freaked out on him and told him to delete my number and leave me alone. I miss his friendship, but I was angry and couldn't hold it in anymore.
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Posted by cappy129
What was your experience with him in the past? Are you trying to rekindle the relationship or just stay friends?
The guy I was sorta/almost dating, whatever you want to call it, was a great friend. We would still be friends if I'd never freaked out on him and told him to delete my number and leave me alone. I miss his friendship, but I was angry and couldn't hold it in anymore.


He was confused. I think he was confused about who he was and as a result confused about what he wanted. We did not speak for about 8-9 months. We slowly began speaking to one another again in January. At the time, I was dating someone else and really didnt think anything of it. We have become closer as far as our friendship recently. Acting as somewhat of a support system to one another. We are both out of state and in grad school. I have noticed a lot of maturity and growth within him. Especially, compared to when we were together over a year ago.
I am not sure what I want. I have not thought as far as actually being in a relationship, because school for me has been crazy and I am not sure if I am willing to have the distraction. Especially, if he has not TRULY grown in the ways it APPEARS he has.
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Posted by feby16aqua
I'm aqua sun, cap venus. Shoot! :-) ask away...


Ok. Lol. Do you find that your Cap placement adds to your level of detachment (if such exists) or helps to balance it out?
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I'm an aqua sun/cap venus and I honestly don't think it's the cap venus that would ground some of the detachment. I would probably look at the moon first and determine that from there!
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Posted by putiputi
I'm an aqua sun/cap venus and I honestly don't think it's the cap venus that would ground some of the detachment. I would probably look at the moon first and determine that from there!


Oh dear LORD! Friends it is!!! Lol. I cant believe I never paid attention to his moon. SMH. Gemini. **bows head** Lol. Yikes!
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Posted by feby16aqua
I've got a libra moon. Lol Winking


Well thats it! Your Libra moon probably helps to center you. Gemini moon?!? SMH. Thats a disaster waiting to happen. Its a wonder he can decide what underwear to put on in the morning. LOL.
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Lol. Well At least there is some passion behind your indecision. A Gem moon..... YIKES!
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Posted by feby16aqua
You're cute I must say smile what is your sun and moon? Do you know where his ascendant is?


Aww thank you! smile
Scorpio/Libra
I am not sure where his ascendant is because I am not sure what time he was born.
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Posted by feby16aqua
And a sapiosexual as well...I understand now. smile I am the same way....sapiosexual on off switch with sexualsapio lol


LOL! Either way. As log as the person has a properly functioning brain and they can use it. Lol.
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Posted by natural25
Posted by putiputi
I'm an aqua sun/cap venus and I honestly don't think it's the cap venus that would ground some of the detachment. I would probably look at the moon first and determine that from there!


Oh dear LORD! Friends it is!!! Lol. I cant believe I never paid attention to his moon. SMH. Gemini. **bows head** Lol. Yikes!
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Here's a link about Gemini moon people smile
http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2012/01/moon-signs-air.html?m=1
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Or I mean moon in air signs smile
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Posted by putiputi
Posted by natural25
Posted by putiputi
I'm an aqua sun/cap venus and I honestly don't think it's the cap venus that would ground some of the detachment. I would probably look at the moon first and determine that from there!


Oh dear LORD! Friends it is!!! Lol. I cant believe I never paid attention to his moon. SMH. Gemini. **bows head** Lol. Yikes!


Here's a link about Gemini moon people smile
http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2012/01/moon-signs-air.html?m=1

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Thank you!! I am going to give this a read. smile
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Posted by rgh1
Sun, Moon and Venus in Aquarius with my ascendant being Libra. I have no issue with friends...I have several ex g/R's that I still talk too, flirt with and enjoy conversation. But, we don't go back to where we were. Were just friends...and enjoy the occasional conversation.
However, its just occasional...there not in my life enough to be more than an ex I am still friends with. If that makes any sense.


Makes complete sense. Right now, my ex and I are more than just exes, we are pretty close as far as our friendship goes. But as time goes on and we both get into relationships, that could very well change.
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Posted by rgh1
Sapiosexual??? Really, a woman would has my attention if my brain, humor and wit are important. :p


^^ All of the above are important, attractive, and required. Lol
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I read it.... SMH. As I said before, friends it is. Unless he comes out the gates rearing to go like a race horse with a display of love and affection (which we know wont happen) friends is probably best. Lol. Not because I require a lot of attention and reassurance, but because that description (although straight forward) is confusing it an of it self when thinking about being in a relationship with someone like that. It seems too confusing and taxing....
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My bf is aqua sun, cap venus. He's very grounded (possibly because of the virgo moon). He seems romantic at times and at other times, romance is the furthest thing on his mind. He's very cap-like in that there is a time and place for everything. He can be aloof and approachable at the same instant, if that even makes sense. I will say this, those placements are very, very cautious and move very slowly. It is not a "sweep you off your feet" or "hot and heavy" type of affair with them. But if what you're looking for is stable, responsible, honest, dependable and loyal, you'll get it. Not a lot of verbal reassurances, but the actions are very loud. There is a lot of unspoken language you have to be able to read and be okay with. They will do little things for you and take really good care of you if you take the time to notice.

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Posted by truecap
My bf is aqua sun, cap venus. He's very grounded (possibly because of the virgo moon). He seems romantic at times and at other times, romance is the furthest thing on his mind. He's very cap-like in that there is a time and place for everything. He can be aloof and approachable at the same instant, if that even makes sense. I will say this, those placements are very, very cautious and move very slowly. It is not a "sweep you off your feet" or "hot and heavy" type of affair with them. But if what you're looking for is stable, responsible, honest, dependable and loyal, you'll get it. Not a lot of verbal reassurances, but the actions are very loud. There is a lot of unspoken language you have to be able to read and be okay with. They will do little things for you and take really good care of you if you take the time to notice.




This makes sense. I totally agree with the cautious assessment. He has been known to treat everything like a clinical experiment. I am not sure how he approaches relationships now, but that is how he handled things when we were together. Thinking, thinking, over thinking, then thinking, then over thinking again. GRRRR!!!!!
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Yep, analyzing it to death!!!! The cap venus supposedly won't make a move until they feel sure you are receptive. There will be a fear of rejection. Cap suns are like that, so I seem to agree and think the cap venus would be the same.
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You might want to look at his Mars to see how he approaches the relationships (flirting, making moves, etc).
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Posted by truecap
Yep, analyzing it to death!!!! The cap venus supposedly won't make a move until they feel sure you are receptive. There will be a fear of rejection. Cap suns are like that, so I seem to agree and think the cap venus would be the same.


Its actually kinda annoying. Lol.
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Posted by truecap
You might want to look at his Mars to see how he approaches the relationships (flirting, making moves, etc).


Mars in Libra. Could this man have any more air in his chart?!?
I am going to read about Mars in Libra now. Lol.
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