AQUARIUS SUN MOON IN CAPRICORN MALE DATING EXP

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by 24capgal18 on Monday, April 22, 2013 and has 20 replies.
i MET AN AQUA MALE WHO HAS CAP MOON; USUALLY HE IS REAL AFFECTIONATE BUT DOES SEEM TO BE HOLDING BACK MUCH. HE SAYS THAT HE'S REALLY INTO ME BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO INITIATED OUR FIRST CONVERSATION WHICH LEAD TO US GETTIN INTO A RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW THAT MY CAPRICORN SUN IS ONE THING THAT MAKES ME ATTRACTIVE TO HIM PLUS MY VENUS IS IN SAG AND HIS MARS IS IN SAG ; OOH YEA HIS VENUS IS IN CAP TO, SO I GUESS THAT IM LOOKIN FOR OPINIONS OF HOW I SHOULD EXPECT THIS TO WORK OUT OR IF ANY OF YOU GUYS HAVE HAD EITHER OF OUR COMBINATIONS BEFORE AND DOES IT LOOK PROMISING????? ALSO
THIS HIS CHART
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aquarius 5.02
Moon Capricorn 16.30
Mercury Capricorn 11.15
Venus Capricorn 24.53 R
Mars Sagittarius 26.54
Jupiter Cancer 2.19 R
Saturn Capricorn 18.28
Uranus Capricorn 7.10
Neptune Capricorn 12.56
Pluto Scorpio 17.37
Lilith Scorpio 9.09
Asc node Aquarius 16.31
MINES IS '
Sun Capricorn 28.30
Moon Virgo 13.20
Mercury Aquarius 2.42
Venus Sagittarius 11.41
Mars Aries 7.26
Jupiter Pisces 20.42
Saturn Sagittarius 17.18
Uranus Sagittarius 24.38
Neptune Capricorn 6.22
Pluto Scorpio 9.48
Lilith Cancer 6.22
Asc node Aries 14.54
ALSO HE SAYS HE IS ATTRACTED TO HOW OUTSPOKENED I AM, PLUS I AM BEAUTIFUL TO HIM, AND HE WANTS SOMEONE SERIOUS , SO HE ADMIRES MY ADMIRATION TOWARDS MY CAREER; I WRITE,RECORD/ AND SOME OF EVERYTHING ELSE SO HE SAYS HE LOVES THAT DETERMINATION AND AMBITION.....wHAT IS YOU GUYS OPINION OF THIS MATTER?????DO YOU THINK OUR CHARTS PLAY A STRONG PART IN THIS? HE SAYS HE WAS GONNA SAY SOMETHING TO ME EVENTUALLY HE JUST HAD TO WORK OF THE NERVES BUT I SAID SOMETHING TO HIM FINALLY.
My aqua has an earth moon, too (virgo) and his venus is cap. I think these placements make an aqua more "grounded" and not as "flighty". Our relationship seems to be working well. He still has the aqua unreadability and the need for space. I think we, as caps, understand this more so than other signs. With all that cap in him, you should be able to understand where he's coming from. Takes patience but I think you can handle it!
Posted by truecap
My aqua has an earth moon, too (virgo) and his venus is cap. I think these placements make an aqua more "grounded" and not as "flighty". Our relationship seems to be working well. He still has the aqua unreadability and the need for space. I think we, as caps, understand this more so than other signs. With all that cap in him, you should be able to understand where he's coming from. Takes patience but I think you can handle it!


your advice really made my day; cuz i really wanted to know was it genuine attraction from him, he says that he wants me more than i really think he does, I do tell him that i understand all the time cuz he will try explaining certain times that he wants to come but he doesnt be in a predicament where he can .....I believe he does care already from his actions and it does seem sincere so I wanted to know about any experiences with this combination.....thanks for your input cuz it means alot to me to find out..... I really like this guy, and he is a very grounded aquarius compared to all the rest of the ones I've met, an it seems like what I been wantin/an needing(security)
TrueCap would be your best source.
She has been with that Aquarius man ever since I joined this site over 6 months ago and honestly she had been with him long before that.
Maybe a good thing for you to keep in mind is that... well it does depend on who it is you read under... but generally speaking Aquarius has a duel rulership. Aquarius is ruled not only by Uranus but Saturn as well which is the ruling planet of Capricorn! Aquarius and Capricorn have a lot in common.
Aquarius can feel you in the Saturn department in a lot of ways but since the ultimate ruler is Uranus... Aquarius will always be the one to question authority, to not be the norm, be progressive, and original.... Sort of uncomfortable things for Saturn and yet Aquarius is ruled by Saturn hahaha.
Anyways, Best advice I can give is this..... both Aquarius and Scorpio males are probably the worst spoke of zodiac males in astrology. And I can see how that perception can be cultivated because if either one is a sociopath, has narcissistic tendencies, or just jaded and lost down the path of life.... they can be some of the most manipulative, thoughtless, and just downright heartless people. But you would almost have to be evil lol anyways and furthermore I have never met either that really fall under this description. I think a lot of what you will hear is misconceptions on what's really going on. Keep in mind an Aquarius Male is absolutely idealistic about a lot of things in life and it's no different when it comes to love. He will most likely never settle for anything less than the real deal. While that's quite admirable and endearing... the negative side to that is unless he is young or you just have really impressed the shizat out of him you could be waiting a LOOOONNNGGG time. Sad
Despite what they might say.... Aquarius people do have feelings... everyone does. An Aquarius male is actually very sensitive and could get pushed away by the slightest thing. The intuition of a Aquarius person is their worst enemy when it comes to love... not only does it read people to easily to realize it is not of the type they really want... Aquarius people rarely trust their intuition when they see that others love them or that they are in love. It's pretty fucked up in a way and is probably the biggest reason why a lot of them stay single their entire lives, or only have open marriages and the like.
Other tidbits...
People have described possibly the most negative side to both your signs being:
Capricron = Greed
Aquarius = Pride (that of the mind)
Like you... Aquarius has a great desire for material gain, BUT they are not greedy. HOWEVER, our pride can be phenomenal! the Aquarian male is often one of the most infuriating people you will ever meet when it comes to relationships. First of all, the coolness has a lot of pride. Control of emotion is a big thing for Aquarius. No matter how much he's hurting, unless he's about to have a breakdown, he will often not grant you the satisfaction of knowing about it.(of course this does depend on the individual)

I'm sure you probably know the half of what I said I'm just in a informative mood so you just gonna have to bare with me smile
Anyways, your guy has a lot of cap so who knows he maybe better in the emotions department than is typical like mindofaquarius....
But if not just take my word on it... on the subject of emotions, if he simply refuses to discuss personal feelings or says stupid stuff like your too emotional blah blah. Just find comfort in knowing he is being grossly hypocritical about all of it haha. When the tables are turned on him, he's capable of behaving as much like Othello as any Scorpio is. But he won't be as honest about it, because he'll drag in things like honesty and loyalty and other concepts which damn your behaviour without conceding that the real root of his upset is his feelings, not his principles.
Well, capgal, I will warn you that the aqua male is frustrating. They won't tell you how they feel. In the majority, they will show you and you focus on that and recognize it. You see the look in their eye. You feel they care about you. You have all that and eventually you're going to want to hear the words. You will need to hear reassurances. You will want more and I don't know how capable they are of being like us and giving 110% to a relationship. It is quite frustrating. And you won't feel like a priority, even if they think you are, you just won't feel it.
That said, the rewards are a stable, loyal, fun partner/friend who will be there for you through hell and high water if they care about you. They are honest, dependable and more than willing to help you when you need help. They are sexy and humorous and intelligent. They think before they act and don't act on emotion only - which a cap appreciates. They are calm, cool and collected and have logical, rational solutions to any problem.
I've been with mine for about a year now and I'm crazy for him. I'm ready to move it forward, but he's wanting to take it slow. Did I say they were frustrating? lol!!!
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
TrueCap would be your best source.
She has been with that Aquarius man ever since I joined this site over 6 months ago and honestly she had been with him long before that.
Maybe a good thing for you to keep in mind is that... well it does depend on who it is you read under... but generally speaking Aquarius has a duel rulership. Aquarius is ruled not only by Uranus but Saturn as well which is the ruling planet of Capricorn! Aquarius and Capricorn have a lot in common.
Aquarius can feel you in the Saturn department in a lot of ways but since the ultimate ruler is Uranus... Aquarius will always be the one to question authority, to not be the norm, be progressive, and original.... Sort of uncomfortable things for Saturn and yet Aquarius is ruled by Saturn hahaha.
Anyways, Best advice I can give is this..... both Aquarius and Scorpio males are probably the worst spoke of zodiac males in astrology. And I can see how that perception can be cultivated because if either one is a sociopath, has narcissistic tendencies, or just jaded and lost down the path of life.... they can be some of the most manipulative, thoughtless, and just downright heartless people. But you would almost have to be evil lol anyways and furthermore I have never met either that really fall under this description. I think a lot of what you will hear is misconceptions on what's really going on. Keep in mind an Aquarius Male is absolutely idealistic about a lot of things in life and it's no different when it comes to love. He will most likely never settle for anything less than the real deal. While that's quite admirable and endearing... the negative side to that is unless he is young or you just have really impressed the shizat out of him you could be waiting a LOOOONNNGGG time. Sad
Despite what they might say.... Aquarius people do have feelings... everyone does. An Aquarius male is actually very sensitive and could get pushed away by the slightest thing. The intuition of a Aquarius person is their worst enemy when it comes to love... not only does it read people to easily to realize it is not of the type they really want... Aquarius people rarely trust their intuition when they see that others love them or that they are in love. It's pretty fucked up in a way and is probably the biggest reason why a lot of them stay single their entire lives, or only have open marri
Posted by mindofaquarius
scary my chart is very much simular Confused !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if not 90% identical - very creepy Confused
but I'm a female aqua - how freaky is that, that another aqua has such a simular chart to mine?!
I've always wondered if I'm the only aqua who is soooooooooo attached, emotional, romantic and all of that cheesy stuff. endlessly forgiving and hopefull till the end. not afraid of emotions at all - afraid of rejection, but unable to hide my true (love) feelings
sun; aquarius
ac: leo
moon, venus, saturn, uranus, mercury: capricorn
mars: sag
pluto: scorpio
jupiter: cancer
true node: aquarius (dunno what that is)
chiron: cancer (dunno what that is either


That is also something I noticed with someone I had sated who was a scorpio#the bottom half of his chart was exact placements#then the ascendant nod is the energy that is similar to what your mars isthere is north and south ascendant #now that chiron is the lessons that are gonna repeat until the lessons are learned # so you are very much explaining the way that my aqua man is, which is exactly what I was lookin for;someone who maybe had this placement....so you and true cap have alot of insight that y'all can give me on if I do fuckup ;exscuse my french.....
Posted by mindofaquarius
what i like to add:
I'd say from my point of view, I know that I let myself go with my intuition most of the time. That tiny tiny voice in the back of your head, or that warm secure feeling you get in ur belly when you know "this is going to be good" or in other cases "this is going to fail" - and yes it's true I "read" my opposite quite fast and hook up on the good things I can see. If I have someone in front of me it's pretty hard for them to fake things or let's say I automatically "read" all of the gestures, mimics etc and I sense out if that matches with your words (serious talks about relationships etc)
OMG I know it's your crush but jeeeeezzzzzz I'd pay 10 bucks to have a 15 minute talk with him haha just to find out if he is as weird as I am! cuz ur placements are like 90% identical so it would be right to assume that he might tick simular to me right? I could never identify with the "cold" and aloof traits from other aquas...
super interesting!


I would actually like to see that also#and if you click with me then you actually are the way he/I are#I feel like you bought up a very good strong point, I am normally taken by my intuition as well, so I kept lookin at his profile on facebook, then started liking his pix, so ni b4 it cuts off Im bout to go make that post for you to read kmsl
Posted by truecap
Well, capgal, I will warn you that the aqua male is frustrating. They won't tell you how they feel. In the majority, they will show you and you focus on that and recognize it. You see the look in their eye. You feel they care about you. You have all that and eventually you're going to want to hear the words. You will need to hear reassurances. You will want more and I don't know how capable they are of being like us and giving 110% to a relationship. It is quite frustrating. And you won't feel like a priority, even if they think you are, you just won't feel it.
That said, the rewards are a stable, loyal, fun partner/friend who will be there for you through hell and high water if they care about you. They are honest, dependable and more than willing to help you when you need help. They are sexy and humorous and intelligent. They think before they act and don't act on emotion only - which a cap appreciates. They are calm, cool and collected and have logical, rational solutions to any problem.
I've been with mine for about a year now and I'm crazy for him. I'm ready to move it forward, but he's wanting to take it slow. Did I say they were frustrating? lol!!!


He has told me he loves me though so IDK if thats his capricorn side or a lie lol#but we get along really well together #its also not the first aqua; last visit I had speakin in this forum talkin bout this sign i said i would never date another one but this one is way different than that one was# more expressive than i expected but to a certain level of degree
OK ni the story about the facebook pix NOW lol# I keppt seein his profile after he added me, so 1day I went and like each of his pics and he inboxed me and said thanks; I said 'thats wassup'. awhile went by but I kept noticing him, and at first I thought my ex told him to add my pg because they work at the same plant, but turns out they dont, I commented under 1 of his pics saying' you are reallly sexy on this pic; he replied 'then you already know that I think you are really sexy then.....After then we have been textin/callin consistently all day/nite.....after about the first 2wweeks he said "that things are startin to get serious, I like that"so I said I do to but he said that he was tryin to work up the courage to finally say something to me but I said it first, but he was gonna eventually do so , he just was nervous an thought that I wouldn't respond back to him.....I didnt know how true this was, but my intuition says that we were magnetically drawn to eaach other from the jump, but both were scared, he also said somethin like YOU mindofaqua# he feels like this is just rite, so he wants to explore us, and he didnt wanna have sex an have me think that it was just about that cause its not, he text's me saying the sweetest things like"I m missing you and can't wait to see you'often #trust me here he's gorgeous"so i felt like he could be a player just dating, but I believe alot of what he says, only thing is my gut says that his capricorn placements have him very drawn to me then my mercury is in aqua, so I think like you guys, he has been tryin to learn beatmaking to help me do my music as well , but I actually see he's shy, difference between him and last aqua man, I no im not making no sense rite now guys lol# i enjoyed all of you all posts of advice and would love to stay givin and gettin advice sharin experiences
Posted by 24capgal18
i MET AN AQUA MALE WHO HAS CAP MOON; USUALLY HE IS REAL AFFECTIONATE BUT DOES SEEM TO BE HOLDING BACK MUCH. HE SAYS THAT HE'S REALLY INTO ME BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO INITIATED OUR FIRST CONVERSATION WHICH LEAD TO US GETTIN INTO A RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW THAT MY CAPRICORN SUN IS ONE THING THAT MAKES ME ATTRACTIVE TO HIM PLUS MY VENUS IS IN SAG AND HIS MARS IS IN SAG ; OOH YEA HIS VENUS IS IN CAP TO, SO I GUESS THAT IM LOOKIN FOR OPINIONS OF HOW I SHOULD EXPECT THIS TO WORK OUT OR IF ANY OF YOU GUYS HAVE HAD EITHER OF OUR COMBINATIONS BEFORE AND DOES IT LOOK PROMISING????? ALSO
THIS HIS CHART
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aquarius 5.02
Moon Capricorn 16.30
Mercury Capricorn 11.15
Venus Capricorn 24.53 R
Mars Sagittarius 26.54
Jupiter Cancer 2.19 R
Saturn Capricorn 18.28
Uranus Capricorn 7.10
Neptune Capricorn 12.56
Pluto Scorpio 17.37
Lilith Scorpio 9.09
Asc node Aquarius 16.31
MINES IS '
Sun Capricorn 28.30
Moon Virgo 13.20
Mercury Aquarius 2.42
Venus Sagittarius 11.41
Mars Aries 7.26
Jupiter Pisces 20.42
Saturn Sagittarius 17.18
Uranus Sagittarius 24.38
Neptune Capricorn 6.22
Pluto Scorpio 9.48
Lilith Cancer 6.22
Asc node Aries 14.54


I am not male but in am Sun=Aquarius, Moon=Capricorn, Merc=Capricorn, Venus=Capricorn Not the exact degrees but close. Our actions speak louder than words. We are very guarded. We tend to be introspective and need some space and seculsion in order to pull up our strengths. We keep our emotions under check. Messy emotions and "leaky" souls are a bit frightening for us in this Moon position. We hide our sensitivity behind a sarcastic manner and simply aren't comfortable with "letting go" when it comes to emotions. Until we are sure. With Venus in Capricorn we will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. We don't go gaa-gaa over love, or at least we don't express it as much. We come across as lacking in warmth. Truth is we can be rather romantic souls who yearn for a partner to share our lives with. We are a little shy in matters of the heart, but we don't want you to know it. We show how we feel about people with our actions and assume you know it. I know I was in a relationship and I was in awe of this person but was ve
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But was very guarded and aloof. It cost me the relationship because he was in awe of me and very guarded because he was afraid I was going to hurt him. I just figured he knew how I felt by my actions which he had no clue. He actually said I probably never felt emotion or cry. Almost made me cry by him saying that. Hope this helps I have more if you would like.
Posted by 24capgal18
Posted by truecap
Well, capgal, I will warn you that the aqua male is frustrating. They won't tell you how they feel. In the majority, they will show you and you focus on that and recognize it. You see the look in their eye. You feel they care about you. You have all that and eventually you're going to want to hear the words. You will need to hear reassurances. You will want more and I don't know how capable they are of being like us and giving 110% to a relationship. It is quite frustrating. And you won't feel like a priority, even if they think you are, you just won't feel it.
That said, the rewards are a stable, loyal, fun partner/friend who will be there for you through hell and high water if they care about you. They are honest, dependable and more than willing to help you when you need help. They are sexy and humorous and intelligent. They think before they act and don't act on emotion only - which a cap appreciates. They are calm, cool and collected and have logical, rational solutions to any problem.
I've been with mine for about a year now and I'm crazy for him. I'm ready to move it forward, but he's wanting to take it slow. Did I say they were frustrating? lol!!!


He has told me he loves me though so IDK if thats his capricorn side or a lie lol#but we get along really well together #its also not the first aqua; last visit I had speakin in this forum talkin bout this sign i said i would never date another one but this one is way different than that one was# more expressive than i expected but to a certain level of degree
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I think that is his earth placements. Feel lucky to get the positive of aqua with the steadiness of earth. I count my lucky stars I have that, too! I dated another aqua before that was very "airy". That's when I, like you, said never again! lol!
Since his venus is Capricorn, and you're a cap, you're the kind of girl he's looking for.
Where is your Mars? They say, that's the traits women look for in a man.
my veunus is sag trucap and grniaqua yea i would love to kno more and I also have a new situation for you guys and Im gonna start here but go to the capricornn thread to finish up bout my issues.....
I really like the aquarius man BUT my capricorn just got out of the county jail(SMH) daddy home.....
ni im very confused bout what to do cuzz it was unexpected plus the cap said once he got out he would marryy me but the aqua man; I care about just as well..... ni to be continued bout cap male in cap forum
but aqua man has been a lil upset with me cuzz I told him the cap was out and i didnt kno wat to do cuz he stayed wit me b4 he left but just periodically cuz he was back n forth from atl
I suppose it depends on why he went to jail, but for me personally, I'd choose the one without the checkered past.
May I ask what's aquarius guy rising sign?