Aquarius take on FWB

I'm just curious as to the Aquarian take on being 'Friends with benefits.'

This is not the relationship I am looking to achieve with my aqua... I'm just curious as to whether or not this is something they are typically notorious for.

I have read many times that they would sacrafice love if it meant losing a friendship with someone... and I am not looking for an FWB....

Thanks!

No we arent.

But we are capable...just not suggested if you want an aqua to take you seriously or any man for that matter.

^^technically yes...but I dont think thats the context of this question.

"Wait a minute...
aren't all romantic relationships really just friends with benefits? To me, that's what a relationship is. Oh no, have I been doing something wrong?"

Touche!

Very good point.

But really what I meant by that was that one day I want him to call me his girlfriend... not just his friend...

I have also heard that they may never come right out and say you're their girlfriend.. one day you will just be....

*sigh*

*Bangs head against keyboard*

Well aqua women were voted most likely to be a good Fcuk buddy. *shrug* Its possible 🙂


I hate the term "boyfriend/girlfriend" btw...cant we just 'be'.

I'm all for it but when I'm in a relationship already then it's a big no no. When I'm not then call me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!


"I hate the term "boyfriend/girlfriend" btw...cant we just 'be'."

Really M? I like the notion that I belong to someone. That way when they do bring it up I can be all like "Really belong to you eh? We'll see about that" In a playful manner then she gets all "Oh yeah well you can leave anytime you want" But then I'll be like "I'll leave when you leave" But then she's like "Fine. You're stuck with me then if none of us is going to leave. I doubt you could find anyone better" And I'll be like "Oh yeah well I win." And she'll be like "No I win." (As you can see this is how her and
I interact.)

no, I don't do FWB...I can't get into that

"no, I don't do FWB...I can't get into that..."

I don't think he's into that either...

HE said that there is too much Bull shit that goes along with it...

But in my case it's different... cause I'm laid back, and I don't put any expectations or demands on him....

See the thing is, we hooked up the first night I met him...
(Then I learned that I was the second person he had ever been with 😐 )
Well the past has proven to me that these type of hook-ups don't work out... period. I've seen this guy many many times since that initial encounter, and he has told me that he's thrilled that I'm a part of his crew now, cause I fit in so well... he basically said they couldn't imagine it without me...(But when he says nice stuff like this, it's always in the group or friendship sense...lol) I know he's interested in me and we're cool.... I just wondered if I'll just be that friend that he sleeps with.. hence the question...

Thanks.

stop sleeping with him and find out.

Maybe it's just me but I think he's as unsure as you are about the whole relationship thing going on with you two. He's probably thinking "Maybe we are maybe we aren't" sort of thing and needs clarification on it. Or what if he's waiting for you to do something about it and if you have good on you but then again maybe he just takes it that you just think you already are FWB with him. We see everyone as friends though it takes that extra little push to get into the more than friends zone. I don;t know maybe I'm talking out of my ass but this guy seems like he's waiting for something to happen. Again let me restate that I know nothing whatsoever.

ZOMG IT'S M!?!??!?!? YAY!

"...stop sleeping with him and find out."

Lady:

Nice one.

Very to the point. I like that. 🙂

Let me clarify that sleeping with him is not the be all and end all of our encounters. In fact, I think we could both take it or leave it... it's kind of an extension of our mental escapades when we get together.

But you're right... I'm gonna give that a Try.

"I don;t know maybe I'm talking out of my ass but this guy seems like he's waiting for something to happen. Again let me restate that I know nothing whatsoever."

DK


First off ----> LOL 🙂

I think you bring up a very good point! (Even though it looks like you didn't mean to lol) Maybe he is waiting for me to bring it up... I never actually thought of that possibility... He is a lot younger then me, so maybe he thinks I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with someone so much younger.. but then again, since when are aquarians interested in relationships! 😉 I am treading lightly with him....I want him to know that I want to move forward in our relationship.. but at the expense of losing what we have now I sure don't.

Such a dilemma.

"Such a dilemma."


Hmmmmm....is there a possibility that you are making it one?

"Hmmmmm....is there a possibility that you are making it one?"

Oh Probably.....

:/

Thanks UC!


So in your opinion.... I'm doomed?

🙂

Thanks UC!

Doomed or not, I really don't care.

I won't be taking my toasted into a bathtub or anything... it'll just roll off my back, just like the rest! 🙂

I'm a pro.

"Really M? I like the notion that I belong to someone. That way when they do bring it up I can be all like "Really belong to you eh? We'll see about that" In a playful manner then she gets all "Oh yeah well you can leave anytime you want" But then I'll be like "I'll leave when you leave" But then she's like "Fine. You're stuck with me then if none of us is going to leave. I doubt you could find anyone better" And I'll be like "Oh yeah well I win." And she'll be like "No I win." (As you can see this is how her and
I interact.)"

I just got dejavu.....my girlfriend and I argue like this all of the time, were both Libras.

Does she go off on temper tantrums too? Because if she does I know hwo you feel man.

""...stop sleeping with him and find out."

Lady:

Nice one.

Very to the point. I like that. "



Well some people call it blunt...I call it "lack of affinity for details and fan dangle" 🙂(take it or leave it)




What UP TWIN!!!

What UP TWIN!!!

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