Aquarius woman - what does connection mean to you?
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When I met an Aqua in summer on dating site we instantly connected on everything. We could talk for hours and fluidly switch from topic topic. We had a lot of shared interests, things in common and similar life goals. I also commented how I think universe connected us for a reason and put us on the same path (when she asked that we start a relationship during first date).
When she broke up with me a few weeks ago without any explanation (over text - that's how millenials do it nowadays) I told her that we had an amazing connection together. She sent a few text messages later and one of them said "I want a bigger connection" and some time later (probably after she got time to think) she said "You cant force a connection". I don't understand both phrases.
"You cant force a connection" - We had a great connection and nothing was forced, is it just another excuse Aqua's use
"I want a bigger connection" - We had a great connection and it would only grow bigger as we would spend more time together (always busy Aqua).
I don't understand why someone would walk away from great connection without even trying anything.
When she broke up with me a few weeks ago without any explanation (over text - that's how millenials do it nowadays) I told her that we had an amazing connection together. She sent a few text messages later and one of them said "I want a bigger connection" and some time later (probably after she got time to think) she said "You cant force a connection". I don't understand both phrases.
"You cant force a connection" - We had a great connection and nothing was forced, is it just another excuse Aqua's use
"I want a bigger connection" - We had a great connection and it would only grow bigger as we would spend more time together (always busy Aqua).
I don't understand why someone would walk away from great connection without even trying anything.
Aquarius are social butterflies. They have a way about them that really resonates with people. You may feel really connected when in reality there are other people she's talking to that she feels just as connected with. Which is to say, going by how you feel will not tell you how she feels.
It's one of the infuriating things about Aquarius women. They surround themselves with people. But most are acquaintances, and very few does she really feel close to. In person, in the present, she will be really friendly to all. It can be hard to know where you stand. Though if you ask they will usually be straight up with you. She was interested in you at one point. Now she is not. It's as brutally simple as that. Who knows? If you wait long enough and leave her alone she may come back.
This is what I've seen from limited exposure to a textbook Aquarius woman anyway.
It's one of the infuriating things about Aquarius women. They surround themselves with people. But most are acquaintances, and very few does she really feel close to. In person, in the present, she will be really friendly to all. It can be hard to know where you stand. Though if you ask they will usually be straight up with you. She was interested in you at one point. Now she is not. It's as brutally simple as that. Who knows? If you wait long enough and leave her alone she may come back.
This is what I've seen from limited exposure to a textbook Aquarius woman anyway.
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Posted by wherearewenowThe thing is that she wasn't straight up with me. I asked her but she kept changing the subject.
Aquarius are social butterflies. They have a way about them that really resonates with people. You may feel really connected when in reality there are other people she's talking to that she feels just as connected with. Which is to say, going by how you feel will not tell you how she feels.
It's one of the infuriating things about Aquarius women. They surround themselves with people. But most are acquaintances, and very few does she really feel close to. In person, in the present, she will be really friendly to all. It can be hard to know where you stand. Though if you ask they will usually be straight up with you. She was interested in you at one point. Now she is not. It's as brutally simple as that. Who knows? If you wait long enough and leave her alone she may come back.
This is what I've seen from limited exposure to a textbook Aquarius woman anyway.
I asked her why she cant face me in person and has to do it over text and she responded that she could see me if I wanted. I texted her that I wanted to take her on her offer but didn't hear back. Next morning my phone broke and now with a loaner phone I don't even have her phone number. I'm planning on contacting her with a call, not text after I get my new phone and asking her to see me in person.
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Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
Sounds like a capricorn venus lol Good luck!
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Posted by hazyFloPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.click to expand
When she asked that we start a relationship during our first date she told me that school is coming up and she needs to focus on herself because she typically focuses on helping others. She knew it would be challenging but said she would find time for us. By asking me to start a relationship on first date is that in a way of coming on too strong or rushing things?
If I came too strong why didnt she talk to me about it.
Posted by hazyFloflo..i thought you gemini rising.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88no cappy venus (generally speaking) is materialistic. if you got a career then you good to go.
Sounds like a capricorn venus lol Good luck!
venus pisces is the connection.
if there's none, and if they have earthy mars like i do, then i want connection AND materialism.
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017you can't force a connection.
When I met an Aqua in summer on dating site we instantly connected on everything. We could talk for hours and fluidly switch from topic topic. We had a lot of shared interests, things in common and similar life goals. I also commented how I think universe connected us for a reason and put us on the same path (when she asked that we start a relationship during first date).
When she broke up with me a few weeks ago without any explanation (over text - that's how millenials do it nowadays) I told her that we had an amazing connection together. She sent a few text messages later and one of them said "I want a bigger connection" and some time later (probably after she got time to think) she said "You cant force a connection". I don't understand both phrases.
"You cant force a connection" - We had a great connection and nothing was forced, is it just another excuse Aqua's use
"I want a bigger connection" - We had a great connection and it would only grow bigger as we would spend more time together (always busy Aqua).
I don't understand why someone would walk away from great connection without even trying anything.
if she's not feeling it...
then.....
Posted by hazyFlooh that's good. also good that your grandma is still around.Posted by lisabethur8I got my accurate birth time from my grandmother. I went from a Gemini rising to Leo rising.Posted by hazyFloflo..i thought you gemini rising.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.click to expand
i miss mine.
Posted by lisabethur8I was talking about avoiding the issue of what the Aqua really wants from the person. Cap Venus ducks and dodges like nobody's business.Posted by saggurl88no cappy venus (generally speaking) is materialistic. if you got a career then you good to go.
Sounds like a capricorn venus lol Good luck!
venus pisces is the connection.
if there's none, and if they have earthy mars like i do, then i want connection AND materialism.click to expand
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Posted by hazyFloShe knew that time will be limited and I was OK from day one with her taking things slow. If we just went on a few dates, had a great time and she never asked me to start a relationship I would not develop feelings for her. We also talked about future when we just met on the dating site. We talked about children, family, working together on common life goals, etc. For example we talked about children and she said that after school she would be getting a new job and she might work 2 days of double shifts and spend the rest of the week raising a family. I replied that I would ask my job to let me work from home on those 2 days. We showed to each other that we want similar things in life and I showed that I want to be helping partner. When we met we both started showing signs that we care about each other. We broke up in August but got back in September. She was beginning to trust me more and wanted to invite me to a music venue where she had a bad experience but wanted to have a good experience with me. She also opened up to me more last time I saw her and told me about another abusive relationship she was in.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I find it odd that she was willing to rush into a relationship only to back out of it later, what was the point?Posted by hazyFloPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.
When she asked that we start a relationship during our first date she told me that school is coming up and she needs to focus on herself because she typically focuses on helping others. She knew it would be challenging but said she would find time for us. By asking me to start a relationship on first date is that in a way of coming on too strong or rushing things?
If I came too strong why didnt she talk to me about it.
I let the connection simmer for a while and later may want commitment but I take it more seriously. You need to find out her birth info to post her chart.click to expand
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Posted by Capmercury87Guys say dumb things.
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
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Posted by saggurl88She broke up with me in August. I gave her space and sent her a text msg apologizing and asking for another chance 2 weeks later (no reply). Weekend of Hurricane Irma (early September) I LVM to her asking her to call me to talk to me. She texted back later that she would call me next day and we actually had a little small talk via text that day. Next day she texted me saying she doesnt have time today and that our conversation would be an argument. Few weeks later I sent her an innocent text msg from my business trip with a few pictures of me at exotic locations. Text msg basically just said "Greetings from ____" and she replied saying "everyone deserves a 2nd chance, if that's what you want I'll give it to you".
Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
Now I have not communicated with her in 2+ weeks and I actually cant get in touch with her due to my broken phone. I know about waiting for her to come back.
FYI - This is a serious relationship that I want to lead to marriage. She knew that this is what I was interested in. She also revealed to me during first date that she was married before and that she wants to marry again but for love.
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017You guys were arguing? Um, that's a big no-no. If you guys were arguing already and you guys just started then what's it gonna be like in a relationship with you. It sounds like a headache.Posted by saggurl88She broke up with me in August. I gave her space and sent her a text msg apologizing and asking for another chance 2 weeks later (no reply). Weekend of Hurricane Irma (early September) I LVM to her asking her to call me to talk to me. She texted back later that she would call me next day and we actually had a little small talk via text that day. Next day she texted me saying she doesnt have time today and that our conversation would be an argument. Few weeks later I sent her an innocent text msg from my business trip with a few pictures of me at exotic locations. Text msg basically just said "Greetings from ____" and she replied saying "everyone deserves a 2nd chance, if that's what you want I'll give it to you".
Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
Now I have not communicated with her in 2+ weeks and I actually cant get in touch with her due to my broken phone. I know about waiting for her to come back.click to expand
They will put up with some of it if they love you enough and that's the way you express yourself. But the key is, they have to love you. Eventually it wears them down and they just don't deal well with it.
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We were not arguing per se. I wanted to talk to her on the phone during break up. She agreed initially but backed out next day. We never had fights outside of heated conversations when she broke up over text.
Posted by hazyFloAquas say meaningful words even when they don't mean it? My aqua friend doesn't admit much to me at all lolPosted by HopelessRomantic2017Regardless of everything she says and has opened up with you, her actions show a lot more about who she is and what she wants out the relationship.Posted by hazyFloShe knew that time will be limited and I was OK from day one with her taking things slow. If we just went on a few dates, had a great time and she never asked me to start a relationship I would not develop feelings for her. We also talked about future when we just met on the dating site. We talked about children, family, working together on common life goals, etc. For example we talked about children and she said that after school she would be getting a new job and she might work 2 days of double shifts and spend the rest of the week raising a family. I replied that I would ask my job to let me work from home on those 2 days. We showed to each other that we want similar things in life and I showed that I want to be helping partner. When we met we both started showing signs that we care about each other. We broke up in August but got back in September. She was beginning to trust me more and wanted to invite me to a music venue where she had a bad experience but wanted to have a good experience with me. She also opened up to me more last time I saw her and told me about another abusive relationship she was in.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I find it odd that she was willing to rush into a relationship only to back out of it later, what was the point?Posted by hazyFloPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.
When she asked that we start a relationship during our first date she told me that school is coming up and she needs to focus on herself because she typically focuses on helping others. She knew it would be challenging but said she would find time for us. By asking me to start a relationship on first date is that in a way of coming on too strong or rushing things?
If I came too strong why didnt she talk to me about it.
I let the connection simmer for a while and later may want commitment but I take it more seriously. You need to find out her birth info to post her chart.
She can say meaningful words but it doesn’t mean anything if she keeps backing out of anything serious with you.click to expand
I just ignore all his radio silence and say and do what I want to him lol
My emotions probably annoy the hell out of him, but I told him to take it or leave it
It's usually sappy or cute emotions, not upset ones though. I guess they are easier to handle. Posted by HopelessRomantic2017The only thing you can do now is to wait and get you're phone and then send a text and casually let her know that the phone was broke.
We were not arguing per se. I wanted to talk to her on the phone during break up. She agreed initially but backed out next day. We never had fights outside of heated conversations when she broke up over text.
Posted by hazyFloOh Ok! Now I get it!Posted by saggurl88Anyone can say anything meaningful and not mean it, that’s why I say go by their actions. Every Aqua isn’t the same, so I can answer all these questions y’all have and your aquas will do something differently than what has been said.Posted by hazyFloAquas say meaningful words even when they don't mean it? My aqua friend doesn't admit much to me at all lolPosted by HopelessRomantic2017Regardless of everything she says and has opened up with you, her actions show a lot more about who she is and what she wants out the relationship.Posted by hazyFloShe knew that time will be limited and I was OK from day one with her taking things slow. If we just went on a few dates, had a great time and she never asked me to start a relationship I would not develop feelings for her. We also talked about future when we just met on the dating site. We talked about children, family, working together on common life goals, etc. For example we talked about children and she said that after school she would be getting a new job and she might work 2 days of double shifts and spend the rest of the week raising a family. I replied that I would ask my job to let me work from home on those 2 days. We showed to each other that we want similar things in life and I showed that I want to be helping partner. When we met we both started showing signs that we care about each other. We broke up in August but got back in September. She was beginning to trust me more and wanted to invite me to a music venue where she had a bad experience but wanted to have a good experience with me. She also opened up to me more last time I saw her and told me about another abusive relationship she was in.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I find it odd that she was willing to rush into a relationship only to back out of it later, what was the point?Posted by hazyFloPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.
When she asked that we start a relationship during our first date she told me that school is coming up and she needs to focus on herself because she typically focuses on helping others. She knew it would be challenging but said she would find time for us. By asking me to start a relationship on first date is that in a way of coming on too strong or rushing things?
If I came too strong why didnt she talk to me about it.
I let the connection simmer for a while and later may want commitment but I take it more seriously. You need to find out her birth info to post her chart.
She can say meaningful words but it doesn’t mean anything if she keeps backing out of anything serious with you.
I just ignore all his radio silence and say and do what I want to him lol
My emotions probably annoy the hell out of him, but I told him to take it or leave it
You expect details but how can that be done from someone we don’t entirely know, we heard your sides of the story but we haven’t heard theirs.click to expand
I thought you just meant they lie and say things when they don't mean it My very one dimensional view lol
I do agree that actions speak volumes more than words. I am an action and word type. I show and tell lol
Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕click to expand
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆
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Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕click to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189I know!!! It's like pouring molasses with you guys!! Hahaha!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆click to expand
Patience, Proving and Persistence! I WANT EVERYTHING NOW DAMMIT!!! Lmao!
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕click to expand
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189I know!!! It's like pouring molasses with you guys!! Hahaha!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆
Patience, Proving and Persistence! I WANT EVERYTHING NOW DAMMIT!!! Lmao!
click to expand
lmao patience is a virtue,oh and dont forget consistency,ugh you really are a fire sign,the girl i have a crush on gave me signs by going full steam ahead for weeks even bluntly asking me twice well not directly but she asked if i like her and because i dont want to assume(scared of rejection) i didnt know that she is giving those signs,im like that was fast ofcourse my initial response is to change the subject😂,she has a venus in aries and other aries placements even with her taurus sun and virgo moon that was pretty aggressive and scared the shit outta me
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189I know!!! It's like pouring molasses with you guys!! Hahaha!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆
Patience, Proving and Persistence! I WANT EVERYTHING NOW DAMMIT!!! Lmao!click to expand
i just got thirsty looking at that tea. lol
*pours self tea
Posted by Aquarius3189Hahaha! I call my aqua friend a scardy cat all the time.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189I know!!! It's like pouring molasses with you guys!! Hahaha!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆
Patience, Proving and Persistence! I WANT EVERYTHING NOW DAMMIT!!! Lmao!
lmao patience is a virtue,oh and dont forget consistency,ugh you really are a fire sign,the girl i have a crush on gave me signs by going full steam ahead for weeks even bluntly asking me twice well not directly but she asked if i like her and because i dont want to assume(scared of rejection) i didnt know that she is giving those signs,im like that was fast ofcourse my initial response is to change the subject😂,she has a venus in aries and other aries placements even with her taurus sun and virgo moon that was pretty aggressive and scared the shit outta meclick to expand
. I told him he's just gonna have to get used to me. I know I scare the shit out of him but I told him, he's been a good sport and has hung in there! I haven't asked if he likes me though. If he puts up with me, I figure its a good sign that he does. 
He tells me I'm funny all the time with all the teasing I do to him.
Posted by Aquarius3189Does this really matter? Both the Aquas I've dealt with in the past have wanted to keep everything hidden and be super private about spending time with me. Maybe its the pluto aspects though. I'm always connecting with ones that have Scorpio in the 12th house and my Venus invades it. Both of my friends didn't really have many friends at all just new a bunch of people. There was an underlying seriousness of how things would be from the beginning. Kind of an unspoken understanding.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189Does this really matter? Both the Aquas I've dealt with in the past have wanted to keep everything hidden and be super private about spending time with me. Maybe its the pluto aspects though. I'm always connecting with ones that have Scorpio in the 12th house and my Venus invades it. Both of my friends didn't really have many friends at all just new a bunch of people. There was an underlying seriousness of how things would be from the beginning. Kind of an unspoken understanding.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?click to expand
yes its important with an aqua,remember aqua is a frienship sign,if your in a relationship with one and none of her friends know even just one then they are not letting you in into their world,its important for an aqua to get the approval of one of their besties or friends even the private ones
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189Hahaha! I call my aqua friend a scardy cat all the time.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189I know!!! It's like pouring molasses with you guys!! Hahaha!Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189YOU CAP VENUS's SUCK!!!! lol ( ༎ຶ ༎ຶ )Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
wuuuut????just giving an advice,we are like the bulls you have to be patient and slow😆
Patience, Proving and Persistence! I WANT EVERYTHING NOW DAMMIT!!! Lmao!
lmao patience is a virtue,oh and dont forget consistency,ugh you really are a fire sign,the girl i have a crush on gave me signs by going full steam ahead for weeks even bluntly asking me twice well not directly but she asked if i like her and because i dont want to assume(scared of rejection) i didnt know that she is giving those signs,im like that was fast ofcourse my initial response is to change the subject😂,she has a venus in aries and other aries placements even with her taurus sun and virgo moon that was pretty aggressive and scared the shit outta me
He tells me I'm funny all the time with all the teasing I do to him.click to expand
i do believe aquas can stand a bunch of people especially the weird ones😂then ask him as if your teasing him😉
Posted by Aquarius3189Oh ok. Well I'm not in a relationship with him. We are just friends. He's going thru a divorce so he needs to handle that before anything else.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189Does this really matter? Both the Aquas I've dealt with in the past have wanted to keep everything hidden and be super private about spending time with me. Maybe its the pluto aspects though. I'm always connecting with ones that have Scorpio in the 12th house and my Venus invades it. Both of my friends didn't really have many friends at all just new a bunch of people. There was an underlying seriousness of how things would be from the beginning. Kind of an unspoken understanding.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?
yes its important with an aqua,remember aqua is a frienship sign,if your in a relationship with one and none of her friends know even just one then they are not letting you in into their world,its important for an aqua to get the approval of one of their besties or friends even the private onesclick to expand
Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
Posted by Capmercury87The once I talked to did. With all his constant mirroring until I figured out i could text whenever the hell I wanted and he would answer.Posted by saggurl88
Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
I don't think us aquas have the time or patience to "test" people with space, it would kill us more than the other person.
She's doing this thing called SHE REALLY NEEDS SPACE AND YOUR OVERTHINKING IT.click to expand
I was so confused waiting for him to initiate.
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Posted by Aquarius3189I know her from July and I never met her friends. She told me of one male friend (gay) that she had for many years and only mention one other friend (also male and now lives in another state) whose mother died. She never mentioned any of her female friends.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?click to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189You two are TERRIBLE!!!lol Giving us Scorp venus's NO HOPE!!!Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆click to expand
Posted by Capmercury87YES!!! It all makes sense to you guys!!! Not us! lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by Capmercury87The once I talked to did. With all his constant mirroring until I figured out i could text whenever the hell I wanted and he would answer.Posted by saggurl88
Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.
She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.
If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.
I don't think us aquas have the time or patience to "test" people with space, it would kill us more than the other person.
She's doing this thing called SHE REALLY NEEDS SPACE AND YOUR OVERTHINKING IT.
I was so confused waiting for him to initiate.
Cause there is no test........click to expand
It's all so simple once we stop trying. lol UGH!!! So frustrating. 
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Well you got a very immature breakup for a very immature start of the relationship...Posted by hazyFloPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I’m Leo rising Aqua sun Aries moon, lots of fire lots of intensity.. if you’re triple fire, you won’t mesh well with a very airy Aqua. Coming on too strong may frighten her, or second guess her feelings towards you. Which seems to have happened in your case.Posted by hazyFloWhat you're wrote happened to me. She initially told me a few times that she thought I wouldn't like her and I ended up liking her too much. I'm triple Sag and can be intense and I was being sweet to her and that pushed her away. I'm also nice and can't help it and to be honest I sometimes feel that she didn't deserve me.
It depends on her moon and Venus. All aqua women will hold different traits to them when it comes to interest infatuation or love.
As for me, I get carried away.. I always end up liking the guy more than he does to me and it leaves me heart broken. It’s kinda pathetic because I stay hopeful on this wanderlust that one day it will work out. I stay sweet to him and doing too much, it takes a lot from him to finally snap me out of this admiration I have for him. Maybe I’m too nice when they don’t deserve it who knows but I can’t help who I am.
My Venus is in Pisces.
What I find an issue with is the fleeing emotions some Aquas throw. It’s fun carefree and in the moment feels great, but once the other person gets more serious or throws commitment they freak out.. not so fun anymore. All the excuses start, “I want a bigger connection” “I don’t know if I want the same anymore” “I want to focus on myself or what I want in life” “I’m not ready I’m trying to figure things out” “I think you’re a great guy but I’m not right for you”
Does it seem similar?
It’s fucked up. I’m the first to throw my emotions in and the first to get my heart broken. A guy as yourself who gives his all deserves a woman who is the same and wants the same.
When she asked that we start a relationship during our first date she told me that school is coming up and she needs to focus on herself because she typically focuses on helping others. She knew it would be challenging but said she would find time for us. By asking me to start a relationship on first date is that in a way of coming on too strong or rushing things?
If I came too strong why didnt she talk to me about it.click to expand
Don't worry too much about her, you are already almost forgotten. Her askin for entering the relationship on date 1 should have been a red flag for you, now that time went by she realized that its not what she wanted so she left as fast as she came. You both had a connection - no doubt. But she got swept away by her immature way of thriving for high feelings - us aquas get in a high rush if we feel a special connection... but its not enough to only have a special connection to make it last(!)
Move on and take this as lessons learned
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.click to expand
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189I know her from July and I never met her friends. She told me of one male friend (gay) that she had for many years and only mention one other friend (also male and now lives in another state) whose mother died. She never mentioned any of her female friends.Posted by HopelessRomantic2017Posted by Aquarius3189You're wrong from beginning our understanding was that we're looking for serious relationship, something that could lead to marriage. I am looking for a queen to share my kingdom with.Posted by Capmercury87
Haha I'm an aqua with a cap venus.
I can tell you what went wrong here.
Why on earth would you say things like the universe brought us together"? That's a kill joy especially if you guys haven't been together long. If you say one thing but the connection isn't that strong or built you just over did it.
Which could be perceived as "forcing it"
We like time, time to build things, time to connect, but if you start throwing in passionate phrases that don't match the current situation your messing up big time.
How about keep that romantic noise to yourself until she says something like "I love you"
If I were her, yeah pretty much I would have done the same thing.
what she said,same here 🙋 you cant throw a fast one on us even if we said it coz we will think your not In for a serious relationship as you agreed that fast,and we like a challenge which you are not😕
how long have you known her?do her friends know you?do you spend time together with her friends while your with her?click to expand
like i said in my other comment see?i knew it,you havent met any of her friends in person,when im in a serious relationship atleast one of my friends can tag along sometimes while we are on our date since i wanna see how my gf is around my friends and vice versa since its both important to me i want them to get along,if you cant then we have a problem or you have
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189You two are TERRIBLE!!!lol Giving us Scorp venus's NO HOPE!!!Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆click to expand
hey though you cant have our delectable body doesnt mean we are terrible😉,i have a scorp moon we will get along just fine,i can handle bluntness,im surrounded by fire signs😊mom,dad,brother is a leo,i have a sag mentor very impatient beings
Posted by Aquarius3189I had an Aqua with a Scorp moon and Mars with Cap Venus.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189You two are TERRIBLE!!!lol Giving us Scorp venus's NO HOPE!!!Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
hey though you cant have our delectable body doesnt mean we are terrible😉,i have a scorp moon we will get along just fine,i can handle bluntness,im surrounded by fire signs😊mom,dad,brother is a leo,i have a sag mentor very impatient beingsclick to expand
I scared the shit out of him too. 😂😂 He told me the sex was too intense and cut me off for like a year and a half before he felt safe with me again.
Worse heartbreak ever for me. I can reflect on It now but it was horrible when it first happened.
I still think fondly of him though. 😉
She wants a better connection, you take that on literally and think it’s about quality because you respond saying “it’s a great connection” yes you may hit it off on the surface but is it a deep connection? Is she grounded around you and present in the moment? Are you guys talking about the good stuff?
She probably should have voiced her needs better.
The thing with Aquarians is that we easily take on many things at once without knowing it and suddenly we have our hands full, sometimes we just need to drop something to keep balance in our lives so we can go back to the balancing act. I think she realised how much commitment this relationship was going to take and aquas hate to dissapoint so it’s better to break it off early
She probably should have voiced her needs better.
The thing with Aquarians is that we easily take on many things at once without knowing it and suddenly we have our hands full, sometimes we just need to drop something to keep balance in our lives so we can go back to the balancing act. I think she realised how much commitment this relationship was going to take and aquas hate to dissapoint so it’s better to break it off early
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Pisces moon and pisces risingclick to expand
do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189I had an Aqua with a Scorp moon and Mars with Cap Venus.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Aquarius3189You two are TERRIBLE!!!lol Giving us Scorp venus's NO HOPE!!!Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
hey though you cant have our delectable body doesnt mean we are terrible😉,i have a scorp moon we will get along just fine,i can handle bluntness,im surrounded by fire signs😊mom,dad,brother is a leo,i have a sag mentor very impatient beings
I scared the shit out of him too. 😂😂 He told me the sex was too intense and cut me off for like a year and a half before he felt safe with me again.
Worse heartbreak ever for me. I can reflect on It now but it was horrible when it first happened.
I still think fondly of him though. 😉click to expand
well it aint for the faint of heart,having a scorp moon you would think his brave but you made him run for the hills😂,whats his mars?oh and his dominant?i dont get why im a mercurian if i only have 2 aspect on my mercury😦
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Pisces moon and pisces rising
do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us
Take advantage how?
I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.
I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.
I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.
Its boring.click to expand
like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189People only disapoint you because you have expectations.Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Pisces moon and pisces rising
do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us
Take advantage how?
I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.
I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.
I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.
Its boring.
like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
You should never have expectations for anyone.click to expand
truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Pisces moon and pisces rising
do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us
Take advantage how?
I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.
I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.
I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.
Its boring.
like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
I don't think I've had that problem. I'm mainly an ass hole that speaks my mind so I've never had some one take advantage of my giving side, usually cause I'm selfish and don't share because everything I've ever had I earned myself, I learned early to never rely on people and never let anyone rely on me.
If I can carry my own so can others.
Humans are a ruthless bread and I don't care too much for them. I've seen other people get used, abused and turn into toxic bombs about ready to explode.
I've been lied to alot, so I never trust words always actions. But I never allow myself to participate in those actions or examples.
I watch people for years before I find them safe.
I do have empathy for people on a psychological level, mainly because I know the human brain is never being used fully and people fall into negativity out of choice, laziness and lack of self love.
I guess I could say all my life I've been watching the show with a bag of pop corn in my hands but I would be lying if I told you I haven't gone through boxes upon boxes of tissues.click to expand
same,i have recently cried my eyes out because i've been hurt by the people who i thought is close to me i have open up to them even though my gut is telling me that stop being so blind and get past their mask i didnt listen i keep finding excuse for their behavior because i trusted them,i shoudnt have listen to my friend to open up since i gave her the same advice she said i should do the same,now im closing off again and will trust my intuition,i've never been a 1 dimension person i always look behind the mask
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189People only disapoint you because you have expectations.Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by Capmercury87
Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.
If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.
Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.
You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.
You will see.
Goodluck!
damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆
We both have water moons and water risings too.
whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now
Pisces moon and pisces rising
do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us
Take advantage how?
I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.
I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.
I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.
Its boring.
like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
You should never have expectations for anyone.
truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak
My best advice: get a dog.
Dogs are great cuddlers, listeners, protectors.
Mines cuddled up next to me now.click to expand
im a dog lover😍i would so love to adopt one right now but our place isnt fit for a dog this moment,and im so busy with my business i woudnt find time to take care of him,it would break my heart everytime i neglect him,and yes i would love a male dog,whats the breed of you dog?
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