Aquaruis falling for Aries.

Okay hi everyone new to this site anyways, I'm a Aquarius female met this Aries guy we clicked like no other the feelings were great,Chemisty was great. A month passed and stuff during that time he always told me, He really liked me always said I wasn't like the other girls he talked too, Like I could hold a convo things like that and called me Weird
(Like how Aqua gets called weird lol). Anyways I asked him if he wanted to take it to the next level but slow like official, Then he said he was going to ask me first lol, Then I realized (well I knew lol) that we live in different states which we do and it would be a long distance. He still didn't care then I was like we can't do what couples do,Like go out and other things like that, Then he was like yeah your right.
The next day we chat online we talk like normally, Then he says I pass all his test's and stuff, His test is making me wait on the phone lol, I guess or he says little things anyways he was like yeah you past all my test and you get a A+. Then again he tells me he really likes me blah blah again so again I ask again if he wants to make it official,I just asked if he was going to change his answer again he said yeah but he tells me I didn't want to make it official cause I said no lol, But I'm the one who asked lol.
Then I wrote him telling him that we should grow more as friends and blah blah then he was like yeah I want to get my shit together and all he said he wanted to give me 200% cause I deserve better, Cause he gets busy sometimes.

Sometimes I feel like he tricks me sometimes or if I call him out on his bullshit like lieing lol he denies it or gets extra sensitive when I don't think he is telling the truth.
I call him all the time he says he likes it and thinks its cute lol,its my OCD I'm not mushy lol okay I am lol, He calls me beautiful and other things but I'm like whatever dude you say that to other girls lol he gets mad but usually I say Thankyou. He tells me he waits by the phone when I call and he always has a line open for me, But see thats the problem the line is not always open for me.

Sorry for the long jacked up grammar long read, Typing fast lol.

My Question is should I stop talking to him for about a month or something like see if he chases me, Cause I noticed I've been doing the chasing he been doing the running lol, He only chased me once lol.

well aries are always the ones who pursue........if an aries is into you, ya definately know it....there is nothing hotter than being chased by a hot aries.

and yes theyre sluts and throw the "L" word around alot.......If you wanna be with him its pretty obvious you can be.....but I dont think you could handle a long distance relationship with an aries.

You know whats a cool idea? send him letters....like real letters with perfume and shit just show show off your quirks and mention random things about your day in them......cos when u chat online alot or over the phone it really kills Long distance relationships.
And when he has a letter from you he can always go back to it and unfold it and read it again or smell it if u spray on it.

this will give you some sort of power over his letterbox cos hell be constantly checking it with anticipation.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
well aries are always the ones who pursue........if an aries is into you, ya definately know it....there is nothing hotter than being chased by a hot aries.

and yes theyre sluts and throw the "L" word around alot.......If you wanna be with him its pretty obvious you can be.....but I dont think you could handle a long distance relationship with an aries.

You know whats a cool idea? send him letters....like real letters with perfume and shit just show show off your quirks and mention random things about your day in them......cos when u chat online alot or over the phone it really kills Long distance relationships.
And when he has a letter from you he can always go back to it and unfold it and read it again or smell it if u spray on it.

this will give you some sort of power over his letterbox cos hell be constantly checking it with anticipation.

Thank you, I'm going to do this but when we chat its like random things and stuff, I'm the type that dont't know what to write or something you know lol.

Posted by FeistyAquarian
Aha here's your thread 🙂


Mmk girl! Yes, I've been with my Aries for almost 4 years now and I snagged that sucka fairly easily and we're getting married in October!! 😛


But here's the thing...He has dated several other girls before me and he told me that they all came to him and were very easy to get and that once he was dating them, all they wanted to do was to please him and make him happy. He didn't feel needed and useful in a relationship and didn't feel like they wanted to get to know him for him...he just felt like they wanted him as a type of trophy, per se (he's a total hottie 😛).


Anyway, here comes me...when it would come to dating, I would have a crush on a guy but once I knew that it was reciprocated, I would have to go back and figure out how much I really, actually liked him...just to see if it was worth my time. I move very slowly in relationships and I like to take my time. We even had a metaphor for it...If we compared our early relationship to a pool, I am the person who is testing out the water, putting my finger in it, slowly working my way my in and getting used to everything. He, on the other hand, was the type who just wanted to run in! Ya know, cannon ball it in 😛 But I brought that part out in him because I let him chase me and initiate everything, especially the first relationship talk and the first "I love you's" and all that. Even when I started bringing up the idea of getting married...he didn't want to think about it until I stopped talking about it, because he wanted it to be HIS idea. Men, but especially Aries men, are big into the chasing!

So my advice is to back away for a little while and let him come to you. Let him miss you...In a long distance relationship, should you enter into one, believe it or not, it is easy to still smother the other person, in a way! Constant texting, phone calls, emails, whatever are not good for the beginning. It makes you look clingy and desperate. I've learned this from guys I've known who have done it, my Aries included! He had dated an Aquarian girl before me and they ended up being LTR for a little while. She drove him nuts...

Anyways, I'm always all over the map with my advice so if you need me to clear anything up, just let me know 😛

lol thank you what does LTR mean, Its weird because we talked like for a whole week right on we miss one day of not talk

lol thank you what does LTR mean, Its weird because we talked like for a whole week right on we miss one day of not talking on the phone and tbe next day he was like I miss you, I was like what, We been talking the whole week lol.
I mean he does say he misses me and stuff but its like, I have to force him to call me or something like he says I better tell him to call me lol. Or he tells me that I have mind control over him because every time I tell him to get freaky or something he does it lol. I think I do need to back away from him, But I'm afraid that he will forget about me, I'm 21 he is 20 going to be 21 soon anyways he actually wants to move in Cali but until he finish in college.
He says I think to much lol.
Everytime he says he really likes me and he would bring up his ex and say how good she was in bed lol but thats when we talk about sex lol and then he would sorry lol, Whats so funny when I bring up a ex he gets mad or something lol.
Oh yeah he some crazy chick stalking him before but I think he led her on but who knows lol.
One time he was talking about this marriage convo with me and his mom online right, he was asking me if I would take a dude last name or something then he was like when I marry my wife I'm going to buy her everything the dress blah blah, I was like you would make a great husband and he was like yeah you would make a great wife too, Then he was like thats one of the reason why I like you so much cause we can talk about anything doesn't get dull or anything. Then he goes back to the chasing thing.
Oh yeah he saves all are chat convo's too.

why would anyone bring up sex with theyre ex?........he has to go.

if some guy said that he had awesome sex with theyre ex id be like............yeh? My ex had the most perfect penis it was so beutiful i wish it was inside me right now!

lol the Ex thing I can explain lol, I'm a virgin so I tend to ask about sex questions alot with him he thinks its cute and funny but yeah, Sometimes he did bring up his ex then he was like sorry about that but I'm like its fine also, The reason he broke with his ex because she couldn't get what she wants from him and the other ex moved so yeah.
I really like this dude, He tells me he likes me its just that he gives me mixed signals, I notcied he likes to be private to or alone for some odd reasons lol. I notice every time we get on web I make him blush even when I didn't see his face and we was chatting he was all excited and stuff it was so cute.
But yeah I think I'm not going to call him about a month buts it hard cause my ocd kicks in (Which are feelings lol) And I get tempted lol.

Posted by FeistyAquarian
Well, that could happen with anyone, where you just really want to call him and talk. You get these strong hormones that make you want to bond more. But it will help soo much to let him come to you!

I agree, I won't today I did it today glad his phone battery died but I will try my best I really will, I always say this but this time I'm going to keep my word lol.

Posted by amethyst2002
Honey, stop reading into so much. You've already mentioned a few things about him that people have pointed out as being off. Back off and do your own thing. I know you like the guy, and it makes it hard to want to back off, but for your own sake do so. He's already showing iffy signs. Why are you ignoring them and willing to risk your sanity for this shit? You said you want to back off, SO DO IT.

lol I will buts its hard,lol I'm doing it thanks so much for the advice everyone.

Posted by Tasha69
i agree back off for sure

you shouldn't even be the one bringing up making it official. let him do it all

they are so blunt, they will tell u exactly what they're thinking. let him come to u, if he doesn't then forget him

I know but he told me he going to ask me first but I guess I beat him too it, Yeah I'm backing off but its so hard lol.

Posted by Tasha69
i understand. i've done the same when i really liked someone it is hard yes

but try it if u can, kinda act like you've lost interest and see how he reacts

Okay thanks, Doing it now lol.