Aquas and IDGAF moment

Have you ever had that moment when you feel like you just don't give a fuck about some and/or most people in your life that makes you just cut off all the contacts with them whatsoever?

Why and what caused it / whats the trigger?

Posted by OrGasMe

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by OrGasMe
Yes. Only a few times. When I am enduring a serious struggle in my life (totally out of my control) and people aren't there for me. I am there for all my loved ones during difficult times. Hell, I'm there for strangers when I know they are having a hard time. So if my 'loved ones' can't handle my struggle-- bye.

^^^

+1

Exactly this and I'm not Aqua. Aqua jupiter though, if that means anything.

I'm not sure about Jupiter influence.

I know that Aquas are fiercely loyal to loved ones until it isn't reciprocated, then we detach to protect ourselves.

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Well yes it's probably the detachment phase. I do it myself time to time too. Especially when i feel like i'm not in a good situations myself, that i don't want my loved ones especially my parents & fam know what i've been going through.

I hate to tell them that i'm not that fine. I'd rather suck it up myself for awhile.

Or those moment when i know people just seem like taking me for granted, like they just came to me with only negative energy. Talk to me only when they have problems and asking me to help them, mostly asking for money.

It's different story if it's my family who need me to help them financialy, i'd be so guilty and bad if i couldn't cover it up for them. Even tho sometimes i feel like that they too became dependant to me that makes me feel like carrying a heavy responsibility all the time.

Some of them just came around for trying to hook me up on sexual stuff or just playing endless mind games bullshit.

I stopped using social medias and chat clients. I've been only on plain text and mobile number call these last few days if anybody want to reach me out for important stuff. I feel better this way.

Posted by OrGasMe
Yes. Only a few times. When I am enduring a serious struggle in my life (totally out of my control) and people aren't there for me. I am there for all my loved ones during difficult times. Hell, I'm there for strangers when I know they are having a hard time. So if my 'loved ones' can't handle my struggle-- bye.

Exactly the same way. I may not be supportive as emotional but I'm supportive in many other ways when I see someone struggling with something.

I helped my friend a lot when she went through an illness and treatment and maybe emotionally I wasn't the best support lol but I was there for her all the time.

I only know how much she appreciates this because when we go out and she talks to other people I hear her telling them what I have done for her so it makes me feel good bit I never make her feel like she owes me something. I hate when people try to make you feel that way, I mean friends are to help each other, I can tell that she has helped me a lot too and I might not say thank you in a emotional way but I show that I'm there as well. 🙂

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by OrGasMe
Yes. Only a few times. When I am enduring a serious struggle in my life (totally out of my control) and people aren't there for me. I am there for all my loved ones during difficult times. Hell, I'm there for strangers when I know they are having a hard time. So if my 'loved ones' can't handle my struggle-- bye.

Exactly the same way. I may not be supportive as emotional but I'm supportive in many other ways when I see someone struggling with something.

I helped my friend a lot when she went through an illness and treatment and maybe emotionally I wasn't the best support lol but I was there for her all the time.

I only know how much she appreciates this because when we go out and she talks to other people I hear her telling them what I have done for her so it makes me feel good bit I never make her feel like she owes me something. I hate when people try to make you feel that way, I mean friends are to help each other, I can tell that she has helped me a lot too and I might not say thank you in a emotional way but I show that I'm there as well. 🙂

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+1 with the not being really supportive emotionally. Me too. But that doesn't mean that we don't care at all, right? 😉

i care.