Aqua's have feelings?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Karima27 on Tuesday, March 6, 2007 and has 55 replies.
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I know the title sounds messed up. But I got through for a loop yesterday. Let me first start off by saying my mom is an Aquarius so I know all about typical Aquarius behavior.
Anyway this isn't about her. I had an Aqua "friend" and we stopped speaking because I realized with me as a Scorpio and him as an Aquarius it just would not work. So I cut all ties with him. I mean we see each other often enough because...we work together (I can't wait to hear the comments about that) but anyway. We finally got around to speaking yesterday for the first time since Jan 06 and he talked to me about every time I ignored him or was just was flat out rude towards him. I never thought what I did affected him one way or another. I mean I got my kicks off being an ass but he deserved it!
I'm finally happy to hear that you guys do have feelings! Stars
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I generally steer well clear of scorpios because they are controlling and devious and and very selfishly motivated. They will manipulate things to their ends and even though you might be the focus of their actions, you are stil just a pawn in their one player game. So it works both ways karima.
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There is so much more to the story. I'm just not typing everything. It's too much. And I believe I made the mistake by letting it go past a platonic level. Lessened learned... We get along okay. He says I am hard to talk too. Maybe I am to him. But I have been told I would make a great psychologist. Ironically that is the field I would love to work in.
MellowDee smile I'm not manipulative baby boy...Sorry you have been reading to much into "typical" water signs.
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Karima I base my opinions of scoripios based on the ones I know, not what I've read. I don't even read up on Scorpios because I really don't even wanna go there!
Cancers and pisce are manipulative but in a much less focused and one track and direct way that scorpios are. And I don't tolerate that kind of shit for long without either walking away or challenging them which scorpios don't like one little bit. I consider manipulation a major form of disrespect.
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Karima, anyway I thought you were finished with bothering with aquas and were washing your hands of them because of a previous bad experience with one and that you were seeing a cancer or something I thought? That's a bit of an about turn. Weren't you giving out loads about aquas before??
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rubbish.
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Lady M you always manage to make everything so clear. How do you do it?
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La, La, La, La, La
Rubbish? That's fine too my dear smile all I did was express an opinion.
Mellow Dee-This is the very same Aquarius it took this long for us to reconnect.
Wow! You pay attention! Yeah I was seeing a Cancer but this Aquarius was before him "romantically" speaking.
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Let me make this clear: This was not an attack on Aquarius's!
Just MY observation. If I was wrong. That's fine. Maybe their feelings are just more hidden than others.
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Yes we have feelings.
This is like when I had a revelation in the 6th grade that guys have feelings too.
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You were being sarcastic in the OP.
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Aloof is a whole different ball game to controlling someone by emotional manipulation to get them to do things for you. Aloof is backing off emootionally. I think these are two complete opposites Blingy Wingy.
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my aquas best, best friend is a scorpio and they get along fabulously!
but that could have something to do with my aqua having scorpio rising...
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i agree with anti...aquas *can* be selfish and *can* manipulate situations to gain control and have things go "their way"...
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Friends ok. Lovers no way.
haha that rhymes.

AB you are wrong buddy. You're barking up the wrong tree there sunny jim.
Aloof =/ (that means does not equal) manipulative
Aloof means not wanting to dip your toes into the sea of emotions and get wet. Manipulation is the clinging effect of the water once you're in. Ever heard of Brownian Motion mate?? He was probably a scorpio.
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No No, I see it as MD...
I dont agree with your interpretation of aqua aloofness.
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okay.
There will always be manipulative people, where ever you go and in whatever sign.
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So wait...If you guys are so emotionally aloof how can your feelings be hurt?
I'm just trying to understand. If the emotions are turned off-Then nothing hurts you? Right?
That is why I was surprised at him expressing all that. Very emotionally distant Aquarius's are! Very!
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Not wanting to get involved does not mean that you don't have feelings (I didn't think scorpios were logically challenged!). It means you are quite weary of getting involved incase you get hurt or the other person does.
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Everyone has feelings...some carry it on their sleeves..
Aquas and some others carry it in their heads.
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Whatever floats your boat...
Emotionally aloof, Care but don't care. I will never, ever figure it out.
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We dont care about alot of things...some people just take EVERYTHING personally and to heart...
but when we do care....WE CARE!
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Ah ha! Maybe I knew that all along. It's just that...I guess I don't understand. Maybe because I am so emotionally charged. Me and my mom are total opposites. But she thinks sometimes that I am cold-hearted! Go Figure!
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I'll agree Lady M-Scorps take things very personally. But when we turn and look the other way...It's a wrap!
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Yes, scorps are very cold-hearted, I find.
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"Everyone has feelings...some carry it on their sleeves.."
"Aquas and some others carry it in their heads."
-very well put, ladym... unfortunately, i am one of those who carries it on their sleeves Sad
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...and i am also one to take everything personally and to heart...
and this is why my aqua and i have such a difficult relationship!!! we are completely different...
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Would love one. smile
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...only if you want me to...Winkingsmile
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...I aim to please...smileTongue
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smile heheeheee...
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...but not scared of bling...
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...you should be afraid, be very afraid...
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I love your combo. Tongue
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you wanted it!!
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...come here bling....
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hmmm....
"watch your eye"
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mini....i hope not....
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My aqua boyfriend hates cheese, i keep trying to tell him what he's missing....
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*giggles* @ Bling
...its okay hun...
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more cancer bashing...gotta love it!
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Yeah, good job we've got tough shells !!!!!!
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anti...you're a funny guy Winking
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although, my mind can be pretty unhinged at times...
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i agree unusualcancer...aquas can be manipulative in a vengeful kind of way...us cancers are manipulative through emotion, yes...but, we don't do it on purpose. i think it is more of a subconscious thing for us. whereas aquas seem to be that way on purpose.
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that is one thing i really don't like about aquas...
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actually the most manipulative person ive ever met was my Aunt [evil]...the LEO....dunn dunn dunnnnn!!!!
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Everyone thank you so much for your insight, sarcasm, and words of wisdom regarding the Aqua behavior.
I think that break gave us some time to understand one another better. I open my mouth more to him and I think he understands me more. Which is a plus.
The problem is that the sexual chemistry is still there and I don't want anything stupid to happen...I guess Self-Control is gonna have to be upped big time for this one.
Anyway Thanks Everyone...
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if i could find a man who could destress me regularly, i'd keep him forever. if he regularly adds to that stress, then i don't handle that well. our ideal relationships are those that are stress-free and that revolve around the act of destressing, mine are anyway, and aquas do recipricate.
when we are relaxed, we are at our best.
I COULDNT AGREE MORE!! I dont do well with stress....relationship drama is unnecessary stress....In My Honest Opinion. Stress is hard for everyone...but I just dont do to well with it personally, and im pretty sure its the same for all aquas. We usually live our life from the perspective of "what would be less stress"....EVERYTHING....
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