Posted by DwellingOnMoveIm not talking about guessing. Im asking experiences. For i had aquas tell me verbatim they were afraid of losing the person so they stick with the one they can't stand. This isnt a "why do aquas leave" post. Its based on my personal experience with aqua friends. Seems to be a pattern. I also seen an aqua astrologer who proclaims Aquas always settle.
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI think you are missing the point of this post.
The other thing (as it is written in the work of Linda Goodman) is that Aquarius shows its good character traits and does not work more to get to anybody. This is the other parts's job to chase and pin down.
my own experience backs this up too.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Posted by Antiphates
first love: Gemini
longest "relationship": Gemini
mom's sign: Aquarius
dad's sign: Cancer (genetic), Libra (temporary stepdad)
worst "relationship": Gemini
best signs: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn,
married to: my sun/Venus conjunction
my heart belongs to: mankind
my sign: Aquarius
Posted by DwellingOnMoveDUDE I NEVER ASKED "WHY DO AQUAS LEAVE" SMH CAN YOU READ?
"Im not talking about guessing. Im asking experiences."
I have experience with Aqua men from the point of view of a Fire sign woman.
"why do aquas leave"
My impression is that Aquas do not leave. For leaving you need to be inside first. They are scattered and absent and on their way to save the humanity. It is us that can decide to stay and keep stuck with them until they put a ring on it. or no. experience and also read in the Linda Goodman work.
Aqua try not to keep a person. Cause people are free and enjoy free will. So no forcing or blackmailing from the Aqua part. This can be seen better with firey Aquas rather than watery ones.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
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"why do aquas leave"
My impression is that Aquas do not leave. ...
Posted by DwellingOnMoveYou literally are over complicating what is supposed to be a simple question. Why don’t you make your own thread? This isn’t relatable to anything I am saying here.
"For i had aquas tell me verbatim they were afraid of losing the person so they stick with the one they can't stand."
yes, maybe this works well for them. but this could come from some other planet in their chart. Moon or Venus or Jupiter. even Mercury. Libra want to be a couple. Earth signs seek stability. For example Capricorn is very pragmatic.
also when somebody settles for somebody else, different people see the couple in different lights. How can we judge the details we are not informed about?
Posted by DwellingOnMovePlease stop answering for Aquas or at least stop stating your opinion as absolutely correct.
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Posted by STILLAppreciate you.Posted by DwellingOnMovePlease stop answering for Aquas or at least stop stating your opinion as absolutely correct.
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Although @WaterDevil isn't always accurate, her REAL LIFE observations are more accurate than most people's.click to expand
Posted by WaterDevilThanks.Posted by STILLAppreciate you.Posted by DwellingOnMovePlease stop answering for Aquas or at least stop stating your opinion as absolutely correct.
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Although @WaterDevil isn't always accurate, her REAL LIFE observations are more accurate than most people's.click to expand
Posted by STILLPosted by DwellingOnMovePlease stop answering for Aquas or at least stop stating your opinion as absolutely correct.
"afraid of the unknown"
this is really far from what Astrology texts say. because the Uranian energy motivate everybody to go for the unknown.
if I had to find a reason why an Aqua avoid the great love (if this is true at all), I'd go for "fear of losing independence and personal freedom". or maybe that special great love was not that great, rather clingy or making drama.
I'm not an Aqua. Only Saturn in Aquarius here.
Although @WaterDevil isn't always accurate, her REAL LIFE observations are more accurate than most people's.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveYou are somewhat of an ego maniac now arnt you?
I see you have made big progress in your skills for exchanging ideas with more intellectual people
since this thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/i-think-i-love-the-aqua-12473441
Being able to talk objectively is really important in this context.
With more progress you will get more feedback from the Aquas on board.
Posted by WaterDevilPosted by DwellingOnMove...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/i-think-i-love-the-aqua-12473441
Being able to talk objectively is really important in this context. ..
You are somewhat of an ego maniac now arnt you?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine.....and now the friends request has been withdrawn
Oh i had two relationships with Aqua men who messed up because of their fear.
One contacted me years later and the other contacted me today 12 years after we finished lol
The sad thing is i know they loved me deeply...(both water moons).....both terrified of expressing that love
Posted by Marai
I've got 3 aqua friends that lost a great love due to painting this perfect picture in their head of something/someone and no-one measuring up to that. Years after they realized that no one is perfect and regret a little they let them go.
Not really afraid of the unknown, they kind of just expect their future to be a certain way and have a hard time letting go of that.
Not for all Aquas, this is just my observation after talking to my Aqua friends.
Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.
Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03That's good. You been with him for 2 years and he still swims away?Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNot my bf. Only for a short time. l really think I scared him when I said I loved him the first time even tho he said it back. I’ve played it mostly cool with him the last several months. He’s a friend who I think it’s slowly realizing the potential. He’s shown some feelings too. But he definitely doesn’t deny my expressions of love anymore. I think hes beginning to understand why I feel the way I feel. The main thing is that we’re still here and there’s a reason for it. It means something to me. But we shall see.Posted by pinkbird03That's good. You been with him for 2 years and he still swims away?Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Wishing you much luck with thisPosted by MyStarsShineNot my bf. Only for a short time. l really think I scared him when I said I loved him the first time even tho he said it back. I’ve played it mostly cool with him the last several months. He’s a friend who I think it’s slowly realizing the potential. He’s shown some feelings too. But he definitely doesn’t deny my expressions of love anymore. I think hes beginning to understand why I feel the way I feel. The main thing is that we’re still here and there’s a reason for it. It means something to me. But we shall see.Posted by pinkbird03That's good. You been with him for 2 years and he still swims away?Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineThank you 😊Posted by pinkbird03Wishing you much luck with thisPosted by MyStarsShineNot my bf. Only for a short time. l really think I scared him when I said I loved him the first time even tho he said it back. I’ve played it mostly cool with him the last several months. He’s a friend who I think it’s slowly realizing the potential. He’s shown some feelings too. But he definitely doesn’t deny my expressions of love anymore. I think hes beginning to understand why I feel the way I feel. The main thing is that we’re still here and there’s a reason for it. It means something to me. But we shall see.Posted by pinkbird03That's good. You been with him for 2 years and he still swims away?Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineGurlllll I wasn’t lying when I said I wasn’t shelving my feelings. We were drunk texting last night and I told him I loved him....Posted by pinkbird03Wishing you much luck with thisPosted by MyStarsShineNot my bf. Only for a short time. l really think I scared him when I said I loved him the first time even tho he said it back. I’ve played it mostly cool with him the last several months. He’s a friend who I think it’s slowly realizing the potential. He’s shown some feelings too. But he definitely doesn’t deny my expressions of love anymore. I think hes beginning to understand why I feel the way I feel. The main thing is that we’re still here and there’s a reason for it. It means something to me. But we shall see.Posted by pinkbird03That's good. You been with him for 2 years and he still swims away?Posted by MyStarsShineOh believe me I’m not shelving anything. I write him walls of text lol I think he’s finally becoming comfortable with it. I just try to add logic too so it makes more sense to him.Posted by pinkbird03I don't know......if you are an emotional person and try to shelve that, eventually that's not going to work. We shouldn't have to adapt our personalities for others...I've tried that with air signs and I end up becoming even more emotional ...
The aqua I like has been in my life for two years. He’s got Pisces Mars so he swims to me then swims away. Does she have any Pisces? Could explain why she pulls away when afraid. Lately I’ve been expressing my feelings in a logical way and he’s been responding a lot better to it than when I was only emotional. So maybe try a logical approach.click to expand