AQUAS; how do you know if theyre truly in love with you... they need so much space

mine is distancing himself from me... I always find myself wondering if hes lost his love for me or what, we dont talk for a few days at a time and then he returns as if he hadnt been ignoring me. I want to know how i can tell if he is truly in love with me. (we are in a very complicated but deep relationship... will he ever make it official or is he leading me on? he tells me he loves me.. but i know some aquas do and say things in the moment

He isolated himself probably he can't comprehend that he is in love with you. Not that he lost his love for you, he just needs to space off and try and understand it. He is probably shy. Don't make him spill it. Let him come to you with it alone. He may say I love you or he will not say it, but show it.

If he said it, he does. I've said before that I don't feel his love emotionally (except when making love) but I jist know it.

Honestly if we didn't live together I would still be wondering...

Of course every Aqua is different. When I'm first in love with you, I back off because I don't understand what these emotions are. Then I panic then I realize that I want to be with you and stick like glue.

Posted by ladyleo3
mine is distancing himself from me... I always find myself wondering if hes lost his love for me or what, we dont talk for a few days at a time and then he returns as if he hadnt been ignoring me. I want to know how i can tell if he is truly in love with me. (we are in a very complicated but deep relationship... will he ever make it official or is he leading me on? he tells me he loves me.. but i know some aquas do and say things in the moment

If they love ypu, they spend more,and more time with you.

Is he fucking your grandmother?

I dunno. Happy New Year, or something.

When I like you I want to be all around and in you. everyday.

What if he was perfect and you just did or said something to hurt his feelings ? I think they are very sensitive creatures .. they keep repeating " it's all good , I'm fine or I don't care" just to hide the hurt.. unlike Cancer mend , who are very open and tell u exactly what u did to hurt them . With Aquarius it's always Guessing . •¯

Posted by 2thinkalike
What if he was perfect and you just did or said something to hurt his feelings ? I think they are very sensitive creatures .. they keep repeating " it's all good , I'm fine or I don't care" just to hide the hurt.. unlike Cancer mend , who are very open and tell u exactly what u did to hurt them . With Aquarius it's always Guessing . •¯

Hello?! Go on the cancer board and see that cancers don't communicate their hurt. You got it twisted. It's the other way around. When someone hurts me I tell them right away when I'm pissed about.

Posted by Aquagirl2015
Of course every Aqua is different. When I'm first in love with you, I back off because I don't understand what these emotions are. Then I panic then I realize that I want to be with you and stick like glue.

Posted by ladyleo3
mine is distancing himself from me... I always find myself wondering if hes lost his love for me or what, we dont talk for a few days at a time and then he returns as if he hadnt been ignoring me. I want to know how i can tell if he is truly in love with me. (we are in a very complicated but deep relationship... will he ever make it official or is he leading me on? he tells me he loves me.. but i know some aquas do and say things in the moment

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That's exactly how I am when I'm in love.

welp we haven't talked in like 3/4 days, and the last time i texted him first, blah blah and he asked me what my new years plans were, i said none, he didn't bring that up again, but at the end of our convo i said don't forget about me, and he said never (: ... so ive been going crazy the last few days wondering if he still has love for me, and hoping that he'd try to make plans with me on NYE, he texted me saying happy new years! and i texted him back the same, and that was it. of course my mind is wandering like well was he with some other girl at the bar and thats why he didnt ask me to go out, or did i hurt his feelings, idk. I think i'm gonna wait for him to come to me, im not gonna hold this against him but i just want to talk about where this is going and if he doesn't want to be with me id hope he'd tell me the truth and break it off. this would absolutely break me, but the wondering is already breaking me...

How old are you both? Seems like younger Aqua dudes have trouble with emotional relationships.

@aquarius09 .. I know exactly what I'm saying , my ex cancer was very open and nagging everytime he was hurt and tell me in detail whatever the problem was , that's why it was so simple to fix it.. with little bit of reasurrance and cuddling the problem was solved.The aqua guy I'm seeing now is an introvert and I know for sure he is holding some hurt but he is acting cool like he doesn't care and I'm trying to push his buttons just to see some reaction. And nothing . He's cold as ice ..never met antone in my life with such self control..lol