Back off. Works for every kind of guy all the time.
Maybe he isn't ready for a committed relationship -- in which case, you need to keep your eyes open.
As for sex, yes well, it's the best I've ever had, too. But remember, they have to build up their sperm banks, while we women are insatiable, so give him a break ๐
Lol. Boy if I had a dollar for every person on here that has said that an Aqua was the best sex they ever had.=D
But naw, fa real though, it is common for our libido's to be very low compared to the other signs. Not saying we never think about it. I do, but most of the time I just don't care. I wouldn't consider sex a big aspect of my life. If I don't get any I won't self destruct, lol. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood. But whenever I am in the mood...IT'S ON!
I have a huge sexual drive when I am in love. Falling in love, takes FOREVER! And most of the time, never happens bc we are too analytical. We only allow ourselves to get emotionally involved with a person when 90% of the things we like are present and that is rare.
"Falling in love, takes FOREVER! And most of the time, never happens bc we are too analytical. We only allow ourselves to get emotionally involved with a person when 90% of the things we like are present and that is rare."
Less horny ? I remember my ex-cancer caming back home I was welcoming her with more than kisses just after the door was shut. But nooooooo I had to stop and wash up first as well as she. And then make sure curtains were closed, lights shut and...door locked (sthg I could never understand why since none would come in, they would just knock). Some things are not easy to hold on once started :\
Ok...so I understand the whole connection chemistry thing being important to you aquas...but how are we supposed to get there when you make yourselves completely unavailable!!! I mean c'mon!!! When I see this guy, once every other week, how are we supposed to connect on any kind of level, by the way, this aqua doesn't even use text messaging! So there is virtually, no communication, unless it is him calling to make plans...and of course...that's when HE has the time!
btw Eaglegirl aqua guys and girls arent very different from one another....I'm not sure if thats a good or bad thing :/ There are other threads made on this subject buried in here somewhere, other ladies have asked the same thing. You can look at those if you like.
consensus is sex isnt end all be all for the sign.
It sounds like your relationship really has great potential, esp. with your Libra and Aqua compatibility (think: Gable and Lombard). On the other hand, didn't you guys start out kind of casual -- i.e. just sex at first? I'm not dissing you, because me and my Aqua are in the same kind of situation.
It just seems harder to turn a super physical chemistry into more....although it is certainly possible. In fact, I just heard of a study that said love lasts just as long when you "fall in love at first sight" as opposed to being friends first, and then getting intimate.
Back to your question "Are Aqua's less horny than other signs?" ... If you are referring to SUN Signs ... Absolutely Not. Your SUN Sign has nothing to do with your Sex Drive. Take a look at ones Moon, Mars, Venus & Mercury Signs and that may explain why a couple with Sun Signs in Libra and Aquarius are not sexually compatible.
So, even though your Sun Signs are compatible, if the other placements are not ... your relationship may come to an abrupt halt.
So the aqua guy and I are making huge progress....we've hung out without any hooking up for a few weeks now, and finally last week- we hung out, and my aqua guy actually opened up with me...in his own aqua way of course! He didn't come out and say he liked me, but told me he liked hanging out with me, and gazed into my eyes for what seemed like forever, and told me I felt so good and different, BEFORe he kissed me! He said he didn't know why but it just felt like a good fit..now he may have just been referring to our physical/cuddling compatability...but I think it was more..it was after a long night of hanging out and talking...and one of the first times we kissed when it didn't involve ridiculous amounts of drinking....My question now is, is there potential for aqua's sex drive to increase when they decide they really do like someone? It's still not enough for me, this once a month, even once every 2-3 week thing? Can't help it...I'm a libra! Maybe I should try the sexy lingerie thing with him...though now, I really like hanging out with him even if it doesn't involve sex...definitely enjoying spending time and getting to know this mysterious guy! But the problem is, i'm so Freaking attracted to him!! He's perfect in bed...just want it more and more!!! Want it all I guess!
Wow..LeoKitten, have you been burned really bad before? You're awefully suspicious of men...and have you not read anything about the typical aquarian sex drive, which is less than most signs? HE is definitely not getting it from somewhere else...in fact, this guy has no time for anything, which is part of the reason we only have limited time together..he works 3 days a week, mostly weekends, attends law school full time, has a side business of his own, and coaches hockey on saturday mornings....so I trust him and know for a fact that the only night a week he has free is Fridays, and the other three nights he works, he works with friends of mine at the restaurant we work at....so I know nothing is going on! Our schedules are completely different, I hold a 9-5 job M-F and also have school 3 nights/week...I am also very social and very busy with my friends and other priorities...geez....and by the way, we had really good sex the other night...my only question was, after everything I have read...it seems like Aquarians don't need sex the same way as other signs...especially my sign, I would prefer it at least 2 times a week, but due to the fact that I don't see my aqua that much and we are in the beginning phases of some sort of relationship- it's hard to tell if he requires it as much as I do!
Good to hear that your Aqua is opening up more. I think sex frequency can be a real problem in a relationship. Perhaps when you are more sure of this guy's feelings for you, you can ask him about upping the ante. ๐ On the other hand, if he is really that busy, perhaps you need to be considerate of his schedule.
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Maybe he isn't ready for a committed relationship -- in which case, you need to keep your eyes open.
As for sex, yes well, it's the best I've ever had, too. But remember, they have to build up their sperm banks, while we women are insatiable, so give him a break ๐