Are Aqua's users of people?

Cancer girlie here. This Aqua guy I am dating and I are moving pretty fast. I have been setting ground rules, he is at times realizing they are not confrontations. (Thanks to those of you who told me Aqua's get p*ssy really fast) I am not as offended with his loud outbursts (hugs to you Aqua's). ROFL, we have discussed it is best to just let me think I am right and he can sneak up behind me and be right GRIN. Cancer humor there. I swear Aqua's are like bulls and rams in a China shop at times.

Being who I am, I am holding back in a lot of ways so no worries about crazy moving fast. However due to economy and both wanting to relocate to the same area he may move in with me for a month to see how we work.
We are both in late 40's so have been around the block a bit. He has to relocate anyway and I am not ready to pick up and commit to the new area with him yet, this makes sense. We spend all our time together so one way or another the chance of getting hurt is already there. Being a Cancer it is hard to pry me from my place except to play so moving to his place is out. I am not seeing his need to spend time alone from him yet. Guess that will show up when the relationship mellows.

But tell me. Individuals aside. Are Aqua's the type to jump in when in "whatever kind of love", inclined to do the best thing for themselves over better judgement in a relationship to further themselves? Guess you get what I mean. Are they users to progress themselves or more inclined to run regardless?

I keep asking him if he really understands his feelings for me and as he goes on and on (lol) I am over-reassured.
Sorry to pick on the talking so much but he does rattle a lot. Hope these questions don't come across as nutty.

Thanks all.

actually we collect people

Collect people. Guess that is not so bad....discard.........arrrrgh.

So do Aqua's jump forward fast by nature?

I am finding this relationship very diff. than the usual. Perhaps due to circumstances not a lot of time for games. If any of the other signs I know were to talk "location" moves etc. I would not even pay attention. I thought Aqua's distant and I do feel it at times with him but he runs back so fast I am fine. I just want to trust the sign. Got major burn from a Gemini and am really looking at the signs.

New relationships are such a pain in the rump.

*sigh*

Are Aqua's the type to jump in when in "whatever kind of love", inclined to do the best thing for themselves over better judgement in a relationship to further themselves? Guess you get what I mean. Are they users to progress themselves ?

Yes - I have seen this time and time again with Aquas... there's always some logical justification though... I mean it's not a always a sign thing... I've seen virgos, sagis, geminis and scorpios do this... it's all to do with personal morals I think...

And ditto on collecting people

If any of the other signs I know were to talk "location" moves etc. I would not even pay attention. I thought Aqua's distant and I do feel it at times with him but he runs back so fast I am fine. I just want to trust the sign. Got major burn from a Gemini and am really looking at the signs.

are you taking astrology a bit too seriously? If this person wanted to really mess with you, you'll let them because they're Aqua?
All aquas will not behave alike - I have known aquas that got married after dating a few weeks same as any other sign...
being born at a certain time of the year does not excuse you from standard human feelings.

I agree with the earlier posts...I collect people, then I discard them 1 by 1 until I have only but a handful of people left...hmm...I call those who survived FRIENDS

I am really starting to agree its not all about the sign. My Aqua has some issues. I really, really care about him, but he does the sabatoge thing so fast his own head spins. (Bummer)

Having talked to an old girl friend, he does want to know everything NOW. However, if he finds out it is not on the subject HE thought is was on, heaven forbid it got brought up. I keep reminding him that I am fine, and he does not need to ask me what is on my mind...... that nosy nature just gets in the way again.

In any case. Tonight I am telling him we can't live together. My heart is broken as I know he will jump in all directions crazy mad. Would be willing to try this again with an Aqua who lacks the emotional nature of the one I have. Think its wrapped around a bad marriage and a nutty childhood.

😢

You are apprehensive about accomodating him?? I don't know for certain but Aquas might be the types that end themselves with whatever aquaintances are available.

By nature we dont use people. I know it kills me to know i might of offended someone. I make sure to be as fair as possible so no one has any right to impose any authority on to me. However, sometimes it is possible we may use someone but we have a perfectly logical justification that will work itself out. But as some may have stated the sign is kind of like a pre-disposition but other factors influence behavior such as upbringing, environment and the other typical things we humans go through.