Best way to react when getting dumped by Aquas....
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by scorpio86 on Saturday, May 3, 2008 and has 52 replies.
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Well?
is this a contest?
she told a friend she is going to dump me tomorow..
Dump her first.
What! Dont act like you havent thought about it...
What! Dont act like you havent thought about it...
Be civil and the bigger person. Dig within the depths of your scorpion soul for it.
i hate the fact i love her so much and i am so angry about how pathetic she makes me feel...
i am even having thoughts about hurting her now...
i am even having thoughts about hurting her now...
i think that she is not self-aware...
i think i might destroy some of her delusions even if it hurts her...
infact i think i might dump her first...
i think i might destroy some of her delusions even if it hurts her...
infact i think i might dump her first...
I knew you all were crazies...
Be rational, guy.
Be rational, guy.
"i hate the fact i love her so much and i am so angry about how pathetic she makes me feel..."
This seems to be a recurring issue with aqua girls and water signs...men in general...lets expound on this...
Why scorpio86?
This seems to be a recurring issue with aqua girls and water signs...men in general...lets expound on this...
Why scorpio86?
oh no. not another grapevine story.
i think the crazies are aquas...
they are so spontaneous, self-unaware, detached and inconsiderate, i feel used, discarded, manipulated...and also very furious.
they are so spontaneous, self-unaware, detached and inconsiderate, i feel used, discarded, manipulated...and also very furious.
"enlighten"? you mean i shouldnt tell her honestly that she is only believing what is most convenient at the time?
how exactly do you throw someone off guard who is detached? and destroy her intent? im confused...
maybe i am over-analysing things...
how exactly do you throw someone off guard who is detached? and destroy her intent? im confused...
maybe i am over-analysing things...
i guess initially i was attracted to her because she is fills in areas i dont have...
we're almost like opposites.
sometimes i look back and feel so manipulated, there were 3 weeks hiatuses in our relationship where she wouldnt contact me and claimed to be "busy" she didnt reply to my texts and didnt answer my calls, so then i didnt bother. then out of nowhere she spontaneously pops out and contacts me but never actually goes through with any plans or changes them...
i felt they were mind games, but then i realized that she wasnt even aware she was playing them...but other times when we saw each other everything was great, there was so much intellectual connection and romance...
my dignity is very important, i almost dont care what she thinks about me, i care most about what i think about myself....i feel pathetic for trusting her and revealing myself...i cant read her not even now..
we're almost like opposites.
sometimes i look back and feel so manipulated, there were 3 weeks hiatuses in our relationship where she wouldnt contact me and claimed to be "busy" she didnt reply to my texts and didnt answer my calls, so then i didnt bother. then out of nowhere she spontaneously pops out and contacts me but never actually goes through with any plans or changes them...
i felt they were mind games, but then i realized that she wasnt even aware she was playing them...but other times when we saw each other everything was great, there was so much intellectual connection and romance...
my dignity is very important, i almost dont care what she thinks about me, i care most about what i think about myself....i feel pathetic for trusting her and revealing myself...i cant read her not even now..
Ask for constructive criticism so the next girl you date will get the best of you. 
she is someone i reckon cannot distinguish between "sex" and "making love", every moment with her was intensely passionate for me but for her, was it simply just a quick pleasure? furthermore, now she is done and bored of me, has she found someone else..i wonder?
ive never met someone so incredibly emotional handicapped...for someone so intellectual and humanitarian how can she treat someone so inconsiderately and disrespectfully? im so furious and i feel like ive been manipulated.
ive never met someone so incredibly emotional handicapped...for someone so intellectual and humanitarian how can she treat someone so inconsiderately and disrespectfully? im so furious and i feel like ive been manipulated.
if she says, "listen, i'm breaking up with you."
you say (while scratching your head), "wait, we were together? whoa, all this time i thought we were just friends!"
you say (while scratching your head), "wait, we were together? whoa, all this time i thought we were just friends!"
kris: what will virgo do to her?
ScorpSuperior: haha i was actually thinking that..."you cant dump me when there was nothing to begin with, i was a free agent..."
ScorpSuperior: haha i was actually thinking that..."you cant dump me when there was nothing to begin with, i was a free agent..."
Haha I like scorp superiors advice, too.
I have a date with a Virgo male. Now I don't want to go. My first love was a Virgo...*shudder*....
I have a date with a Virgo male. Now I don't want to go. My first love was a Virgo...*shudder*....
*kris whats your sunsign? just curious
kris is a pussy
i miss antibling 
lol
i always seem to meet my nemesis when i date aquas...
never again!
never again!
i was happiest with my virgo ex....then i got enticed by the current aqua.
""I hope scorp superior gets hit by a bullet train .""
Been there, done that.
Been there, done that.
i can handle all sorts of mindgames but..
when it comes to opponents who play a game but are not conscious of it....however.
i end up analysing and drawing my own conclusions, it drives me nuts. i hate uncertainties and indecisiveness. i like assertiveness, honesty and control.
i almost feel dependency shifted from her to me..i ended up depending on her.
when it comes to opponents who play a game but are not conscious of it....however.
i end up analysing and drawing my own conclusions, it drives me nuts. i hate uncertainties and indecisiveness. i like assertiveness, honesty and control.
i almost feel dependency shifted from her to me..i ended up depending on her.
I'm a:
Sunsign- Scorpio
Rising - Scorpio
Chinese zodiac - Tiger
Sunsign- Scorpio
Rising - Scorpio
Chinese zodiac - Tiger
i dont seem to click with most cancers i know...
they arnt intellectual and assertive for me.
they arnt intellectual and assertive for me.
electroaqua: what do you think of scorpio's general characteristics and methods?
pisces from my experience are emotional wrecks..i cant handle people who cant even control their emotions sometimes...
though this is slightly hypocritical...sometimes i lash out so aggressively i think im capable of murdering if pushed to it..
though this is slightly hypocritical...sometimes i lash out so aggressively i think im capable of murdering if pushed to it..
do aqua and scorps generally work?
having sun/rising scorp plus a tiger is an angle of reading why im so aggressive i suppose...
though, personally ive tried to control it, but sometimes when people hurt me i become vindictive and i grudge...or when people i care about are hurt, i become so angry i want to avenge them
though, personally ive tried to control it, but sometimes when people hurt me i become vindictive and i grudge...or when people i care about are hurt, i become so angry i want to avenge them
""And don't bully Kris, he's a great guy. Unlike others, he actually takes some time to try and give others some healthy advice. Esp. scorps, don't bully Kris. Scorps are such men, that they need Aqua girls to give them advice on how to dump them. Kris doens't need advice from scorpio girls on how to get rid of them.
GO, Kris, I'm with you.
- huh?""
hahahaa!
GO, Kris, I'm with you.
- huh?""
hahahaa!
lmao @ aqister
ticking her strange? whatever do you mean, kris?
shes a..
sunsign - aqua
rising - libra
chinese zodiac - boar
shes a..
sunsign - aqua
rising - libra
chinese zodiac - boar
are cancer and pisces the conventional brave souls willing to live in scorpio's dark world...
how lonely...
..but i like the peace away from evil humanity
how lonely...
..but i like the peace
away from evil humanityKris is the Anti-Grammar.
::gasp::
shame on you, kris is still only 17!
shame on you, kris is still only 17!
ScorpSuperior, whats your rising?
stop lying, kris.
this year you will turn 17 for the 3rd consecutive time.
this year you will turn 17 for the 3rd consecutive time.
"Really? I always saw cancers as pretty sweat people, who are usualy not into power-games. They can only be a little cloying, but I really don't see them as "plague", that sounds too harsh."
Do not, repeat DO NOT be fooled. That sweet stuff is a tactical maneuver. They are EXTREMELY strategic. I'm not kidding.
Do not, repeat DO NOT be fooled. That sweet stuff is a tactical maneuver. They are EXTREMELY strategic. I'm not kidding.
lolol
i'm not old.
i'm not old.
Yea. That's why I ran, ran, ran, from this one Cancer dude. Oh. My. God. *shudders* Now, for friends, they are AWESOME! Got a girl cancer friend and she is the BOMB! She's practically psychic! She can always tell me if someone is genuine or not, I'm usually clueless...well sometimes, not all the time.
""ScorpSuperior, whats your rising?""
it is on the cusp of aries and gemini, conjuncting my midheaven ever so gently.
it is on the cusp of aries and gemini, conjuncting my midheaven ever so gently.
which is a better coupling?
Aqua + Cancer
Aqua + Scorpio
Aqua + Capricorn
?
Aqua + Cancer
Aqua + Scorpio
Aqua + Capricorn
?
they all suck.
well, they're supposed to anyway.
cancer & aqua, from what i've seen the relationship usually hinges on physicality. they make good lovers but not good friends and that's a problem in this case.
scorpio & aqua, from what i've seen never-ending power plays, both are insanely stubborn, and the drama is ridiculous. they seem to be attracted to one another for some mysterious reason though.
capricorn & aqua, well i haven't seen this one at all to be honest.
cancer & aqua, from what i've seen the relationship usually hinges on physicality. they make good lovers but not good friends and that's a problem in this case.
scorpio & aqua, from what i've seen never-ending power plays, both are insanely stubborn, and the drama is ridiculous. they seem to be attracted to one another for some mysterious reason though.
capricorn & aqua, well i haven't seen this one at all to be honest.
Either way, whether or not she dumps you, you'll still always wonder WHY----why your friend lied to you or why you got dumped, so it's going to suck either way. Hell, either dump her first OR be real with yourself & prepare for the worst. With you being a Scorpio, we BOTH know you'll end up putting your love for her to the side in order to get her back so either way, "being the bigger person" won't apply (to you OR her)...I can understand that you love HER, but love YOU more.
And plus, I find it kind of hard to believe that an Aqua who feels strongly enough about dumping you & ACTUALLY telling others about it, would actually STALL in a decision like that. If we felt like dumping you, we'd waste NO time. Plus, who in the hell actually plans out with a calendar in hand when they're going to dump someone? Is it me, or did that kind of thing happen in High school
which is a better coupling?
Aqua + Cancer
Aqua + Scorpio
Aqua + Capricorn
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Well, let's see. Being with a CANCER, I'd probably smack him for all his whining & complaing. Being with a SCORPIO, the relationship would probably consist of me competing with him for power the whole time (ending up in total chaos). And Me with a Capricorn wouldn't bring that "Spice" we Aquas need. I'd probably get bored really easily.
Aqua + Cancer
Aqua + Scorpio
Aqua + Capricorn
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Well, let's see. Being with a CANCER, I'd probably smack him for all his whining & complaing. Being with a SCORPIO, the relationship would probably consist of me competing with him for power the whole time (ending up in total chaos). And Me with a Capricorn wouldn't bring that "Spice" we Aquas need. I'd probably get bored really easily.
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