can an aqua guy+cancer woman

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krysrenee7
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Aqua & Cancer relationships can be kind of rocky. Doesn't mean they can't work out, but most of them tend to be pretty turbulent

As with most relationships, things start off wonderfully in the beginning (honey moon stages), but eventually true colors/personality start coming out.

I can't speak for all Aquas or even for Cancers but I can atleast share my experience(s) with you as an Aqua in regards to dealing with Cancers.

Whereas Aqua is so logical & tries their hardest to stay away from living solely off emotion, Cancer is the complete opposite. This can cause a major clash in the relationship b/c 1 or both people will always feel like the other person is either too cold hearted OR too sensitive

Whereas Aqua is known to hold in their feelings/pick their battles, Cancer lets it ALL out, whether they're feelings about something are relevant or irrelevant. This can annoy Aquarians b/c they are the sign of "keeping it under control" whereas Cancer won't feel like they're being true to themselves unless they "let it all out."

They are both pretty stubborn. In matters of communication, the relationship can be very rocky during hard times. Both signs have a hard time verbally expressing their feelings since both their minds are so complex.

Cancer is very clingy, dramatic & jealous & even though Aquarians may be this too secretely (keyword), they don't like experiencing a partner that doesn't appreciate their need for space or freedom.

On the flip side, they have alot in common. They are both very loyal, they both intensly crave long-term relationships, they both love really hard when they actually do find love, they both have a small knit circle/group of friends & they're both very faithful in relationships.

Whereas Aquarius needs to learn how to be more in tune with their romantic/emotional side, Cancer reminds them of this & slowly but surely brings it out of Aqua. Both signs can give the other what they're lacking, especially since both signs tick completely the opposite.

The relationship will def. be a challenge, BUT also possible.
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BeatrixBecks
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I am an aqua girl with a cancer man. And yeah,he's the most jealous person I've ever met .
And him being emotional,I tried to do my best to not hurt him,and still am trying.

I gave up almost my whole freedom, and I gave up on my disappearing acts,in exchange,he will be patient about my decisions and will try to understand my sometimes strange behavior.But changing for him wasn't really that hard since I also have pisces planets in my chart. So yeah,it can work out but as I see it,the relationship needs from both partners understanding and maybe one of them or both will need to change or sacrifice. That's how I see it anyways,It's the first time I actually gave up my freedom for a guy . So it's a challenge , but it can work out.

Only my point of view,if I'm wrong then sorry 😛

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This is my story,
I am an aqua guy and I met her at church. It is not love in the first sight. I didn't know why but she caught my attention. We were friends for 6 months. I was attracted to her that she talks a lot. I feel like she was like a balloon trying so hard to release all its air on me. I don't know why but I am falling for her each time she talks about herself. Although sometime I don't feel too comfortable about her pasts, I believe love should overcome. I personally don't talk much at the beginning. We will go to the beach, mountain and dinner. After few months, I seem attached to her.
And after 6 months our love story began.
She is totally something else, dramatic, jealous, and insecure. Sometime I think she is coming from Mars. She will ask me to talk, telling her how I feel. At first, I didn't know how. I couldn't speak. I am almost like a baby, starting to learn how to talk. She was frustrated, angry about my silent. I spent almost three months to convince her that I am still learning how to express my feeling in words. It was definitely a tough lesson for me. There were many times that I felt so hopeless and I just want to give up. However, for some reason, she always comes back to me. It feels warm in my heart. It feels like I finally find a person who will not leave me. Therefore, I tried harder to speak up and I am still learning.
I feel that our relationship is like a learning process. I am learning how to love with words, giving up my freedom, and being closer with her. Although we only been together 4 months, our bond is strong. I don't know what it is going to be like tomorrow. I will try my best to love her.
And this is my story. I agree that it's a challenge !
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My Cancer brother and his Aqua wife last 37 years until she died last year of pancreatic cancer. He was by her side to the end. It can work and there is real love there but it will not be easy.

When these two got together people were different, the time was different and how people viewed relationships were different. If you can acknowledge that you two are different and accept that, you may be on your way to something long-term.
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Honeybees
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Posted by edta27
This is my story,
I am an aqua guy and I met her at church. It is not love in the first sight. I didn't know why but she caught my attention. We were friends for 6 months. I was attracted to her that she talks a lot. I feel like she was like a balloon trying so hard to release all its air on me. I don't know why but I am falling for her each time she talks about herself. Although sometime I don't feel too comfortable about her pasts, I believe love should overcome. I personally don't talk much at the beginning. We will go to the beach, mountain and dinner. After few months, I seem attached to her.
And after 6 months our love story began.
She is totally something else, dramatic, jealous, and insecure. Sometime I think she is coming from Mars. She will ask me to talk, telling her how I feel. At first, I didn't know how. I couldn't speak. I am almost like a baby, starting to learn how to talk. She was frustrated, angry about my silent. I spent almost three months to convince her that I am still learning how to express my feeling in words. It was definitely a tough lesson for me. There were many times that I felt so hopeless and I just want to give up. However, for some reason, she always comes back to me. It feels warm in my heart. It feels like I finally find a person who will not leave me. Therefore, I tried harder to speak up and I am still learning.
I feel that our relationship is like a learning process. I am learning how to love with words, giving up my freedom, and being closer with her. Although we only been together 4 months, our bond is strong. I don't know what it is going to be like tomorrow. I will try my best to love her.
And this is my story. I agree that it's a challenge !





this is exactly what i am going through.. my cancer won't speak up.. and i want him to open up lol...