Can Cancer love an Aqua?

Hey guys,
I'm an Aquarius and I have fallen for a delightful and caring cancer. We are deeply passionate and I feel this relationship can work! But, I'm afraid that it could be hindered by my aloofness, I care deeply for my cancer, is it a hard relationship? Does anyone have advice for this in love Aqua? What should I watch out for? How can I make sure to tend to cancer's needs while not being a hinder—
Thanks a vary in love Aqua~!

hey there!!!

i am a cancer female dating an aqua male for quite some time now. i can probably answer most any questions you have. i will get back to you on this subject in a little bit.
btw...are you male or female? that will make a difference!

AquaMagus I warn you (in a friendly way) be careful of your aqua nature. Cancer may easily get hurt by your aloofness, eg you may be concentrated fixing your pc without intentionally ignoring her and when mission is finished and you're ready to enjoy moments with your cancer she will be with her arms crossed and you will be like "wtf what happened here?" And also (sorry for that MC) she will remember it whenever you have something new to add/upgrade on your pc. Best advice: just try to show some affection, not all the time, just not being absolutely...aqua (aloof). Often give higher priority on your plans for her rather than other tasks of your busy aqua schedule :p And also not for now but for the future, think what you want/plan for life as your cancer most likely is thinking a family around you !!

This one is another tough one. They arent for me personally (says the one with a cancer moon 🙂), but they can make really good friends.

Precisely. They're too dramatic, honestly.

And work on your emotions, I was so affraid to tell her I love her that I kept on telling her "how special she is to me" at some point she found it offensive !!

hey AquaMagus - Dont think all signs are the same - Some cancers are just as aloof as the Aqua.

I know of one Cancer/Aqua relationship that seams to be working out g8 - they just got engaged - He is flirty & aloof but she doesnt give a shit - ha! Works well. Think she knows hes just foolin & he really does love her.

The other one I know came out of a 4 year relationship a total screwed up mess cause of her Aqua Man - she had an abortion & he became an alcoholic - sad shit!!

Another cancer I know is a seaker - doesnt really settle & doesnt like gushy romantic relationships (no she is not a lesbian either although I did question that at one stage - heh heh) She is a traveller & doesnt like to stay put for long - that to me doesnt fit the 'normal' Cancer girl as far as I know?!? Well she isnt like any of the other Cancer chicks I know.

I'm a guy and well he's a guy too, hehe i know that changes the reality a bit...

lol we are both young no silver hairs yet!!! Lol well he's 19 and i'm 21 does that help?

and lord he's hot, blond blue eyes, with a smile that can make a saint cry!

Sounds sexai AM!!

Well, the guys are just as dramatic if not more. I love 'em to death, but why the hell are they always angry??

But as to the OP (original Post):
Of course they can love aquas...Ive had many a cancer men love me! 🙂
(loving them...is the real questions)

lol i've yet to see him angry he writes me poems in spanish and french and holds me with such passion that can make even a cold aqua show not only emotion but devotion, i hope it works and i hope 2 b with him for as long as are hearts can beat as one~!

well, oh damn! gimme some of that.🙂

Have Fun!

Awww AquaMagus - I love a good love storey 😄

*Story

Well, i would talk it over with your mother...Moms have very good input on these sorta things. So just be honest with her, and she will help you...

I have personal experiance in saying that Aquas and Cancers do NOT work well together...espisaly in gay relationships.....Just a friendly warning... ;o)

Well, I posted this in the other 'Can Cancer love an Aqua?' thread under Relationships & Astrology, so here goes. 😄

Out of all of my close friends, four of them are Cancers and I'm the only Aqua. So imagine that. :-) My first boyfriend happened to be a Cancer. I can tell you right now that it wasn't going to work out to begin with because I wasn't as much as in love with him as you are with your Cancer.
Cancers like to talk about their emotions while we don't. And most importantly they like to feel like you are listening to them and that they are being heard out. If you neglect to answer your phone right away, they take it personally like you didn't really want to talk to them to begin with. And if you tell them that you are busy or that you need space, they interpret it as you needing space from them.
But as long as there is an understanding between you both, things can work out. As it's been said before, Astrology isn't the end all to determining relationship probablity. Just remember to take it slow. While Cancers may appear to seem like they don't care or that stuff doesn't bother them--IT REALLY DOES. Don't be too rash with your decisions. If you're quick to change your mind and lose their heart, they can be one moody individual you wouldn't want to mess with.

Very true, you better discuss a Cancer's feelings than think that "she seems she doesn't care so she's fine" and then find yourself wandering what happened when she leaves.

That's the big chapter I didn't have the chance to close with my Cancer. Although aloof, with her I still feel I HAVE to find a way to go back to her, at least for a while. Not because I still care for her (well that's true !) but I feel I have to correct these mistakes because she was the perfect person for me, both as a personality and in zodiac terms. I can't leave it like this, not with her, I wouldn't mind for other people/friends etc but in life you get to meet a couple or few memorable people that when you hurt them, then if you don't fix this it may hunt you.

I'm affraid if I call her now, for the above reason, she may not even say hi back to me when she answers the phone and I say hi.

haha that one cancer thats constantly traveling and aloof sounds like me must have fire in her chart 🙂 oh and Tas u should call the cancer girl she will answer

I'm affraid if I call her now, for the above reason, she may not even say hi back to me when she answers the phone and I say hi.

LOL, she won't 🙂