can i an (aqua bitch) make it work with a leo man
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by aqua0121 on Saturday, February 26, 2011 and has 14 replies.
im soooo inlove with my ex its unreal, he calls me obsessive (even tho im not i just love him) he thinks im with other men all the time but he does'nt see that im loyal and devoted to him.
even tho we have been split up for 3 years we still sleep together its like we cant let eachother go yet he says he dont want to be with me, he wont be with anyone but me sexualy but he dont want anything serius i want serius but also i want my free time i love my space like all aquarius peeps and i enjoy getting lost in my thoughts
another thing i notice about my leo man is he likes to try and make me jealous and does'nt like it when it does'nt work lol
im really confused by him does he want n love me or am i just fooling myself??
even tho we have been split up for 3 years we still sleep together its like we cant let eachother go yet he says he dont want to be with me, he wont be with anyone but me sexualy but he dont want anything serius i want serius but also i want my free time i love my space like all aquarius peeps and i enjoy getting lost in my thoughts
another thing i notice about my leo man is he likes to try and make me jealous and does'nt like it when it does'nt work lol
im really confused by him does he want n love me or am i just fooling myself??
i never put cookiemonster i put aqua b i t c h
awww thanx hun.xx
tbh hun i beleive what u say kah he can be quite nasty lol i just dont get him i dont contact him for 2 weeks n he turns up at my house lol i think he loves me but he loves himself a lot more, im just gonna give him space n see what he does next
if he is playin games then ile play my games (u no how we can be cruel and sadistic) lol i always get my revenge
you are obsessed. that's why you can't let go after years of being broken up.
be real with yourself. he told you straight up that he doesn't want anything serious so what's to think about? why don't you believe him? has he not proven this fact to you after 3 years? yeah, he's sticking around because he's still getting sex from you. this shit isn't rocket science.
he may be an ass for continuing this relationship with you but it's not like he hasn't been up front with his intentions. you're just not listening because you don't want to.
what you need is to pull yourself away from this guy for a while to regain some clarity and perspective. this is when a little detachment can work wonders. however, you have to want it for yourself. you have to want to not be confused anymore. you have to hit a point where you're fed up enough to change your life.
maybe write down what you wrote as your opening paragraph on a piece of paper, give it to a good friend, then have them read it aloud to you and see how you feel about what you heard afterward.
be real with yourself. he told you straight up that he doesn't want anything serious so what's to think about? why don't you believe him? has he not proven this fact to you after 3 years? yeah, he's sticking around because he's still getting sex from you. this shit isn't rocket science.
he may be an ass for continuing this relationship with you but it's not like he hasn't been up front with his intentions. you're just not listening because you don't want to.
what you need is to pull yourself away from this guy for a while to regain some clarity and perspective. this is when a little detachment can work wonders. however, you have to want it for yourself. you have to want to not be confused anymore. you have to hit a point where you're fed up enough to change your life.
maybe write down what you wrote as your opening paragraph on a piece of paper, give it to a good friend, then have them read it aloud to you and see how you feel about what you heard afterward.
^Yup.
1. He means it when he says that he doesn't want a committment from/with you anymore. He's still open to having sex with you b/c doing so doesn't require much effort on his part. Committment does, that's why he always says "no" when you ask for it.
2. Don't necessarily believe that he's not sleeping around with any other women. He may only be telling you that just to keep you & the sex around. If he's not emotionally attached to you, there's a HUGE chance that he might/will/can easily fall under another woman's spell. Part of what keeps someone loyal IS the emotional attachment they have to someone. Without the emotional attachment, there really is no loyalty...only benefits.
3. If he's calling you obsessive, it's b/c you probably are. If after 3 years you still haven't left him alone & moved on & shown him AND yourself that you deserve better, how can you expect him to see you as anything other than obsessive?
4. You're spending all these days, months & years with this man & through it all, you're still coming up short. Keep in mind that these are days, months & years that you WON'T ever get back. If you continue on in this crap with this guy, you're gonna end up 1. Resenting both him & yourself in the long run & 2. Missing out on the RIGHT man for you that will give you the very things you desire (cough: committment)
5. When someone SHOWS you who they are (better than they can tell you) listen the 1st time. This guy is clearly showing you that he wants to remain your ex. He may still love you a little bit, BUT he doesn't love you ENOUGH to commit to you. That oughta speak volumes. Don't settle for 50% of love (if it's even love to begin with). If you're gonna play the game of "love" either have ALL or nothing.
6. He continually tries making you jealous b/c he knows that your emotional attachment to him will allow that jealous to come out of you, thus only to make you further crave him. And if you further crave him, how does he benefit? He continues getting all the benefits from you. He's making a fool & mockery out of you with YOUR permission & consent honey
2. Don't necessarily believe that he's not sleeping around with any other women. He may only be telling you that just to keep you & the sex around. If he's not emotionally attached to you, there's a HUGE chance that he might/will/can easily fall under another woman's spell. Part of what keeps someone loyal IS the emotional attachment they have to someone. Without the emotional attachment, there really is no loyalty...only benefits.
3. If he's calling you obsessive, it's b/c you probably are. If after 3 years you still haven't left him alone & moved on & shown him AND yourself that you deserve better, how can you expect him to see you as anything other than obsessive?
4. You're spending all these days, months & years with this man & through it all, you're still coming up short. Keep in mind that these are days, months & years that you WON'T ever get back. If you continue on in this crap with this guy, you're gonna end up 1. Resenting both him & yourself in the long run & 2. Missing out on the RIGHT man for you that will give you the very things you desire (cough: committment)
5. When someone SHOWS you who they are (better than they can tell you) listen the 1st time. This guy is clearly showing you that he wants to remain your ex. He may still love you a little bit, BUT he doesn't love you ENOUGH to commit to you. That oughta speak volumes. Don't settle for 50% of love (if it's even love to begin with). If you're gonna play the game of "love" either have ALL or nothing.
6. He continually tries making you jealous b/c he knows that your emotional attachment to him will allow that jealous to come out of you, thus only to make you further crave him. And if you further crave him, how does he benefit? He continues getting all the benefits from you. He's making a fool & mockery out of you with YOUR permission & consent honey
7. He keeps trying to make you jealous, b/c each time he's tried in the past, you let him know through your actions that his plot/plan worked. He'll stop trying to make you jealous when you finally show him that his plan to get under your skin DOESN'T work for once.
8. He's mean to you b/c you allow it. He doesn't respect you. Some people will still stay around even though they don't want you, love you or respect you; they don't stay b/c they're just oh so torn & can't leave you alone. No, that's not it. They stay b/c they get great gain & benefit from treating someone like a doormat, especially if the doormat continually allows it.
9. What you put up with, you encourage. You keep putting up with the same ole crap & doing the same ole things with him, yet you keep expecting different results/outcomes.
10. This whole 3 years you've spent entertaining someone who cleary does NOT want you, is 3 years you could've spent with another more deserving guy. You could've been committed and damn near married by now to another guy who actually doesn't cringe at the thought of committment to you.
11. He thinks he's got you wrapped around his finger. All he has to do is whisper sweet nothings in your ear every blue moon & boom! He still gets the benefits. If you were him, wouldn't YOU continue robbing a bank if you knew you'd get away with it!? (I'm sure you would).
12. You don't love him. You can't possibly b/c honey you don't love yourself. If you loved yourself, you wouldn't constantly put yourself in harm's way (cough: this guy). If you loved yourself, you'd be doing everything it takes to get AWAY from him vs. what you're doing now, which is trying to find every way to get up close & under him. He might respect you if he finally sees that you've mastered the art of self-respect. But of course, by the time you finally love yourself & realize your own worth, you would've kicked him to the curb like yesterday, so much so that he wouldn't even get the chance to see the "new you."
Leave this guy alone. It doesn't matter why he's so mean or why he tries to make you jealous. Look at the BIG picture! He doesn't want to be with you. He doesn't respect you. He thinks you're obsessive (this is NOT a turn on to men). He takes the fact that you're madly in love with him for granted. He only feels that you're worth a night of sex, which is why a night of sex is about the ONLY good thing (if it's even good lol) that he's willing to offer you. Wake up girl
8. He's mean to you b/c you allow it. He doesn't respect you. Some people will still stay around even though they don't want you, love you or respect you; they don't stay b/c they're just oh so torn & can't leave you alone. No, that's not it. They stay b/c they get great gain & benefit from treating someone like a doormat, especially if the doormat continually allows it.
9. What you put up with, you encourage. You keep putting up with the same ole crap & doing the same ole things with him, yet you keep expecting different results/outcomes.
10. This whole 3 years you've spent entertaining someone who cleary does NOT want you, is 3 years you could've spent with another more deserving guy. You could've been committed and damn near married by now to another guy who actually doesn't cringe at the thought of committment to you.
11. He thinks he's got you wrapped around his finger. All he has to do is whisper sweet nothings in your ear every blue moon & boom! He still gets the benefits. If you were him, wouldn't YOU continue robbing a bank if you knew you'd get away with it!? (I'm sure you would).
12. You don't love him. You can't possibly b/c honey you don't love yourself. If you loved yourself, you wouldn't constantly put yourself in harm's way (cough: this guy). If you loved yourself, you'd be doing everything it takes to get AWAY from him vs. what you're doing now, which is trying to find every way to get up close & under him. He might respect you if he finally sees that you've mastered the art of self-respect. But of course, by the time you finally love yourself & realize your own worth, you would've kicked him to the curb like yesterday, so much so that he wouldn't even get the chance to see the "new you."
Leave this guy alone. It doesn't matter why he's so mean or why he tries to make you jealous. Look at the BIG picture! He doesn't want to be with you. He doesn't respect you. He thinks you're obsessive (this is NOT a turn on to men). He takes the fact that you're madly in love with him for granted. He only feels that you're worth a night of sex, which is why a night of sex is about the ONLY good thing (if it's even good lol) that he's willing to offer you. Wake up girl
1) im not obsessed with him, ive tried to let him go but he wont leave me
2)obsessive is constantly trying to controle sum1 obsessive is constantly goin on at sum1 to get ur way and obsessive is following, stalking, constantly ringing (i dont do none of that i leave it all to him like i said above)
3) if anyones obsessive its u leo tw@s constantly accusing ppl of cheating, not letting ppl have space constantly wantin attention and things/ppl u cant have and u run away when u dont get ur own way
im a strong ass independant woman who loves space i dont need no bs man trying to controle me yes i love him but i ent obsessed with him, n if he is fukin around good for him i hope he catches sumthing.
if i was obsessed would i leave everything up to him? no i dont think so dumbass fukers dont test ma pationts i may be aqua but i ent da soft tipe but i ent no internet gangsta wanna be wanksta wastebitch who cant fight ma corner
leo ppl stay d fuk off ma shit get me gone
2)obsessive is constantly trying to controle sum1 obsessive is constantly goin on at sum1 to get ur way and obsessive is following, stalking, constantly ringing (i dont do none of that i leave it all to him like i said above)
3) if anyones obsessive its u leo tw@s constantly accusing ppl of cheating, not letting ppl have space constantly wantin attention and things/ppl u cant have and u run away when u dont get ur own way
im a strong ass independant woman who loves space i dont need no bs man trying to controle me yes i love him but i ent obsessed with him, n if he is fukin around good for him i hope he catches sumthing.
if i was obsessed would i leave everything up to him? no i dont think so dumbass fukers dont test ma pationts i may be aqua but i ent da soft tipe but i ent no internet gangsta wanna be wanksta wastebitch who cant fight ma corner
leo ppl stay d fuk off ma shit get me gone
what dont u ppl get??? ive tried to end everything with him n everytime i do he either turns up at ma house or keeps calling me n wont leave me alone yet im obsessed? really?? come on now smell da bread n wake up hes the obsessed one from he wont let me go, i want to move on but every time i try he does the above which gives me hope but fk it man ima jus allow dis shit im dun with him n all leos
Ok. You're not obsessive. You just don't have the ability or the strength to make your own decisions regardless of what he wants. Yeah, that's way better.
All that matters is that HE thinks you're obsessive. That's not something to shrug off, especially considering that him considering you to be obsessive is probably part in why he's not willing to commit to you.
Ok ok, so fine. He may be the one acting all obsessive, but clearly his advances aren't bothering you THAT much/bad b/c if they were, he wouldn't still be in your life. You like that he keeps calling you & showing up b/c if you didn't, you would've 1. Gotten your number changed a lonnnnng time ago 2. Stopped having sex with him 3. Stopped telling yourself that you want a commitment from him even though he's told you he doesn't want one 4. Called the cops on his ass for not leaving you alone & 5. Shown him better than you could tell him that you're not on his balls!
If I were him & If I knew that I could get away with murder & lead someone on for such a long time, I'd probably think they were obsessed with me too. You may not be stalking him or creeping outside of his windows, BUT the very fact that you're still around & blaiming HIM for it, as if you have no control in the matter, is why I consider you as someone who is acting obsessive. No one likes to be called that title, but if the shoe fits, you must accept that.
Ok ok, so fine. He may be the one acting all obsessive, but clearly his advances aren't bothering you THAT much/bad b/c if they were, he wouldn't still be in your life. You like that he keeps calling you & showing up b/c if you didn't, you would've 1. Gotten your number changed a lonnnnng time ago 2. Stopped having sex with him 3. Stopped telling yourself that you want a commitment from him even though he's told you he doesn't want one 4. Called the cops on his ass for not leaving you alone & 5. Shown him better than you could tell him that you're not on his balls!
If I were him & If I knew that I could get away with murder & lead someone on for such a long time, I'd probably think they were obsessed with me too. You may not be stalking him or creeping outside of his windows, BUT the very fact that you're still around & blaiming HIM for it, as if you have no control in the matter, is why I consider you as someone who is acting obsessive. No one likes to be called that title, but if the shoe fits, you must accept that.
aquagirl ur the only 1 whos chattin sense on here lol all u other waste ppl stay off ma shit kah ur chattin it!! how thick can u be i try to move on i dnt contact him n then hes all over me so what is a girl to think hhmmmm lol
well im dun with leos they r full of shit lol been with an aqua man had kids with him but as a relationship we was explosive and very cruel to eachother
well im dun with leos they r full of shit lol been with an aqua man had kids with him but as a relationship we was explosive and very cruel to eachother
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