cancer woman and aquarious man good or bad match?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by SensualCancerChika on Monday, October 1, 2012 and has 15 replies.
Just wondering what everybody's take on this. We both independand and love our space been talking to him for a couple months at the time I was dating somebody else kept him at arms lenght which he didn't mind, but finally got the chance to hang out with eachother and we had a blast.. No intimacy yet. I can see myself dealing with him because he seems so free and just so down to earth very chill person.. So what do u guys think of us 2 mixand matching.. Some say its a bad match some say it can be good.
Cancer and Aquarius don't mix well. Those signs have little to nothing in common.
Sun signs are just the tip of the iceberg, though. You are probably feeling some Capricorn or maybe Pisces placements in his chart.
So, yes. It can be a good match, but I suggest you don't let astrology make such a difference. Do what you think you have to do.

Honestly you should take into account both of your venus signs and i believe mars signs.....these can tell you a little bit more. But i know a Cancer Female and she has been Married to an Aqua guy for 4 or 5 years....They are a popular and interesting couple to be around...they are very social and have lots of friends. But Iv'e noticed that he likes his freedom allot....They have a child and she is the "Do it all" mother....working, cooking, involved with her kid He also helps out with the kid but loves hanging out with friends....They seem to argue more often than other couples but there arguments are different and amusing.....He likes to debate everything she says and be right and she really can care less but kinda takes offense to it....From watching this couple I'd say that it could work if both of you are on the same page....but it could be tough.....But I can tell that they both love eachother deeply

Also Im a cancer male and my girlfriend is an aqua (not sure it compares) and we've had some hard times in our relationship but who doesnt. Aquas and Cancers in relationships just see things differnt...we can be the best of friends as my aqua girlfriends friends are all water signs but relationships are different....I want to get married one day start a family...have kids but she could easily do without that....She's more career minded.....and her friends kids could easily take the place as her kids....But im sure its a differnt element with aqua females and males.
Posted by SensualCancerChika
Just wondering what everybody's take on this. We both independand and love our space been talking to him for a couple months at the time I was dating somebody else kept him at arms lenght which he didn't mind, but finally got the chance to hang out with eachother and we had a blast.. No intimacy yet. I can see myself dealing with him because he seems so free and just so down to earth very chill person.. So what do u guys think of us 2 mixand matching.. Some say its a bad match some say it can be good.


upon some researching, astrologers have said that weirdly, the connection of aqua = cancer is powerful due to the 8th house or something. Don't know, as i haven't really dug into that area. But with couples, aqua man/cancer woman i've mentioned a couple in one of the topics: Ronald Reagan/Nancy Reagan = one of the few happy marriages in history. Sure, there's ups and downs, especially if you're in government/politics. People are gonna hate or love, cause you have to choose sides. But the couple had a beautiful marriage. He was married before to a Cap woman, but his ex didnt want politics or didnt agree with his side of politics. You should read up on it. Also, there's Charles Lindbergh and Anne (cancer woman) one of the greatest tragedies (one of their babies were kidnapped) it was terrible. You should read up on it too.

found this one, Robert Wagner/Natalie Wood
a lot of strange stuff around them, with Christopher Walken (Aries sun/Aquarius moon) in the middle towards the end of their relationship.
Many gossip mongers would say that Walken had a "thing" for Natalie and tried to break it up between them. Subconsciously...because you know, he can't help himself. Smh.
Who knows?
The couple were married to other peoople and then remarried.
yea so far I am feeling that we can be friends... I have to admit he is younger than me and of course I am way well off than him ( career wise I mean) He is just so much fun to hang around with and to talk to, but I don't see it happening. He just seems like the type that gets bored real quick and I am picking up that vibe.. he is sweet talking now and I know he probably wants to just get into my pants and that isn't happening either..lol It feels like a game to me.. so we will see.
I'm an aquarius woman dating a cancer male. We've been together for 8 years and while i love him, it has NOT been easy. Cancers in love are very selfish while aquariuses become submissive to their partners because we are naturally givers and want to do whatever it takes to please our partners. We put with all of cancers moodiness and antics and cancers somewhat appreciate that and are very loving and nurturing.
For the both of you to work i suggest being a bit more giving and for the aquarian to be less stubborn.
yea I dated a cancer guy for a short time last year and he was very selfish.. always about him and I hated that.. very arrogant because he had a good body. He would always tell me that he could have anybody and I was like so can I.. I remember if I didnt call or text him for a day he would pull the guilt trip on me and I wasn't having that.. as far as my aquarious goes we are just friends.. we live too far apart anyways to make anything happen and I have to be realistic. Him and I can not do long distance and we already talked about this yesterday and we are on good terms and thats how I like to keep it because he really is a good person and its too bad we live like 4 hours apart from eachother Sad
Hi All!!! .... I just wanna know if my Aqua male ex will come back Sad
It's a long distance relationship a few hours away. ??I've known??
him for over a year. ??We've met a few times. ??We broke up twice but got back together after me pleading and contacting him. ??It started out romantic and that we will move in together etc. ??then a couple of weeks back I contacted him and we were talking .....and he comes up with let's be friends if not I'll remove u off my fb and that's that. I was hurt didn't know what to decide and said ok friends. (he will only talk to me if I contact him first) the next day I talked to my friends didn't know what to think and decided to go NC .....I deleted him off my fb deleted anything that reminded me of him. ??He contacted me a week later ....I missed the call he left a voice message to see how I am doing. ??I didn't call back ....and I'm on no contact??
Can anyone help me and tell me .....what is the best thing to do next? Is no contact good? ??Or just to be his friend for now??? I don't even know why I'm so attracted to him.....
Thank you
Aqua/Cancer is an attractive couple, and based on my readings can have a love relationship. It's opposites attract and Cancer can tolerate sex drought from Aqua. But when it comes to years of marriage the things that attract and challenge the couple would be unbearable in a marriage.
Cancer brother, Aqua wife. Married 37 years. I asked him why did the marriage last so long, he said he is in love.
BTW, I think Robert Wagner killed Natalie Wood
Posted by LunarMaiden
Aqua/Cancer is an attractive couple, and based on my readings can have a love relationship. It's opposites attract and Cancer can tolerate sex drought from Aqua. But when it comes to years of marriage the things that attract and challenge the couple would be unbearable in a marriage.
Cancer brother, Aqua wife. Married 37 years. I asked him why did the marriage last so long, he said he is in love.
BTW, I think Robert Wagner killed Natalie Wood


I read that. About Robert Wagner. But no one can prove it. It's similar to O.J. Simpson with Nicole Simpson. We all think he did it. But with Robert Wagner....hmmmm it sounds really plausible when I read the News that he was a JEALOUS raging man drunk and thought that Christopher Walken was trying to get with Natalie. The whole thing is so weird and mysterious. But at the same time, in many JEALOUS rages, many marriages where the man has SUSPICIONS and have NO CONTROL he is going to do the most devious acts of murder. But we can only speculate.
@ harry99 I dated a taurus recently for a couple of months and I was really falling for him.. I am not really that clingy but I did give enough affection and he did the same for me.. he just wasn't ready to commit to a relationship and its sad to say that I havn't talked to him for about 2 months so I had to move on Sad
The Aquarious guy.. I have to say is fun, but I dont think we would last that long in a relationship.
He doesn't stimulate me mentally enough to take it to that level of intimacy. I feel like I have to initiate a conversation and hold it...he is just blah
I am having bad luck with men...lol
Just to add something
I think its so sweet how a man and a women just get eachother and beat whatever odds they have against them and just go with their hearts and just embrace their love for eachother. Its a powerful thing and its something that I been wanting for the longest time.
Dated a Cancer man for almost a year, it is HARD WORK, let me tell you...
They're sweet, doting, and attentive to your needs. However, they're selfish when it comes to attention and time has to be on his terms, which doesn't go well with Aquarius pride and stubbornness. It eventually fell apart for various reasons, but a part of it was we were just different. He needed someone on a more intense emotional level, I needed someone who wasn't always so sensitive and would crawl back in his shell whenever sh*t hit the fan.

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