Posted by Capricorngirl1111I am sorry... I didn't realize that was a sign of commitment. I don't understand the distance and avoidance; hence the confusion. Why doesn't he just say so? It would have reduced the amount of stress I was feeling. Thanks Capricorngirl1111
I can see why he’s confused.. for aquas, that’s just how it is. You become closer and closer. He is committed to you then you don’t need to have the talk. Enjoy it. He clearly likes you a lot. You’re letting your own head get to you.
Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.click to expand
Posted by Capmercury87But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?
This is how I got with my sag.
As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.
I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.
We know we love each other and that's enough.
Posted by SmidgeI wonder the same thing!
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Posted by SmidgeMirrored like those geminis 🙅👎
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Posted by SmidgeSMIDGE! I am trying to keep him! HahahahahahahaPosted by LovableSagTry it.Posted by SmidgeI wonder the same thing!
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
He doesn't seem fazed by anything.
Report back... 😈click to expand
Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.click to expand
Posted by Capmercury87I want to tell him how I feel, but I feel that it would scare him off.Posted by LovableSagPosted by Capmercury87But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?
This is how I got with my sag.
As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.
I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.
We know we love each other and that's enough.
I love cuddling ... but he doesn't like PDA, part of the reason he is physically distant, I think?
He might be scared of his own emotions.
I dont know any aquas that aren't cuddly, and the only reason I can think if I'm not cuddly is that I'm trying to resist my feelings or I don't have any.
With my sag I can tell by his energy, there's so much love in our kisses and the way he feels when I hold him. I just know and I trust him purely based on his energy.
Im the big spoon keeping him safe.click to expand
Posted by SmidgeI know you live for that shit.Posted by AerialViewI like doing "not recommended" stuff. I live for that shit.Posted by SmidgeMirrored like those geminis 🙅👎
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Not recommended.
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Posted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.click to expand
Posted by SmidgeLMAO i love it 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewMy bad, I thought this post was about me. *flips hair*Posted by SmidgeI know you live for that shit.Posted by AerialViewI like doing "not recommended" stuff. I live for that shit.Posted by SmidgeMirrored like those geminis 🙅👎
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Not recommended.
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The not recommended is for OP not you ffs 😂click to expand
Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.click to expand
Posted by LovableSagAnd no kissing. He has finally gotten to a point of touching my hand from time to time when we are having dinner. He does this by complimenting my bracelets.Posted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.
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Posted by Capmercury87Thanks! I am really going to try and relax. I have never encountered someone who just doesn't respond to anything. Patience is not one of my strengths, but I will try and ride this out. Oddly enough I understand what you mean, I like to be certain as well.Posted by LovableSagPosted by Capmercury87I want to tell him how I feel, but I feel that it would scare him off.Posted by LovableSagPosted by Capmercury87But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?
This is how I got with my sag.
As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.
I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.
We know we love each other and that's enough.
I love cuddling ... but he doesn't like PDA, part of the reason he is physically distant, I think?
He might be scared of his own emotions.
I dont know any aquas that aren't cuddly, and the only reason I can think if I'm not cuddly is that I'm trying to resist my feelings or I don't have any.
With my sag I can tell by his energy, there's so much love in our kisses and the way he feels when I hold him. I just know and I trust him purely based on his energy.
Im the big spoon keeping him safe.
I find my energy, as a Sag, is very intense. I just want to grab and kiss him at times, but I resist. He is a real gentleman, to the point that it's infuriating.
If I were you I would keep doing what he wants, don't be pushy we can feel all of your moods and desires. Just because we know them doesn't mean we will react to them. We only go as fast as our hearts tell us too and being an aqua that could be months or a year..
We just like to be sure of ourselves because often times we are notclick to expand
Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.
click to expand
Posted by AerialView🤣Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄click to expand
Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
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Posted by pisceswoman123Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
And you have never kiss in all this time?click to expand
Posted by LovableSag😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.Posted by pisceswoman123Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
And you have never kiss in all this time?
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Posted by pisceswoman123Thanks Pisceswoman123 - I will do! I am actually really excited to give it a try!!!! Will let you know what happens.Posted by LovableSag😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.Posted by pisceswoman123Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
And you have never kiss in all this time?![]()
You don’t have anything to lose so just go for it and make it good 😉click to expand
Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Thanks Pisceswoman123 - I will do! I am actually really excited to give it a try!!!! Will let you know what happens.Posted by LovableSag😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.Posted by pisceswoman123Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
And you have never kiss in all this time?![]()
You don’t have anything to lose so just go for it and make it good 😉click to expand
Posted by SmidgeI did this exact thing with my Aqua...he went right with it and escalated things the way that he wanted to until I hard stopped the conversation at sexual intimacy. He took a breather and came back and I said exactly what he did until it evolved to just before sexual content and then he hard stopped it. I took that as him respecting my boundaries on that.
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped.Posted by LovableSagPosted by pisceswoman123Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit.Posted by LovableSagPosted by AerialViewHahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!Posted by LovableSagHe's a nice one.Posted by AerialViewNot flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.Posted by LovableSagHe send them flowers too!?Posted by AerialViewI would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Thanks for the reply AerialView.
I don't relate lol.
I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?
Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.
And aquas hate to have the talk.![]()
How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.
And you have never kiss in all this time?
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