Confused about an Aqua

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by LovableSag on Monday, January 8, 2018 and has 30 replies.
Hello. Need to understand this. I have this Aquarius "friend", we used to text and talk everyday non-stop. Started to really like him and thought our friendship was developing into a romantic relationship. He never made any moves or tried to get intimate with me, but he would call and do kind things for me that would make me confused; gifts, flowers, dinners. I eventually tried to put him in the friend-zone because I didn't know if he was romantically interested in me, but then he would do weird stuff like compliment me on my hair and drive 2 hours to take me to a spot for dinner.


I told him I was starting to get confused and I wanted to know if he had any feelings for me. He didn't answer, but asked me instead. I said "yes" I have feelings for you and he didn't respond. So for the next 2 months we carry on the same, texting and messaging everyday. I started to get tired of it and confronted him and asked him what he wanted because friends don't do stuff like this or communicate like this everyday. He seemed genuinely confused when I said this. I bluntly told him that I didn't want him as a friend and I want more than friendship.



So now, he randomly starts a conversation via text and doesn't respond back until a few hours or days later.


What's his deal? I told him we should talk about this, and he avoids the conversation at all cost. I have limited my interaction with him. I don't want him to completely leave but I need to understand what it is that he wants. Friendship or romance? But he avoids the "talk"... how do I get him to open up and talk about this?
I can see why he’s confused.. for aquas, that’s just how it is. You become closer and closer. He is committed to you then you don’t need to have the talk. Enjoy it. He clearly likes you a lot. You’re letting your own head get to you.
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111
I can see why he’s confused.. for aquas, that’s just how it is. You become closer and closer. He is committed to you then you don’t need to have the talk. Enjoy it. He clearly likes you a lot. You’re letting your own head get to you.
I am sorry... I didn't realize that was a sign of commitment. I don't understand the distance and avoidance; hence the confusion. Why doesn't he just say so? It would have reduced the amount of stress I was feeling. Thanks Capricorngirl1111
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
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He send them flowers too!?
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
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Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
Posted by Capmercury87
This is how I got with my sag.

As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.

I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.

We know we love each other and that's enough.
But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?


I love cuddling ... but he doesn't like PDA, part of the reason he is physically distant, I think?
Posted by Smidge
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
I wonder the same thing!


He doesn't seem fazed by anything.
Posted by Smidge
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Mirrored like those geminis 🙅👎


Not recommended.
Posted by Smidge
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by Smidge
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
I wonder the same thing!


He doesn't seem fazed by anything.
Try it.

Report back... 😈
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SMIDGE! I am trying to keep him! Hahahahahahaha
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
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He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Posted by Capmercury87
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by Capmercury87
This is how I got with my sag.

As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.

I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.

We know we love each other and that's enough.
But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?


I love cuddling ... but he doesn't like PDA, part of the reason he is physically distant, I think?


He might be scared of his own emotions.

I dont know any aquas that aren't cuddly, and the only reason I can think if I'm not cuddly is that I'm trying to resist my feelings or I don't have any.


With my sag I can tell by his energy, there's so much love in our kisses and the way he feels when I hold him. I just know and I trust him purely based on his energy.

Im the big spoon keeping him safe.
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I want to tell him how I feel, but I feel that it would scare him off.

I find my energy, as a Sag, is very intense. I just want to grab and kiss him at times, but I resist. He is a real gentleman, to the point that it's infuriating.


Posted by Smidge
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Smidge
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Mirrored like those geminis 🙅👎


Not recommended.
I like doing "not recommended" stuff. I live for that shit.

😎
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I know you live for that shit.


The not recommended is for OP not you ffs 😂
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
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Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!


Posted by Smidge
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Smidge
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Smidge
I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
Mirrored like those geminis 🙅👎


Not recommended.
I like doing "not recommended" stuff. I live for that shit.

😎
I know you live for that shit.


The not recommended is for OP not you ffs 😂
My bad, I thought this post was about me. *flips hair*


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LMAO i love it 😂😂😂😂😂
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!


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I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

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Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

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Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile

Posted by LovableSag
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
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Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile

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And no kissing. He has finally gotten to a point of touching my hand from time to time when we are having dinner. He does this by complimenting my bracelets. smile


Posted by Capmercury87
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by Capmercury87
Posted by LovableSag
Posted by Capmercury87
This is how I got with my sag.

As an aqua I don't need to label or talk about rules or boundaries. Once I do something romantic or make small moves of enjoyment, I'm committed.

I cuddled my way into a relationship with my sag.

We know we love each other and that's enough.
But don't you think you can end up being committed by yourself? How do you know the other person is on board?


I love cuddling ... but he doesn't like PDA, part of the reason he is physically distant, I think?


He might be scared of his own emotions.

I dont know any aquas that aren't cuddly, and the only reason I can think if I'm not cuddly is that I'm trying to resist my feelings or I don't have any.


With my sag I can tell by his energy, there's so much love in our kisses and the way he feels when I hold him. I just know and I trust him purely based on his energy.

Im the big spoon keeping him safe.
I want to tell him how I feel, but I feel that it would scare him off.

I find my energy, as a Sag, is very intense. I just want to grab and kiss him at times, but I resist. He is a real gentleman, to the point that it's infuriating.




If I were you I would keep doing what he wants, don't be pushy we can feel all of your moods and desires. Just because we know them doesn't mean we will react to them. We only go as fast as our hearts tell us too and being an aqua that could be months or a year..

We just like to be sure of ourselves because often times we are not

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Thanks! I am really going to try and relax. I have never encountered someone who just doesn't respond to anything. Patience is not one of my strengths, but I will try and ride this out. Oddly enough I understand what you mean, I like to be certain as well.
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Posted by AerialView
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Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile

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How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

Posted by AerialView
Posted by LovableSag
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Posted by LovableSag
Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
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Posted by LovableSag
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Posted by AerialView
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Posted by AerialView
As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

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I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.


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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.


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And you have never kiss in all this time?

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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.




And you have never kiss in all this time?

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Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock. smile

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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.




And you have never kiss in all this time?

Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock. smile

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😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.

You don’t have anything to lose so just go for it and make it good 😉
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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.




And you have never kiss in all this time?

Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock. smile

😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.

You don’t have anything to lose so just go for it and make it good 😉
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Thanks Pisceswoman123 - I will do! I am actually really excited to give it a try!!!! Will let you know what happens.


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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.




And you have never kiss in all this time?

Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock. smile

😄 I think you really have to kiss him. He obviously is too scared of trying again.

You don’t have anything to lose so just go for it and make it good 😉
Thanks Pisceswoman123 - I will do! I am actually really excited to give it a try!!!! Will let you know what happens.


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Good luck 😄

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I wonder what an aqua would do if you mirrored their actions. 🤔
I did this exact thing with my Aqua...he went right with it and escalated things the way that he wanted to until I hard stopped the conversation at sexual intimacy. He took a breather and came back and I said exactly what he did until it evolved to just before sexual content and then he hard stopped it. I took that as him respecting my boundaries on that.


It's a thing where you have to take the time to get to know your own individual Aqua. No two same are alike. Everything is done by feel, not conversation. So flow with them...I get it now. Let him feel me out, and then I feel. He picks up on what I'm feeling and that automatically becomes the very well defined and unspoken boundary. He gets it. He's a very intelligent and intuitive man and I am absolutely falling in love with him as fast as he's falling in love with me.
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As an aqua i don't send you flowers or take you to dinners if i only see you no more than just friends.
I would have thought the same thing. But he doesn't even make any moves or show any other signs of interest. I feel that he does these nice gestures for everyone. He is everyone's friend!


Thanks for the reply AerialView.
He send them flowers too!?
Not flowers.. He got me flowers because I mentioned how no one has ever got me flowers. But he does things for other people like taking them to and from the airport, checking up on people in the hospital, he also goes for dinner with others as well. He is constantly on the go.
He's a nice one.


I don't relate lol.
Hahahahaha.. I am not use to these "nice ones" either! He is tooooooo nice!!! That's why I don't know if he is just being nice!




I don’t think he will be like that if he is not into you. Have you ever kiss each other?

Some aquarius are like that always helping people and being nice but only for the people that they care about.

And aquas hate to have the talk.

Trust me I hate "the talk" too. But I like clarity and understanding. Thanks for letting me know. I will relax a bit. smile



How long has he being nice to you? Some aquarius are very slow. 😄

I have known him for 5 years, we use to work together. We started seeing each other in May 2017. In August I snapped. smile I was getting too attached and wanted to know what was going on. He stopped taking me out to dinners on a regular in November and now when we go out we go with a group of friends. Part of my doing as well, didn't want to be left alone with him. But now he is doing the same... group outings, but he is still being nice. But sometimes I feel that he is just being polite.




And you have never kiss in all this time?

Our first and only attempt was clumsy. He missed, got my cheek and never tried again. I could tell he was embarrassed, that's why I didn't really push it. He is also an awkward hugger.. I always end up in this weird headlock. smile

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He really fffff uuuuu ccccc kkkkk iiiii nnnnn gggggg likes you


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